My Korean Adventure

[mystTiger]

Wow, that's a pretty hot situation with her displaying herself to the cable guy. The fact that she is doing something like that on her own initiative shows that she is enjoying this whole experience as much as you. I must agree with the others though and feel it could be a good time to bring the rules up in a discussion. I think she may enjoy it more if there are rules she has to follow. I also can't checked out those bikinis that George recommended and they are so hot!! It would be so awesome to see her in some 5 star hotel wearing that by the side of the pool. Take advantage of that opportunity now while it is still summer. Just think of her lounging there beside you in some micro mini bikini. All eyes both male and female will be glued to her. Then sit back and watch when she goes into the pool for a swim in her own for a while before she heads to the hot tub. I'm sure with her sitting in the close proximity a hot tub provides that she will be getting hit on very quickly. Just imagine what may happen there after.

Have you been pleasuring her daily with your mouth now as you should since you have been locked away? Have you and Min-ju talked about how she was teasing you and showing herself to the cable guy? Do you know if she gets turned on by having rules in place that put her in a situation where she must accept being used by someone she doesn't find attractive and she normally wouldn't allow near her? Does that kind of rule trigger something in her submissiveness which arouses her? Is that perhaps why she is now enjoying the advances of the guy Michael at her gym?

Or do you think she would just prefer to pick hot guys that she is into and find opportunities to make something happen with them and other things she does are just to tease you and those around you? I know I keep bringing up friends also, but just imagine that it wasn't the cable guy who was there yesterday, but your best mate, you both sitting in the lounge chatting when she comes out of her room dressed the same way? How would you feel then?

Also, just think of the stories the cable guy would have been telling all his colleagues and friends that day. Just imagine the things he was saying and the words he was using as he described your wife and what she did to those other men.

 

[koreanslut]

I learned a very important, if somewhat obvious, lesson last night: being in chastity is way harder when your woman is right there teasing you. But I'll get to that...

I agree there is a tension between Min-Ju's shyness and her boldness. I'm still learning how this works for her, which is a fun adventure. She has this way -- I'm not sure how fully conscious or deliberate this is on her part -- of walking right on the line between the two. I mean, coming downstairs in her nightie was bold but it wasn't overtly scandalous. The nightie is skimpy but it does cover; I've seen her wear pjs like that at her parents' house. So while she definitely meant that to be flirty, I'm honestly not sure how scandalous she meant to be, which is a fun uncertainty. Another big tension for her is between her adventurousness and her stubborn resistance to structure. I hear what people are saying about the rules, but the thing is if the rules start to feel too much like "rules" to her she will shut down. As an example, I've mentioned how she hates to pack and unpack. If I ask her to unpack or even suggest she does, she'll shut down and get unhappy. I've learned I have to just leave it alone until she's ready. It's part of her reaction to the hyper-structured culture she grew up in. So I think a too-elaborate set of rules, or something written down, might backfire -- at least for now.

But yesterday evening we did have a long, hot and sexy conversation. I told her how hot her little performance in the morning got me, and how hot it got him. She liked hearing how his cock got hard for her and how he kept stealing glances at her, and she really liked hearing how distracted I was all day thinking about it. She seemed a little surprised when I told her just how much of her boobs she was flashing; her face got red as I described it. When I told her I deliberately ducked out to the bathroom to leave them alone, she asked, "Oh? What if he had come into the kitchen to talk with me while you were gone?" She liked hearing that I would have spied on them from the other room, but as she pointed out, "That would mean he would be right there with your wife in the kitchen while I was wearing just a little nightie. What must he think?" "He would think you were unbelievably sexy," I said, and she smiled. She always likes hearing that. I told her I would have felt helpless watching them. "Do you like feeling helpless because of me?" she asked. "Yes," I breathed. "Would you have liked it if he had made a move on you?" I asked, feeling bold. "I don't know." She trembled a little.

That opened up a discussion about the rules, of course. We decided to keep them pretty much the same as when she was in Korea, with a few modifications. She's still to consider herself open and still has to give an enthusiastic "yes." But we agreed she only had to say yes to explicit requests (she can say yes to anything she wants), and if it was someone she really didn't feel safe or comfortable with she could veto. To answer your questions, I'm still not sure how much she likes the idea of being ****** to say "yes" to someone she isn't attracted to. I think it excites her but also scares her. For now, the "boyfriend" route of finding guys she actually likes and feelings some connection to is the best way forward for us. We also agreed that at least once a month she had to do or say something sexually explicit to another man to invite his attention. As a reward, every time she makes another man cum she gets to extend my chastity by a day, and whenever she has a date, it's my duty to take care of any housework or errands needed, including buying her new clothes if she wishes. We discussed whether her telling her friends would be ok, but since that has potentially long term implications we decided to wait and see. She does have the right to humiliate me with her boyfriends as she wishes, including telling them she keeps her husband locked up. She's going back on the pill this month. It's my job to make sure she has a condom in her purse each time she goes out. By the third date, it's their choice (his and hers) whether to keep using them.

