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My wife was recognized
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I would talk to him and get him comfortable with your wife's likes and dislikes and what turns her on. Encourage him to start flirting with her and see how far he can get. If your wife talks about it at home with you that he is hitting on her, you can encourage her. It could turn out to be a win-win for everybody. She gets fucked and becomes a hotwife, he gets fucked and you get cucked. Win win.
Some fantastic advice in this thread and I agree. He and I have already been talking about how he can gain her trust. It sounds like he doesn’t have a reason to talk to her out of the blue at work, so we are thinking of the bar idea. That way he can bump into us to start the conversation that we know each other through golf league and then he can ping her on the side the next time they are in a meeting together. They both work remote, so there is no in office meet up options. I feel like I have been walking around with a non-stop hard on for a week.
This sounds excellent - you are both proceeding the right way as far as I can tell. And it sounds like he's a good guy, he's not gone off doing anything stupid, he has patience, this could be a great adventure for the three of you! And very exciting too. I agree with your idea of the meeting at the bar - a social occasion, you're there too, non threatening, a few drinks to oil the machine, him and her working in the same place, what a coincidence! They already have something in common. Then you feeding him her likes and dislikes, a wingman with the inside track, and maybe telling her about how popular he is with the guys at golf and how everybody thinks he's a great guy, start the wheels turning. Be sure to keep us all up to date - it's very exciting following your storymstevens75 said:
Sephoro has it right. U can build him up subtly on the inside, telling her how great a guy he is and embellishing him with the qualities that she likes in you to get her even more comfortable. As he makes his moves on her one step at a time he can keep up posted and u assist from the inside reinforcing things. If she tells u about it all the better, if she does not, u will still get the inside details and blow by blow so to speak as he turns her into his slut. And an added bonus down the way may be that he or she gets interested in slutting out to other men as well. If this is handled right and with a little luck, and if the guy is a good guy to work with, u all should have a great time ahead. Keep us posted and a few more pics would be nice as well. We are all rooting for u on your journey.
A couple of things to consider also:
I would do the bar/pub meet before I'd try to work on the golf league angle.
The idea is to keep her from thinking this may be a "set-up".
In a pub environment, this can appear as a total 'chance' encounter, reduce (or prevent) pressure or stress, and can be as short or long as anyone would like it to be. In fact, unless there is immediate chemistry/attraction, I'd likely keep the first meeting fairly short; maybe 30 minutes or so.
I would hope you could then say "I came across (his name) while golfing;; he said to tell you hello", and a compliment or two like "he said he enjoyed meeting you" or "he thinks you are a really nice person". Additionally, you can ask her thoughts of having him over for dinner one evening (huge development if she approves!).
I'm assuming you still need to solve how they will 'discover' they are co-workers. This could be accomplished in either of the above scenarios.
After the most recent golf encounter you could tell her (with the appropriate amount of enthusiasm and/or excitement) that you and he were chatting, you asked what kind of work he did; he said he worked for (company name), and that you told him your wife does also!
Unless conversation at a pub presents an opportunity to ask about his work, the 'golf angle' would seem to be a better way to break that ice.
I would do the bar/pub meet before I'd try to work on the golf league angle.
The idea is to keep her from thinking this may be a "set-up".
In a pub environment, this can appear as a total 'chance' encounter, reduce (or prevent) pressure or stress, and can be as short or long as anyone would like it to be. In fact, unless there is immediate chemistry/attraction, I'd likely keep the first meeting fairly short; maybe 30 minutes or so.
I would hope you could then say "I came across (his name) while golfing;; he said to tell you hello", and a compliment or two like "he said he enjoyed meeting you" or "he thinks you are a really nice person". Additionally, you can ask her thoughts of having him over for dinner one evening (huge development if she approves!).
I'm assuming you still need to solve how they will 'discover' they are co-workers. This could be accomplished in either of the above scenarios.
After the most recent golf encounter you could tell her (with the appropriate amount of enthusiasm and/or excitement) that you and he were chatting, you asked what kind of work he did; he said he worked for (company name), and that you told him your wife does also!
Unless conversation at a pub presents an opportunity to ask about his work, the 'golf angle' would seem to be a better way to break that ice.
