Will she take the leap?

[steve3416]

A few days ago in bed, my wife was feeling pretty frisky. She came over and gave me a tease session; showing her boobs to me. She moved in quickly and began to measure my cock with her fingers while still soft. Showing me the size with her index and thumb. A few seconds later I was hard and she remeasured again and told me it was still small. I went along and she massaged me down their for about 30 seconds. We moved into conversations about her feeling horny. I asked if she wanted sex, she stated no. I offered again, she stated she wanted good sex.

She brought up the ideal of having a couple of side men in her life giving her good sex. I asked if she wanted two men giving her sex, she replied oh yeah. She wasn't kidding.

It's been only a short time after all the drama between us, and my wife is slowly trying to work in the ideal of having sex with other men. My initial reaction was, I'm not sure, but a part of me wanted her to gone down the path again. I realize I will never be good enough in bed for my wife and she wanted more hot sex, but not with me.

She mentioned she's been masturbating often to fulfill her needs. I quickly moved in and told her how hot she looked. She allowed me to remove her clothing to reveal her tight body and beautifl boobs. I rubbed, squeezed, and kissed them. I asked her to allow me to take naked picture. She agreed. She posed in different outfits and often doing a stripping dance in the process. She was hot, and showed off her sexiness. She squeezed he boobs, let me take side angle shots, and gave me lots of naughty sexy looks.

We looked at the pictures together in bed. The funny thing about it all, while laying in bed with my wife as I was touching her bed, I was imaging it was the other in the past who was touching and feeling her up. I imagined the other guy was caressing her big boobs, squeezing her ass, and feeling her body from head to toe. I was extremely horny and attempted to mount my wife. I tried but she told me she wasn't wet. I tried a few times, but she was dry. She told she's wasn't horny at least not for me. She winked and told me it was ok, stated she let me watch her have fun.

 

[steve3416]

A few days ago in bed, my wife was feeling pretty frisky. She came over and gave me a tease session; showing her boobs to me. She moved in quickly and began to measure my cock with her fingers while still soft. Showing me the size with her index and thumb. A few seconds later I was hard and she remeasured again and told me it was still small. I went along and she massaged me down their for about 30 seconds. We moved into conversations about her feeling horny. I asked if she wanted sex, she stated no. I offered again, she stated she wanted good sex.

She brought up the ideal of having a couple of side men in her life giving her good sex. I asked if she wanted two men giving her sex, she replied oh yeah. She wasn't kidding.

It's been only a short time after all the drama between us, and my wife is slowly trying to work in the ideal of having sex with other men. My initial reaction was, I'm not sure, but a part of me wanted her to gone down the path again. I realize I will never be good enough in bed for my wife and she wanted more hot sex, but not with me.

She mentioned she's been masturbating often to fulfill her needs. I quickly moved in and told her how hot she looked. She allowed me to remove her clothing to reveal her tight body and beautifl boobs. I rubbed, squeezed, and kissed them. I asked her to allow me to take naked picture. She agreed. She posed in different outfits and often doing a stripping dance in the process. She was hot, and showed off her sexiness. She squeezed he boobs, let me take side angle shots, and gave me lots of naughty sexy looks.

We looked at the pictures together in bed. The funny thing about it all, while laying in bed with my wife as I was touching her bed, I was imaging it was the other in the past who was touching and feeling her up. I imagined the other guy was caressing her big boobs, squeezing her ass, and feeling her body from head to toe. I was extremely horny and attempted to mount my wife. I tried but she told me she wasn't wet. I tried a few times, but she was dry. She told she's wasn't horny at least not for me. She winked and told me it was ok, stated she let me watch her have fun.

 

[steve3416]

My wife has recently expressed interest in pursuing the lifestyle again, even though I've had reservations since the last fall out. She's recently asks for permission to spend a weekend or even one evening having sex with someone other than me. She has openly told me she wants a 6-7 inch cock to fill her sexual needs. My wife has commented on my small cock and called it a 1-2 incher and wants to be sexually pleased.

