want virgin gf to date others

[Daniel97]

On our daily call jen and I discussed about our day. Jen told me she told aaron about her bf that she and her bf are rethinking their relationship and I want her to date other guy and experience college life. she doesn’t want to deceive aaron and wanted to let him know she is not looking for serious relationship so there might not be any future between them. She told me aaron appeared bit sad hearing it but he told her he understands her and he has just gotten out of 1.5 years relationship and does not know if he is ready for serious relationship yet. And he have no problem dating Jen and should see how their relationship goes.

Jen told me since aaron and jen have most of the classes together they sit together and had lunch together and during classes lot of times aaron would touch and hold her hand. Jen's friends asked her if she was dating aaron, she told them she have gone out on one date and right now they haven’t decided if they are dating or now. Her friend asked her what happened to her old boyfriend (me), she told them that we are kind of rethinking our relationship and have decided to give our relationship a break and try to date other people. Then they talked about aaron and asked her what happened on her date and aaron is handsome guy and they look great together and other girls talk etc.

Among jens friend only Emily know me, I haven’t met with her other friends. I asked her what have she told Emily, jen told me that she told her the same things since she did not want different stories circulating different story. I asked her what was her reaction, jen told me she is sad about us. I told her she doesn’t need to lie for Emily because I know Emily hate me and I also don’t like her. She told me I should not hate her she would be bridesmaid at our wedding, before I could even reply she asked me if I still love her. I told her I love her very much and there is nothing that can change it and if she want we can get married tonight or tomorrow. She laughed and the we started talking about our past, present and future and it got very emotional.

She asked me if I love her why do I want to see her date aaron, I told her maybe I won’t be able to explain her because I don’t understand myself but I cant get image of her dating other guy out of my head. And no matter what happens I will always love her and she should enjoy dating aaron without thinking about me or feeling any guilt about me. And she should not hold anything back while dating aaron. She was little surprised and said ok maybe dating aaron she will know where are relationship will lead. Then I lead our conversation to less emotional path and talked about some funny incident and told her about my day.

Later I asked her what she think about aaron and does she want to date other guys. She told me she does not want to date others guy aaron is fine. She told me she likes aaron as a friend right now and he is funny and easygoing, he is a nice guy and she doesn’t feel weird when she was on date with him. Though she is little worried about his car, it’s a muscle car and is too fast and scary at first but she like riding in it. I asked her have aaron asked to be her bf or have he asked for another date. She told me he hasn’t asked yet but today they spend almost all the time together kind of like a couple. I asked if he tried to kiss her again she told me he didn’t but she kissed him on his cheek just like yesterday after the walked her to her room.

So this is the update for today. Anyways for the people who are wondering we talk each day for almost an hour and chat for even longer. And those who were asking if I was also virgin and how far are jen and my sexual relationship. We both are virgin and I have never seen jen naked except when we were children. I have played with her breast and touched her ass through panties and bra nothing more. Reason for us unable to go to next base might be my lack of confidence and my fantasy and jen shyness. Maybe she need someone who is confident and will to take initiative which i hope aaron will.

 

[jwff]

She asked me if I love her why do I want to see her date aaron, I told her maybe I won’t be able to explain her because I don’t understand myself but I cant get image of her dating other guy out of my head. And no matter what happens I will always love her and she should enjoy dating aaron without thinking about me or feeling any guilt about me. And she should not hold anything back while dating aaron. She was little surprised and said ok maybe dating aaron she will know where are relationship will lead. Then I lead our conversation to less emotional path and talked about some funny incident and told her about my day.

Very good. You should always make sure to let your GF know that you'll support her no matter what.

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Just out of curiosity, what part of Cuckoldry most appeals to you? Are you looking for a 'straight' cuckold relationship, or do elements of female domination and humiliation play appeal to you? Would you have preferred to hear Jen say that she told Emily that she's taking a break because you failed to satisfy her, sexually?

Additionally, do you view cuckolding as a voyeuristic exercise, or an intellectual pursuit? That is to say, is your endgame to be able to witness Jen together with her lover? Or are you more turned on by feelings of jealousy and the knowledge that Jen is cultivating a relationship separate from you?

 

[Daniel97]

jwff - i am into straight cuckolding with bit of humiliation.
instead of seeing jen i am more into feeling of jealous and knowledge of jen with other guy instead of seeing her having sex it doesn't have to be in front of me. knowing about her relationship with other guys is enough for me to push me over the edge.

ofcouse i would love seeing her having sex with other guy and humiliating me but its not my primary goal.

 

[SquirmingSub]

Daniel - sounds good, gives us a bit more insight into the motivation associated with the fantasy.

