My Korean Adventure

[mystTiger]

How are you going with your time in chastity? Is Min-Ju still teasing and tormenting you? Are you worried by the fact that your time being locked up could be extended? Have you been eating her pussy daily or at least as often as you can?

Can you post a reminder of all the rules that are in play now, just so we can all have a read before she heads to her party on Wednesday night! You say you haven't been invited and you don't know the people. I'm guessing that means they also don't know you. By the fact that karaoke guy didn't know Min-ju had a husband, I'm guessing that Min-Ju doesn't wear a wedding ring. So it's possible that Min-Ju could pretend to be single amongst this group. That would make her much easier for guys to approach and combined with the rules that are in play, could result in a very naughty night for your beautiful young wife.

On the other hand, that's a whole lot of guessing on my part and she may just have a normal fun night out with a new group of friends. Either way, you will be home busy doing the chores with your cock locked up going crazy thinking and imagining all the possibilities! Enjoy!

Don't forget to repost all the rules for us to reread before her night out.

 

[koreanslut]

Oh no, Min-Ju is saying she's not sure she feels like going to the party. Not because of the flirting but because of work. I guess it's kind of far away, and it requires her skipping out of an important workshop at work she wants to be at. I'm encouraging her to go. Here's hoping.

Has she bee flirting? It's hard to say for sure. When we are out together her focus tends to be on me, which is nice of course but means that she's not flirting or meeting anyone. I'd love to arrange a version of the classic where she sits at the bar alone for awhile while I watch. When she is on her own, she comments that guys hit on her a lot, but I'm not sure how flirty she is. I'm trying to encourage her to put herself out there more. Haha well there was one time recently at a restaurant together where the waiter, obviously new and nervous, blurted out that "she looked beautiful tonight." It was more dorky endearing then flirty though.

I do put the condoms in her purse every day. It would be hot if a friend sees them and wonders. Oh, and yes, these friends at the party wouldn't know she got married and she often doesn't wear her ring, so they will likely assume she is single.

I have to run but will answer other questions in the morning. And yes, I have to run because it is time to get between Min-Ju's legs and give her a nice orgasm before bed.

 

[George]

You might suggest she play by the flirting and so on rules only some days. If the rules apply all the time she may not pay attention to them all the time. If she were subject to the rules 'this week' or 'these days' you may get her to actively play at those times. Take a look at the BOX URL file.

If she had certain days set as play days, likely she would think 'today I flirt' and do her makeup and dress accordingly. Then you would expect her to have a story for you when you see her that evening. She may find that easier than 'today is like every other day' and maybe something will happen.

 

[mystTiger]

i hope you had a nice time between Min-Ju's legs last night and i hope you made her cum with your tongue a few times at least!

one thing in regards to her possibly not wanting to go to the party and you encouraging her to go... i would advise not to push too hard with the whole hot wife thing. make sure you always put real life obligations such as work as the main priority and always make sure that you have her interests and desires in your mind too... right now you are at the end of the day a newly married couple... while it is fun to play around with others and have these games there is a point where you have to just be plain old Min-Ju and "Koreanslut" or whatever your name is...

i guess, while we are all sitting here encouraging you to push the boundary further and encourage her to play more and more, its easy for us to do that... in the end though if you push too much she will get the feeling that you don't really love her... my advice... just keep eating that pussy every chance you get, beg her to let you out of the cock cage so you can fuck her... that will make her feel her power over you and be a fun game to play while she teases you and makes you beg even more... declaring all the things you will do/ allow to be able to be free and to fuck her...

i think when she gave you the choice to be allowed to fuck her or to remain locked and let others fuck her you made the wrong choice... you should always show your desire for her so she can then show her control and deny and tease you and torment you...

maybe my warning is all a bit too heavy and unnecessary but i just feel its something to keep in mind... i for one definitely want this whole situation to continue and i want you and Min-Ju to have the best possible relationship you can have! it is clear that you both love each other dearly... i hope that love will remain constant!

And meanwhile keep us all updated... we all love it.... look how quickly this thread has grown...

 

[George]

Well said mystTiger.

 

[koreanslut]

As requested, here are the rules again. They are similar to the rules while she was in Korea, but a bit more flexible.

1. Min-Ju is to consider herself "open" for other men.
2. She must give an enthusiastic "yes" to explicit requests from other men, such as if someone asks for her number or asks for a date, or if while on a date, asks for sex. If the request is indirect or if she doesn't feel safe with the guy, she may dodge the question.
3. At least once a month she has to do or say something sexually explicit to invite another man's attention.
4. As a reward for her "openness," whenever she has a date it is my duty to take care of any housework or errands needed, including buying her new clothes if she wishes.
5. Every time she makes another man cum she gets to extend my chastity time by one day.
6. It's my job to make sure she has a condom in her purse each time she goes out. If a condom isn't there, she goes bare. (She takes the condom out when she gets home each night, so if I forget the purse will be empty.)
7. By the third date, it's their choice (his and hers) whether to keep using them.
8. She has the right to humiliate me with her boyfriends as she wishes, including telling them she keeps her husband locked up.
9. I stay locked at her whim and for SooYun's 30 days. She can add time as she wishes, although there will be brief releases from the cage for cleaning and teasing. I can ask for a release if I am desperate but she does not have to say yes, and there must always be a cost. (Current release date is Sept 1.)