After that, we had some pretty hot sex together. Well, she had the sex... But I'll have to write about that later when I have more time.

 

[George]

OK, you know best how to structure your play. Incrementally adding rules that enhance play works too. Perhaps you should take the rules you've written and those proposed by others and edit them up into a 'things to consider' paper. You could show her the paper when she is in a 'let's talk about how we play' mood. It could lead to a very interesting conversation and bring new elements into your playtimes.

Of course, if you shared the paper with us, we would get to vicariously play along.

 

[game4owt]

i can see you forgetting to put condoms in her purse

 

[koreanslut]

Here is the promised update:

Our talk about “rules” got us both pretty hot, and as her period had finally stopped I was eager to get between Min-Ju’s delightful little legs. We were kissing and touching and cuddling on the sofa as we discussed rules and possibilities. She really likes that she can get me riled up so easily just by talking about her being with another guy. We’re kissing and breathing heavy, and as my hands are moving over her body she says something about how “Somebody wants to have sex tonight.” To which I said, “You know I do.” “I do, too, baby,” she breathed, but then she moved her hand down to cup my cage and looked wistful. “But somebody can’t come out to play, can they?” She moved her hand as if to stroke my cock but of course… nothing.

It was a pretty frustrating moment, let me tell you, and it was frustrating for her, too. She really wanted sex with me, and I really wanted it, too. She raised the possibility of unlocking me, which we talked about for a bit, then she offered me a choice. She said, “Tell the truth. Do you want me to unlock you so we can go upstairs together? Or would you rather stay in your cage while I look for satisfaction elsewhere?” Honestly, it was a tough moment. I really wanted to get inside her. I also wanted to give the answer she was looking for, so I tried to read her but she kept her face blank. Finally, I pushed myself to do what was needed, I told her I desperately wanted to lick her pussy but that she should “look for other guys to fuck her.” I said, “You know I want you to enjoy other guys, baby.”

She might have been a little disappointed, I’m not sure. But she said, “Wow, you really like what I did in Korea, don’t you?” “You know I do,” I assured her. Then she asked which thing made me the hottest. The sex, of course, I told her, but beyond that it was the way she got all dolled up for her dates and got all excited for them. She smiled shyly and admitted she liked that, too. She likes feeling pretty for guys. The yellow babydoll especially made me horny, I told her, because it was her first.

At that point Min-Ju smiled and took my hand to lead me into the bedroom. We kissed and made-out some more on the bed before she told me to get naked. She wanted to see my cage, she said. Feeling a little sheepish, I pulled my shirt off, then my pants and underwear. There was a kind of cognitive dissonance for me: on one hand I felt fully aroused, my poor cock was screaming to get out, but on the other hand, he looked so small in the little cage. It felt pretty embarrassing having her watch me, but she definitely liked it.

Then she made me lie down and close my eyes. She hopped out of the bed and I heard her in the closet. She was already in one of her little summer dresses that I was more than happy to lift up so I could lick her pussy, but when she said I could look again, Min-Ju had changed into that yellow babydoll. “Do you like that?” she asked, and of course I loved it. She held her hands behind her back and turned back and forth, looking girlish, and told me this was how she posed for him. She got on the bed, kneeling over my feet, and started to lift the hem of her dress, saying this was how she lifted for him. My darling Min-Ju was recreating that night in front of me, and it was making me incredibly horny. She came closer, and lifted the hem until her pussy lips became visible. So hot! And so wet!!

“Do you like what you see?” she asked, teasing. I nodded frantically. “So did he. So much he threw me down and fucked me, baby.” She looked down into my eyes and added, “He fucked your wife.” “He did,” I breathed. “Of course, you can’t fuck me, can you?”

As she got hornier, Bitchy Min-Ju started showing herself, and it was amazing. By this point she brought her hips over me so she was straddling me, and I couldn’t help myself any more. I scooted down so my mouth was between her legs and started licking her. It was the first time, really, that she’s ever rode my face. She teased me that I couldn’t fuck her, asking why, and making me admit she had made me a cuckold, making me said it out loud. She told me how the dress hadn’t been washed, how it still had the stains from his sperm and her pussy juices. I licked and sucked desperately, and there was no doubt she could feel the intensity of my need to please her.

She held the dress up over her hips so I could get to her pussy easily, but as she was starting to moan and rock in pleasure, at some point the dress fell around my face. I was lost in her body, lost in the moment. And when she started to cum, I felt really proud. I couldn’t fuck her… but at least I could make her feel good. If that makes sense.

