want virgin gf to date others

[Daniel97]

Not much to update about jen and aaron.
I asked jen for date on Saturday and she said ok.

Today I got call from an old high school friend who asked me if everything was ok between me and jen as jen relationship status is not its complicated. I told him that we were having a rough patch and we will get through it. He wished me luck and hoped I could patch things up with jen.

For those who are wondering, I went through jen profile and removed anything that showed we are a couple.

 

[Daniel97]

I'm not generally a doom and gloom guy. But it appears to me that soon it will become unlikely you will have Jen as a gf or future wife. The Aaron-Jen relationship will soon be much stronger that your relationship. Jen will be overwhelmed with emotions. Women want to bond with the man who takes their virginity. She will have experiences and emotions with Aaron she cannot comfortablely or fully share with you. Thus the disengagement begins.

If you want to play this way, I suggest you:
1. Fomally commit to Jen to marry her. Ask her to marry you at a time you both feel is best. Give her a promise ring at minimum.
2. Ramp up the sex between you two. You should be ahead or of at least quickly catch up with what Aaron does. You should get her bra off this weekend and your hand between her thieghs. Rubbing her to orgasam would be even better.
3. You should often remind her that the Aaron GAME is a game you two play together. A game that will improve your future marriage, and give you two something to laugh about when the kids are in bed. You should make it clear that you intend to do with her what Aaron does with her.
4. You should tell her about your conversation with Aaron, including that he expects, if things continue, he wil be bedding her.
5. You need to step up your game. You need to start exercising, start being more assertive, start being more manly in Jen's eyes. You need to plan with her getting a car you both can share.

Maybe then you can keep her.

hi George thanks for your comment.

1. i dont want to give jen a promise ring, ring coukd effect jen decision of dating aaron and can make her feel guilty and she might stop seeing aaron and it will also raise questions and doubt from aaron seeing ring in jen's fingers.

2. Right now i am steps ahead of aaron. i dont want to ramp up sex between us two because its will make me very excited, jealous and humiliated if aaron sees her naked first.

3 & 4. i can try to work on it.

5. i am very lazy i have tried joining a gym on multiple occasion and once even for one month continously but then i got bored and did not feel like going there. i am more of indoor kind of guy instead of going out to exercise. and my body does not gain weight no matter what diet i use or how hard i exercise.

i know others thinks i will lose jen but our relationship is stronger than most people think. we are not just bf/gf we are best friends and lovers.

 

[jwff]

Today I got call from an old high school friend who asked me if everything was ok between me and jen as jen relationship status is not its complicated. I told him that we were having a rough patch and we will get through it. He wished me luck and hoped I could patch things up with jen.

Here's an interesting idea for an activity the two of you might try: coming up with the 'standard' story - that is the story you'll give to others about your relationship status while Aaron is in the picture. There's no need for you both to give precisely the same picture. You might strike this upbeat tone about having a rough patch; Jen might tell her friends that she's looking for someone who's a little more masculine and who'll take the initiative...

For those who are wondering, I went through jen profile and removed anything that showed we are a couple.

You mean on Facebook and the like? It makes sense, but make sure Jen understands what you're doing and why, or she might get the wrong impression!

 

[Daniel97]

You mean on Facebook and the like? It makes sense, but make sure Jen understands what you're doing and why, or she might get the wrong impression!

sorry if i was not clear but i made this changes with jen in her presence. we made this change so it wont cause any confusion/suspicion to aaron and other people who know us.

 

[SquirmingSub]

Daniel - hopefully you have though this all out and hopefully you and Jen see everyone in the same manner. If not, your fantasy may become a nightmare.

 

[George]

Daniel, Thank you for replying to my post.
I think you should do things to cement your relationship with Jen.
Buy her a gift to give to her Saturday night. It should be personal that only you knowing her so well could pick out. It should be a personal, just for her, item, such as a piece of jewelry or that special do-dad she's always wanted. It could be Aaron game related, such as sexy panties, if the vibes are right for that. If the vibes are not right, don't give her a 'game advancing' gift but something lovingly else. Imagine your girl friend putting on the panties you bought her because she thinks this is the date when Aaron will take them off. You will be participating through your gift.
Whatever you give her it must be "I love you. Thanks for playing with me." special.
I also think you should do things that bind you two more as a couple. Talk about your future married life together. Imagine with her what type of home you will live in. Talk to her about buying a car you two will share. Talk about you two eventually getting a joint apartment, with other roommates or not. Remind her by your actions and words that you two are permanent.
Do not get jealous, winny, or needy. You are to support and appreciate what she is doing for you.