Very nice! That is a shame that they're both remote. Is it 100% or do they ever go into the office?mstevens75 said:
Definitely some great advice about building trust and having her start to confide in him (and viceversa). That is the oldest trick in the book when it comes to seducing women, and how my wife fell for her co-worker and ultimately turned me into a cuck. The best would be if she can "vent" to him about something relating to you - he comes a shoulder to cry on so to speak, a good listener, someone that "understands" her. Golf could be a good in. Do you play often? Given the nature of the intro, that could be something he brings up from time to time to bait her into complaining about how often you play. An excellent response would be something to the effect of - "oh wow, I only play a lot because I'm single, if I were married to you I would spend all the time I can with you
"Not too much new to report this week in regards to how things are going. Look like Mary and I are planning a date night next Friday, which will include heading out to dinner and then heading out for a couple drinks at the bar. Her coworker is out of town this weekend, so we aren’t able to make it happen earlier. He is going to bump into us at the bar and start the opportunity for small talk and to see how things go from there. Not expecting much, other than the opportunity to set the stage, but who knows.
He and I did jerk off over the phone yesterday. He really got into humiliating me and telling me how small my cock was and how much Mary prefers his. His cock is so much thicker than mine, and as he told me Mary prefers his, I instantly came. He found it funny I came so quickly based on that and then he continued stroking his cock and describing all he would do. I started getting hard and stroking again. At this point he described her looking at me with his cock in her mouth and I came again. He was stroking the whole time and never came until 10 minutes later. I can’t even imagine how good she would feel and how much she will like him fucking bee that long. I last a couple minutes on a good day and normally finish her with my tongue.
He did ask if I would clean it off her and I said yes…he said good. When this all started I was nervous and horny…it has completely changed to excited and horny.
He and I did jerk off over the phone yesterday. He really got into humiliating me and telling me how small my cock was and how much Mary prefers his. His cock is so much thicker than mine, and as he told me Mary prefers his, I instantly came. He found it funny I came so quickly based on that and then he continued stroking his cock and describing all he would do. I started getting hard and stroking again. At this point he described her looking at me with his cock in her mouth and I came again. He was stroking the whole time and never came until 10 minutes later. I can’t even imagine how good she would feel and how much she will like him fucking bee that long. I last a couple minutes on a good day and normally finish her with my tongue.
He did ask if I would clean it off her and I said yes…he said good. When this all started I was nervous and horny…it has completely changed to excited and horny.
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Wonderful news. One tidbit u might consider down the road, repeat down the road, is that if the meet comes off and looks like it is progressing and u and your wife talk about him, u might slip in if appropriate that u think he has a big dick. She of course would ask how u know. If u set up the golf angle where u are golfing regularly with him, u could say "Well dear, u know I am not into guys. But after 18 holes of golf we do sometimes wind up in the locker room. U know men's locker rooms are not as private and plush as ladies locker rooms. Many of us get cleaned up and take showers. I could not help but notice," Just a mere mention of that and drop it. It will stick in the back of her mind for down the road as another attraction factor. Also, if I remember correctly, she is uneasy a bit about her body, as he hits on her he can slip in a few compliments on her beauty and her body and put her mind to ease on that subject. That is again another plus "atrraction" point to add to the list. U want as many on the list as possible. Trust me, she will be reviewing all those plus factors as she decides what to do. Good luck and keep us posted.
So last night I decided to use the big dildo that Mary has while we had fun. I was kissing and caressing her while I reached down and fucked her with it. I was telling her how much I love it when she gets pleasured by that big cock and I get to hear her moan and enjoy it. She reached over and started to stroke my cock. I then asked if she liked his big cock fucking her and the instant she said yes, I came in her hand. Attached is a picture of my cock and her co-worker. I know she would love it. Next weekend can’t get here fast enough. I hope it goes well.
The more u can get Mary to get excited on her own about the new lifestyle and make it so it becomes "her idea" the better and more enjoyable it will be for you both. She will look forward to it and move ahead. Far better that way. U don't want to be seen as "pushing" her into it. Plant the seeds from both sides, u and your friend in a subtle way and let her connect the dots. Trust me. If u water the grass right, it will grow! U just need to nurture that "inner slut" is such a way that she takes the lead. U and your friend can assist, but let her put it together, connect the dots and go for it. Just give her the right support, hints and plenty of running room so she can move ahead with her new stud. Most women have to overcome the behavioral modes that society has proscribed for them. Looks like he has a great cock to pleasure her and cuck u with. And with any luck, this will just be the beginning. If she likes the lifestyle, she very well might become a very active hotwife with multiple bulls. Good luck and keep us posted.