She's expressed she wants to be with me for everything else, but wants to have sex outside of our relationship. I told her I could please her and she just laughed. Truth be told I was turned on hearing my wife want others again, but I'm worried about another negative incident. The ideal of my wife being with another man does still turn me on. Especially since, her body has tighten up and her boobs are flush and firm. I fantasize about her getting on top of a big cock riding it while her big boobs are bouncing up and down. All I can visualize is my hot wife getting her tight pussy stretched and her big tits squeezed.

Last night in bed, my wife was feeling horny, so I proceeded to massage her soft body. I removed her clothes and massage her from head to toe. She let out small moans, to signal she enjoyed it. I was hard and horny the entire time, but hesitated to make my move, instead all I could imagine was another man giving her the pleasure she wanted. It made me harder and hornier thinking about her tight pussy being stretch. In the end, I chickened out and did not fuck my wife. I opted to caress her tits and fall asleep with my my boner.

As I attempted to sleep all I could think about was fantasizing about my wife with another man.

 

[AngleBaby]

It sounds like you want to be cucked to enhance both your sex lives, but you are hurt by the idea that she would rate you second to her lovers.

 

[Saraha]

My wife has recently expressed interest in pursuing the lifestyle again, even though I've had reservations since the last fall out. She's recently asks for permission to spend a weekend or even one evening having sex with someone other than me. She has openly told me she wants a 6-7 inch cock to fill her sexual needs. My wife has commented on my small cock and called it a 1-2 incher and wants to be sexually pleased.

She's expressed she wants to be with me for everything else, but wants to have sex outside of our relationship. I told her I could please her and she just laughed. Truth be told I was turned on hearing my wife want others again, but I'm worried about another negative incident. The ideal of my wife being with another man does still turn me on. Especially since, her body has tighten up and her boobs are flush and firm. I fantasize about her getting on top of a big cock riding it while her big boobs are bouncing up and down. All I can visualize is my hot wife getting her tight pussy stretched and her big tits squeezed.

Last night in bed, my wife was feeling horny, so I proceeded to massage her soft body. I removed her clothes and massage her from head to toe. She let out small moans, to signal she enjoyed it. I was hard and horny the entire time, but hesitated to make my move, instead all I could imagine was another man giving her the pleasure she wanted. It made me harder and hornier thinking about her tight pussy being stretch. In the end, I chickened out and did not fuck my wife. I opted to caress her tits and fall asleep with my my boner.

As I attempted to sleep all I could think about was fantasizing about my wife with another man.

GIVE INTO your DESIRES, let her try her fantasies for 3 months as an experiment, otherwise she might find herself doing it behind your back.

 

[marys_pet]

GIVE INTO your DESIRES, let her try her fantasies for 3 months as an experiment, otherwise she might find herself doing it behind your back.

ROFLMAO at the idea of a 3-month experiment, as if ending the "experiment" at the end of that time period would be a simple thing. Once the door has been opened, there is no going back. You need to be absolutely certain that you want to step through it, before doing so.

 

[steve3416]

My wife asked me to take naked pictures of her last night. I had fun snapping shots of her in all her beauty. She let me massage and touch her all over, but when I attempted to have sex with her she stopped me and gave me some lame excuse.

She laid next to me naked and brought up some fantasies stories I liked and asked if I wanted them to be real. I said no, but really wanted to say yes. She told me she can make them a reality and would bring me visuals to enjoy on my own. She told me no emotional attachment would occur. I really liked what I was hearing, but restrained from saying yes, and only said no.

I leaned over and grabbed her hot naked body and massaged her. All I could think about was my wife being touched by another man and caressing her big tits and squeezing her ass. I admit I was pretty turned on.

I'm not sure if this is wrong, but all I could think about was my wife's body was hot and deserved to be satisfied rightly.

 

[Custer Laststand]

Maybe you should allow your wife to make some progress (but not too much, of course).

Steve,

My wife asked me to take naked pictures of her last night. I had fun snapping shots of her in all her beauty.

That's intriguing, as well as erotic. What do you think your wife will do with her new nude photos....?

She let me massage and touch her all over....

Ah, she turned you on....

....but when I attempted to have sex with her, she stopped me and gave me some lame excuse.

You can interpret that, of course, as a decision to test you.

She laid next to me naked and brought up some fantasy stories I liked and asked if I wanted them to be real.

That was the test....

