STB, if my posts come as "distortion", please understand that I am not doing it deliberately. May be there are gaps in my understanding of your narrative. And I do not put "my spin" on things. This is what I perceive and hence I write. And please "dimming" and all that...spare me the logic. There are no absolutes in the world. None. What I write is based on what I perceive from your tale. Please re-read post 404 (reproduced below) and tell me if I am wrong:
"To put it bluntly, she said she hoped it didn't hurt me but that I should hear the truth if that was what I wanted. And she proceeded to tell me that she doesn't want to have sex with me right now. I looked at her and she said "not just right now honey, but all the time" and she proceeded to tell me how it'd started a while back, even before Paul - how she'd begun to feel a little of this with Robert. "But then, when you talked about this beta thing" she said that it took her a while to realize it was the same thing she'd been feeling just from her side."
So I asked her - what does this mean for us? She looked at me and as if it it were nothing she said "so, you won't get to have sex with me" and then she looked at me and said "this is what you wanted all along, it's what you were pushing me towards for so long, and isn't this truly what you wanted as the 'beta'?". I told her no, that wasn't right but she stopped me and asked me if I was just responding or if I had really thought about it. She held my hand and said that we can go on as we are and still have sex like we are, and she even said that we can keep things as they are with me having her bare every few weeks. But she looked at me and said "so you need to tell me how you feel" and I asked her "but if we do that, then you're telling me it's something that you would rather not do?!" She nodded slowly and said "Yes" and that she's sorry she wasn't totally honest with me. She said that she definitely still loves my cock and loves having sex with me and yes, she most definitely still orgasms with me. But she looked at me and said that while she enjoys it and would surely do it because she knows I enjoy or need it, she said that "being honest, it's not something I find myself wanting". She said that yes, when we're away or we're alone or romantic, that "it'll happen then baby, we'll still have sex" but she added that it's not something that she finds herself thinking about or wanting when Paul is in the picture."
She admits not being honest with you. She admits things that bring you to tears and it is me that you blame. What I write here is based on what you've told me. I would never push or cheer you along a path that I think is wrong for you - just to see another cuck going into deep end.
"To put it bluntly, she said she hoped it didn't hurt me but that I should hear the truth if that was what I wanted. And she proceeded to tell me that she doesn't want to have sex with me right now. I looked at her and she said "not just right now honey, but all the time" and she proceeded to tell me how it'd started a while back, even before Paul - how she'd begun to feel a little of this with Robert. "But then, when you talked about this beta thing" she said that it took her a while to realize it was the same thing she'd been feeling just from her side."
So I asked her - what does this mean for us? She looked at me and as if it it were nothing she said "so, you won't get to have sex with me" and then she looked at me and said "this is what you wanted all along, it's what you were pushing me towards for so long, and isn't this truly what you wanted as the 'beta'?". I told her no, that wasn't right but she stopped me and asked me if I was just responding or if I had really thought about it. She held my hand and said that we can go on as we are and still have sex like we are, and she even said that we can keep things as they are with me having her bare every few weeks. But she looked at me and said "so you need to tell me how you feel" and I asked her "but if we do that, then you're telling me it's something that you would rather not do?!" She nodded slowly and said "Yes" and that she's sorry she wasn't totally honest with me. She said that she definitely still loves my cock and loves having sex with me and yes, she most definitely still orgasms with me. But she looked at me and said that while she enjoys it and would surely do it because she knows I enjoy or need it, she said that "being honest, it's not something I find myself wanting". She said that yes, when we're away or we're alone or romantic, that "it'll happen then baby, we'll still have sex" but she added that it's not something that she finds herself thinking about or wanting when Paul is in the picture."
She admits not being honest with you. She admits things that bring you to tears and it is me that you blame. What I write here is based on what you've told me. I would never push or cheer you along a path that I think is wrong for you - just to see another cuck going into deep end.