My Korean Adventure

[mystTiger]

I think there are some good suggestions which have been made... i really like the idea George put forward of texting the Artist guy and laying it on the table that she will be his slutty plaything when he is there in NYC.
i also think the idea of wearing a short skirt with no panties and going up escalators is a hot idea but that in itself might not result in something happening, it is hot to think of her giving a good show though..
To follow on from the happy hour bar idea, I think she should go to a bar alone during the day sometime. A bar that will be quiet and hopefully has a bartender that she finds hot. If she sits at the bar and gets talking to the guy behind the bar who knows where it might lead. I think the most important thing at this stage is that she gets talking to more men. Once in conversation things will develop of their own accord. Another good place to meet guys is in cafes breakfast or lunch time. She could always ask to share a table with some hot guy.
In combination with the wicked weasel idea she should go to a fancy hotel pool where they have a hot tub. I have often been in a hot tub with my girl and some other guy there who starts talking with us. I think it's to do with the close proximity you are all in that it is awkward if you don't talk to each other.
I think to help build her confidence at the start it is important to keep things within her comfort zone. So just putting herself in situations where there is a good opportunity to meet and chat with men. Bars, cafes, restaurants, book shops, hotels, grocery stores, wine shop, public transport, uni campus. Tell her she should not be afraid to start a conversation with a hot guy she sees.it doesn't have to be very forward or explicit at first but if she initiates the conversation the guy will already feel more confident to direct the conversation in the way he would like.

 

[koreanslut]

Thanks for all the interesting suggestions! Lots to think about and share with Min-Ju. But first, an update.

"Bitchy Min-Ju" showed herself in an impressive and delightful way this evening. She skypes a lot with family back in Korea obviously, so when she called me over I expected to see her parents on the screen when I sat down on the sofa beside her. It was SooYun! The surprise really caught me off guard and blood rushed to my face; I could see myself red-faced in the little screen in the corner. I squeaked out a "hi" and then collected myself to give the formal Ahnyonghaseyo greeting. She said "Ahnyonghaseyo" back, and I'm honestly not sure if her little grin was innocent or devilish, but it made my cock surge in its cage. I mean, she knew, right!? She knew I was sitting right there in front of her with a chastity cage around my dick, and technically she is the one who has me locked right now.

"How are you?" she asked, her English a bit stiff. I swear she looked down at my lap as she asked, and I know I caught myself looking down. Min-Ju sitting beside me squeezed my thigh and looked over at me. "Well, aren't you going to answer?" she asked. "I'm good," I told SooYun. Min-Ju kept looking at me, her hand on my thigh: "And?" Trying to read Min-Ju's face I wasn't sure what I was supposed to say, so I just swallowed and decided to just out with it. "Thank you, SooYun, for locking me in chastity. Kamsahamnida."

I think it was the single most humiliating moment in my life. There was silence for a moment. Then SooYun burst out giggling, holding her hand over her mouth, and Min-Ju laughed, too. They spoke Korean together, fast back and forth. I caught my name a few times and they were both pointing downward toward my lap, but I don't know what they were saying. Then Min-Ju said something cutesy and reassuring like "aw, my good boy" and SooYun asked, "How does it feel?" I told her it made me feel very submissive and attentive to my wife; I wasn't really sure if I should tell her how horny it made me. She said it was good I was attentive to my wife. "That pleases me," she said.

Min-Ju turned and said, "Tell her how long, baby." "30 days," I said. SooYun repeated it in a shocked voice. Her mouth was open but covered by her hand. "30 days! No cum?" I blushed more, as if that were possible, and looked awkwardly between the two of them. I guess I was looking down toward my hands during much of this, awkward about looking them in the eye. "Yes," I told her, "no cum for me. All for Min-Ju." My wife leaned over and gave me a kiss on the cheek and said I was being very good to her. I can only imagine all the questions going through her friend's mind. I pushed myself to look up at her on skype and thanked her, saying, "I enjoyed your game, SooYun." Then I dared a little more: "Are you glad I picked 30?" This time she blushed, and nodded. "30 not too much?" she asked. "No, not too much," Min-Ju said, overriding me, though I was saying the same thing. "Maybe not enough," she added with an impish grin.

I had to know, so I asked her: "How does it feel to have me locked, SooYun?" She thought for a moment, her lips pursed, I guess searching for the English she wanted. "I take your manhood. I like" was her verdict. I want to think what she meant wasn't quite as... emasculating .. as it came out in English, but honestly I don't know. I don't know how to read her friend. But I had to agree: "Yes, you take my manhood.. you both do." Min-Ju leaned into me and kissed me again while speaking Korean to her friend. Then she patted my leg and said, "You can go now, baby." I bridled a bit at the dismissal, though it's also how I had asked her to treat me. Besides, the rational part of me knew it was because she and her friend wanted to talk about other things.