I said no, but really wanted to say yes.

Oh, oh.... you didn't pass.

She told me she can make them a reality and would bring me visuals to enjoy on my own. She told me no emotional attachment would occur.

That's a very nice offer. There are lots of men whose wives don't want to hear about their sexual fantasies, and would definitely not share their own (if they have any) — let alone offer to make them reality.

I really liked what I was hearing, but restrained from saying yes and only said no.

Well, no self-respecting husband with a highly-sexual wife wants to let her know, of course, he will "agree easily" to her dating and taking the lovers she requires. Your responses, so far, have been appropriately coy for a husband with a proper upbringing. Your mother would approve (no doubt).

.... [but] all I could think about was my wife being touched by another man, caressing her big tits and squeezing her ass. I admit I was pretty turned on.

Ah, so you do have a cuckold personality — as also suggested by your writing all this in a cuckolds forum, as opposed to, say, a religious forum offering a 12-step program for putting wives who have strayed back on the path to righteousness.

Your wife, understanding this, is playing you skillfully....

I'm not sure if this is wrong, but all I could think about was, my wife's body is hot and deserved to be satisfied rightly.

What's right will be what works for your marriage and makes your wife happy. She's been telling you repeatedly in various ways what she needs, hoping you will see the picture....

Maybe next time your wife tests you (this could be fairly soon), you could be a little less coy and allow her to make some progress. A way to do so may be to ask her what she would see as an ideal marriage, including what she would visualize as your role.... all without committing to anything, of course.... at least not yet, in order to keep up your facade as a proper self-respecting husband.

—Custer

 

[steve3416]

I agree, she is playing me again. She keeps bringing up the ideal of having a sexual relationship with other men with the hopes I’ll agree. Every morning before I go to work, I re-watch her sex video on the computer, go take a shower, masturbate to visual images of my wife pleasing another man. It’s always a different erotic image, but always her with another man touching and fucking my wife. It’s very addictive to watch my wife in a sex video doing things with another man she wouldn’t do with me.
Her playful laugh and giggle, mixed with her insatiable need for sex is very arousing. I enjoy watching her give another man a blowjob and her riding on a big cock, while ending it with him cumming all over her tits.
I realize I could never fulfill her sexually, but hesitate to take the step again. But, seeing my wife have sex with another man leaves me wanting more. Still confused

 

[Custer Laststand]

Steve,

I agree, [my wife] is playing me again. She keeps bringing up the idea of having sexual relationships with other men in hopes I’ll agree.

So your wife is keeping the pressure on. How long will you be able to resist....?

Every morning before I go to work, I re-watch her sex video on the computer, go take a shower, and masturbate to visual images of my wife pleasing another man.

Next time she brings up her desire to take a lover (/lovers), you might mention you do those things every morning and you really appreciate her making that video for you....

It’s always a different erotic image, but always her with another man touching and fucking my wife. It’s very addictive to watch my wife in a sex video doing things with another man she wouldn’t do with me.

Yes, I would think so....

Her playful laugh and giggle, mixed with her insatiable need for sex is very arousing. I enjoy watching her give another man a blowjob and her riding on a big cock, while ending it with him cumming all over her tits.

Jeez.... that sounds hot as hell. Since she made that video for you, are you sure she isn't continuing to see her lover(s) on a regular basis? Since you find her video so hot you can't resist jacking off to it every morning, think how hot she must find it to actually do those things.

Maybe a reasonable assumption would be that your wife *is* continuing to fuck her lover(s), and she's merely trying to entice you into agreeing to "allow" her to do it as a formality. Is it possible her motivation is that she wants you to openly acknowledge her right, as your wife and the woman of her household, to date and fuck whomever she pleases — because she'd rather do it with your permission and your full acquiescence, than behind your back....?

I realize I could never fulfill her sexually, but hesitate to take the step again.

Given your preoccupations and fantasies, is it possible your marriage would be *much* more erotic and intense for both of you if you were to acquiesce in your wife's desires and give her your full permission to date and fuck other men....?