It was a sleepless night for me, as I made my obvious but important discovery – the cage was way worse when she was right there. Much of the night was spent humping the mattress and re-living things. In the morning, before she really even woke up, I made a point of diving down between her legs again. After she came she smiled and said, “Wow, somebody is eager.”

Over breakfast I told her how hot it was that she modeled the dress for me, but we agreed that she should only wear it for other men. “I promise,” she said, “I may wear it around you, but I will always be wearing it for other men.” Hoping to make that happen soon, I offered to go have it dry-cleaned for her. “Aww, that’s so thoughtful, baby. Thank you,” she said.

So that's how my day has been. And you can bet I went to the dry cleaners.

 

[George]

You two are doing so well together. Thank you for sharing. I hope she tells you in detail about her Korean adventures before they are overshadowed by new ones.

 

[jwff]

Over breakfast I told her how hot it was that she modeled the dress for me, but we agreed that she should only wear it for other men. “I promise,” she said, “I may wear it around you, but I will always be wearing it for other men.” Hoping to make that happen soon, I offered to go have it dry-cleaned for her. “Aww, that’s so thoughtful, baby. Thank you,” she said.

Here's hoping that it's only the first of many items of clothing to receive such treatment.

 

[George]

Hope you take photos in her outfits. You will really appreciate you did that 10 years from now. Especially her babydoll dress hem lifted up.

 

[koreanslut]

Things have been fairly quiet here. Game4owt is totally right that forgetting the condoms at some point is inevitable; I may even be tempted to "forget" on purpose. But I've been making a big show of slipping a condom into her purse every morning before she goes out. She laughs and gets shy about it, but she likes it, too. Nothing is going to happen any time soon, I don't think, but it's been fun for us how much this makes us both think about sex all the time. Here's a silly example but it was kind of fun: Friday we went out for sushi together. The sake she ordered was called Otokoyama, which according to the menu means "man's mountain." We traded silly jokes about how she needed a "man's mountain," and then when the sake arrived she took a sip, licked her lips, and said, "I do like the taste." She made me blush a little.

I'm also very eager to pick up her dress from the cleaners first thing Monday morning. Dropping it off really brought out the subbie in me, and I made sure to point out the stains to them so they would sure to clean it well.

On the 5th she's been invited to a party. It's a group of new friends she met at one of her art shows earlier this year, so she doesn't know them well but hopes to get to know them better. Who knows, maybe something will happen. I'm not invited.

 

[Custer Laststand]

But I've been making a big show of slipping a condom into her purse every morning before she goes out. She laughs and gets shy about it, but she likes it, too. Nothing is going to happen any time soon, I don't think, but it's been fun for us how much this makes us both think about sex all the time.

Sounds like your sexy wife is temporarily stalled, because she doesn't have any hot prospects ready at hand (or in mind)...

I'm also very eager to pick up her dress from the cleaners first thing Monday morning. Dropping it off really brought out the subbie in me. I made sure to point out the stains to them so they would sure to clean it well.

Very good. That's appropriately-submissive service to be providing for your strongly-sexual wife — although not the only kind, of course...

On the 5th she's been invited to a party. It's a group of new friends she met at one of her art shows earlier this year, so she doesn't know them well but hopes to get to know them better. I'm not invited.

Excellent. There's a strong chance this will solve your wife's problem of not having any prospects ready-at-hand (for the time-being).

You not having been invited was a strong message to both of you. Sort of like a man you don't know cold-calling you at home in the evening, and asking to speak with your wife...

 

[koreanslut]

Thanks, Custer. Things do seem a bit stalled but hopefully not for too long. Not being invited to the party does seem significant. We do almost everything together, so it's pretty unusual that she's going alone, although I haven't met this new friends so it may be she's just branching out a little.

Last night I spent some time between Min-Ju's legs, which no doubt had something to do with the way this morning I woke up crazy horny from a dream in which I was playing host to another guy while we waited for my wife to come home. Nothing was ever quite said in the dream but it was clear he was there to fuck her. I ended up waking up pretty early and, partly to distract myself, I went out to the dry cleaners to pick up her dress. It's now waiting for her at the front of her closet with a little note from me saying I got it all nice and clean for her.

I'm a little embarrassed how pleased I was when Min-Ju kissed me on the cheek on her way out the door this morning and thanked me for taking such good care of her.

 

[minos_dis_crete]

I just want to thank you for posting. This is an exceptional thread. I couldn't stop reading from page 1 til now, hearing about the devilish games your wife has played with you, even while she submitted to other men. The lingerie shopping trip and her outing you to her friends were both especially sexy. I bet you're dying to visit her family again and see how those girls treat you now that they know you're her caged little cuckold. I bet they'll treat you like 'one of the girls' now.

You've taken to your sub role really well... have you always wished for it, or does she bring it out in you?