Later, my wife seemed apologetic and asked if she'd gone too far. I assured her it was humiliating but that it made me hot. I asked how she felt doing it, and she said it was fun. She felt powerful over me, and liked scandalizing her friend. I asked if she thought of me differently after all this, and Min-Ju assured me she didn't, which was good to hear, but that SooYun did. Her friend seems to like the idea of all this, but doesn't understand. Still, I could feel Min-Ju getting aroused during the skype chat as she was sitting beside me, and I can't help wondering if SooYun was getting a little hot, too. As she left the room, Min-Ju's final words were that SooYun seemed interested in maybe adding more time.

 

[George]

Does SooYun know about the nine additional days?
I wonder if Min-Ju will explain that there is much more to you than a cock blocked wimp.

 

[asianboy]

If only Sooyun or your wife's cousin was in the states, they could have helped set your wife up with more dudes to fuck your wife. It would be more humiliating too.

P.S. hope you got my message

 

[jwff]

One more suggestion might be to ensure that Min-Ju set aside some time each day, or at least several times a week. for socializing and flirting on her own, whether through going out for drinks after work, or having lunch with a colleague. It could be as short as a few minutes, or it could last an entire evening. It's not as racy, but a constant schedule of outings would help her build confidence, and emphasize to you both that she now has a part of her life which you will only hear of indirectly. You will become used to Min-Ju coming home late on a regular basis; she will become accustomed to simply assuming your approval, without the need to notify you in advance...

I think there are quite a few possibilities contained in this. You might, for example, encourage her to build a revealing wardrobe exclusively dedicated to when she is 'on the prowl', of which you will only catch fleeting glimpses of at home. Or she might regularly take selfies alongside attractive men that she comes across, and send them your way with a few cryptic words - is this just an isolated encounter, you will ask, or will the man in the photo be sharing her bed in a few hours?

 

[mystTiger]

wow... that is a very hot situation you found yourself in yesterday! it is good to see that Min-Ju is taking the lead with this and instigating things on her own... it shows that she is enjoying this whole experience just as much, maybe more, than you... it also shows that she really understands what you seek in the whole experience... did you have to show the cage to SooYun? how do you feel if they add more time to your chastity?

in terms of the exclusive wardrobe idea that jwff put forward... it seems that could be already underway in regards to the dress and lingerie her and the artist guy bought using your card in Korea... has she unpacked and shown those items to you yet? or has she unpacked and not shown you those items?

did she send any text to the guy Darren from the party yet? does Min-Ju own any dildo? if she doesn't you should probably buy her a decent size realistic dildo so that you can keep her satisfied with that while you are locked and she has no lover at the moment. using your tongue on her all the time is still important but she must be craving something to fill her by now... and you still have almost 3 weeks more to go... at least!

anyway, looking forward to the next development...

 

[koreanslut]

So many good suggestions here. I've been making myself crazy with possibilities of Min-Ju dressing sexy in special clothes, going out to bars and nightclubs, chatting with men and teasing them with glimpses of her sexy body, sharing details with SooYun and her cousin, and inviting her artist bf to the U.S. My wife and I have been talking about a lot of this, some as fantasy and some as reality, and she likes it. I'm trying to keep is slow though, so it's fun for her and not too overwhelming. Here's where we're at right now.

We both really like the suggestion of her have a special wardrobe that is exclusive for other men. We created a special place in her closet to keep her special clothes, and it's my job to help keep it stocked with sexy dresses and skirts and stockings. She has shown me the dresses she bought in Korea and modeled them for me, though she hasn't worn them out yet since she got home. In fact, she put them on for me briefly last night and enjoyed how my dick swelled in my cage. Some of the lingerie is still kept "secret."

We also liked the idea of her having a special day, as a regular thing, where she goes out to flirt and have fun with other guys. That seems like a good way to help her feel more actively "open" while also making it so she doesn't have to always feel "on." So thanks for the suggestion there, guys.

So every Thursday now, she is going to stop by this bar we like on her way home from work. She'll stay for at least an hour. And of course she'll dress in her special clothes, always looking sexy. The bar is pretty chill, mostly young, hip professionals, and it's done up in a fancy Victorian style. She's going to make a habit of sitting at the bar after work and ordering a martini.

Thursday evening is to be kept free. She's encouraged to go out with her girlfriends, or if she has a date, with a guy. But she's to think of the whole evening as a fun "play" day for herself. She can include me if she wants, watching from across the room for example, but the day is for her to be "available." (Other days, too, still but this is a new special day.)

We're excited about the idea. We'll see where it goes.

As for Rule #3, here are the ideas I gave her, from your suggestions. She's promised to do at least one this month.

1. Go to the bar this Thursday wearing one of your special dresses and initiate conversation with 3 guys. Tell at least 1 of them that you have a husband but that he doesn't take you out as often as he should. I can be there watching or not -- your choice.

