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My Korean Adventure

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  • #281
Just got a text from her:

"I am so glad i am here. Miss you tho xo."
 
  • #282
I'm so pleased she's happy she followed your preference.
It's already midnight. When do you think the party will break up?
 
  • #283
I agree with George. You can't be the one to give her a good fucking. It would just be embarrassing for you both as she will have to lie there and pretend that you are awesome even though you are no where near as good at fucking her as her other lovers. And deep down you know that that's the case so you will embarrass yourself by even trying to compete with how good they fuck her. What you need to do is fulfill your role as her emotional support and provide her with sensual gentle loving sex. Your challenge in that is to take it slow, lots of foreplay and make sure you last as long as possible. Maybe while she is out flirting you can use your time to study some tantric techniques to include and to improve your stamina. Your role is slow soft gentle intense love making. Lots of tenderness and passion. Leave the lusty fucking to the real men. And keep working on her pussy with your mouth. You need to try and make that a daily routine. Especially when she comes back from being out partying or flirting and most importantly when she comes back from being fucked by someone else. That's a key way to show your love and acceptance of everything.
 
  • #284
most importantly you gave her a nice orgasm when she got home...

sometimes its gonna be like that where she goes out with friends and nothing happens... the fact that she had fun and made new friends is enough in itself. its a shame that just one guy hit on her... if she was in any way thinking about something happening, which is very possible since you made a point of putting the condoms in her bag, she may feel down that none of the hot guys hit on her... its really important over the next few days that you pay extra attention to her and make her feel very wanted and very special... in terms of the guys not hitting on her, it could have been just that it wasn't that kind of party or also that she was too hot for the guys there, making them feel intimidated to approach a girl as hot as her which is a common problem...

in terms of the guy who got an eyeful of her cleavage when she leant down for the drink, did she do that intentionally? and was it done for a particular guy or did it all just happen by accident?
 
  • #285
Ok, that’s fine. She was more up front and out there than her usual. She made new friends. She played. She flirted. She gave a guy a show. This is not the time to be disappointed that not every occasion results in a fuck. She did great.
 
  • #286
Following mystTiger’s comment. The guys are for fucking, pounding, stretching, boob biting, hickies, oh my God I’m stuffed, my pussy’s sore, my knees are sore, I barely slept, he did different things—some nasty things, he shoved it in my ass, he unbuttoned my blouse in the bar, he called me his *****, I was his little girl.
You are for loving her, completing her, comforting her, protecting her, building a nest together, sensual massages, gentle kisses, cuddles, expressing your desperate passion in the most compassionate way, taking your time, being hopelessly in love and in lust, belonging to her, reducing stress, sharing joys, approving, caring, listening, committing to her best interests, helping her grow, pushing her buttons, encouraging her to experiment with what she secretly wants, becoming a parent with her, and rocking her world because you know her body best. You are her life partner.
Guys can’t replace what you provide.
 
  • #288
I agree with everything that's been said. I'm glad she had fun at the party and look forward to having some nice "us" time when we're home from work. I'm eager for her to find a new guy she likes enough to play with, but that's going to take time. She's worth it.
 
  • #289
I would only add that despite all the hopes for a naughty encounter, the true goal here is to make her confident and happy. Meeting new friends and networking is a great step, there's no reason to be disappointed.

You don't just want her to go bang guys, you want her to blossom into the woman she chooses to be, and the female-led relationship dynamic you've embraced is important to that. No need to pressure her about slutting it up, that would be a male-led, kinky dynamic. Just let it be obvious how much you like knowing she's satisfied and free to pursue that satisfaction from whomever she wants.

Keep your cuckold dick locked up and out of the equation so you stay as motivated and submissive as you have been and put her needs first, while at the same time encouraging her not to settle for it - she should start to think of you as her happy little pussy licker husband (I mean, you are, aren't you?) and after a couple of more encounters, will no doubt begin to associate her desire to be fucked more exclusively with men other than you. At that point you won't need to worry about pressuring her anymore.

I think it's important that if you want to solidify things as they are, that you not be the next man to fuck her. That could undermine some of the progress you've made so far. At the same time, the key to success will be letting her set her own pace for finding the next guy or two. She probably already feels obligated to make something happen this month, as sort of the payoff for you accepting all this denial. You might consider unburdening her of that anxiety by asking to extend your chastity a bit longer while she is finding her stride as a cuckoldress.
 