Has she considered setting up a Tinder account to find some men to flirt with? It would help keep things moving if she at least had some guys to text dirty things with. Her inner slut needs an outlet and the presence of a/some alpha male or she's likely going to grow bored and forget the excitement of all this.

In any case, have fun getting her ready for that party. Will her rules still be in effect?

 

[koreanslut]

Thanks for your encouragement, Minos. I'm glad you enjoy hearing about my crazy adventure. Since I first met Min-Ju, I felt really protective and nurturing toward her, but I'm surprised by my submissiveness. I guess she brings it out in me. The longer she has me caged the more I want to be her caged little cuckold. Since this is your first post, if I may ask, would she make you feel submissive, too, or are you the kind of guy who would rather get inside my Min-Ju and enjoy what I can't have?

I don't know whether she has considered setting up a Tinder account. She may already have one. Her phone beeps from a lot of text messages, but I'm not supposed to ask who it is. Since you suggest it, I'll ask her to consider it. My guess though is she might feel too overwhelmed by pushy guys.

I'm excited for the party. Hope she is, too. I got her a bright red high-waisted skirt to wear as a present. And yes, the new rules will be in effect.

 

[George]

To my mind serving Min-Ju would be a great pleasure, but can't hold a candle to being in Min-Ju. But you alternately get to do both, the best of all worlds.
How short is the skirt? And what do you want her to wear under it?
Is it unusual for you to not be invited to these kinds of events? Do you take that as Min-Ju wanting to play? Or was the non-invite something outside her control?

 

[koreanslut]

I'm not sure how short it is, actually. I haven't seen it on her yet. Probably mid-thigh or lower actually. But when we've played in the past we would talk about red as the color she wears when she's looking for other guys, so I hope the skirt gets her feeling flirty.

Oh, and the party is Wednesday night, which is the 6th I guess. I'm bad with dates. Sorry about that.

 

[mystTiger]

Does the fact that she gets lots of text messages on her phone make you jealous? do you wonder if she is flirting/sexting with the guy in korea still? do you think she will share with you if she is flirting with men by text?

what type of party is she going to? do you know anything about the new group of friends? will you be home and helping her prepare for her night out? helping her bathe, painting her nails etc or will she do those things alone and leave you wondering about her appearance until she gets home?

can't wait for the next development!

 

[minos_dis_crete]

I'm surprised by my submissiveness. I guess she brings it out in me. The longer she has me caged the more I want to be her caged little cuckold. Since this is your first post, if I may ask, would she make you feel submissive, too, or are you the kind of guy who would rather get inside my Min-Ju and enjoy what I can't have?

I'm the kind of guy who would rather enjoy what you can't have, as you eloquently put it. I think it's very hot what you and she are playing at, and the love that you obviously share to be able to explore. But I'd want her lust, myself. Being the guy who bought her a dress is more my style. It's why I'm on this site, because I find it so exciting to be the alpha in exactly the sort of dynamic you are figuring out.

As for tinder and all the rest, it was just an idea. I'm sure she doesn't need a service to find willing men for flirting, but if you're worried about the slow return to normalcy because opportunities for her to meet guys aren't as frequent or easy now that she's home, it might help bridge the transition without the question of whether to involve her friends. I'm sure you'll both figure out what works for you.

I look forward to reading about the party, her reaction to your shopping, and whether anyone at the party is forward enough to make those rules count.

Godspeed, my new friend.

 

[koreanslut]

It's good to know there are more alphas following the thread, men who have insight into how to make sure Min-Ju gets the hard fucking she needs and who would enjoy her sweet body.

The constant beeps of her phone do tweak me a little sometimes, but the messages are probably all innocent: family, friends, and work stuff. She's said that she only talked with the artist guy a couple times since, but I do wonder. She has to tell me about any real developments or activities, but it is hot to think she might be chatting up some guy I don't know about behind my back.

As for her getting ready, it's just a party so she will be getting herself ready at home. I've offered to make dinner, and I'll see her before she goes. And I'll have a chance to give her condoms. I showed her the skirt and she likes it. It's sweet to hear her say thank you.

The friends are people she met a while ago at a student art show where she showed some of her stuff. So they are part of her arts friends but she doesn't know this group well. I haven't met them. It's mostly this one girl who invited her, but she's mentioned a couple guys too.

 

[George]

Has Min-Ju started her flirting? Did she flirt at the sushi restaurant? How actively is she enacting her 'open' rules? Are you going to suggest she go to the party pantieless? Some day you should put two or three condoms in her purse. And of, course for perhaps a expected date day, none. I assume you put the condom on top of the other things. It will be fun when someday a girlfriend asks why do you have a condom in your purse?

 

[George]

You are responsible for putting a condom into her purse--I assume every day she goes out.
Do you want to be equivalently responsible for her daily birth control pills. You could hold her pills and give her one with a glass of water when you remember.