At this point, you might consider telling your wife you understand and appreciate her desires, but you're fearful of losing her to another man. I.e., bring this out into the open. Thus, if she wants you to agree to a hotwife / cuckold husband marriage, she and you will need to talk about how to preserve your marriage. Assuming, that is, she wants to stay married to you (and it sounds like she does). For purposes of this discussion, I suggest treating this as still an open question; i.e., don't talk with her in an accusatory way as if you assume she's continuing to fuck other men.

But, seeing my wife have sex with another man leaves me wanting more. Still confused.

Ah.... your cuckold persona again. Re. still being confused, I suggest bringing the important questions and your concerns out into the open (say, when you're in bed with her) and making it clear you're willing — indeed, you want — to talk with her about these things on all levels. Then, while doing so, listen carefully to everything she says, talk reasonably with her, resist the urge to argue (also try not to seem anxious), and in addition try to resist the urge to be obstructionist. Try to converge with your wife to the form of relationship she wants for your marriage (overtly) and you want too (covertly, but you're having a hard time admitting that to her as well as to yourself).

In other words, once your conversation is in progress I suggest raising relevant questions, talking with your wife (not at her) about everything she wants to talk about, and letting her guide the conversation. You may find yourself gaining more insight into her and her needs, and in the process gaining more insight into yourself.

—Custer

 

[steve3416]

Your possibly right, my cuckold persona continues to persist. Since the beginning of the summer, my wife has been wearing summer dresses without a bra. I first noticed when I was able to see about half of her right breast. I later took a few more glances and got really horny and asked her if she was not wearing a bra she smiled and said yes and asked if I liked. I responded yes without hesitation. In my mind, I thought it would be hot if her boob came out of her dress and someone noticed and how her reaction would be.

Most recently she wore another summer dress without a bra, this more revealing than the other because it was a halter dress. I quickly noticed her right boob was about half revealed from the side. As she was running to the car you could see her boobs bouncing up and down to the point a few guys walking by, talking out loud stated look at those big tits. As we entered the car I noticed what the other men had stated and my wife's boob was clearly visible to the onlookers. It was hot!

Later that day, I had noticed a few other men checking out my wife and clearly eyeing her visible right boob. No nipple, but the flesh and outline of her round boob. It was easy to noticed her perfect D cup tits.

In bed, my wife let me touch and massage her boobs. While caressing her boobs, I was thinking about her sex video and what the guy must have felt while folding my hot sexy wife. cupping her breasts from behind and pressing his hard cuck up against my wife's ass. I was turned on by the thought of another man feeling my wife's hot body up and down and touching every inch of her. I keep massaging her body and kept thinking about her sex video. I grabbed her hand and put it on my cock and further imagined it was her hand on another guy's cock. Stroking and enjoying it for all its length and girth. Feeling inadequate because my little pecker could never fulfill her sexual needs. All I could do was touch and caress her body, and feel my cock was not worthy of insertion into her hot temple body. My mind kept telling me I can't handle her body and to allow another man to mount and fill her pleasures.

I continued to touch and massage her body and started to wind down. My wife was hot and horny after the massage. I asked if she wanted sex, she stated no.

The following morning I woke up horny. I went outside and began to masturbate. I opened up her sex video and a few other naked pictures she let me take of her a couple of weeks ago. I quickly came after 5 minutes of intense stroking. I felt relieve, but also knew I was not worthy of my wife's hot body because I could only last 5 minutes or less. I knew if my cock entered her sweet and tight pussy I would explode in a matter minutes leaving her unsatisfied.

 

[Custer Laststand]

Steve,

You're possibly right, my cuckold persona continues to persist.

Yes, I think so. Your most recent post certainly suggests that as well.

Since the beginning of the summer, my wife has been wearing summer dresses without a bra.

Excellent! Good for her. Obviously she's overtly attempting to turn on other men....

Most recently she wore another summer dress without a bra, this more revealing than the other because it was a halter dress. I quickly noticed her right boob was about half revealed from the side. As she was running to the car you could see her boobs bouncing up and down to the point a few guys walking by, talking out loud stated look at those big tits.

....and is doing so successfully.

Later that day, I had noticed a few other men checking out my wife and clearly eyeing her visible right boob. .... It was easy to notice her perfect D cup tits.

Impressive.... your wife's big tits are clearly a big asset in her quest to attract other men to fuck.

