Peak, I see your point in terms of time, but right now, as I've said, I want to see this play out and even last night it was very obvious to both Sue and I that we both want her to go away with Paul and have her fun. She looked at me and said that this was maybe the first time ever that it's her who wants to go with him and she made no secret about it, she wants to "fuck him a lot" while she's away. She said to me last night that one of the things she's wanted to have with Paul is the feeling of being his for more than just one night. As we talked she reminded me that she had really wanted 2 nights with him at times and when she knew it was turning me on to hear her talk, she told me what I'd said - that she wants to get fucked at lot for several days in a row.
I asked her what was different about Paul and going away this time as she'd been away with other guys for longer periods before. She told me she just feels different about Paul and she was the one who said that she wanted some of the feelings she'd thought about when she'd thought she wanted a big emotional affair. When I pushed her she said that it wasn't the emotions at all that she was looking for, that she now knows she just wants the sex. I admitted to her I was jealous and envious that Paul, being younger, could still "go 2 or 3 times a night" and she smiled and said "I know" and didn't need to say much more.
As I said, I know what you are all concerned about. Peak, your math is impeccable, but right now the swell of excitement has us both on worked up. i know the conversation should have troubled me more last night but it's so incredible to hear her talk about just wanting sex with him and that really being the main focus of why she wants to go away with him - it's just so hot for me to think that finally, after 18+ years, that maybe her sexual desires have been unlocked again and it's just so hot to see her wanting to explore them now for herself.
The conversation turned sexual last night and she asked me what I was thinking. I shared some of what Peak and Raks and others have said about us losing our sexual connection over time and she pooh-pooh-ed that in her response that we are just enjoying ourselves and she even joked that "even I think I enjoy it a bit too much with him sometimes". That comment precipitated a brief discussion about her loving sex with him. When I added what others here have said, that our time together is decreasing, she replied that it's something she is really enjoying, the feeling of giving into her physical desires now that she didn't feel she could in the past. I told her that sometimes I get worried we are maybe too far down this road and she asked me if I was still turned on by everything and I couldn't deny it and said yes. She held my hand and asked me if I still felt I wanted to continue it and I told her yes, that it still turned me on. She kissed me and then just said "then don't let it worry you" and she explained to me that in her head, when I came to her with this whole beta-thing, that it took her a while to accept it and to even try to understand it. But she now knows that in many ways it turns me on even more for her to have sex with Paul than for me to have sex with her. She said she doesn't hold it against me at all and that in fact, it's led to her (through some of her own actions) to let herself accept that she too has physical desires and that - "baby, having this much sex with him really does make me want it more with him" and she explained that the same was true for us and that if I wanted to be the guy fucking her right now, that she is sure that her desires would turn to focus on me. She then asked me if I wanted that? She said pretty openly that with her fucking him 3-4 times a week now, and with her now cumming quite intensely with him, that she finds herself wanting it more with him and asked me why that surprised me at all?
As we moved back towards a more sexual moment from a more serious moment she looked at me and asked me what I thought about her time away with Paul. I told her that I was fixated on the same things she'd talked about, not the social or other moments, but that I continually thought about how much sex she'd likely be having with him. She giggled and said "so, I'm not supposed to look forward to that?". And when she saw that I was getting horny she teased me and whispered sexily in my ear "he's going to cum in me so much baby" and she admitted that is something that turned her on about him over me, that I no longer seem to cum a lot - or not nearly as much as he does.
I told her I was still worried about losing her or that things would change between us. She asked me if I thought that would happen as a result of her going with him? I told her that I didn't think this one trip was going to do anything and she said I was exactly right. She told me that she has no thoughts of anyone other than me as her partner and her lover - but that she was totally into Paul being her lover - and that as long as I was okay with that, that the trip meant nothing else.
It was hard to argue feeling how intent and concerned she was as she spoke to me. Again, hard to convey in a short post but to me, I could feel it in her. And so, when she asked if I was horny and if I wanted to "have some fun" I was already pretty ready. As I slid down my sweats and boxers she slid up next to me and said she loved me very much and that she always wanted to be sure that felt happy and satisfied with what we were doing. She ran her hands up my stomach and chest and arms and told me that I still turned her on but that she was "just really into it with Paul right now" and I guess my cock answered her possible question at that when I moaned and told her that I could tell. She told me again how she thinks it's sort of romantic that I am so into her pleasure and she said that it makes her love me even more. My cock was rock hard already when she told me she still loves my cock and thinks it is beautiful and how it makes her horny to see me when I'm aroused knowing I'm aroused about her. But then she got closer and in a more sexy whisper she said "but Paul's cock is just so much fun baby" "my god it feel so wonderful".
You all know the rest, she teased me that she loves that she "know's how another man feels so intimately" and that "I know just when he's going to cum". She cooed in my ear "does that turn you on baby? that I know how another man feels in my pussy?" I must have grunted because she kept it up "he's going to cum a lot in me this weekend baby...." and then in a totally sexy voice "...I can't wait to have him for more than just one night....". Between her taunting and my hand - it was over very soon and I moaned and she encouraged me "come on baby, let me see you cum....". When I'd stroked out the last few drops, she pulled me towards her (not against her) and hugged my upper torso and shoulders and she kissed me and said she loved me. When our hug ended she gently pushed me back towards the bed and said "lets get this mess cleaned up" and you know the rest.
We did talk in bed after that and she had a great suggestion for me to go up to Boston and visit my buddies up there for the weekend. So I'm emailing them now and seeing if on such short notice we can make plans. It would be easier if I wasn't here reminded of an empty house for 2 out of the 3 nights.
More later. Oh - Peak - I'm not sure how long she knew the other wives/girlfriends would be going but I'm sure that was part of the reason she agreed to go, that she wouldn't be the only female companion there.