Time to plan.
Her flight leaves Inchon her this Monday or Monday next at 1930 hours and arrives JFK at 2045 hours your Monday or Monday next. It will be near 1AM by the time you get her home.
She will be exhausted, not only from the jet lag but because of the emotional energy she expended being a slut. She will want you to be loving, supporting, caring, and likely calming, yet so excited to see her.
You should think now how to make her homecoming the best husband loves me experience possible. Most of that is in attitude. Given her activities, acceptance and appreciation should be foremost. Yes, you still love her. More important, you still respect her and still want in her pants, just not now, she’s tired. Tell her repeatedly that you love her, you respect her, you thank her for doing what she did, and how impressed you are in her self-control and self-realization. You couldn't be prouder of her. You are so glad she agreed to marry you. Becoming your wife is the greatest gift imaginable.
Think hard on what homecoming experience you should make. A very clean properly stocked house is a must. All laundry done. Food? She needs hydration as the airplane atmosphere dehydrates. So have her favorite water on ice. No alcohol. No stimulants including caffeine. A turned down bed. With rose pedals? A hot bath? Have ready whatever she considers her most luxurious relaxation.
Now for gifts. She did big, big things for you, for her, and for you two as couple. I don’t know and don’t want to know your financial situation. But if you can, she deserves a big, big gift—something permanent. I bought my wife original art for each baby she gave me. Occasionally I walk her down the hall and remind her “this is for your gift or our son, this is for your gift of our daughter. Thank you for making a family with me.” You want to do something similar to commemorate her gift of your joint sexual exploration. How about that jewelry she wants, or a piece of art, or? Make it special, memorable, and permanent.
The next day you can share with her other more intimate gifts. I think you should get her a babydoll negligee to commemorate her babydoll first-extramarital-fuck dress. Yes, you are proud of her for doing that, and no, you don’t want to treat it as a dirty secret seldom mentioned. It represents a right of passage and should be celebrated, visibly and openly between you two.
He bought her lingerie. I think you should too. I suggest the NYC outlets of Agent Provocateur
www.agentprovocateur.com, Fox and Rose,
www.foxandrose.com/ , Guia La Bruna,
www.guialabruna.it/ , Pleasurements,
www.pleasurements.com/ , Fleur of England,
www.fleurofengland.com/ , Bordelle,
www.bordelle.co.uk/ , Myla,
www.myla.com , Jean Yu from Korea,
www.jeanyu.com , Carine Gilson,
www.carinegilson.com , Faire Frou Frou ,
www.fairefroufrou.com , LaPerla ,
www.laperla.com , and her favorite brands. Any girl who buys Christian Louboutins on your credit card knows good lingerie. You should oblige her expensive taste with your gifts.
If she arrives next Monday you have plenty of time. If you are free to go to Manhattan tomorrow, you could be ready for this Monday. Keep the receipts. Bra fits are very hard to get right by size descriptions.
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Other thoughts later.