 

[tegelad]

I agree with George. What you have at your point in life is really really special. To be with the one you love from such and early love adds a value to the relationship that you can only have once in your life. If you get things cemented fantastically between the two of you, and you can add Aaron on you can hit the cuckold home run ...

Communication and physical follow through (not sexual mind you) is key at this stage with women .... you need to show her you will protect her, love her, and always standby her ... and then add the spice of .... cuckolding aspects you want ... it is a fine balance, but keep us updated on your progress!

Daniel, Thank you for replying to my post.
I think you should do things to cement your relationship with Jen.
Buy her a gift to give to her Saturday night. It should be personal that only you knowing her so well could pick out. It should be a personal, just for her, item, such as a piece of jewelry or that special do-dad she's always wanted. It could be Aaron game related, such as sexy panties, if the vibes are right for that. If the vibes are not right, don't give her a 'game advancing' gift but something lovingly else. Imagine your girl friend putting on the panties you bought her because she thinks this is the date when Aaron will take them off. You will be participating through your gift.
Whatever you give her it must be "I love you. Thanks for playing with me." special.
I also think you should do things that bind you two more as a couple. Talk about your future married life together. Imagine with her what type of home you will live in. Talk to her about buying a car you two will share. Talk about you two eventually getting a joint apartment, with other roommates or not. Remind her by your actions and words that you two are permanent.
Do not get jealous, winny, or needy. You are to support and appreciate what she is doing for you.

 

[Saraha]

From Knees to belly button = belongs to Jen's future husband (whoever that may turn out to be).
From Head to belly button = adventure playground for her boyfriends (Daniel, Aaron and others).

Daniel is frontrunner to be Jen's future husband, but in order for his fantasy to be fulfilled EXACTLY as he has wished for it to be, then the Love Game is about Aaron (or some other stud) taking Jen's virginity off her, by superior seduction skills.

We all know that Daniel is taking a big risk that Jen may fall head over heels with the man who fucks her first, and therefore Daniel would be ****** to find SOMEONE ELSE to marry ................

But Daniel is "running the ship", it is his dream, his fantasy, and Jen is "buying into" having a second boyfriend while at College in another town, so she won't be lonely.

A woman can find it hard to split her love between two men at the same time, so Daniel has been removing any obstacles, so Jen does not have to build up guilt over where her loyalties lie.

Daniel is playing a game that could give him cuckold emotions if Jen and Aaron become lovers - but I think Aaron has been playing many scenaros in his mind, and is now ready for worst case disasters.

It is possible that Jen may grow to love Daniel even more than she does, because the extra loving is a gift that he is giving Jen to ramp up her happiness in life. By not showing the usual jealous streaks/anger of young men, Jen gets the chance to kiss other guys and not have to feel she is cheating on any particular guy.

Jen has told Aaron that she has permission to date other guys during College, so she can't be exclusively his - Aaron is fore-warned not to get his hopes up about it leading to marriage.

Stranger things have happened - Aaron's old flame may come back looking for him again if "long distance" does not yield what she wants with other guys.

:yumyum:

 

[Daniel97]

It’s getting late so I will give a quick update about jen and aaron date

Today jen went on date with aaron and they came very late at about midnight. I talked with jen after that I asked how was her date with aaron, she told me she had a good date and had lot of fun. They went to blowing alley (jen love blowing she always wins with me) jen told me she won the first match and aaron won the second match and asked for a kiss as reward. They shared their first real kiss on lips.

Afterwards they had lunch and then drove around for some more and then he dropped her to her room and they kissed second time. I asked her how was the kisses, jen asked me if I really wanted to know the details and won’t get angry and jealous. I assured her I wont get angry and would love her know matter what and want her to have freedom to do anything without worrying about me.

She told me first kiss was a quick kiss on lips but second kiss was bit hotter. She told me she was expecting a quick kiss but suddenly kiss turned into full French kiss and they kissed for a very long time. I asked her where were their hands, she told me is too embarrassed and can talk about it.i really want to get details but decided against it I will try to get more details on tomorrow’s date.

I reminded her about our date and told each other 'I love you' and ended the call.

 

[jwff]

Sounds like things are progressing smoothly. Thanks for sharing, and have fun with Jen tomorrow.