  • #290
We are getting into philosophy here. In my opinion being her pussy licker only is okay if recognized as a phase in your life together. In other phases you want and need to be her Whole Man meeting all of her needs. This is particularly true during the early parenting years.

As for fucking her: in my opinion you fuck her when she wants you to. Do not repeat your prior 'No, I'd rather you find someone else to stuff you. I'll just lick'. That message put her "performing" ahead of you lovingly connecting with her as she wished. (Notwithstanding my comment, given that Min-Ju asked you an honest question, your answer might have been the best at the time. If she asks the 'fuck me or lick me' question again, I think she would have asked because she wants to reconsider your current 'licking only' regime. Your answer should be 'fuck please'.)

As for offering to extend your chastity: in my opinion the offer implies to her that you are compensating for what you feel she failed at. Instead simply demonstrate by your words and actions that, yes, you want her to fuck others, but vastly more important you want her to be happy, and that her happiness includes her doing what she wants in her own time and sharing loving with you as she desires.
 
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  • #291
I think this weekend if you have time you should arrange a nice night out to a fancy restaurant, maybe even book in to a fancy hotel in the city. Don't you bring up anything to do with flirting etc. Leave it to her to take it in that direction if she wishes. The main goal for you is just to make her feel special and to shower her with your love and affection. The important thing is to show her that you are still willing to pamper her like that while you are still locked in your cage. If you leave it entirely up to her to bring up discussion of your play, just imagine how hot it will be if she does bring it up, proactivly suggesting something herself.
 
  • #292
While what mystTiger suggests is a good idea, again, I hope you will induce Min-Ju to tell you in detail what she did in Korea, including showing you her outfits. Perhaps you can combine mystTiger's suggestion with these thoughts. Again making her feel special and not pressuring her, but instead that a show and tell will be fun for both of you. Perhaps she would like to watch your poor cock strain in its cage as she shows and tells. I feel quite strongly that it is best for you both that she share her adventures with you.
 
  • #293
Hope I am not too late for this party lol

Your experience/journey is fucking hot, pretty much my dream future. I would love to have a korean wife who would cuck me. Obviously you have just gotten started but have you considered watching your wife being fucked? If so would you like to see her anal cherry being taken from you? You could look for a long term bull/dom/bf for her. You should consider posting on reddit to look for a bull http://www.reddit.com/r/cuckoldpersonals
 
  • #294
Welcome, Asianboy. I like that you have this fantasy, too; I hope you get to make it happen. The idea of a long term bf/dom is something I think Min-Ju and I would both like. Watching her being fucked would be very hot, and if she wants it, having her make me watch as her anal cherry is taken from me would be intense. Guys seem to really like the idea of doing anal with her, so that may just be a matter of time.

Thanks as always for the suggestions and support. Min-Ju and I have been talking a lot and having fun getting each other horny, talking about her flirting. She does want to flirt more. She likes it but feels shy and inexperienced, and when she feels less confident it gets less fun for her -- which is totally understandable. After all, all this is about helping her feel more confident and sexy and powerful. She has shared with me a lot about how she feels playing and flirting with other guys, including how she felt being a horny slut for the artist guy. I hope I haven't made it sound like she keeps things to herself. Telling me about stuff is maybe her favorite part of all -- she loves watching me strain in my cage and hearing how hot she makes me.

She had a lot of fun at the party meeting new people and being social. That was her priority, as it should be, but she said she was getting wet thinking about the rules that night, too. She says knowing she has to say "yes" to men makes her feel really vulnerable and submissive, which makes her wet, and the whole night she kept wondering if something was going to happen. She did flash one guy, Darren, on purpose, or at least she thinks she did. She let her shirt slide off her shoulder and then leaned over to put her beer on the floor by her feet when she was talking with him. She must have been ******* to him, but was shy about making eye contact. She felt her whole body tingle under his gaze and her nipples hardened. She said it felt wrong to display herself like that but the wrongness felt good. She ****** herself to look up at meet his eyes, but it was just for a moment. He didn't say or do anything so she isn't sure what he saw. My guess is he got an eyefull but was being a gentleman.

So yes, I guess her openness is more passive than active, but that feels right for now. She's not one to go pursue a guy; it's more about her putting herself in situations where things can happen. But she says she does want to try being a bit more forward, more confident. That's why rule #3 both scares and excites her. So we talked about some fun ways for her to do something provocative and take-charge.

