Wife has a boyfriend, keeps me in diapers

[msbevw]

Linda and I had last night together alone because Tom had to be gone. This gave us some much-needed time to talk and catch up on how each of us were feeling and our thoughts on how our lives were progressing.

We are both happy with how things are going for the most part, though each of us feel things are changing and will continue to change. It’s just a matter of how far we are willing to let things progress.

First, Linda asked me how my weekend was and what I liked and disliked as well as my feeling on our lives in general. I replied that I had enjoyed being able to experience an in-depth baby lifestyle and felt I really got into my role as well as liking how Karen acted as my sitter. I told Linda that I enjoyed having someone besides her treat me as a baby because she had a different approach to it than Linda.

Linda asked if I liked having that side of me ******* to Mike and having to interact with him intimately. I said that it was embarrassing at first having him seeing me dressing and acting like a baby, but that I soon became comfortable with it. The intimacy part was a little more difficult to be comfortable with, but I soon relaxed and enjoyed it. Linda then asked if I would be okay with others seeing me in baby mode, including friends as well as strangers out in public. I answered that I wasn’t sure I was ready for that yet. I also told her that I worried about our kids finding out about my baby side and she said that it was bound to happen eventually. That made me nervous and I asked if she was planning something. She said not at this time, but I shouldn’t be too surprised when it happened, both the public ******** and family ********.

Then Linda asked how I was feeling about her and Tom. I said that I understood that she would become more involved with him and expected that she would want to spend more time alone with him, and that I was growing in accepting that. I told her that I was a little shocked to hear her tell him in front of me that she loved him. I asked her if she loved Tom and was in love with him like she had been with me. She looked me right in the eyes and said, yes, she was in love with him and loved him as much as she has loved me. I asked if she loves him more than me now. She said yes, she loves him as her lover and her man, but she loves me as she loves our children and thinks of me as one of them now, no longer as her husband, but as her third child. I asked her if she ever sees us having sex together again and she said no that she didn’t think that would be possible ever again.

We were quiet for a few moments and I asked if she plans on staying married to me or if she wanted to marry Tom. She kind of shocked me when she said that she and Tom had discussed that very thing over the weekend, and he wants to move in that direction. She said that she wasn’t ready to divorce me yet but that it would probably happen in the not too distant future. I asked what would happen to me and Linda said that I could continue to live with them as long as I was in the baby role but would have to move out if I ever decided to go back to being a man.

I asked ‘what happens now?’ and she said that she didn’t see any reason for things to change for now and that I should just be happy being Baby Bev as she continued to be Tom’s girlfriend and lover. She said that she would tell me if and when things started to change.

So, it was good for us to have the discussion, but also somewhat unsettling at the same time. So, I guess that I made my (baby) bed and now have to lay in it.

 

[sissyjamie]

sadly, they will probably eventually become tired with the baby role and you may be left out in the cold - I hope not!

 

[ckc]

May become complicated when kids find out. But she could always give you to her friend, your babysitter.

 

[msbevw]

Karen called this morning asking if I could come spend the weekend with her and Mike. Linda was happy to say yes even though she and Tom have no big plans for the weekend. So here I go again.

 

[sissyjamie]

your wife's boyfriend must have plenty of viagra on hand to be 54 and have sex like a rabbit!

 

[Custer Laststand]

....... We were quiet for a few moments, I asked if she plans on staying married to me or if she wanted to marry Tom. [My wife Linda] kind of shocked me when she said that she and [her lover] Tom had discussed that very thing over the weekend, and he wants to move in that direction. She said that she wasn’t ready to divorce me yet but that it would probably happen in the not too distant future.

Sounds like you need to begin planning your post-divorce life.

I asked what would happen to me, and Linda said that I could continue to live with them as long as I was in the baby role but would have to move out if I ever decided to go back to being a man.

This appears to be a good hint of what your post-divorce life may be like. An obvious difference will be, you will no longer have the security of being Ms. Linda's cuckolded husband. You will need to adapt to living with the possibility that she and her lover, i.e. future husband Tom, may decide to boot you out the door at any time.

 

[SquirmingSub]

I had refrained from commenting since your deep post back on Aug 6, 2020 #226 as it hit close to home with regard to an experience that I had some 17 years ago, and yes I had posted about it some time back. With that said, it was good that you and Linda had a night alone for some much-needed one-on-one openly honest conversations.

Linda and I had last night together alone because Tom had to be gone. This gave us some much-needed time to talk and catch up on how each of us were feeling and our thoughts on how our lives were progressing.

We are both happy with how things are going for the most part, though each of us feel things are changing and will continue to change. It’s just a matter of how far we are willing to let things progress.

It is good to hear that you are both happy with how things are going and that you both have taken into consideration as to how your dynamic has continued to evolve and considered how far you are both willing to allow things to progress. While we all know that open honest judgment free communication is good to have as a couple, what many couple fail to do is truly listen to their partner to fully comprehend what is being exchanged.