[/QUOTE] In bed, my wife let me touch and massage her boobs. [/QUOTE]

That was very kind of your wife.

[/QUOTE] .... I was turned on by the thought of another man feeling my wife's hot body up and down and touching every inch of her. .... All I could do was touch and caress her body, and feel my cock was not worthy of insertion into her hot temple. My mind kept telling me I can't handle her body and to allow another man to mount her and fulfill her needs. [/QUOTE]

Ah.... further evidence of your intense desire to serve your wife as her cuckold....

[/QUOTE] .... My wife was hot and horny after the massage. I asked if she wanted sex; she said no. [/QUOTE]

Hm.... sounds like since you have not yet agreed to what your wife wants (although you will, I think), she did not give you what you wanted.

A good step, at this point, would be to inform your wife as sincerely as possible that you want to become her cuntsucker, and satisfy her as often as she wishes with your lips and tongue. And, if she would take pleasure in it, to become her asskisser.

[/QUOTE] The following morning I woke up horny. I went outside and began to masturbate. I opened up her sex video and a few other naked pictures she let me take of her a couple of weeks ago. I quickly came after 5 minutes of intense stroking. I felt relieve, but also knew I was not worthy of my wife's hot body because I could only last 5 minutes or less. [/QUOTE]

I think you have reached the right conclusion.

But, you still need to confess to your wife you will not only agree but you badly want to agree to her stated desire to take lovers and make you her cuckold.... that you acknowledge it is and should be her right and prerogative to date and fuck other men, as she wishes.

Having been fortunate enough for your gorgeous, highly-sexual wife to have accepted you as her husband, it may help you accept your inevitable role in her marriage to read Ms. Elise Sutton's web site (google "elise sutton") and her two books (you can order them from her site, or from well-known online distributors). Then, suggest Ms. Elise's writings to your wife.

As a gift, you might also consider buying your beautiful wife a subscription to Ms. Elise's ezine, "Predominant." (She will send you instructions re. how to subscribe if you send her an e-mail note; her address is on her site.) This could go a long way toward impressing your wife with your sincere desire to increase her happiness and please her in every way.

—Custer

 

[steve3416]

I recently read my wife's chat session and noticed a couple of hot messages she wrote to a male friend. He responded in kind and offered his services whenever she needed. I was a little surprised when I found out, but was absolutely turned on my wife was acting this way.

Last night I was feeling horny and massaged my wife. I was caressing her boobs and butt and telling her how hot her body looked and felt. She tooked off her clothes and let me enjoy looking and touching her body. She rolled over and mentioned if I wanted to be cuckold. I didn't know how to respond and stated no, even though I knew I wanted to say yes. She asked again if I wanted to be cuckold, I didn't answer. I continued to massage her tight body and was sucking her tits. She got up on all fours and gave me a preview of her butt. I was absolutely floored, she looked hot and sexy. Her sweet ass in the air and her big boobs pressed against the pillow. She proceeded to sit on top of me and gave me a bird's eye view of her wet pussy and big tits. I grabbed her boobs without hesitation. They were big, round, and firm; perfect tits.

She grabbed my little cock and inserted it into her wet pussy. I was in heaven. I hadn't fucked my wife in months and it felt good. She let out a moan and grabbed and foundled her tits while bouncing up and down my little pecker. I held onto her hips and enjoyed the ride. My wife looked like she was enjoying herself more than usual. I suspect she must be thinking about someone else because she was moaning like crazy. I know I suck in bed so I think she must've been thinking about someone else's cock.

Knowing my lack of sexual stamina I lasted about 5 minutes before I cramped up. My wife got off and proceeded to the bathroom to shower up. As she was in the shower I proceeded to finish off by masturbating to her cuckold question. I shoot off a huge load

 

[nimrod]

Steve, just give into it! She's handing it to you on a platter. She wants to be properly fucked and you want that for her so next time she asks if you want to be cuckold, just say "YES! I want you to experience all the good loving that you have been missing."

Before you know it you'll be sitting at home wanking off while she is out getting what she needs. It's all pretty simple.

 

[Custer Laststand]

Steve,

I recently read my wife's chat session and noticed a couple of hot messages she wrote to a male friend. He responded in kind and offered his services whenever she needed. I was a little surprised when I found out, but was absolutely turned on my wife was acting this way.

