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Bravo! This is turning out to be perfect. Can't wait to hear more. It sounds like things are moving in the right direction for her to be sucking his cock very soon. I assume you shared the tidbit of info with him about her thinking he wouldn't be interested in her? That way he can start dropping hints or complimenting her so she knows he is interested.mstevens75 said:
encasedforfun said:
Yes, I shared with him what she said. He is going to talk Tinder into a conversation with her at some point and talk about his preferences in women and how he likes older, thick women. He is also going to talk a bit about a woman he is kind of seeing there and hope she asks to see a pic. He said he has a pic of a thicker older woman he would show her that is similar to her build.
He seems to have it all figured out.
Great update! It sounds like things are moving along perfectly. Has he started texting her directly? Curious to hear how that is going - assuming he is keeping you in the loop. Has he started taking more control over your relationship with her yet? Perhaps forbidding you from giving her sexual attention so that she is frustrated and primed for when he makes his advance.
So it sounds like the two of them have been texting back and forth. It started with him sending her some flooring ideas and it seems they message back and forth about the project and other things. He is really playing up how hard it is to find people in the dating world today. Mary has been out of the dating scene for 25 years, so he said she will ask questions about what it is like meeting people on the internet and then in person. He tells her it has been hard and it seems to get some compassion from her.
He has an idea of sending her a dick pic and then telling her he meant to send it to someone else. I am nervous about this as it could wreck everything, but he said it will help and really make it so they can talk about sexual things. I may not have control over this, but do any of you have thoughts?
I have also brought up a couple times jokingly about how we might be able to get discounted contract work and she just laughs it off. She did bring him up the other night and said we are lucky to have bumped into him that night.
Plan is to meet him at Home Depot this weekend. She keeps say us and I keep telling her I am not needed there, the two of them have it under control.
He has an idea of sending her a dick pic and then telling her he meant to send it to someone else. I am nervous about this as it could wreck everything, but he said it will help and really make it so they can talk about sexual things. I may not have control over this, but do any of you have thoughts?
I have also brought up a couple times jokingly about how we might be able to get discounted contract work and she just laughs it off. She did bring him up the other night and said we are lucky to have bumped into him that night.
Plan is to meet him at Home Depot this weekend. She keeps say us and I keep telling her I am not needed there, the two of them have it under control.
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The "dick picture" could be a turnoff for your wife. I guess if he apologized and says he sent it to her by mistake and was intended for someone else he is contacting your wife might blow it off (pun intended). Hard to guess which way it would go. It's up to him how he reads her and what he is willing to risk at this point.
good luck!
good luck!
I also agree that the dick pick may be a turnoff. A lot of women do not like those pics, especially at the start of a relationship. If things are going well sexually, then they become more receptive to those kind of pics. But it is your call. I would suggest a more subtle but direct approach. This weekend you said they are getting together to go to Home Depot. Here are my suggestions.
1: Have him pick Mary up. U said they would meet there. Better if he picks her up. He is in control, is seen as the dominant male.
2: Have them go not just to Home Depot. Set up the timing where he takes her to a few stops, like Lowes or one of those designer Bath warehouse places if u have any in the area.
3: With multiple stops, he can work in that he is hungry so they can stop off at a pub, get something to eat and a drink or two. He can at that time slip the conversation into how hard it is to find beautiful thick women like Mary. He can ask her to give him tips and evaluate him. That will get them talking about sex or close to it. Sounds like they have great chemistry, so I do not think it would be a hard sell, no pun intended. But the straight out dick pick is rolling the dice and u may cum up snake eyes after all your harddddd work.
1: Have him pick Mary up. U said they would meet there. Better if he picks her up. He is in control, is seen as the dominant male.
2: Have them go not just to Home Depot. Set up the timing where he takes her to a few stops, like Lowes or one of those designer Bath warehouse places if u have any in the area.
3: With multiple stops, he can work in that he is hungry so they can stop off at a pub, get something to eat and a drink or two. He can at that time slip the conversation into how hard it is to find beautiful thick women like Mary. He can ask her to give him tips and evaluate him. That will get them talking about sex or close to it. Sounds like they have great chemistry, so I do not think it would be a hard sell, no pun intended. But the straight out dick pick is rolling the dice and u may cum up snake eyes after all your harddddd work.
Agreed, dick pic doesn't sound like a great idea. I really am not a huge fan of the bringing up tinder/other women, etc. It could come across that he's a sleaze just out for sex and desperate vs. someone that is genuinely interested and attracted to her specifically. It's better if she feels special.
I've always felt like the best approach is to befriend the woman first, let her feel comfortable and secure - be a shoulder to cry on so to speak. Then let that lead to a sexual relationship. That's how my wife's co-worker did it anyway.
But, then again, what do I know... I'm a cuckold who's wife sucks off and fucks men she works with and friends of mine.
I've always felt like the best approach is to befriend the woman first, let her feel comfortable and secure - be a shoulder to cry on so to speak. Then let that lead to a sexual relationship. That's how my wife's co-worker did it anyway.
But, then again, what do I know... I'm a cuckold who's wife sucks off and fucks men she works with and friends of mine.
A few updates for you all.
They continued to text this week and they setup a time to meet at Home Depot earlier today. She told me she had a bunch of errands to run and she would just meet him there. I didn’t even have to talk her into going alone. I am really not sure if that was purposeful by her or if she just wanted to get out of the house alone this afternoon.
Sounds like they were at Home Depot for over an hour. They looked at a bunch of of different things and he said the two of them just kind sat there and chatted for awhile. She was wearing a white tank top with an unbuttoned flannel shirt, gave a good view of her tits.
