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My wife was recognized
- Thread startermstevens75
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A few updates from a the week. It sounds like the two of them had a Zoom meeting together on Tuesday on something he said he wanted her opinion on. He told me that the meeting was about 10 minutes work related and then 20 minutes of them just talking.
He said he worked in everything he wanted to. They spoke about seeing each other at the bar and how nice it was to catch-up in person. He said he did make fun of my golf game and how much better he is than me. I guess she joked that I am not the most athletic guy and how I am more of a geeky guy. He then jumped on something he heard at the bar. We have been looking for a contractor to redo our guest bathroom. I am not handy, so I cannot do those things myself. It has been hard to get a contractor as everyone is backed up. He told her that he has done work like this on the side and could always come over and help me. He said he thinks that will be an in to get him to the house.
He also told her how hard dating is these days now that he is single. He told her he has been single for about 6 months and what a pain in the ass it is. He said she told him he is a good looking guy and should have no problems.
At dinner on Wednesday, she told me she had talked to him and at the end of their convo it came up that he can do bathroom work. She asked me if we should consider having him come over to talk about options. I said since we were having issues with finding a contractor that can do it relatively quick that it sounded like a good idea.
She reached out to him Thursday and they exchanged cell phone numbers. Plan is to meet after work some time next week. We have plans this weekend with family.
Things seem to be going well.
He said he worked in everything he wanted to. They spoke about seeing each other at the bar and how nice it was to catch-up in person. He said he did make fun of my golf game and how much better he is than me. I guess she joked that I am not the most athletic guy and how I am more of a geeky guy. He then jumped on something he heard at the bar. We have been looking for a contractor to redo our guest bathroom. I am not handy, so I cannot do those things myself. It has been hard to get a contractor as everyone is backed up. He told her that he has done work like this on the side and could always come over and help me. He said he thinks that will be an in to get him to the house.
He also told her how hard dating is these days now that he is single. He told her he has been single for about 6 months and what a pain in the ass it is. He said she told him he is a good looking guy and should have no problems.
At dinner on Wednesday, she told me she had talked to him and at the end of their convo it came up that he can do bathroom work. She asked me if we should consider having him come over to talk about options. I said since we were having issues with finding a contractor that can do it relatively quick that it sounded like a good idea.
She reached out to him Thursday and they exchanged cell phone numbers. Plan is to meet after work some time next week. We have plans this weekend with family.
Things seem to be going well.
Wow - great update. He is definitely motivated and seems to be smart about how he is working his way in. For the bathroom it could very easily turn into a scenario where you tell her to be sure to offer him beer/snacks/etc because he is helping you out so much. Reinforce the idea that you simply don't have the capabilities that he has. Hopefully, quickly, find a reason why you can't be there. Give him the option to take off since you don't expect him to work alone in front of her - and he will obviously say its "no issue and you don't have anything else going on, plus your wife will be there to keep him company 
" Then she'll feel even more obligated to keep him company and cater to him since you just left him high and dry and he is such a great guy he is hanging out helping.
All in all very positive! It sounds like he is an alpha that has locked onto a target and moving in.
" Then she'll feel even more obligated to keep him company and cater to him since you just left him high and dry and he is such a great guy he is hanging out helping.All in all very positive! It sounds like he is an alpha that has locked onto a target and moving in.
There's always one in every crowd, and in this case, it may be ME! 
Seriously, tread carefully if you indeed start a project with him. I'd hate to see that interfere with your plans.
And I always imagine like being out too much money, left with a big hole in the floor or wall, and hard feelings.
Otherwise, I think that is a GREAT plan to bring everything into a much more intimate environment!
A buddy and I discussed a similar plan at one time. I, like you, am NOT a handy person when it comes to home maintenance or repairs. There are always things to be done, and we considered having him come down for a week or 2 to knock these things out since he is.
However, HIS intent was purely sexual; he was was very bi and I was the object of his desire. I didn't have a problem with that, but my wife surely would've.
In the end, it remained just a fantasy, but it was a fun one!
Seriously, tread carefully if you indeed start a project with him. I'd hate to see that interfere with your plans.