Does your wife know you read her chat sessions, and are aware of her hot on-line conversations with her lover(s)-in-waiting?

Last night I was feeling horny and massaged my wife.

Good. Giving your wife messages is an important aspect of your role as her cuckold-in-waiting.

I was caressing her boobs and butt and telling her how hot her body looked and felt.

Also good. Complimenting your wife on her highly-sexual appearance and attributes, as well as on how good she looks whenever she dresses attractively, is another important aspect of your role as her cuckold-in-waiting.

She took off her clothes and let me enjoy looking [at her] and touching her body.

It was very kind of your wife to do that for you.

She rolled over and asked if I want to be cuckold. I didn't know how to respond and said "no," even though I knew I wanted to say "yes."

Oh, oh.... lying to your wife is not a good idea.

She asked again if I wanted to be cuckold, and I didn't answer.

Ah.... so she sensed you had not told her the truth. She understands you. But, she wants you to tell her what you want out loud. She wants you to tell her what she wants to hear.

She grabbed my little cock and inserted it into her wet pussy. I was in heaven. I hadn't fucked my wife in months and it felt good. She let out a moan and grabbed and foundled her tits while bouncing up and down on my little pecker.

That was very kind of your wife to fuck you, even though you are holding out on her and not telling her what it is both she and you really want.

I held onto her hips and enjoyed the ride. My wife looked like she was enjoying herself more than usual. I suspect she must have been thinking of someone else....

Yes, more than likely....

[Later,] as she was in the shower, I finished off by masturbating to her cuckold question. I shot off a huge load.

Hm.... I'd say it sounds like Nimrod has given you some good advice.

—Custer

 

[Ballspanking]

Hi Steve,

Unfortunately I'm a latecomer to this thread.
Any chance you can post some of her pics again?

Good luck on Thursday, I hope ha has a massive cock that makes her lose her head!

 

[steve3416]

My wife allowed me to rub her down last night. Her soft skin and perfect boobs are always a pleasure to touch. My wife is still pushing to cuckold me. She asked me if I wanted to be cuckold and she would like a couple of extra men on the side. She told me I was the one who put the ideal in her head. She asked if I still get turned on by other men checking her out.

I didn't know what to say, but got horny thinking about it. Everyday I fantasize in the shower about my wife fucking other men. Let me know what you think about her body?

 

[Custer Laststand]

Steve,

My wife allowed me to rub her down last night. Her soft skin and perfect boobs are always a pleasure to touch.

It was very kind of your wife to allow you to touch her in such intimate ways, given your continuing failure to agree that she can have what she wants.

My wife is still pushing to cuckold me. She asked me if I wanted to be cuckold and [said] she would like a couple of extra men on the side.

That may be the most explicit statement of a wife's needs any cuckold-in-waiting could ever hope to hear.

She told me I was the one who put the idea in her head.

She makes a good point.

She asked if I still get turned on by other men checking her out. I didn't know what to say, but got horny thinking about it. Everyday I fantasize in the shower about my wife fucking other men.

It now seems unlikely you'll ever be able to make a decision to tell your wife she can have what she wants, and you want that for her too. Thus, I suggest telling her she can make that decision. You will trust her to do what she thinks is best for herself and for the two of you, and if that involves her taking lovers, you will accept her need to do that.

Let me know what you think about her body?

Obviously that's irrelevant. You are the one who needs to deal with your wife and her needs. The sooner, the better.

—Custer

 

[steve3416]

It's been a couple of months since the wife and I had sex. I've not really attempted to engage with her sexually, but hide quietly in another room look at porn and her naked pictures and masturbate to my hearts delight thinking about her being naughty. It's odd considering my wife is able and willing to give me sex, but I've been choosing my fantasy and masturbating secretly to images of her having fun with others.

I haven't really paid attention to my wife's body, but recently noticed how curvy and hot such is looking. Later that night I reached over and fondled my wife. I reached and grabbed her big tits with much delight and imagined how the guy she was seeing must have felt the first time her grabbed my wife's big tits and squeezed. My wife noticed my excitement. I asked her to take off her top. She obliged, WOW I was rock hard and grabbed both of those beautiful tits. I told her they were marvelous, such smiled and told me she's been told that before and giggled. I was hornier than ever. She hinted she needed to have them enjoyed by others. I engaged and told her I bet she would.