 

[SquirmingSub]

Daniel - Indeed sounds like positive progress and that everything seems to be moving forward smoothly. Enjoy the journey

 

[Daniel97]

Today I went on date with jen and we had lot of fun. I spent whole day with her. After having lunch we went to her room to talk and make out. After making out we were cuddling in her bed. I asked her how does she feel about dating guy other than me. She told me it was different, aaron is different then me. I asked her how. She told me aaron is more outgoing, sporty and seems to know this city better than us so he know many places that we don’t know and he have a car so its make travel faster.

Jen must have realized she was only talking good thing about aaron she told me I know more about jen and know everything about her what she likes and dislike, and she can talk about anything freely with me. I told her its ok she doesn’t need to defend me she can talk about aaron and we should talk today as best friends instead of boyfriend-girlfriend and she can tell me every thing. She looked at me reading my face and told me ok.

I said lets talk about aaron do you think you will continue to date him whole month. She told me she doesn’t know aaron that well she have just know him for less than a week but he is nice, easygoing and romantic guy and she likes his company and he is definitely boyfriend material and being tall and handsome and having nice body does not hurt. She blushed as she realised what she have just said. I said its ok she can be honest with me. I would love to know more about her and aaron relationship.

Suddenly she turned the table on me and started asking me questions. She asked me why do I want her to date aaron. I told her its kind of hard to explain but it excite me to know that she is dating other guys and I don’t want her to be tied to me for whole college life and I want her to enjoy her college life and have fun. I asked her if she read the article about hotwife and cuckolding that I sent her. She told me she did read them but she dies not understand how can a guy who love his gf/wife willingly agree to her dating others. I told her every one have different fantasy and this is mine.

Jen asked me if I want to see her have sex with aaron. I told her it depends on her but I fantasy is for her to date other guy and have relationship with him. She asked me how far does I want to take my fantasy we haven’t had sex yet with each other. I told her I don’t want her to do anything for me I want her to do it on her free will if she likes a guy and think she is ready than she can take take her relationship with her bf further. She then looked at me and told me she is ready with me but neither of us made a move after a awkward silence I hugged jen and kissed her lightly and lips and told her love her and I wamt us to be married and our love is mire than physical relationship and I don’t want jen to slow down because of me.

After some time I asked jen what have she told Aaron. She told him she is going to have talk with her boyfriend she is not going to lie to him about it. I asked if aaron was ok with it. She told me he wasn’t completely ok but he have agreed that that they have just started going out and they are not serious yet. She also said she almost forgot to tell me something, aaron have asked jen to exclusively spent time with him next weekend because he wont be able to see her on thanksgiving. I told her its ok since we will be together on thanksgiving.

I asked her yesterday she mentioned after date she had a passionate kiss with aaron. Jen become nervous and started playing with her hands. I told her not be nervous and think of me as friend instead of boyfriend. She asked me if I was sure if I want to know details. I assured her I was ok with it. She told me after they reached the parking he leaned to kiss her and they kissed for few second and suddenly he started kissing her again and put his hand on back of her head and start opening his mouth before she know it they were kissing and his other hand was on her right breast and she had her hand wrapped around him. Jen paused for bit and I could see that her face was red. I was hard at her reaction and detail about the kiss. I moved her hand on top of my jeans to show her how hard I was. She was surprised and I started to rub her hand on my bulge and asked her to continue, now jen was rubbing it herself. I told her to continue she told me she was not thinking straight at that moment and she did not even noted when aaron moved his hand she was feeling strange. After kissing for long time she realised the strange feeling in her boobs and realized that aaron was touching her. Now I was about to come and asked her if she was was planning to kiss him again like this but before she could answer I cam on my underwear and jen was surprised by sudden jerking of my penis and moved her hand away. I looked at jen and can see that she was also excited. I asked her what’s was her answer she said maybe she will have to do it again since they have already done it once and she like the kiss it was the best kiss she ever had. I asked her “best?” she said she meant one of the best and gave me a hot kiss.

Afterwards I went to wash my self and then we went fir dinner. Now I am on my way back to my room.
Tomorrow jen is planning to go with her friends and I am going with my roommate if aaron also comes I will talk to him about jen.

i know some people will think its stupidity that i did not act on having sex with jen when she said she was ready, but an important part of my fantasy is lossing her virginity to other guy.

