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Our "new norm"

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  • #321
Peak - no worries, as I said, it's not something I would want nor encourage. Actually I think for me it's quite an interesting discovery of sorts about what is behind my crazy desires and to see where the apparent natural boundaries on it. Nice to think that not everything would be okay with me - lol.

I'm right now awaiting her return sometime within the next 30-45 minutes depending the route she chooses as there's quite a bit construction going on in certain areas of the state right now. I am actually quite eager to see what the evening brings.
 
  • #322
Food for thought .... The other ideas are back story you work it how you need to you craft the story and the work however you see fit. I still will reiterate to you that you should keep thinking the thoughts about the fact that you will leave for the ski trip with all of their skiing peripherals like the good beta boy you are, while he soaks up your bed, your house, and your wife. All they need to do at that point is get on a plane with no hassle, fly and come to a room ready for them. All three of you enjoy a fantastic time for a few days, and then you head home early to prepare the house for the alpha female and male. The reason for the extra cleanup is because they will be bothered to pack up the rest ... though ... if things were done right their would be no skiing for them and you would be ****** to trudge home with all of the bulky items. If I were the alpha in Paul's position ... guess what you would be doing ... :)

As to openness as you have shared, go golf with him and bond a little ... I am sure something good will happen with the discussions. When all three parties get benefits ... everyone wins ... well maybe you will win on certain wednesday's and when he is golfing :p
 
  • #323
Tegelad - Have you gong back to read the history of Steve and Sue's experiences along with the evolution into the current arrangement with the inclusion of Paul? If not, I would highly recommend it, it will give you a good look into the progression and the mind set of those involved.

Steve - Sounds like everything has been progressing along well, based on some of your recent post I would bet that Paul may know more about the lifestyle choices that you and Sue have made together than you may yet realize. There is nothing wrong with that, it allows for Paul to know that yes he has a level of exclusivity to a part of Sue that you no longer have due to the beta role in which you have taken up. Sue is your Alpha and Paul is her sexual equal. Continue to enjoy your journey.
 
  • #324
Steve,
As always, fantastic updates. Saturday (and Sunday) sounds like a lot of fun. (Cuckold angst is fun, right?) I found the bit about her locking the door very interesting. I'm sure she knows you wouldn't intrude on their time, so there was no need to lock the door. Do you think she did that to tease you with an almost in your face reminder that she was totally Paul's for the night? Or maybe it was to make Paul more comfortable. Either way it was interesting.
 
  • #325
Knk - not sure if there was anything intended about locking the door - it's just a push-button on the knob so it happens unintentionally too at times. Interesting thoughts though.

Squirm - yes, I am sure Paul knows of most things between Sue and I, but I also know she hasn't told him everything and it's very clear that her way of interacting with me - what she'll say or do when Paul is with her is different than what she'll do when it's just the two of us. Nearest example is that when we're alone she'll extol about how wonderful Paul feels in her and all of that, but when we're together with him, even when they're fucking, she has never "teased" me - she's never looked at me and said anything like "see what he gets and you don't" - it's always just "it's so good" - I guess you'd say she's never denigrating towards me and at least in my head, Paul is well aware of that.

That's in comparison to when we're alone such last night when for the first time in a truly long time, she let me play with her used pussy as much as I wanted (well, within reason) including poking my finger and tongue in for a bit!!!! With her openly teasing me if I "....like tasting all of his cum in me...." At another point she even said I should clean her up good but then added "don't suck too much baby, leave some in me". She'd already told me again she didn't want me to make her cum. But I jumped ahead too much.

Tgelad - I have to agree with Squirm, you are off in a direction that Sue and I are not. Little to nothing in what you suggested sounded like anything that would be desired even if it was feasible. It's not even the travel aspects, it's the sentiment you seemed to attach to it, that is where you are mis-directed.

So - last night - she did get home about 30 minutes later, I guess with the rain finally letting up the traffic wasn't an issue. I will always love how she looks when she comes in after being with him. It's as if she's got no stresses at all, the deep look in her eyes that says she's spent the last few hours enjoying herself is so apparent. I asked her if she'd had a good time and I have to say, it really felt great to be able to talk to her honestly about it and basically tell me about her date. She told me it was still raining out when she got there and that they stood out on his porch under the awning and kissed and she told me it was a very sexy way to start the evening.

As she talked to me I told her that it seemed like it had been a while since she would tell me about her time with him and she blushed and smiled and said she wanted to try to change that and she said now that things seem so much better between us, she feels she wants to share it more with me now. She didn't say it, but I know that a huge part of it is that she finally felt comfortable telling me even before she left that she wasn't going to want to have sex with me and more so, that I was really good about it and understanding. I could tell when she told me and I saw the look on her face when I said "ok" without any question. Or at least thats what I think,

Anyway as she talked I took her jacket from her and we went upstairs and she turned to me and said "thank you" to me. I hugged her and said "what's that for?" and she hugged me back and said "for everything". We left her laptop computer and other stuff in the living room and kitchen when she said that she'd love to go upstairs and get changed and she looked at me and said "you can come along".

