My Korean Adventure

[jwff]

KS - the injection of another language (such as English) into a native one is called 'code switching' by linguists. I always found it really annoying whenever I've overheard it, but after reading your incredibly hot experience, I don't think I'll ever hear it the same way again. Having a spouse who speaks a different language is an insanely hot twist to the hotwife lifestyle.

As for your chastity... pick the number on the left of your photo. Trust me.

 

[George]

It was a mistake not give to Min-Ju an orgasm before going to sleep. It was a worse mistake not taking care of her in the morning. So she took solace in her vibrator while you were working out. That mistake might have got you caged earlier than intended. Now Min-Ju believes she not only has permission to find pussy stuffing elsewhere, but as well with you caged you are incapable of satisfying her. She will soon tire of her hand and vibrators and seek a real man. The Korean artist screwed her six times in about 24 hours and squirted in her mouth once, and you popped and **********. The contrast is stark. You may have moved cuckolding from a game for her on to a necessity for her.

 

[George]

Min-Ju will be telling her New York friends you are caged. Ask her to take a close-up photo so she has something to show her friends.

 

[koreanslut]

You guys are right to scold me for not going down on her and making her cum. And i suspect you're right about that getting me caged sooner than she had originally planned. I brought it up, a little awkwardly, and apologized to Min-Ju for not taking care of her the way I should. She said she appreciated me saying that, and we had a good talk about how it will be my job to go down on her regularly now that she's caged me again, though she also said she'll probably let me out at time to fuck her, with the caution that "Just because I let you out though doesn't necessarily mean you get to cum."

The other news is that her period started yesterday. So no worries about pregnancy. We were pretty confident that would be the case, but it's a relief to know for sure. Still, Min-Ju had made several references to the possibility she was bringing home a baby, and given how hot that made both of us I suspect this won't be the last time we play with pregnancy risk. While I do not want it to happen, I agree that the idea of her having a full Asian baby is powerfully hot. Her family and friends would be able to tell, and I do suspect that some of them would like that. Especially her cousin, who does not seem to like me. But hotter still, if I'm honest, is the possibility of Min-Ju risking pregnancy with a black guy, something that neither of us could hide.

 

[George]

Well, her onset shows that you did have her timing right. So, her going bare another week would have been OK. She was as greatest risk the first yellow babydoll dress fuck. It also means she knew you were no pregancy risk to her when she blocked her pussy.

 

[George]

Her period now is handy. You now have time to talk before she finds her next adventure, probably a guy she's had her eyes on. Again, check the BOX site.

 

[koreanslut]

Following Jwff's suggest despite (because of?) my suspicion he is sinking me, I picked the number on the left. Turns out that was 30 days. The other two numbers are 7 and 14, so it looks like I picked the high number. So it looks like I'm locked for SooYun for 30 days, plus the 9 day extension Min-Ju has already earned. September 1st as a release date.

That's a daunting thought, and hot. At least there will be some brief releases, unless Min-Ju changes her mind, and having me locked up will keep our play on her mind and hopefully encourage her to find some new guys to date. She laughed when I picked the high number, and texted her friend right away. Apparently SooYun is pretty happy about this.

She's suggested I should learn my lesson and study Korean more. I agree Jwwf, there is something hot about my wife speaking another language. There's this part of her, this whole other world I can't understand or really participate in. That's true, really, for everyone, and I think that's part of what draws us to this kink, but it's more concrete and tangible with Min-Ju.

 

[George]

She will be earning more days before September first.
Was the SooYun game your surprise?
Did you get her a surprise?

 

[koreanslut]

Yes, SooYun's game was the surprise, unless she has something more waiting for me. And yes, I imagine you're right about her earning more days...

 

[mystTiger]

wow... 39 days without cumming... thats pretty long time... and you will have your face buried in Min-Ju's pussy every night tormenting you even further as she teases you about any sexy guys she met that day...

do the rules you made for Korea come back into play since you are locked again or were the rules made only for her time in korea?

very early in your post you mentioned that Min-Ju "always makes me wear a condom -- partly I think because she knows how desperately I want her bare". does that mean you have never had her bare ever? you also mentioned that she swallowed the guys cum on the karaoke night but she has never done that for you... how does that make you feel? does it turn you on that she does these things for others that she doesn't do for you or does it make you angry? what other things does she not do for you that you think in time she may do with others? have you ever been allowed to cum on her face?

