Will she take the leap?

[Saraha]

Custer is giving you very good advice regarding learning to kiss her feet, hands, legs, thighs and worshipping the promised land with your tongue.

Your role as a cuckold needs to be "oral worship" with hundreds of kisses all over her body, telling her how sexy and desirable her body is. Leave the penetration sex for her lover so she will spend more time with him. This will mean you don't operate in his territory. He uses his cock and you use your tongue, so your wife craves both "treatments". She will look forward to her time in bed with you, and her time with her lovers (and will become addicted to her primal needs being met). She will begin to fee like a wife who has walked through the looking glass that Alice in Wonderland walked through - she will "cum alive" and her family and friends will wonder why she is so happy.

The video proves your wife likes men to give her compliments about her body.

Give your wife compliments with your mouth by kissing, sucking, licking and words of praise that improve her self-esteem. Slide your tongue up/down the groove of her buttocks like a bank card sliding in a card reader in a shop. Kiss that area with gusto so she knows you like doing it as often as possible.

Please do more about the house to allow her to "freshen up". The more housework you do, the more time she has to be with her lovers. Tell her how pleased you are to have married such a sexy wife, and how she deserves to have as much time as she needs to date other men as a nice break from all the duties of being married.

(she told the guy you did not mind her being with other men as long as she came home to you - the marriage did not break up). Oral Body Worship will make your marriage stronger and more loving, and in time she will begin to give you juicy comments about her dating as you suck between her thighs.

Ask her if she has enough clothes to look her sexy best? Give her extra money for spa or beauty treatments and massages. If she is to enjoy her dates, she needs to feel/look her best to be able to GIVE HER BEST to her lovers.

Her lovers will appreciate and compliment her for having dressed up for them and she will be in a very good mood when she is home with you.

When you have mastered the art of oral worship, she will reward you by bringing creampies home to thank you for letting her turn her hopes and dreams and fantasies into AWESOME REALITY. She will think you are wonderful for understanding the needs of a female. Win-win-win.

 

[steve3416]

Thanks for the good advice. I came home early today and took the wife shopping at the local mall. We had a nice time strolling through the shops, when I asked what she wanted for gift. She was surprised and asked was I sure. I reassurred her any gift she wanted. She came in close and whispered in my ear she wanted a sexual encounter. I instantly got hard. I knew she wasn't referring to me. I asked again and she whispered softly, she wanted a sexual encounter. I held her tight against my body.

I asked why, she mentioned I asked if she could have anything and she wanted that.

 

[Custer Laststand]

Sounds like progress....

Steve,

Thanks for the good advice.

You're welcome (on behalf of Saraha, as well).

I came home early today and took the wife shopping at the local mall. We had a nice time strolling through the shops, when I asked what she wanted for gift. She was surprised and asked was I sure.

There's nothing surprising about your question, since Christmas is coming up soon. Thus, your wife must have assumed that at long last you were asking her to state openly she wants to fuck another man. (I'll refer to her as "your wife" instead of "the wife," since the latter sounds like you're referring to your TV or something.)

I reassurred her [she could have] any gift she wanted.

Awright.... now you're coming around....

She came in close and whispered in my ear she wanted a sexual encounter.

VERY good! Your wife came right out and told you.

I instantly got hard.

That was the right response.... it was entirely proper and appropriate.

I asked again and she whispered softly, she wanted a sexual encounter. I held her tight against my body.

Excellent.... again the right response....

I asked why. She mentioned I [said] she could have anything [she wanted] and she wanted that.

Here's a slightly different interpretation from your comment,

I knew she wasn't referring to me.

It would be, she was referring to you. You began your post yesterday by saying you hadn't fucked your wife for a long time. A married woman who is young and sexual finds it disturbing and gets upset if her husband stops fucking her and doesn't express sexual desire for her in any other way either. Rather, he sneaks off and masturbates instead, as you said you were doing.

Thus, I strongly suggest it's time (past time, actually) to treat your wife to an evening of sex in the best way you can.... starting this evening, since it's Friday. Begin by serving her — and yourself, of course — a glass of wine on the couch. If you have some pornographic movies, put one on you know she likes.... or alternatively, tell her softly and at length how much you love her and how much she turns you on. Then, begin by kissing her feet (as I mentioned above, and as seconded by Saraha), and work your way up her legs.... and finally, gently suck her pussy until she orgasms.... then ask her sensuously if she would like you to continue sucking her pussy, or if she would like something else. (Try to get your wife to tell you what she wants, rather than making assumptions.) Then, give it to her and continue for as long as she wishes.