I followed her upstairs and she turned to me and said "remember, I just want a little bit but you can have your own fun" and with that she said "want to undress me?". I think my hands were shaking as she said "You're really horny aren't you?" and I told her yes. She asked me "what has you so worked up?" and I told her, without even a second's thought - "that your pussy is very wet right now" and she giggled and said "wet and sticky". My god I was so horny and she just giggled a bit more as I unbuttoned her top and when I pushed it off her shoulders she looked down at me (I was sort of kneeling on the bed and she was standing next to it) and as I unclipped her bra she asked me if I liked that "...Paul was playing with these just a little while ago..." referring to her breasts.

So as I knelt there and moved to her pants she told/reminded me of how she is when she goes to see Paul alone. She reminded me of how she likes to get undressed in his bedroom and come out with just one of his dress-shirts on and last night was one of those times. She told me how she wanted to feel sexy with him after what had been a long day at work and how "that took my mind right off it" and she told me how being with him like that, all through dinner and before they went into his bedroom, had really gotten her in the mood.

She asked me if that turned me on and I felt almost obligated to pull down my boxers and let her see just how turned on I was! I stood to slide her pants off and she giggled at my hard cock bobbing away. when she stepped out of her pants she lay back on the bed and I could see the wet-spot in her panties. "You can take them off, just take it easy, okay?". And once again, my hands were almost shaking as she was letting me undress her and even play with her!!!! A second later I slid them off her ankle and she put one hand over her pussy as she spread her legs and said "do you want to see?". When I nodded eagerly she giggled and pulled it away.

My god - it'd been so long since she'd let me do this - I was only a foot or so away from her pussy as she lay back down and said "remember just take it easy.... it is quite tired!!!!". And so - for the next, I guess, 5-10 minutes - I was kneeling there playing with her pussy. I love her being so bare - she's really gotten quite good with the razor in the shower getting her whole pussy and the lower area really squeaky clean - and now, I could see that it was all a bit swollen and a shade or two darker in pink color. Her pussy lips were swollen and appeared to be almost stuck together towards the top, but at the bottom they separated almost lewdly revealing her darkened pink and even reddish opening to her vagina. I spread her legs a bit more and as I did so, her lips separated and revealed more dark pink and then the obviously swollen button of her clit that was clearly visible outside the hood covering it. The furrow below her clit down to her opening glistened with wetness but even with her legs spread, she wasn't gaping open. That wouldn't happen until I probed it with both index fingers and gently inserted both of them and then began to gently pull her open.

A little dribble of what was obviously cum appeared from inside and began to seep forward. She had told me I could lick her gently, just not too deep and as I so recalled from the past, not to suck at her either. I knew it was Paul's cum and my god did it turn me on. She was talking VERY openly with me as she was up on her elbows watching everything. "I thought you'd like that...." and a second later just before I leaned in she asked "...it's running out of me right now, isn't it? I can feel it..." It felt so incredible to hear her ask me that just like she did. When I moaned back a "uh huh" and I leaned in and she felt my tongue she continued and said "... mmmm.... that feels nice baby"....

I'm not going to try to share all that was said tease-wise by her - but let me just say that she is apparently enjoying this newfound openness with me. I'll go back to what I said earlier - to me the teasing is always arousing but not really denigrating. The teasing may revolve around what he gets to do/have and I do not - including her at one point asking me if I remember how her pussy feels bare. But, again, after so long together, I am quite sure she understands what would and woudn't arouse me - and she's never gone to the dark-side so-to-speak...

She knew - could see - that I was jerking off as I licked at he (she knew my other hand was busy) and, yes, a bit of a disappointment when after a few minutes she reached down and pushed my head away from her pussy and said "I don't need much more baby". I guess I looked up at her and she said "but you can finish baby" and I knew immediatley what she meant. I leaned in and took one last big lick from the very bottom just above her ass, all the way up to the tip of her clit and then I leaned back onto my ankles as I knelt there next to the bed and I let her watch me jerk off. Sitting there just a foot or two from her lewdly spread open pussy was incredible. It was still so wet inside her that just looking was almost enough to get me off. As I stroked away she sat up a bit more and watched. When I was getting close she looked at me and said "I want to watch you cum baby" and a second later she said "want to do it on my belly?". Again, it was how she was talking that was just so incredible to hear - it was so exciting and obvious that she wanted it! The look on her face was priceless - I loved how sexy and eager she looked. I stood up and started to move towards her as I stroked harder and harder. Just I was about to let go she looked up at me and said "not in my pussy baby, okay?". Holy crap - just how she said it was amazingly sexy and with that - I let it fly!!!! Rope after rope of cum streaked her stomach and one spurt almost reached her breasts, but I was careful that I didn't let it drip into her still open pussy - which I admit - staring at was just so erotic!!!!