That's where I need you guys to help. Min-Ju asked me to suggest three things she can do or say, sexually explicit but not crazy, and she promises to do at least one of them this month. They can be things she can say to another guy to provoke his interest and attention, or situations she can put herself in that are sexual, or things she can say or do to tease and humiliate me. Give me some suggestions. And because I am submissive myself, I promise to include at least one of your ideas in the final list. Nothing too crazy for her, but you can suggest she humiliates me as much as you want.

Some ideas I'm thinking about so far:
1) Go to a bar during happy hour and sit at the bar alone. Stay for an hour, or until 3 guys buy you drinks. If you want to keep things from going to far, you can tell people you are waiting for your boyfriend. I can watch you from across the bar.

2) Go dancing with your friends. Within the first 30 minutes, find a guy you think is cute and ask him to dance. Make a point of feeling happy and free dancing with him. When he asks if you have a boyfriend, tell him you do but your bf doesn't satisfy you -- or tell him you keep me locked in chastity.

3) Create a casual dating profile. We can look through the guys who message you together.

4) Text Darren. Tell him you had fun the other night. Ask him if he liked what he saw of you.
 
  • #295
i love the idea of you watching some dominant guy taking her anal cherry right in front of you... you say she gets a kick out of teasing and humiliating you so I'm sure she would go to town on you in that situation...

it is really hot to read how she tried to ****** herself to the guy darren at the party... i bet he got a good eyeful and went home and pulled himself all night thinking of her... i really like your suggestion of her texting him and being forward; asking him if he got to see her bare breasts when she leant forward... that she hopes he did and that she hopes he like what he saw... unless he is gay if he gets a text like that he will have her at his place within 30 mins.... lol... i think she should send him an open text like you suggest but that should be in addition to the ideas that you are going to put forward...

the other ideas you have suggested are also very hot, sitting in a high end bar alone she is sure to get hit on... and it would be awesome for you to be able to sit on the sideline and watch as she gets hit on and see with your own eyes as things progress... this kind of situation where you watch from the other side of the bar will also help her confidence in letting you watch her when she is with a future lover...

the reply in relation to her boyfriend not satisfying her or that she has you locked in chastity is also brilliant and will definitely make it clear what the situation is... this is also a good way of screening guys... if they are willing to accept the situation for what it is... a married woman who just wants sex... as opposed to a possible gf or wife for them then it will be a lot less drama for you... you don't want to have to deal with some idiot who is gonna try and steal your girl.

anyway... it sounds like you are a pro with getting things going how you want them.... keep it up! (excuse the pun, i know its "hard" for you to keep it up since you are locked up) lol

i will think about some other suggestions for you to put forward tonight... what about the guy michael in her gym/work actually?
 
  • #296
Re: “sexually explicit but not crazy”
1) Re-live your text – pill crush game. Share the texts between Min-Ju and the Korean Artist since she has been home. Have her send texts that promise things she will do when he is in New York.
a. She will spend every night with him. She will pack lingerie to show him in the hotel.
b. Will he buy/or should she use her husband’s credit card to buy a dress, because she won’t bring any besides the one she wore to get to the hotel?
c. She will fuck him in her marriage bed.
d. You will make breakfast for them in the morning and prepare the bedroom for the next night’s activities.
e. She is his “little girl” whom he should treat as his *****. What does he want to do with his little girl *****?
i. Have her be nude or in sexy lingerie for the room service guys?
ii. Tell her to get felt up by a stranger while he watches?
iii. Go to a bar and dancing with him in the least possible clothes he chooses?
f. Tell him that she will give him a used thong to take home as a souvenir.
2) Go to a shopping mall. Wear a short skirt. Go up the escalators in front of guys. Bend over.
3) Go to a shopping mall. Wear non-piercing nipple jewelry and/or nipple shields. Lay out for her a selection of see-through top and bra/no bra combinations with differing transparency. Have her select one to wear. She asks ‘x’ number of men how they like the view. Make a game of choosing or randomly selecting ‘x’.
a. Optional: If she picks ‘well’-that being the one you would have chosen, she wears it once. If she does not select your choice, she wears her choice and then selects again and wears that choice. This continues for a set number to tries or until she selects your choice.
b. More optional: Take the top and bra/no bra combinations to a semi-public place in or close to the mall where she first sees the choices, then makes her selections and then puts it (them) on.
4) Go to a shopping mall. Pick a guy. Tell him she agreed to a dare to have a man touch her intimately. She asks “Would you please sit over there with me and (a) rub and pinch my nipples, or (b) rub my pussy.” Choose ‘a’ or ‘b’ or make it a random coin flip. She continues until she has asked three guys or succeeds. Make a game of choosing her outfit.
5) Ask her which guy she knows she would best like to fuck. If not highly career hazardous she:
a. If he is available: She tells him that he is so sexy that she has dreamed of enjoying sex with him. She smiles and stands there waiting.
b. If he is in a committed relationship: She tells him that he is so sexy that she has dreamed of enjoying sex with him but because he is in a committed relationship she cannot and will not show him by flirting, so she’s telling him because she wanted him to know. She smiles and walks away.
6) Do 5) a. for a hot stranger.
7) Have her describe to you her ‘absolutely best’ seduction scenario. Take elements out of it for her to enact.
8) Sit at a Starbucks where other adults can see her. While reading a book, have her casually play with her nipples and/or have her slowly raise her skirt and slowly open her legs until scary. Then hold that for x minutes. You watch from another table, but not the one with the best view because that's reserved for strangers. Optional: Have her flash you before she's done. She can finish with a down-blouse bend to pick up her purse.
9) Shopping mall or supermarket. Have her wear a strapless top or dress that likes to fall down. Weight its hem if needed. Have her walk around with her hands occupied holding shopping bags and her purse or pushing a shopping cart. Dare her to hold off as long as she can as her outfit slowly slides down.
10) Show her the wildweasel site. Have her select a bikini or bra and panty set. You pick another. Talk about where and when she will wear them. Worse, in addition to the other times you two select, require her to wear them for the Korean artist when he is in town.
 