The next night while watching tv, I reached over and began to fondled her tits again, and complimented her boobs. She told me I was coming home to early after work and needed her alone time incase someone was over. I was hard and engage in titlating conversation. Later in bed, while rubbing my wife's ass she told me she liked to make a movie for me and for me to watch and masturbate whenever I felt like. I wasn't sure what she meant and asked her again. She hinted, she liked to make me a sex tape of her having sex and wanted to give me the tape to enjoy on my own time or even watch together. I was really horny and asked her more. She told me she needed good sex and told me I wasn't capable of it, but wanted to make a sex video for me.

Not really sure how to proceed now. I really love the ideal of having a sex tape of my wife to enjoy time and time again. The visual images of another man sucking on her big tits, fucking her tight pussy, and making my wife cum to delight is addicitve and pleasurable. I already masturbate furiously to her nudie pics. I love hearing her stories, but most enjoyablely reply the events of her past trist with another man. I'm torn, What shall I do? Do I enjoy the fantasy and let her fulfill it. I'm not sure if I can handle seeing a live video of my wife bending over and being fucked or watching her suck a bigger thicher cock and enjoying ever inch and moment of it. Or even the sight of her big tits being sucked and squeezed and seeing the facials expresssions of delight as another man pleases every inch of wife leaving her wanting more of his cock while leaving me holding my own cock only to masturbate to my wife's sexual trist. I'm at crossroad of can I deal with my wife's sexual desire of wanting to be fucked all the time by someone other than me. Only to have her touch my puny cock time to time and only enjoy my orgasm through my own hands of masturbation while watching another man delightful and skillfully fucking my horny, beautiful, big cheasted wife.

 

[Custer Laststand]

Steve,

Good to hear from you; it's been a while. It sounds like you've come a long way in some ways.

It's been a couple of months since my wife and I had sex.

Hm.... that's not so good. It's very important to let your wife know you care about her and find her sexy and attractive by being her cuntsucker. Have you tried looking sexy (wearing clothing you know appeals to her.... or if you aren't sure, telling her gently you hope she'll tell you what kinds of clothing she finds most attractive on you)? Then, at times when you're suitably dressed, seductively asking her if she would like a foot rub.... then when you've finished (on occasions when she does want one), kissing your way up her legs to her inner thighs, then finally sucking her cunt — through her panties, if she doesn't seem to want to remove them...? And always continuing until she has an orgasm....? And, if you find your wife is responding well, have you considered also becoming her asskisser....?

I've not really attempted to engage with her sexually, but I hide quietly in another room....

I'd say there's room for some improvement here. You need to find ways to let your wife know you find her very sexy and she turns you on, without ever being pushy about it, so you can seductively suck her cunt or kiss her ass whenever she seems favorably inclined.

....I look at porn and her naked pictures and masturbate to my hearts delight, thinking about my wife being "naughty." It's odd considering my wife is able and willing to give me sex, but I've been choosing my fantasy and masturbating secretly to images of her having fun with others.

Well, this is certainly evidence that you're a natural cuckold, and it's entirely appropriate for you to be turned on by your wife's nude pictures. (You're very fortunate in that she's made them available to you.) And also, of course, it's entirely appropriate to feel turned on by your fantasies about her fucking other men. But, you need to develop more self-discipline and not allow all this to get in the way of servicing your wife by sucking her cunt and kissing her ass, always with a suitably-seductive approach, whenever she desires.

I haven't really paid attention to my wife's body....

This is a problem. You need to let your wife know always, by your looks, gestures, and caresses, that you find her very sexy and appealing. I strongly recommend caressing her frequently, if she seems to like that, even if your caresses don't always lead to sucking her cunt or kissing her ass.

....but recently, I noticed how curvy and hot she was looking.

You should notice that frequently, of course...

Later that night I reached over and fondled my wife. I reached and grabbed her big tits with much delight, and imagined how the guy she was seeing must have felt the first time he grabbed my wife's big tits and squeezed.