 

[koreanslut]

Now to catch up with other questions and suggestions. George, your suggestion of having the rules about flirting only apply on some days is an interesting one. I'll ask her about it. A big part of it though is she just doesn't have a lot of experience being the one actively flirting. If some guy stops her on the street, her natural submissiveness and shyness will allow the moment to transform into one of erotic possibility, but she doesn't have a lot of practice being the instigator. That's why her tease of the cable guy was so hot and so unexpected. I've been showering praise on her for that in the hopes on building her confidence.

Me being responsible for her pill is interesting, too. Holding the pill and a glass of water for her every day would be a potent reminder of possibilities for both of us. But I think it's better having her in control of that. Partly because it's her body and her choice. But also because it's hot to think she might make me watch again as she crushes a pill, or better, makes me crush the pill for her. What do you guys think?

How am I doing with my time in chastity? I'm going absolutely horny mad with desperation! This is so much harder with her right in front of me all sexy and naked. Min-Ju has let me out briefly a couple times for cleaning, but it's so hard when she locks it back on. Hot, but hard. Last night after I licked her gorgeous pussy, she had me lie down on my back and took the cage off. She said "no touching," and I honestly wanted to obey, but she had to keep swatting my hands away because it was just too hard not to. I actually sneaked in a few strokes when she wasn't looking, and I feel guilty because I didn't admit it to her.

Min-Ju really likes watching my cock strain and tremble when it's furiously hard like that. She just kind of leaned over me and watched, her black hair falling over my belly and her pursed lips almost... almost touching the head of my dick. She finally strokes me a little, which felt amazing, but warned that "You'd better not cum. If you cum I'm adding two weeks to your chastity." I ended up begging her to lock me back up because I couldn't trust myself to keep control. Pretty humbling, let me tell you.

As for not pushing her to go to the party over work, I totally agree. That's actually why I've gently encouraged her to go. Her yoga work is work, but her real goal is to work in the arts and this party is a chance for her to network and connect in a way that I know will mean a lot to her if she goes. I'm really proud of how smart and talented Min-Ju is as a person, and at the core, my submissiveness/nurturing-ness toward her is rooted in a desire to see her happy. She know she's supported whatever she decides, but I've encouraged her to go to the party even if it makes for a pretty long and exhausting day for her.

Knowing you guys are out there encouraging me to push the boundaries and hoping Min-Ju will be out tonight in her tight skirt looking for sex is pretty hot. Some of you want to get between her hot little legs even as you know I'm home and helpless. And don't think it hasn't occurred to me that if a guy ever learns about Min-Ju's rules he will have quite a night ahead of him. She can't say no.

 

[George]

Does 'open' mean to you passively accepting or actively flirting? You might want to agree to 'today you actively flirt' times. Or is the once a month explicit invite enough?

#9 Are you looking forward with cringing/loving anticipation to 'Bitchy Min-Ju' setting the cost? Any thoughts as to what she may require?

I hope she starts telling you more about her adventures. Her having a private 'away from hubby' sex life is not good. You need to share this together. Besides her telling gives you opportunities to tell her how much you approve and appreciate.

(This was posted before I knew of Koreanslut's post #269.)

 

[George]

On Min-Ju keeping responsibility for her pills, you are right on. It is her body. And she may play with the pills with you. I withdraw my suggestion.
Great post. She is lucky to have such a sensitive caring husband. As long as you put her best interests foremost as you have been doing since you started this post (and I suspect much longer than that) you two will have a wonderful life. Best wishes.

 

[koreanslut]

Just got a text from Min-Ju asking me to bring a pair of shoes she forget to her studio for her. This kind of errand I normally find irritating, but today I immediately replied without thinking, "Yes lover!" The cage has a pretty powerful effect...

The good news is she's decided to go to the party tonight.

 

[George]

Ok, I'll bite. How's she dressed?

 

[koreanslut]

Oh, she hasn't left for the party yet, she's still at work. She should be home soon for a quick dinner and to get ready.

 

[mystTiger]

can't wait to hear how things go at the party... has she made any indication or teased you at all about the possibility of anything happening or is she being very straight laced about it?

 

[koreanslut]

We had a quick dinner together, and she's in the shower now getting ready. Not wanting to nag her, I keep trying not to bring up the possibility of her meeting someone, but I can't help myself. She smiles when I bring it up and teases me about it. It's definitely on her mind.