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KS, As Min-Ju is telling you about her Korea adventures in her own time and ways, are there things you are willing to share with us?
Easy: Describe her outfits. I.e what does the Artist's purple dress look like? What was your reaction? What was hers when she showed you?
Harder: Describe her encounters. What led Min-Ju to decide to blow the karaoke guy? Share the details of how the Artist squeezed in 6 fucks and 1 blow job in about 24 hours. Describe how Min-Ju came up with 9 days additional chastity.
Hardest: Share her emotional state when she was doing these things. Share her and your emotional state while she told you these things.
Extra credit: Share photographs of her in her play outfits.
 
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  • #298
To humiliate you:
How about her putting a bell on your cock cage when you are walking about the house? Perhaps worn with a new set of little hearts boxer briefs with the fly tucked behind your balls.
Then there’s butt plugs. How about one with a tassel?
OK, how about interacting with other people.
1) She tells 2 strangers “Excuse me. I accepted a dare from my husband standing over there in the pink shirt to tell two strangers that he wears a cock cage for which I hold the key. Occasionally I let him out. He wants out now. How many more days do you think I should cage him?”
2) Worse. You two go up to a stranger (pick a tolerant ‘alternate life style’ guy). And you say “Excuse me. My wife instructed me to tell you that I wear a cock cage which she holds the key. Occasionally she lets me out. I want out now. How many more days do you think she should cage me?” Min-Ju thanks him and looks like she is favorably considering his answer. Worse. His answer adds to your cage days.
3) You go to a bar together, sitting at a table. She flirts with other guys while you look morose or sexually excited. You find a guy to introduce him to her as your friend or wife.
4) You go dress shopping at a store that has visible changing rooms. She flashes when changing by opening to door to ask you something or leaving the curtain partially open. You find some guy to tell, “The girl in that dressing room is flashing the room. Thought you would like to watch along with me.” Worse. “My wife… She'd like you to...”
 
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  • #299
Since you said again that you are submissive, here’s an instruction. Take photos of her in her date outfits as I have suggested before, particularly her yellow babydoll with the hem held up. These are for your remembrances portfolio. If at all possible, share some with us. Consider the photographing a game that excites her and humiliates you. Extra credit. Photograph her in her yellow babydoll dress off outfit straddling him pose.
 
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  • #300
Here's one idea for her to use to be outwardly inviting. Have her try on two different, cute outfits (at a store is better than at home) and take a photo of her in each. Then she goes to the mall alone and asks a guy to help her, she's going out dancing this weekend and needs to choose which to wear, which one would he want to see her in. Then coyly ask him, "do *you* like to dance?" For bonus points, she could have a more provocative picture in her phone next to the two outfits (maybe topless) and accidentally scroll too far while he's comparing.

She could also go to a bar/party and compliment a guy on how strong he looks. Ask to feel his bicep... Definitely forward but normal flirting technique girls use.
 
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