 

[tegelad]

Given how young both of you are and if you think she is the one, maybe you should propose marriage her to make her feel that you want the relationship to move forward. You can state if and when you lose your virginity it would be after marriage, and then you can tell her that contrary to what she feels, you want her to be super experienced for your first time. It would be the best gift you could give to you was a hot woman that was the best in bed and could show you. Remember women are wired differently then us, so you want her to feel fantastic with the relationship between the two of you, and then let the kink flow post that .... if done right you get her wired to having lots of hot sexy fun, with the idea that she is doing it for the betterment of the two you. That is my spin on it at least ... not sure what the others feel about it.

 

[Daniel97]

Daniel - sounds good, gives us a bit more insight into the motivation associated with the fantasy.

As I have mentioned before, i have been into cuckold porn and stories for almost 1.5 - 2 years. i begin imagining jen cuckolding me and having sex with other guys from my school but never acted on it.

during high school jen was bit of a tomboy but was still cute and beautiful but during final year of high school she blossomed amd become more beautiful. and many guys started hitting on her andtgis added fuel to my fantasy.

since we were attending different colleges i begin to think about jen with other guys even more and decided that now was a good opportunity to work on my fantasy as jen will meet many new guys and ww wont be together almost every moment so there are chances that she might be seduced by other.

whenever i think about jen i automatically started seeing her with other huys in my imagination and decided to try to act on my fantasy.

 

[Daniel97]

Given how young both of you are and if you think she is the one, maybe you should propose marriage her to make her feel that you want the relationship to move forward. You can state if and when you lose your virginity it would be after marriage, and then you can tell her that contrary to what she feels, you want her to be super experienced for your first time. It would be the best gift you could give to you was a hot woman that was the best in bed and could show you. Remember women are wired differently then us, so you want her to feel fantastic with the relationship between the two of you, and then let the kink flow post that .... if done right you get her wired to having lots of hot sexy fun, with the idea that she is doing it for the betterment of the two you. That is my spin on it at least ... not sure what the others feel about it.

thanks for your idea.
jen is the one for me but jen and i have decided that we will complete our college first and then decide to engage when we start making our career.

jen's mother married young with her father but their relationship was soon broken because of unexpected pregnancy and budget constraints and jen doesn't want same mistake and rush into marriage before we are financially secure. therefore jen and i have decided to wait till we can stand on our feets.

 

[tegelad]

thanks for your idea.
jen is the one for me but jen and i have decided that we will complete our college first and then decide to engage when we start making our career.

jen's mother married young with her father but their relationship was soon broken because of unexpected pregnancy and budget constraints and jen doesn't want same mistake and rush into marriage before we are financially secure. therefore jen and i have decided to wait till we can stand on our feets.

This is perfect! There are things called promise rings e.g. Irish cladagh rings, that you both can wear. I would go and purchase it and make a dinner/ceremony of it. You can promise her that you will have no other but her, and work the cuckold portion of it with her. I am sure the others on the list can add their commentary to it; however, it could be a way that would marriage would only occur in your setting and with all of the things are set, and you promise your virginity to her. In the back of your mind, you get her setup to get as much sex as possible in a friends with benefit.

Another twist if you are into it ... could be adding the twist of promising to her that you could only orgasm after she has and you could add something like chastity in to it ... since you want to be 100% pure for her, and of course you want her to be 100% devilish ... anyway that is my food for thought ....

 

[SquirmingSub]

Daniel - Tegelad has put forth some interesting and viable ideas. Not sure that is the direction you would like to go although it is something for you to consider. Jen does need to know that you are committed to her even while your encouraging her to date others.

 

[Saraha]

You could ask Aaron from time-to-time how his friendship with Jen is going, but you wouldn't be able to tell Jen about it.

You could tell Aaron to kiss Jen every day, because she is kissing him goodnight when she gets back to her room.

 

[SquirmingSub]

Sarah - Good that you mentioned that to Daniel. That is indeed something I have enjoyed in the past, when the wife's FwB/Lover was sharing his viewpoints, feeling, thoughts and desires with me about his lover (my wife).

 

[Daniel97]

You could ask Aaron from time-to-time how his friendship with Jen is going, but you wouldn't be able to tell Jen about it.

You could tell Aaron to kiss Jen every day, because she is kissing him goodnight when she gets back to her room.

i will try to chat with aaron and see if anything exciting comes up.

A quick update
Yesterday i tried calling jen but she did not pick up the call until almost midnight. i asked her why she didn't pick the call she told me she was busy with some assignment and have been working on it.

i believe her as she still haven't kissed Aaron on lips according to her so she won't be with aaron till midnight but the anticipation and suspense was enough to drive me mad with jealousy and excitement.

thank god for seperate rooms i was able to take some edge off.