I'm laying out her clothes on the bed for her: the new red skirt, her black t-shirt with a big skull on it, and a red thong. No bra. The t-shirt is well worn and loose. It slides off her shoulder in a most beguiling way, and without a bra she will be showing a lot of bare shoulder. For jewelry I laid on her charm bracelet that holds my key (of course) and a necklace with a big faux-antigue brass heart and key. It's a relaxed party of grad school friends, so she should look pretty hot.

How many condoms should I put in her purse?

 

[George]

Two. And wipe tissue if you have some. Perhaps a spare thong. All done with a smile and a wink.
Hope you describe how she reacted to your selection and how you and she thinks she looks.

 

[mystTiger]

Wow... she sounds like she will look very sexy dressed in the clothes you have described... that whole no bra, tshirt falling off the shoulder sounds so hot! i bet all eyes will be on her tonight... what about shoes? anything special? high heels or flats?

in regards to condoms, i would say just one... you don't want to put too much pressure, she is just going to hang out with friends after all, it would be different if she was going to meet someone particular there who she knew she would play with...


also, i really like the sound of the jewellery she is wearing playing on the fact that you are locked... i wonder what she will say if someone asks about the key...

 

[koreanslut]

Wow.. that was really hot kissing Min-Ju goodbye as she left to go out to the party. I can't wait to do that for when she has an actual date. We ended up kissing pretty hot and deep at the door, and I loved feeling her bare breasts through her old t-shirt.

She really liked the skirt, she said she'd been looking for one like that for a while, so that made me feel good. And her t-shirt is an old favorite. She said I knew her really well and that I picked out a good outfit for her. She was a little surprised by the whole thing though -- still getting used to how attentive I've been. She looked really pretty and cute. The shirt is definitely loose around her collar so it keep slipping off her shoulder. Min-Ju had to keep sliding it back up. She'll be doing that all night, which will have the twin effect of reminding her of how I've dressed her, and calling attention to herself. I know I would keep checking her out if I were at the party, and any time she bends over she's going to be flashing a sexy eye-full to anyone lucky enough to be in front of her.

She felt hesitant about the idea of skipping a bra, but I persuaded her it would be fun for her. I hope it will be. She asked how I'll feel if other guys catch glimpses of her cleavage, and I said I would feel crazy jealous but I wanted her to flash them. She did her sexy little self-conscious-wiggle thing, and said she liked that. She seemed to like when she saw me put two condoms in her purse, too. She asked if I really wanted her to fuck someone. I said, "Yes, baby, god yes." My horniness must have showed because she laughed a little. Then she reminded me that she had already been with another guy.

Hearing her say that was hot!

But I also assured her that I wanted her to have fun at the party and get to know her new friends. That was the priority. She liked hearing that and said she was really glad she had such a supportive guy. We kissed some more. She asked whether she should wear her ring. I said it was her call. She decided not to. If anyone asks about me, we decided she should say she has permission to date. Probably they wouldn't ask more, but if they did, she can say anything she wants, including that she locks me or that I don't give her enough in bed. Hearing that seemed to get her revved up again. I know it got me going. That might be a little reckless since these are friends of her friends, but we'll see what happens.

Anyway, the door clicked shut. She's been gone for about 10 minutes now. I'm locked up at home. And so horny!

 

[George]

We will keep vigil with you.
BTW, I agree with mystTiger about not putting pressure on her. Our apparent differences in advice I think is due to a difference in how we view the impact of your delivery. I assume all 'pressure' you place on her will be with a wink and a smile--always fun--never pressure to perform. This is fun, not stress inducing. Later, perhaps much later, you can put pressure on her to perform if she enjoys dares. I think she does like dares by the way she responded to your pill crushing messages to the Korean artist, and her complying with the artist's instruction she flash her bare pussy to the bartender. Given that: 1) she does not have experience being forward, and 2) she blushes when showing cleavage, both acts had to be a very exciting / stressful event for her. I, we, have every confidence you will set the right tone. You have done beautifully so far. Your only goof was not taking care of her after your quick pop. But you apologized, demonstrating that you (tardily) had her interests in mind. Overall that 'goof' and apology appears to have been endearing to her and demonstrated the many enjoyable, well at least for her, aspects of caging you. One goof out of many 'yea's' is a good result.
Again you two are doing beautifully. Your showering her with confidence building kudos for her cable guy flash is one of many 'you doing it right's.
If you feel the need you could text her with a 'have fun, enjoy your friends, I'll be waiting up for you. Gosh, I love you so much' message, of course better written by you than I can do.

 

[George]

Do you think she will actively flirt or wait for an explicit request sometime after she flashed cleavage a couple of times? How do you anticipate her acting as she meets and greets different groups? Drinking? How did she travel? Oh, and how short was her skirt? And yes I like your choice of top.

 

[George]

Yup. Someone(s) else now. You, being her love are the best, later. How later? Sometime in September unless she can't wait. Try to get 2 or 3 chances overnight so you can last a while at least once.
When she texts you I'm sure you will be supportive of whatever she tells you.