He said she seems to really be into hearing about his dating app experiences. She asked him if he had any dates recently and he talked about a girl he had seen a few times. He threw in that she is older and ended up showing her the pic he got off the internet of a similar build to Mary. She was like “wow, you really do like cougars”. They had a good laugh about it and he said that he has always been attracts to older, curvaceous women. She told him that she wouldn’t have expected that and that he is an attractive guy that would have no problem getting any age girl.
He then told her that most of the older women are really sexual and have come out of longer term marriages where the passion was lost. He told Mary that he has a really high sex drive and some of these older women want it a lot once they start hooking up because it had been so long. He said he also threw in that he is larger than the average guy and that seems to excite them too. He said that if a woman has been with a smaller than average guy for years that they can go a little crazy with him. She told him that makes sense, but didn’t elaborate. He said it got a little awkward and he wasn’t sure if she noticed, but as he was talking about this he started to get a boner. He said he was athletic pants and it was pretty obvious, but he never caught her starting at his cock.
I told him I didn’t think sending a cock by “accident” was a good idea, but he said after today he felt even better about it. He said she is into his dating and it would be perfect to send and then apologize that it was for someone else.
Mary didn’t tell me any of these details. She just said they met and looked at some stuff and that it went well. She did stress what a nice guy he is and what great taste he has when picking stuff out. Next steps will be to finalize what we want to do and then likely purchase all the stuff for the project. My next step is to work him into conversation as much as possible and while in the bedroom.
They continued to text this week and they setup a time to meet at Home Depot earlier today. She told me she had a bunch of errands to run and she would just meet him there. I didn’t even have to talk her into going alone. I am really not sure if that was purposeful by her or if she just wanted to get out of the house alone this afternoon.
Sounds like they were at Home Depot for over an hour. They looked at a bunch of of different things and he said the two of them just kind sat there and chatted for awhile. She was wearing a white tank top with an unbuttoned flannel shirt, gave a good view of her tits.
He said she seems to really be into hearing about his dating app experiences. She asked him if he had any dates recently and he talked about a girl he had seen a few times. He threw in that she is older and ended up showing her the pic he got off the internet of a similar build to Mary. She was like “wow, you really do like cougars”. They had a good laugh about it and he said that he has always been attracts to older, curvaceous women. She told him that she wouldn’t have expected that and that he is an attractive guy that would have no problem getting any age girl.
He then told her that most of the older women are really sexual and have come out of longer term marriages where the passion was lost. He told Mary that he has a really high sex drive and some of these older women want it a lot once they start hooking up because it had been so long. He said he also threw in that he is larger than the average guy and that seems to excite them too. He said that if a woman has been with a smaller than average guy for years that they can go a little crazy with him. She told him that makes sense, but didn’t elaborate. He said it got a little awkward and he wasn’t sure if she noticed, but as he was talking about this he started to get a boner. He said he was athletic pants and it was pretty obvious, but he never caught her starting at his cock.
I told him I didn’t think sending a cock by “accident” was a good idea, but he said after today he felt even better about it. He said she is into his dating and it would be perfect to send and then apologize that it was for someone else.
Mary didn’t tell me any of these details. She just said they met and looked at some stuff and that it went well. She did stress what a nice guy he is and what great taste he has when picking stuff out. Next steps will be to finalize what we want to do and then likely purchase all the stuff for the project. My next step is to work him into conversation as much as possible and while in the bedroom.
Thanks for the great update. Seems like things are progressing nicely. With this update, I have changed my mind. Of course it is up to you and your Bull, but I tend to think now that it might be advantageous to send the dick pic and apologize. He has now laid the groundwork well and they have great chemistry and talked extensively about dating, women and sexual preferences so I think he could get away with the pic and add some spice. Any word on when they might meet again or possibly go out to check out any other stores to see what they have. Sounds like she was dressed nicely for the meet with him and it is interesting that she did take off to see him without giving u much grief. That is a good sign. Any word on what the next step may be? Best of luck. Be sure to work him into the conversation and especially in the bedroom.
Interesting thing happened last night. A while ago we bought a strap-on as I told her I wanted to be pegged. She went along with it, but didn’t seem to really like it. She just kind of went along with it and jerked me off while it was in my ass.
Last night she initiated we do it again. This time she took a more dominant role and fucked me with it different than the first time she did it. She was more verbal and fucked me harder with it. I also got verbal and was telling her how much I like it when she fucks me and was moaning loud the whole time. I came so hard that it shot up to my face.
Afterwards, she told me how much she liked hearing me moan and that it turned her on knowing she controlled it all. I told her how much I like being submissive and want her to take control more.
Not sure what brought it on, but I will take it.
Last night she initiated we do it again. This time she took a more dominant role and fucked me with it different than the first time she did it. She was more verbal and fucked me harder with it. I also got verbal and was telling her how much I like it when she fucks me and was moaning loud the whole time. I came so hard that it shot up to my face.
Afterwards, she told me how much she liked hearing me moan and that it turned her on knowing she controlled it all. I told her how much I like being submissive and want her to take control more.
Not sure what brought it on, but I will take it.
This is really a hot development. If she becomes more dominant and enjoys it, that is all the better for her if she develops feelings for your potential stud. She will be more willing to "make the move" and fuck him. Also, it will be interesting to see if your stud sends her the dick pic, if she tells u about it. If she does not tell u, I predict she will tell that girlfriend (if she is close with her) from that other couple u were out with that night you met the stud in the bar. If he sends the dick pic and she does not tell u, watch her on the cellphone. I predict her cell will be burning up with confidential calls to the girlfriend telling her about it, sharing the story and possibly looking for advice. Too bad u are probably not on really tight terms with the girlfriend. If those calls to her do take place, that would provide u with some hot valuable intel on where things are going. My wife's slut girlfriend a few years back was invaluable keeping me up on my wife's studs and dates, unbeknownst to her. Best of luck.