Good! Did you consider sucking your wife's tits gently to gradually increase her excitement, in addition to fondling them...? BTW, it's important to be aware women often don't like to be "grabbed," but they like to be fondled gently. I suggest finding out your wife's preference....

My wife noticed my excitement.

Also good! That's a plus.

I asked her to take off her top. She obliged. WOW I was rock hard and grabbed both of those beautiful tits. I told her they were marvelous; she smiled and told me she's been told that before and giggled.

Hm.... I guess the implication is, men other than you compliment your wife on her gorgeous tits. But you too — as her cuckold — should, of course, also compliment your wife from time to time on her splendid voluptuous tits, always smiling at her when you do so. If you don't, she may think you're boorish and, needless to say, you wouldn't want that. Try to find differing ways to do it, so she doesn't get the impression you're complimenting her tits as a matter of course just because you think she expects it....

I was hornier than ever. My wife hinted she needed to have her tits enjoyed by others. I engaged and told her I bet she would.

Good reply! You were on the right track. Next time your wife says something like that you might consider going even further and saying, "Yes, I understand.... I hope you'll fully pursue your desires and needs along those lines..." (or words to that effect). Married women greatly appreciate husbands who understand them; I would guess your wife is no exception....

The next night while watching tv, I reached over and began to fondled her tits again and complimented her boobs. She told me I was coming home too early after work, and she needs her alone time in case someone was over.

Good work, complimenting your wife on her gorgeous tits. In response, she gave you an important hint.... she needs more time before you come home in case a lover has come to see her. I'm sure she would greatly appreciate your qualities as her cuckold if you were to bring up this subject again and suggest a suitable compromise. For instance, you might let her know you could call her when you're leaving work to see if she has or expects a visitor. If she says yes, you could ask her if it would be OK if you stop off somewhere for a beer, or even go to your local public library and do some reading before heading home, to give her some additional time.

.... Later in bed, while I was rubbing my wife's ass, she told me she would like to make a movie for me and for me to watch it and masturbate whenever I felt like it. I wasn't sure what she meant, and asked her again. She hinted she would like to make a tape of her having sex, and wanted to give me the tape to enjoy on my own time or we could even watch it together.

That's an EXCELLENT offer. Your wife is very considerate of your needs....

I was really horny and asked her more.

Really.... I would think so.

My wife told me she needed good sex and I'm not capable of it, but she wants to make a sex video for me.

It's very nice that your wife is straightforward with you about your abilities, and very generous of her to have made this offer.

I'm not really sure how to proceed now. I really love the ideal of having a sex tape of my wife to enjoy time and time again. The visual images of another man sucking on her big tits, fucking her tight pussy, and making my wife cum delightfully is addicitve and pleasurable. I already masturbate furiously to her nude pics. I love hearing her stories, but [I find it] most enjoyable to replay the events of her past trysts with another man. I'm torn, What shall I do?

Your wife has made you an offer you can't refuse. Accept, definitely.

.... I'm not sure if I can handle seeing a live video of my wife bending over and being fucked or watching her suck a bigger thicker cock and enjoying ever inch and moment of it. Or the sight of her big tits being sucked and squeezed, and seeing her delighted facial expressions as another man pleases every inch of her....

I see the problem. Here's a way you could do it.

1) Put your wife's first video on, and start watching. When it begins to seem like too much, "stop" it (but leave it in the machine).

2) Next day (or later the same day), when your thoughts cause you to begin feeling horny again and you feel an intense desire to know what happened next, put it on "play" again and watch it further.... then, if need be, "stop" it again.

3) Etc. Continue until you've watched it all the way through. Then, when you start feeling horny about your wife again, play her video again and try to watch it all the way through.... or at least, watch it further before "stopping" it.

4) Finally, when you find you can watch it all the way through, find an opportunity to watch it again with your wife so you can both enjoy it.... or alternatively, put it on so your wife can enjoy watching it (relaxing on her couch), while you go down on your knees and suck her cunt to orgasm. If your wife seems to want that more than once, give her a short break then suck her cunt to orgasm again (as many times as she desires).

I think you may find she likes that.... maybe even a lot.

Thanks for the update, and good luck!

—Custer