 

[jwff]

Following Jwff's suggest despite (because of?) my suspicion he is sinking me, I picked the number on the left.

Took me an hour and a half to sort out Korean numbers enough to get a sense of what was going on. What you lose in orgasms will be returned a hundred-fold to you in hotwifing.

 

[koreanslut]

We've agreed for a while now that Min-Ju has "permission" to be with other men, it just wasn't until her time in Korea that things bloomed into reality, so that basic rule still applies in both our minds, I'm sure. But we haven't talked through other rules since we got back. I've been trying to wait and let her take the lead on things. She's been dropping hints, so it may not be long. And it will be so much hotter if she initiates things by coming into the room and saying "Baby, we need to talk"... and then laying out the rules she wants.

I've been inside her bare briefly a few times, but I've never gotten to orgasm/unload inside her. Sometimes she likes to tease me by picking a number and letting me have that many strokes inside her, so maybe 5 strokes inside her bare, but then she makes me get a condom. A few times when we first started dating I convinced her to let me fuck her raw but she always made me pull out and stroke onto her belly. The same with blowjobs. She used to suck me off and let me cum on her lips or, once or twice, on her face. This seems to be a pattern with couples, isn't it? When you first hook up sex is more adventurous and fun, and then as familiarity grows sex becomes more intimate but at the same time more conventional. It's actually been a while since she's given me a blow job and made me cum. So yeah, that she sucked that guy off is a bit of a gut punch. But it's also incredibly sexy.

Min-Ju only dated one other guy before me, so I just missed being her first. So that's pretty galling. It makes me happy and proud that she really bloomed with me, but it was some other guy who first plucked her. She hasn't done anal, despite me begging. It would be pretty hot if she let another guy convince her, though I don't see that happening. Maybe more than watching her have sex, I would love to watch her kneel down and suck another guy... and let him cum in her face.. and then watch her swallow. Swallowing a guy's cum seems like one of the most intimate things a girl can do.

Thanks for sorting through the numbers, Jwff. I hope you enjoyed that. It's day 5 for me.

 

[mystTiger]

Yeah, i can understand why you want to just let things fall as they may and let Min-Ju take the lead with her progression and her rules... and i agree that it will be much hotter for you that way.

i think it would be so hot and I'm sure it would drive you crazy with jealousy if another guy convinces her to let him into her ass.. I'm sure if she meets the right kind of guy... the kind of guy who will take control of her and who she has a very hard time saying 'no' to that it will happen in time.

and that scene you describe of her down on her knees blowing a guy until he cums in her face and her then swallowing and licking him clean is very hot!

do you and Min-Ju go out dancing often together? perhaps you should take her out on a nice date night together now that you are caged and see how she responds... it is likely that she will tease you mercilessly while giving signals to other guys that she is interested even while you are sitting beside her...

is she dressing more sexily now around you? has she show / worn the new lingerie she bought for her lover, by the way did they use your card in the end, and how much did she spend on your card when she was shopping for the new sexy outfit for her lover?

how about when your friends are around? does she tease you a little in front of them in small discreet ways? or is the whole 'play with your friends' a no-go zone? how are you coping with the chastity? do you worry people can tell?

 

[George]

You know my view. Last time when she was ready you proposed a set of written rules to her. That led to exciting conversations, her additions, and several revisions. Those became the rules you both played by. And, yes, the rules had an impact on what she did and on the cage time you now face. I suggest you follow that already successful route. This time with a more thought out rules paper than before.

You need to maintain a blend of submission and control. And you want her to know you have your head in the game as she does her body. So pre-think the rules and present your proposal to her when the time is right. Besides, you will get more fun things if you propose them at the beginning.