And I always imagine like being out too much money, left with a big hole in the floor or wall, and hard feelings.
Otherwise, I think that is a GREAT plan to bring everything into a much more intimate environment!
A buddy and I discussed a similar plan at one time. I, like you, am NOT a handy person when it comes to home maintenance or repairs. There are always things to be done, and we considered having him come down for a week or 2 to knock these things out since he is.
However, HIS intent was purely sexual; he was was very bi and I was the object of his desire. I didn't have a problem with that, but my wife surely would've.
In the end, it remained just a fantasy, but it was a fun one!
I had a neighbour who recognised my wife after sharing her pic with him on fab, I carried on sharing and he would tell me when he saw her in the street and would say hello to her, such a turn on. I also let a couple of guys I have shared her pic with follow me on Facebook, one found her on there after I sent him pics. Would love a work colleague or another neighbour see her naked pics.
Nazareth makes a good point. about getting involved in a project. But u know, u don't have to rebuild a bathroom. U can "act" like u are going to do it and bring your stud over a "consult." U could talk about it extensively, he could show his "expertise" and "Alpha male" prowess to Mary and discuss the project like he is a general contractor. That gets him over to your house for a nice set-up. I would do it on a Saturday afternoon, and have him for dinner as well. If everyone drinks, all the better. After the consult lay on the drinks and dinner. I would barbecue. U can cook it and be busy with it while your wife and the stud talk and get acquainted. If the drinks are flowing, all the better. U can do this a few times or more before u decide the project is too big or too involved. Also, he could offer to take her to one of those designer warehouses where they could look at bathrooms to get ideas. Make sure it is scheduled at a time where u have a conflict and can't go. One other point, the chemistry between Mary and the stud looks and sounds great. That is 80% of the battle. She seems to like him and loves talking to him, which is all the better. Just set the tone and conditions and get out of the way. Best of luck.
Nice idea. I agree that, depending on the intensity of the remodel you don't necessarily want him doing all the work. That is, unless he is up for it in which case that would give him A LOT of time in your house alone with your wife. Which is a great thing.MANNY33 said:
If you go the warehouse "picking stuff out" route be sure to remember you can guilt her into going without you (if she resists) by reminding her that he is doing you guys a big favor because you're unable to do it yourself.
Honestly, it sounds like you have things well under control - it's just fun to speculate and provide ideas/feedback. Follow your gut, it has gotten you this far.
On a side note - what are your plans/ambitions with the bathroom project? What condition is it in currently? It's a guest bath, so I'm guessing its a tub/shower combo + a toilet and vanity.
Looks like the plan is for him to come over on Thursday night to look at the bathroom and give his opinion. He told her he wasn’t sure he had the time for a full project, but will come over and give advice and see if it is something he can work in.
He told me they have texted back and forth a few times about the bathroom. He said things have been friendly, nothing sexual. We chatted on the phone this afternoon and he described her sucking his dick as part of the payment. He is very descriptive and described the sound of her choking on his cock and joking about how she can deep throat mine without gagging. That made me cum instantly. Really starting to realize how much humiliation turns me on. He then talked about fucking her from behind while I watched.
Hope to have more info to share after Thursday, but assuming it will just be a normal conversation/meeting.
He told me they have texted back and forth a few times about the bathroom. He said things have been friendly, nothing sexual. We chatted on the phone this afternoon and he described her sucking his dick as part of the payment. He is very descriptive and described the sound of her choking on his cock and joking about how she can deep throat mine without gagging. That made me cum instantly. Really starting to realize how much humiliation turns me on. He then talked about fucking her from behind while I watched.
Hope to have more info to share after Thursday, but assuming it will just be a normal conversation/meeting.
Are you going to serve them a few drinks to loosen them up? It would be good to put yourself in a submissive position to him in front of your wife right from the start. then you could tell him, in front of her, that you agree to his form of payment for the project. Of course you wife will want to know what was said which puts you in the embarrassing position of trying to come up with an answer that explains your nervousness. Good luck.