 

[SquirmingSub]

Daniel - great update and good to read that you and Jen are communicating on such an open and directly honest level. Good to read that Jen said that she was ready for you yet does sounds like Jen understands your fantasy and continues to be open to the various possibilities. Looking forward to reading more as your journey continues.

 

[jwff]

A stunning update on all accounts - it's excellent that you're both communicating honestly about your desires. If you continue along these lines, I think that you'll be on very good footing as you continue with the cuckold play.

I said lets talk about aaron do you think you will continue to date him whole month. She told me she doesn’t know aaron that well she have just know him for less than a week but he is nice, easygoing and romantic guy and she likes his company and he is definitely boyfriend material and being tall and handsome and having nice body does not hurt.

I don't think you have to worry about her giving up now, Daniel...

She also said she almost forgot to tell me something, aaron have asked jen to exclusively spent time with him next weekend because he wont be able to see her on thanksgiving. I told her its ok since we will be together on thanksgiving.

Sounds like a date! Consider whether there's anything that you can do to make the pair's time together more enjoyable.

i know some people will think its stupidity that i did not act on having sex with jen when she said she was ready, but an important part of my fantasy is lossing her virginity to other guy.

Your fantasy might be realized sooner come than you think; Jen's admission to you makes it clear that it wasn't her hold the two of you back. Now that she's 'given you your chance', she might be increasingly open to look elsewhere for satisfaction.

***

As always, thanks for the detailed update. We're all looking forward to seeing what happens next.

 

[George]

Great update. The more details the better we can respond.
I think you should add some more actions to your words with Jen. She rubbed you to orgasm. Perhaps you should return the favor. Again consider a gift, either something that shows your love for her--she is concerned about you falling out of love, or a play thing for her next weekend dating with Aaron, most likely clothes or lingerie.
I would not be surprised if Aaron gets her bra off next weekend.

Instead of telling Jen to treat you like a friend when talking about Aaron, I think it will be better if you tell her to treat you as a life partner, her future husband, who wants to know all about her thoughts and feelings, and whom she can share anything knowing you are always there for her. You are much more than a 'friend'.

I think you should overtly thank Jen for dating Aaron. And thank her for sharing with you. Yes, she should do with Aaron what feels good for her, without concern for you. But you are thankful for whatever she does and whatever she shares because she is doing these things for you. She needs 'doing for you' to allow her to partly set aside her discomfort and guilt in not being 'faithful' to you. Your cumming due to the excitement of her telling you of her intimacy with Aaron tells her how much you get off from her fulfilling your fantasy. You need to make this about her and about 'us' as well as about you. I think you should add game elements to your joint adventure together. That's why I suggest gifts. You could also use dares: "I dare you to take your top and bra off the next time you make out with Aaron and do more on Saturday while making out with Aaron again." And anticipations: "Aaron tells me he expects to fuck you soon."

 

[Daniel97]

Yesterday I went to my friends and roommate to hang out and met aaron. He told me he is having great time with jen, though her ex bf is causing few problems. I asked him what problem he told me it was kind of complicated. I told him he can tell me, i am both his and jen friend and can try to help him. He told me that her ex bf is still in picture and is not ex bf yet and told me not to tell other guys it will be very awkward for him.

He told me a girl asked him for date on Saturday but he rejected it because he thought he will go on date with jen but jen inform him she was going on date with her 'non ex bf'. He told me even though jen warned him about this in starting he don’t want her to date others. I told him that they have just started their relationship and maybe she will broke up with her other bf once he and jen start dating exclusively. He nodded and asked if i am really not gay, i told him i am not and why he think so. He told me none of his straight friends ask him details like this they are more interested in just knowing what she do in bed. I asked him what she do in bed he said they have just started dating. I asked him so you two have not even kissed, he told me he is not that slow he is going in good pace and he is in second base 2nd weeks 2nd base.

After reaching home I cant stop thinking about his 2nd week 2nd base dialog. I keeping think what will they do on third and forth week, will he reach 3rd base this week Aaron seems to think so.


Today was a slow day as every monday is too long classes and i am too tired. Jen told me she hung out with aaron during all the classes and lunch and now all her friends and people in college know that she and aaron is dating. She asked me what should we do about emily since emily thinks we are dating others and jen is dating aaron and i wont be able to come to her room or if emily saw us together it will be problem. I told her i dont care what emily thinks, she said if emily tell others i am dating two guys It will be embarrassing. I told her many girls do that its nothing new she just got angry and said maybe i should date only one guy. I said ok tell emily we are still friends and working on our relationship and she should not tell other about me because you are not sure if u will get together with me but want me as friend.