If you go passive and say "Dear, you can just do anything you want." that's emotional abandonment, not a game. If you do not take an active role in defining her permissions, you will be both insignificant and boring. I say negligent. Remember much of her self-justification for her exploring hedonistic pleasures is that she is doing it for you. You need to be an active emotional and thinking part of her game. Games need rules to be interesting. Think baseball. How interesting would it be if the rules stopped at "You hit a tossed ball and then run around a path until someone touches you with the ball." Boring! Ditto your sex games. Constraints--rules--corral actions, and actually make it easier to create. Sonnets have restrictive rules for construction.. Those rules led to thousands of poetic expressions. Same for your game.

She's the one who goes out and does things. You need to balance her physical and emotional acts with your brain and thoughts. You should take the lead in game design.

 

[koreanslut]

Here are a few tidbits to give you a sense of the past few days:

• Her dressed in her bright turquoise yoga pants and black sports bra doing yoga at home while I watch helplessly in my cage. The way she folds herself in half really shows off the gap between her thighs.
• Her casually mentioning that 2 guys hit on her while she was out to lunch today. This on top of the blond guy shamelessly checking her out at Whole Foods.
• Me wondering what it will be like to crawl between her legs and lick her pussy the first time while caged.
• Her coming home from teaching a class and mentioning that John was there. John is a guy who was hitting on her a couple months ago in a way that used to make her uncomfortable, but now she seemed happy about it.
• Her undressing at night to put on her pjs and turning so I can't see her bare breasts or pussy. She gets shy and this is her usual way of undressing, but now it has special significance.

It's not that she's dressing more sexily as it is that she always looks so dang good. (Obviously I'm biased.) And it's not that she's "model hot" or anything, don't misunderstand. But American guys take extra notice of her. And yes, she gets hit on all the time. It's kind of crazy to me. I'm the kind of guy who only asks a girl out after I know she's interested, so I can't help wondering if I've been doing things wrong all these years by not being more aggressive with women.

I've hinted at seeing her new dresses and lingerie, but so far no luck. (She actually hasn't finished unpacking, which is crazy, but she hates being nagged. She's a bit on the messy side.) And yes, I've seen the credit card bill. I'll keep the amount private, but let's just say I'll feel it at the end of the month. (Nothing to worry about.) It's hot that she became so enthusiastic and cut loose for him.

We haven't hung out with friends much yet, so I don't know.

About dancing, Min-Ju has fun when she goes but it's usually only when friends drag her. I'm not big on dancing. It would be hot to watch some guy pull her onto the dance floor while I wait at the table in my cage.

Right now she's at work, and I'm foolishly reading through cuckolding posts on the forums and looking at porn. Your posts are making me horny and need to cum but...argggh... I can't.

 

[George]

At some point she needs to tell and show you in detail what she did and felt in Korea. It is not healthy for her to have a separate private life. She, you need to share.

The moment she follows the rules again John will have a date to get into her pants--unless he is work disqualified. And the two guys will have her phone number. Things will move fast once she starts again. When? I bet within two days of her period ending.

Hope you're editing the rules. You don't have much time.

The person who presents the first draft has the majority impact on the end result. If you give her your written draft rules, you will get more access to her pussy than if you wait for her to share her version.

Your first rules agreement shows the power of being first. If you hadn't been first you likely would not have had the 'enthusiastic yes' rule. That rule not only got her fucked, it also gave her an excuse for 'bad' behavior, put you in the game, gave you an element of control over your slut, and gave her that scary thrill she wants. A win, win all around. The lifting her yellow babydoll dress skirt was the culminating 'yes' of a series of enthusiastic 'yeses' that brought her there.
She wants to be 'trapped' by the rules. Too much free choice is disquieting. Too few constraints places too much responsibility on her, makes her guiltily internally conflicted, and makes her unhappily anxious. Rules serve as a swaddling blanket. Give her that aid.
The rules you are considering have consequences if she doesn't meet her goals--consequences that give you play time with her and sometimes more access to her pussy. Consequences add thrill and create delightful choices. They add play value and encourage play. Her rules would lack consequences except for you. She will have more fun if there are consequences for her as well. You know she likes to play, the Korean numbers game was an example of her play with consequences for you. Give her the same thrill back.
Present your written rules draft first. That way you have a large degree of control over what happens and how you two will feel about what happens.