 

[George]

You need to see Jen more often than just weekends. Soon her weekends will be with Aaron and future Aarons.

 

[Daniel97]

I talked with jen she told me about her day nothing special happened today, they studies together had lunch together and then she dropped her at her home. He asked her on date on Friday night. I told her she should let him kiss her on lips. She told me she will think about it. Then we talked some more about us and thanksgiving plan. We are going to our hometown for thanksgiving.

I chatted with aaron, I asked him if he was able to become friends with jen. He thanked me and told me tgey were kind of dating, I asked 'kindof' he told me its complicated. Then I asked him how far have he gotten with jen, he told me that they have just started going out and jen is shy girl so they are talking there relationship slow. He asked me if I have gotten a gf yet, I said no. He said he can hook me up a girl she is easy and I could get her to bed on first date. I asked him why would he suggest that, he thought I would like to lose my virginity. Its was very embarrassing and awkward. He broke the silence and told me their were rumors about me being a virgin and jen told me that you did not have any gf during highschool. I told him I am waiting for right girl.

I told him enough about me lets talk about jen I have heard she is also virgin. He was shocked hearing this and asked me if I am sure because jen told him she had a bf at high school. I told him I am nit sure and maybe he should find out. He told me he would love to find out and asked me if she really had a bf in high school because jen do appears to be inexperienced in dating also. I told him a don’t know if she had bf or not. I told him he should try to initiate kiss with jen, he told me if jen is indeed a virgin then it could be reason why she is so shy after dates. He once again thanked me for getting jen and him together as my pen drive stunt helped him break the ice.

So this today’s update lets see what will happen. Thanks sahara for idea.

 

[jwff]

Being able to speak with both your GF and her paramour - you're in a very enviable situation, Daniel. If you play your cards right, you'll be able to encourage Aaron to take the initiative from one end, and encourage Jen to be receptive to his advances from the other. Just don't push things too quickly.

Of course, if you really feel like playing with fire, you can always let Aaron in on tips for seducing Jen; you know her, and what she likes, and you can talk to her to get information on what Aaron is and isn't doing right - which you'd feed right back to him to improve his game...

 

[SquirmingSub]

Indeed you are playing with fire although it is good that you were able to initiate a level of communication/dialog with Aaron were he may feel comfortable sharing more from his side of the relationship development that he will have with Jen and you indeed need to make sure that you have a very open dialog with Jen.

 

[George]

I'm not generally a doom and gloom guy. But it appears to me that soon it will become unlikely you will have Jen as a gf or future wife. The Aaron-Jen relationship will soon be much stronger that your relationship. Jen will be overwhelmed with emotions. Women want to bond with the man who takes their virginity. She will have experiences and emotions with Aaron she cannot comfortablely or fully share with you. Thus the disengagement begins.

If you want to play this way, I suggest you:
1. Fomally commit to Jen to marry her. Ask her to marry you at a time you both feel is best. Give her a promise ring at minimum.
2. Ramp up the sex between you two. You should be ahead or of at least quickly catch up with what Aaron does. You should get her bra off this weekend and your hand between her thieghs. Rubbing her to orgasam would be even better.
3. You should often remind her that the Aaron GAME is a game you two play together. A game that will improve your future marriage, and give you two something to laugh about when the kids are in bed. You should make it clear that you intend to do with her what Aaron does with her.
4. You should tell her about your conversation with Aaron, including that he expects, if things continue, he wil be bedding her.
5. You need to step up your game. You need to start exercising, start being more assertive, start being more manly in Jen's eyes. You need to plan with her getting a car you both can share.

Maybe then you can keep her.

 

[Saraha]

Aaron and Jen needs a few months to become emotionally close and enjoying time together, before you can push them to fuck each other.

Jen is still not wanting to play with Aaron's emotions - push her too hard and she will ditch Aaron, because she has dreams of getting married to her long-term boyfriend.

Think about how Jen is feeling right now - she is co-operating well and accepting the idea of having other boyfriends.

Ease back a little bit and let Jen become addicted to Aaron from seeing him every day at College and getting about in his car.

This is important, because Aaron can only take things slowly at the moment, because he knows Jen has never done dating before, and she is all fingers/thumbs until it becomes part of her life. In a few weeks time, he will become an important part of her life, and he can progress kissing to checking out her lovely breasts.

:love::love::call:

 

[Saraha]

Play the love game the right way, and Jen may one day warm to the idea of a cuckold marriage.

 

[Saraha]

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