Looks like Aaron is complete opposite of me regarding his girls, he does not want anyone to date HIS GIRL even when he have just started dating.

Is there any other guy whos gf lost her virginity to other guy while you were dating her?.

 

[George]

Daniel,
Thank you for your post.
3rd and 4th week: If you assure Jen it’s what you want I think he will be in her pants right after Thanksgiving.
GF lost their virginity to another guy: I don’t know of a specific example, but it must happen. All it takes is a sexy guy, some peer pressure, maybe some booze or…, and an opportunity, and maybe some “I’ll show him” anger.

We can better comment if we understand you more. So, some questions.
How much time, cost and effort does it take for you to go from your apartment to Jen’s?
How much do your circumstances limit opportunities to be with Jen?

Unidentifiable photos of you and Jen, and Aaron would help.

What is your overall plan regarding Jen and your sexual relations with her?
Do you want a cuckold marriage? Do you want a hotwife?
Is Jen as your life partner your only plan for the future? What would you do without her?
Have you ejaculated in front of Jen before? Has she given you a hand job before? Anything more?
Have you ever given Jen an orgasm?

What is your overall plan in pushing Jen to fulfill your current cuckold fantasy?
Do you expect the Aaron-Jen relationship to be short term? You did mention a one-month trial. Do you want the trial extended and no longer a trial?
Do you expect Jen to tell Aaron in a few weeks that she decided to be exclusive to her boyfriend and end the Aaron-Jen relationship?
Are you prepared for or desirous of Jen having an ongoing fuckbuddy relationship with Aaron?
What rights to Jen would you want Aaron to have in the future?
Are you prepared for Jen to be exclusive with Aaron, reducing you to friend only status, for some unknown period? Perhaps forever?

Most high school couples eventually break up when they go to different colleges. Getting Jen to date Aaron adds to that risk. How much risk of losing Jen to Aaron or a future Aaron are you willing to accept?

Do you two intend to go to the same college next year or next after that?

Is Jen a submissive?
Are you a submissive?
You say you are a beta. Yet you are quickly getting your way with Jen regarding your fantasy. So when motivated, you can be an alpha. If you want to keep Jen, you need to be alpha with Jen more often. Then you can later offer her a choice, a kind considerate mostly beta husband except an alpha when it counts who wants her to experience and enjoy true alpha dominate men. You provide a kind safe place, yet she can play with ‘real’ men.

To what degree do you dominate Jen? It appears obvious that Aaron can dominate Jen.

To what degree is Jen playing with Aaron as an act of love toward you?
To what degree are other rationales and drivers for Jen in play?
Does she now want this adventure?

Aside from deceiving Aaron, what are Jen’s greatest concerns or fears?

Jen has told you so far: 1. Aaron is spending most time with Jen; in class, at lunch, after class, on dates, and now the entire weekend. 2. Jen finds him interesting, romantic, sexy, and fun. Other girls like him for her. 3. Aaron is good looking, has a good body, and is a better kisser than you. 4. Aaron is more assertive, more world-wise, more confident, more exciting, better positioned for dates having a car, knows the city better, and provides more novel experiences than you. 5. Aaron got her so hot and bothered by sexy kissing that she didn’t notice him holding her breasts. 6. When she did notice, she kept on kissing. Breast holding used to be for you alone. 7. Jen admitted that breast holding now is the starting point for Aaron. How do you feel about these Jen admissions?

What are you going to do to step up your game given Jen’s admissions regarding Aaron?

Jen said ‘she is ready’. She was hot and bothered with Aaron on Friday and with you on Saturday.
Has she talked with you more about being conflicted by being hot and bothered by two different boy friends?
When she masturbated after you left Saturday was she primarily thinking of Aaron or you?

 

[jwff]

Yesterday I went to my friends and roommate to hang out and met aaron. He told me he is having great time with jen, though her ex bf is causing few problems. I asked him what problem he told me it was kind of complicated. I told him he can tell me, i am both his and jen friend and can try to help him. He told me that her ex bf is still in picture and is not ex bf yet and told me not to tell other guys it will be very awkward for him.

He told me a girl asked him for date on Saturday but he rejected it because he thought he will go on date with jen but jen inform him she was going on date with her 'non ex bf'. He told me even though jen warned him about this in starting he don’t want her to date others. I told him that they have just started their relationship and maybe she will broke up with her other bf once he and jen start dating exclusively...