2. Go to Whole Foods at 5pm (when the store fills with people in their 20s and 30s getting off work) wearing just a dress, one of your special ones. No bra and no underwear. Smile and say hi to every man you see. In the produce section, drop something on the floor and bend over at the waist to pick it up. Do this until you are certain at least 3 men have looked down your dress. Ask a guy for help. For example, in the produce section ask what kind of apples he thinks are best, or in the prepared food section, asked if he's tried a certain dish and whether he liked it. I can be there watching or not -- your choice.

3. Tell SooYun and/or your cousin that I'm really horny and I've asked for a release so I can cum. Ask what they think. Whatever they say becomes law.

4. Put on one of your special dresses and text Darren. Tell him it was nice meeting him and that you hope he liked what he saw of you. When he texts back, answer him right away.

 

[Tokyocouple]

Nice! I've been doing the grocery store one with my wife already. It's a lot of fun, she sends me hot pics of her sexy outfit as she's heading out the door while I'm at work! Usually by the time I get to my phone at work she is already gone to the store and getting eye fucked by every guy that comes around her.

 

[mystTiger]

great ideas... each of the ideas is very hot and is sure to get you both excited... i really like the new plan for thursdays and look forward to hearing the updates of what happens on those nights out... a hot asian girl sitting alone at the bar drinking a martini in a busy hip bar is sure to get hit on... can't wait for the results... and what with her having to enthusiastically say yes to all sexual requests I'm sure it won't be long before she is in another mans bed with her legs spread...

i think she should text the guy darren soon though... she shouldn't leave it too long. and you did say she promised to do "at least one" so she can always do that and another of the suggestions...

i also love how she now has her "secret lingerie"...

you said in your post that SooYun's opinion of you has changed... did Min-Yu go into more detail to explain what her opinion of you now is? what do you think will be her answer if Min-Ju asks for early release for you since you are horny?

 

[koreanslut]

Yeah, Tokyocouple gets full props for the super market idea. What your wife is doing is crazy hot, especially with that anklet. I'd love to see my wife doing that, so I hope you don't mind me borrowing.

I agree that my hot Min- Ju alone at that bar will get some attention. We like it because it's low key, not a pick up bar, so things may start mild. But it also means she's more likely to meet a guy she actually likes.

SooYun and her cousin are both pretty conventional about gender roles, so they think it's odd that I like Min-Ju have such control. But SooYun is starting to like the idea of all the attention I give my wife. I think she's starting to get off on the power, too, and she did tell my wife she envies all the pussy licking she's getting. SooYun wants that, too. I honestly have no idea what she would say about a release. I'm scared to find out but also excited.

Hearing you talk about her legs spread in another man's bed gets me hot...

 

[asianboy]

Would be really hot if Minju got a long term bull and moved in with him for a week. Just a little tryst for her where she gets dominated the entire week

BTW your inbox is full apparently so you cant receive anymore messages until you clear some space up.

 

[koreanslut]

Last night I was holding Min-Ju in my arms as she made herself cum hard and fast with her vibrator. Her whole body shook in my arms. She panted in my ear that she needed cock. And afterward she was embarrassed for being so horny. She had initiated. Made for a hot and horny night for me of not enough sleep.

 

[mystTiger]

thats a very hot scene to imagine... its good that she feels comfortable enough to let you know what she is craving... i imagine she will be very willing and open when she goes to the bar this thursday... maybe you should buy her a nice and sexy anklet like TokyoCouple got for his wife as a gift for her before she goes for her night out... has she text Darren yet?

 

[Tokyocouple]

Actually, the anklet was a gift to my wife that another member on here bought for my wife!

 

[mystTiger]

sorry for my mistake.... that makes it even hotter!! Just thinking of another guy getting her to publicly ****** herself as a 'slut' is awesome... it must be so hot for you to be experiencing that situation with your wife...

 

[minos_dis_crete]

SooYun and her cousin are both pretty conventional about gender roles, so they think it's odd that I like Min-Ju have such control. But SooYun is starting to like the idea of all the attention I give my wife. I think she's starting to get off on the power, too, and she did tell my wife she envies all the pussy licking she's getting. SooYun wants that, too. I honestly have no idea what she would say about a release. I'm scared to find out but also excited.

I wonder what Min-Ju would think about offering your talents to SooYun. Not that it would happen, given the distance and her having her own husband. But more just curious where she would stand on the idea of lending out your tongue to her friends in-the-know since, with that cage on she doesn't have to worry about you cheating.