Then, tomorrow morning, say something like: "I hope you were satisfied with my gift...", and pose your question again: "Would you like an additional gift...?" and see if she says something more specific, like: "Yes Stevie darling, I would like to take a lover."

You can then reply by giving your wife permission to do so — in a loving way, of course — since she will have someone in mind. (As opposed to attempting to find someone for her yourself, since from your post yesterday, it sounds like she has at least one lover.)

As your contribution to your wife's gift, you could then offer to accompany her shopping and advise her as she goes out and selects suitably hot and revealing clothing, pumps and/or FMB's for her lover — and, of course, pay for everything, possibly including getting her hair done if she wants that.

Incidentally, to put your marriage on a better track and resolve uncertainty about whether, when and what kind of lovemaking your wife wants from you, you might suggest this site to her:

Real Women Don't Do Housework

and read it yourself.... then, if it appeals to both of you (or to your wife, in particular), proceed accordingly.

—Custer

 

[Custer Laststand]

Steve,

How's it going...?

I asked again and she whispered softly, she wanted a sexual encounter. I held her tight against my body. I asked why, she mentioned I asked if she could have anything and she wanted that.

Did you give your wife her gift...? How did she respond...?

—Custer

 

[steve3416]

Spent the night carasessing and fondling my wife's body while she laid there enjoying my hands all over her body. She was quite relaxed. I told her how sexy she looked and how perfect her body is. She thanked me and proceeded to take charge by telling me in the next couple of months she going to take off for a few days to have her sexual encounter and not to worry about it. She mentioned she'd even might learn a new thing or two and bring it back to the bedroom for me to enjoy. I was extremely hard and horny and did not question her. She took off the rest of clothes and laid naked on the bed. I got on top of her and slide my puny dick inside her really wet pussy. This time it felt strange. In the past, when I would slide my dick in her pussy it was really tight, now it seemed a little looser. oh well, I didn't really care at the time, but wanted to fuck my wife. As I pumped away, my wife wasn't into it. She just laid there while I fucked and squeezed her big tits. I only had about 5 minutes of action, before she pulled me out and told me that was enough. I asked why, she whispered you haven't desired it...

I got off her like a good boy, went to the shower and jacked off. It was sweet cum ozzing off my little cock.

 

[CuckoldMick]

Steve, forgive me for sprinkling on your parade because I know first hand what a sexually charged thing being cuckolded is--- but truly be careful what you ask for. A cuckold's life is one of extremes--- extreme sexual arousal and vicarious pleasure and extreme frustration and humiliation. As others have written--- once you let it happen there's no going back. Early on in my career as a cuckold my wife and I used to argue about the lifestyle and she'd threaten to quit. Finally I told her great, let’s just get back to "us" and get out of this crazy lifestyle--- she never made this threat again and in fact, has no intention of ever stopping. Curiously, when ever we discuss this matter she always tells me that she stays in it "for me" and for my pleasure....(which always makes me wonder....)

CuckoldMick

 

[steve3416]

While in bed we started to talk about hot sex. She paused and told me we never had hot sex, she stated she would, but not would me. I told her the sex could be deep and long, she laughed and stated deep and long. I paused and admitted ok, my cock was small. She started to talk about her favorite positions and told me my little cock could not fill per her

She stated we can have regular sex, even better make me a video tape of her having hot sex for me to enjoy later and watch together.
She asked me if I was ok with her telling me she wanted hot sex from another guy. I continuted to rub her body and show her my appreciation by placing her hand on my hard little cock. She got the picture. I told my wife how beautiful her tits looked and she told me she's been told before. I asked have they been squeezed and sucked and she commented and told me they can be in the sex tape, whatever I wanted. I asked about her sucking cock on tape, she said she would. The conversation got hotter and I began to ask about having sex with her. She stated the only time I could have sex with her is if I allowed her to have sex with someone else. I was completely horny at this time. I grabbed my wife and sucked on her big tits. She pulled me off and said no, no. She stated does this mean I can have sex with another guy? I nodded and began to suck her tits again. She grabbed my cock and whispered this is all the sex you will get until I get mine.