That might lead to her finding out that they are talking about it.bevw said:
Maybe have a good round of sex with the wife tonight and talk about her and him getting it on during his visit as part of his fantasy tonight. Tell her she deserves it and you would give her permission. Then tomorrow while he is on his way over, "get" a call that you are needed for something at work and leave.
bevw said:
My wife isn’t a big drinker, so bringing drinks to the them would feel odd and out of place for her.
My plan is to keep all decisions up to her related to the work and give her the opportunity really interact with him. I am going to say I don’t even think it needs a remodel, so it is up to what she wants and they can figure it out together. I plan to find something else to do and let them review what is needed together. He and I talked about how we should get it to where the two of them go to Home Depot together in the future without me since I won’t care what she picks.
I will give updates on how it goes.
The night went just as I had hoped.
He came over after dinner and was here for about an hour. I was talking to her all day about it being a waste to redo, it is still functional and I really don’t care about the look of it and that it is a waste of money. I think this got her in the perfect frame of mind about being irritated with me and wanting to get it done. I also told her coworker about how I would do this all day.
He came in and just stressed how outdated it was, and how much better they could make it look with just a few modifications. I was like whatever and said the two of you can figure it all out. I left them alone and just let her talk to him about what she wants and her thoughts. I stayed close enough so I could hear and just rub my non stop boner through my pants. He definitely is friendly and charming and I heard her laughing multiple times. He also told me that he told her a few times this stuff really isn’t that hard and she said multiple times that handy work just isn’t my thing.
They ended up in our office together and jumped on the computer so they could look at some ideas online on the bigger monitor. When I walked by, she was sitting in the chair and was kind of squatting next to her. He told me that he purposefully rubbed against her a couple time as he crouched and then when he was pointing to something on the screen. As they wrapped up, he joked that some things can be better determined in person and next steps might be to go to Home Depot. She said she would check our schedules to see when we were available.
After he left she debriefed me on all they talked about and what great ideas he had and how he agreed it needed to be redone. I said something about cost and she said I had to stop being cheap. I then joked and said, maybe he takes more than money for services rendered. She laughed and said someone so young and attractive wouldn’t want services from her. I joked and said younger guys like cougars. She said whatever and moved on with the conversation.
My plan is for the next time we fool around to try and bring him up and see if I can get her to role play with him as the 3rd. I also texted with him today and he said he jerked off last night thinking of her sucking his cock while I watched. I also jerked off last night after she went to sleep thinking about her sucking his dick in my office.
I feel like stage is set and this is the closest I have ever been to making it happen.
He came over after dinner and was here for about an hour. I was talking to her all day about it being a waste to redo, it is still functional and I really don’t care about the look of it and that it is a waste of money. I think this got her in the perfect frame of mind about being irritated with me and wanting to get it done. I also told her coworker about how I would do this all day.
He came in and just stressed how outdated it was, and how much better they could make it look with just a few modifications. I was like whatever and said the two of you can figure it all out. I left them alone and just let her talk to him about what she wants and her thoughts. I stayed close enough so I could hear and just rub my non stop boner through my pants. He definitely is friendly and charming and I heard her laughing multiple times. He also told me that he told her a few times this stuff really isn’t that hard and she said multiple times that handy work just isn’t my thing.
They ended up in our office together and jumped on the computer so they could look at some ideas online on the bigger monitor. When I walked by, she was sitting in the chair and was kind of squatting next to her. He told me that he purposefully rubbed against her a couple time as he crouched and then when he was pointing to something on the screen. As they wrapped up, he joked that some things can be better determined in person and next steps might be to go to Home Depot. She said she would check our schedules to see when we were available.
After he left she debriefed me on all they talked about and what great ideas he had and how he agreed it needed to be redone. I said something about cost and she said I had to stop being cheap. I then joked and said, maybe he takes more than money for services rendered. She laughed and said someone so young and attractive wouldn’t want services from her. I joked and said younger guys like cougars. She said whatever and moved on with the conversation.
My plan is for the next time we fool around to try and bring him up and see if I can get her to role play with him as the 3rd. I also texted with him today and he said he jerked off last night thinking of her sucking his cock while I watched. I also jerked off last night after she went to sleep thinking about her sucking his dick in my office.
I feel like stage is set and this is the closest I have ever been to making it happen.