 

[George]

It appears I mostly do not come up with scenarios that tickle your fancy. I think I am too explicit. When you ask for things for her to say or do that create a situation I have emphasized the act while you appear to emphasize the situation. So here’s situation emphasis (with my penchant for specifics).
Over some weeks go in turn to a Hooters, a Tilted Kilt, a sports bar, a Hofbrahas, etc. Places were folks share tables, walk around, drink beer, dance, etc. And where waitresses hanging it all out is much of the draw.
Min-Ju wears an outfit that emulates and competes with the waitresses with an extreme heavily padded pushup bra that pushes everything in, forward and up. Yeh, it looks fake and deliberate but that’s the point. She wears a low cut top similar to the waitreses and short shorts or mini skirt with a tiny transparent thong.
You go together, but you act as two friends each on the prowl. You both flirt like mad. She to get fucked. You to get frustrated. Adding to your frustration she includes you in her flashing to the crowd, top and bottom. Later you can tell her how she did. You are caged and not allowed to get to first base, let alone a home run. She is free. You are functionally impotent, but you fake a good game while Min-Ju watches amused. You get to watch her walk out with a guy.
optional. sometimes put condoms in her purse, and sometimes a condom foil pack you have modified to contain a tip cut off condom or rubber band instead. Surprise! You should let know days beforehand that this trick is a possibility.
More general optional. You could mix into your condom foil pack supply a few defeated examples. The success depends on how unnoticeable you alteration is. Of course you could just put a few in a 350 degree oven for a while. Melted condoms don't work.

 

[koreanslut]

I guess I am drawn to situations. I think it comes back to the control element for me; I like that idea of putting in motion a situation that they does, at least potentially, moves outside my control. The unpredictability and uncertainty is a big part of the charge. If I know Min-Ju is going to just walk up to the next guy and fuck him... it loses the erotic power. I like that I can't know what will happen, and that she can't either. The other thing I'm learning is it seems I'm actually the prude in my marriage. I like that other guys get to enjoy glimpses of my hot wife, but I get a little uncomfortable if it's too overt. (Part of this may come back to the control issue. I'm usually the one taking care of things, and I'm too aware of how flashing can take a wrong turn and potentially get her in a mess of trouble.)

The idea of the damaged condom is hot! And opens up that door of uncertainty. Heat is an interesting idea, and the rubber band is pretty funny. Your phrase gets it perfectly: "defeated" condoms.

I wonder what Min-Ju would think about offering your talents to SooYun. Not that it would happen, given the distance and her having her own husband. But more just curious where she would stand on the idea of lending out your tongue to her friends in-the-know since, with that cage on she doesn't have to worry about you cheating.

That's dangerous territory, but honestly it's rather hot. I'm totally loyal to Min-Ju and would never want her to feel otherwise, but if she wanted to loan my services to SooYun, or have her babysit while she's out on a date, of course I would do my best to serve.

As an update, I just finished talking with my wife about texting Darren. She wants to, though she also wants to keep it a little vague until she can feel him out better. After all, he's distantly connected to our circle of friends. I encouraged her to change into some of her "special" clothes to put her in the right frame of mind. She's in the bedroom texting now.

It's done. "Hi. It was nice meeting you. It was fun talking about painting. Let me know if you'd like to see more."

 

[George]

The sports bar thought is merely a more 'target rich' situation than a neighborhood bar. Flashing is optional of course and does not change the 'we don't know how this situation will play out' dynamic. If wrong, don't flash. The up and out bra is both so she won't be upstaged by the waitresses the guys came to interact with and to play a 'sexy outfit' game like you already have set up. It also says I came to play. I like the idea of you being there and joining in with Min-Ju, sharing her scary thrill of being expected to flirt. Besides, you stated you wonder if you should have flirted more aggressively in the past. Well here is a chance for you and Min-Ju to find out while you can't bring flirting to fruition. And that you are rendered impotent just adds to your joint pleasure of the contrast between her exploits and your restrictions. Oh, the angst. I think you both would enjoy you both seeing each other in action. Fun conversations later. I hope you will like this suggestion.
Oh, and yes, it appears Min-Ju is at least a driving force as are you, likely more. Give her her head now. Marital, maternal, and career responsibilities will impose their dampening effect soon enough.

Her text is deliciously ambiguous. Well done.

 

[George]

Going back to the act vs. situation question. What I like is "Do this act that thrills/scares you and then respond to what happens. That's not much different from "go into that bar in sexy clothes, have a drink, and respond to what happens. (Especially fun if constraints on range of responses requires her to think fast.) The devil is in the details. You tend to leave the details a little more vague than I. (Neither is good or bad.) In your Thursday bar example, if she is not uncomfortable with the guy, is it vague whether the "can't say no" rule applies or not? Ditto the enthusiastic yes rule. The combination of no no and enthusiastic yes raises the 'go further probability' into the 90% range.
So, take a look at the various suggestions made by your respondents and ask, "How can I adjust this suggestion to best fit what I want?" Many may be a catalyst for a fun adventure design.