 

[koreanslut]

Min-Ju had a nice little sexy surprise for me this morning.

Our internet has been on the fritz so I had the cable guy out this morning to fix it. I'm in the living room with him as he's futzing with the modem when Min-Ju comes out of the bedroom. She's wearing her nightie, this tiny little white nightdress she wears during the hot summer with spaghetti straps and low-cut in a way that shows lots of cleavage and too short to reliably cover her underwear, and the thing is she knew he was there and had already been up to do her morning yoga so she put her nightie back on just for this. She comes out of the bedroom, walks right past the two of us, doesn't say a word, and goes into the kitchen. She opens the frig and stretches in a way that shows both of us she's wearing tiny lavender boyshorts. And yes, the cable guy is totally eyeing her. He kind of fumbles screwing the cable back into the modem as he's watching her. Meanwhile, Min-Ju sets about making breakfast, and not a quick breakfast. She makes herself an omelet and fresh coffee, all the while acting like we're not there.

I know he gets a good look down her top at her bare breasts as she bends over the counter because I do. The full heft of her amazing breasts, just shy of her nipples. And I have this weird tingling feeling knowing his cock is getting hard in his pants even as mine is pressing rather painfully against my cage. I say weird because this is actually a first time for me, sensing another man is hard for my wife just a few feet away. The guy is older, late 40s maybe, with gray hair and a bit of a paunch. Little did he know he stood a better chance with my wife in that moment than I did, and being in my cage as I was it felt right that he should get to have her over me.

Nothing was going to happen, but I wanted to leave him alone with her for a moment so I excused myself to go to the bathroom. When I came back out, he was totally eye-banging her. Min-Ju clearly knew but acting like she was in her own little world. She just focused on her cooking. Finished, she took her omelet and coffee and walked past us back to the bedroom. As she walked past she smiled sweetly and said "Hi baby" and thanked him for fixing the cable, then the door closed behind her.

It was pretty hot for me. I can't help thinking he was out jerking off in his truck afterward. I know I wish I could be doing that.

 

[George]

She wants to play games. This may be a good time to finish editing and then showing Min-Ju your proposed rules for play. The play your rules describe will be so much fun.

She will get much amused pleasure telling you that you will only get fucks and blow jobs from her when the rules require, and that relieving you is her 'penalty' for not maximizing the freedom the rules grant her in a situation. You get it only when she messes up. You're the bobbie prize.

 

[game4owt]

She wants to play games. This may be a good time to finish editing and then showing Min-Ju your proposed rules for play. The play your rules describe will be so much fun.

I agree, though it would have been hot if the cableguy had made an advance and the must say yes rule was in effect, the choices would have been right there in the front room or on your bed

 

[George]

Given the show off game she chose to play, you've got to take her to a hotel with a bar and swimming pool. I think she wants to be the bellboy's tip when she doesn't accomplish a dare. Look at www.wildweasel.com. You should get her a Wild Weasel bikini and bra and panty set, and perhaps a 'cover up' top. Oh what fun you will have when you give her scary dares.

I find the contrast between her inherent shyness and her showing off telling. You say she turns her back to you while putting on her nighty, and that she sleeps in nightclothes. These both say she is shy. Yet she showed off to the cable guy, both for her own excitement and to tease you--the cable guy just being a convenient object, not an end in himself. These show offs, including flashing the bartender (And how brief is her Korea Artist bikini?) demonstrate how motivated she is, surely more than enough to overcome her shyness. And that her first cuckolding and marriage consummating lover was her third guy. Wow, she's a quick study. You are in for a wild ride. Again, bleat, bleat, propose your comprehensive rules so the ride has a fun structure.

Anyone have an idea about how much women know what they are showing? Did Min-Ju think she was, or was not, showing her nipples when she leaned over? Or did she just not care? I think she knew she was showing a lot, but not exactly how much. Anyone have an idea?