As she watched me milk the last few drops of cum from my cock she had an almost glazed look in her eye and all she did was moan and tell me "that was sooo sexy, my god do I love that". As I stood there smiling she looked up at me and smiled and then she lay back onto her elbows and gave a nod towards her stomach which I immediately understood. I slid up next to her on the bed and I leaned over and began to clean my cum off of her stomach. When I'd licked most of it up I moved up and pulled her to me and kissed her deeply and passionately. I pulled her to me and I could fee the last of my cum that I'd not licked up as it spread between our naked bodies. She hugged me back and we just lay together for a little while. Maybe 10 minutes later she looked at me and said we should get cleaned up and I told her we should just take a shower quickly together which she agreed to.
 
  • #326
Steve - as always a great post and a wonderful time reconnecting with Sue after she returned home from seeing Paul. :)
 
  • #327
No ... I haven't so please forgive me if I pushed the statements to hard. I will have to try to find the archive (wherever that is), and read the progression. I picked up on his thread prior to the current one. If I offended ... I am sorry.

SquirmingSub said:
Tegelad - Have you gong back to read the history of Steve and Sue's experiences along with the evolution into the current arrangement with the inclusion of Paul? If not, I would highly recommend it, it will give you a good look into the progression and the mind set of those involved.

Steve - Sounds like everything has been progressing along well, based on some of your recent post I would bet that Paul may know more about the lifestyle choices that you and Sue have made together than you may yet realize. There is nothing wrong with that, it allows for Paul to know that yes he has a level of exclusivity to a part of Sue that you no longer have due to the beta role in which you have taken up. Sue is your Alpha and Paul is her sexual equal. Continue to enjoy your journey.
 
  • #328
tegelad
you can find them by, clicking on his name. and then his profile then last thread started that will list all of stb's thread's.
 
  • #330
Steve has been good at chronicling his experience with Sue over the years on this site and others. This site does have more then other sites do and I believe this site has everything the other sites did. Has been a good steady evolution of sorts within there relationship.
 
  • #331
tegelad,
If you type "soontobe" into the search box in the black bar it will bring up all of Steve's threads and the ones he commented on. After reading some of Steve's threads a couple years ago I went back to the very beginning and read through all of them. It is an amazing journey from a fantasy of your wife having sex with another man, through a series of lovers, and now to their 'New Norm'. I consider it a must read for anyone contemplating having their wife enjoy other men. There were many ups and downs that illuminates the joys and sorrows of the life style.
 
  • #332
Thanks ... I will be reviewing his past so not to step on his future and look stupid in the present :)
 
  • #333
Of course we could just follow the Henry Ford principle (History is Bunk) and assume the past can teach us nothing about the future, and assuming it can is only comforting to the masses but distracting to those that will actually create that future. In this case we would be those masses and Sue would be doing the creating at present. Just a thought ...

Anyway, back to the real world Steve, what is the plan for this weekend and do you have any opportunity to inject yourself into it? (We Brits do like our puns.) I understand you don't get a clear shot till next Wednesday but I'm sure Sue has something to keep you up for time being..
 
  • #334
LOL Peak --- Now even I found the humor in the pun.... LOL....
 
  • #335
Sue actually said she's not feeling 100%, went to bed early tonight too. Could be allergies.
Either way, the plan was for Paul to come here on Sunday, no overnight time this week and that was before she felt ill.
Not much more to share otherwise for this Friday evening.
 
  • #336
Well, based on today, tomorrow is in jeopardy. She's sick as a dog this morning. I just ran out to get some decongestant stuff for her to help her to breathe better. Looks like it may be right-hands for both Paul and I this weekend! She's in good spirits, just tired, uncomfortable and stuffed up - fortunately, not the flu, no fever or aches and that stuff.
 
  • #337
Steve,
You have to see the funny side to it though. There's Paul, all revved up and now nowhere to go. He's now getting the weekend that you were actually getting excited about! Poor Sue though. I wonder, by Wednesday if she's recovered by then, is she going to want you or catch up her missed time with Paul. An unexpected complication so soon in the new regime.
Of course a true submissive would always put the needs of his mistress first. Question is, which will she want to do?

Seriously, I hope she recovers soon and you can enjoy some of the weekend together.
 
  • #338
She's downstairs watching a chick-flick on TV so I'm leaving her so she can maybe doze off and nap for a bit.
Yeah, lol, a bit of trading places for Paul and I, in a way. I don't know what to say about during the week, we'll see. If it's just a cold she should be on the mend by then.
 
  • #339
This is the part of the relationship were the husband is very important to the wife, taking care of her in a way that a lover typically can not or does not. Steve you will always provide a level of comfort that Sue needs.
 
  • #340
I'm sorry Sue is not feeling well. Take good care of her. I hope she feels better soon.
 
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