You and Jen might be able to sidestep this anxiety if she emphasizes what she does for Aaron that she won't do for her 'not yet ex bf'; after all, if she does go all the way with him, this will be technically true...

Alternatively, she could tell Aaron that she's just stringing you along, because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings, but that she's not 'serious' with you like she is with Aaron. If you are both up for it, she might even rub a little bit of humiliation in with it - she's dating Aaron because she's looking for all the things she 'can't' get from you...

Today was a slow day as every monday is too long classes and i am too tired. Jen told me she hung out with aaron during all the classes and lunch and now all her friends and people in college know that she and aaron is dating. She asked me what should we do about emily since emily thinks we are dating others and jen is dating aaron and i wont be able to come to her room or if emily saw us together it will be problem. I told her i dont care what emily thinks, she said if emily tell others i am dating two guys It will be embarrassing. I told her many girls do that its nothing new she just got angry and said maybe i should date only one guy. I said ok tell emily we are still friends and working on our relationship and she should not tell other about me because you are not sure if u will get together with me but want me as friend.

Hmm, this is a difficult situation. I can think of four potential courses of action; you could pursue just one, or all.

1) Simply have Jen come to your place more often when the two of you hook up.

2) Meet up in public, some distance from her dorm,

3) Correspond more by email and phone. This might be good to add anyway - some people find it easier to express sexual ideas or thoughts in writing then they do in person. If you'd like Jen to tease you about her relationship with Aaron, this might be a good way to have it happen. She could, if she's open to the idea, send you texts /selfies taken by the pair (imagine getting a text / selfie from her right before she loses her virginity to Aaron!)

4) Simply have Jen downplay the issue if it ever arises with Emily or others. For example, she could pre-empt any suspicion by informing her friends that she doesn't think that you're 'boyfriend material', or perhaps mentioning that you haven't lived up to her sexual expectations. This route would depend both on Jen's openness to the concept, and your own interest/tolerance for humiliation.

Is there any other guy whos gf lost her virginity to other guy while you were dating her?.

There might be, but most users here seem to discover their cuckold side at a much later point in their lives. Still, imagine many of them would, in hindsight, have loved to be in your shoes.

 

[Saraha]

Daniel, it might be a good idea to be honest with Jen - that she can have sex with Aaron and even fall in love with him, as long as it does not break you and her up.

(it could be good for Jen to love two men at once, and will emotionally prepare her for a cuckold marriage later on).

Also suggest that Jen can date other guys if she ever wants to over the time she is at College.

Suggest to Jen that next time Aaron french-kisses her and touches her breasts, that she says to him, "you can take my bra off and kiss my breasts if you want to". (second base).

Suggest to Jen that if Aaron gets bold and rubs her between the legs, she should reach over and feel/rub his penis through his clothes like you got her to do to you. (third base).

If Aaron pulls off Jen's panties, she should let him do anything he wants to her (your fantasy fulfilled).

Rubbing Jen's pussy will turn her on so strongly, that she won't want to stop Aaron "going all the way with her".

(Jen has admitted she is ready for sex with you - and she did ask if you wanted her to have sex with Aaron.)

Jen should tell Aaron that she does not mind if he occasionally dates another girlfriend. (this allows an escape route for Jen if Aaron becomes too possessive of her, and pressures her to dump (you) her current boyfriend.

Have a discussion about how Jen can avoid pregnancy if she does start having sex with you and Aaron or others while she is at College.

Talk to Aaron about whether he had a sexual relationship with his ex-girlfriend, and how he handled contraception. (this could help you to feel good about Aaron fucking Jen several times a week without her getting preggy).

I agree with others that you could begin meeting Jen away from her room, so she is not under constant pressure to hide your identity (from Aaron).

If you keep going to Jen's room, Aaron will eventually find out you have been tricking him - he could throw an unpleasant tantrum, and throw a bucket of cow shit over your face.

Jen would have to keep going to the same classes as Aaron, but not being able to sit with him or kiss Aaron anymore. That could be stressful for her.

I am predicting that Aaron will try hard to find out who you are - to see what he is up against.

If Aaron is fucking Jen, then he won't want to share her with you anymore.

:flash::flash::flash::call::love:

 

[Saraha]

You should suggest to Aaron that he looks at dating Jen long-term, and accepts that she must complete her education before she can commit herself to marriage (with anyone).