First, Linda asked me how my weekend was and what I liked and disliked as well as my feeling on our lives in general. I replied that I had enjoyed being able to experience an in-depth baby lifestyle and felt I really got into my role as well as liking how Karen acted as my sitter. I told Linda that I enjoyed having someone besides her treat me as a baby because she had a different approach to it than Linda.

Linda asked if I liked having that side of me ******* to Mike and having to interact with him intimately. I said that it was embarrassing at first having him seeing me dressing and acting like a baby, but that I soon became comfortable with it. The intimacy part was a little more difficult to be comfortable with, but I soon relaxed and enjoyed it. Linda then asked if I would be okay with others seeing me in baby mode, including friends as well as strangers out in public. I answered that I wasn’t sure I was ready for that yet. I also told her that I worried about our kids finding out about my baby side and she said that it was bound to happen eventually. That made me nervous and I asked if she was planning something. She said not at this time, but I shouldn’t be too surprised when it happened, both the public ******** and family ********.

Once you get through the initial embarrassment, it does feel really liberating to be yourself with others. What you really need to consider is the public ******** when it comes to your family members. Based on your post, it would seem that it will come out at some point and that Linda has become more okay with you coming out with your lifestyle preferences. It is likely that she will tell your adult kids that is the basis for your future relationship evolution/reorganization.

Then Linda asked how I was feeling about her and Tom. I said that I understood that she would become more involved with him and expected that she would want to spend more time alone with him, and that I was growing in accepting that. I told her that I was a little shocked to hear her tell him in front of me that she loved him. I asked her if she loved Tom and was in love with him like she had been with me. She looked me right in the eyes and said, yes, she was in love with him and loved him as much as she has loved me. I asked if she loves him more than me now. She said yes, she loves him as her lover and her man, but she loves me as she loves our children and thinks of me as one of them now, no longer as her husband, but as her third child. I asked her if she ever sees us having sex together again and she said no that she didn’t think that would be possible ever again.

As Linda has expressed to you, she has fallen in love with Tom and has been open with you about her feelings for him and for you. It is always a risk when a husband encourages a wife to explore a relationship with another man, especially when the husband assumes a clearly different roll within the marriage. As far as sex, once a wife changes her perspective, it can become nearly impossible for her to see her husband the same way again.

We were quiet for a few moments and I asked if she plans on staying married to me or if she wanted to marry Tom. She kind of shocked me when she said that she and Tom had discussed that very thing over the weekend, and he wants to move in that direction. She said that she wasn’t ready to divorce me yet but that it would probably happen in the not too distant future. I asked what would happen to me and Linda said that I could continue to live with them as long as I was in the baby role but would have to move out if I ever decided to go back to being a man.

As @Custer Laststand suggested, it does "sound like you need to begin planning your post-divorce life and you will no longer have the security of being Ms. Linda's cuckolded husband. You will need to adapt to living with the possibility that she and her lover, i.e. future husband Tom, may decide to boot you out the door at any time."

You do need to plan ahead and be sure that this is what you desire and something that you can embrace as a lifestyle into the next chapter of life.

I asked ‘what happens now?’ and she said that she didn’t see any reason for things to change for now and that I should just be happy being Baby Bev as she continued to be Tom’s girlfriend and lover. She said that she would tell me if and when things started to change.

So, it was good for us to have the discussion, but also somewhat unsettling at the same time. So, I guess that I made my (baby) bed and now have to lay in it.

Take things day by day as Linda is also doing, just be prepared for the next chapter.

 

[msbevw]

A lot happening here in Iowa after the big storm that hit us a week ago. We just got power back last night. Won't have internet service for another week or two.
Linda spent most of the week at Tom's place while I did cleanup at home. I have only seem her twice in the last 8 days.

 

[Custer Laststand]

A lot happening here in Iowa after the big storm.....
Linda spent most of the week at Tom's place while I did cleanup at home. I have only seem her twice in the last 8 days.

Not a good sign.

 

[msbevw]

Linda finally came home last night and we had dinner together. Then she got me ready for bed and sent me to my nursery bed at 8 o'clock. She informed me that she didn't like me having to be home alone so much while she was staying at Tom's place. She is planning on going back there today and for the rest of the weekend. So she arranged for Karen to baby sit me all weekend. So I am packing up a diaper bag and some close to take there day.

 

[msbevw]

Most of the country (and the world) didn't hear about the devastating storm that tore through Iowa 11 days ago. Strong winds up to 140mph lasting an hour flatten buildings, crops, and damaged 80% of our trees. Some places still are without power. Ours was out 8 days, we still do not have internet service.
Linda and I spent the night of the storm sitting at home without air conditioning and lights. In the morning I suggested she go over to Tom's place to get ready for work so she had lights to put on her makeup. After work she called to see if power was restored, it wasn't, so she said she would stay with Tom because he had air conditioning. She said I could join them if I wanted. I elected to stay home and keep an eye on our house.
Without power I sat in a dark house not even able to read. I was in bed before nine. At least I didn't have to see or service Tom before bedtime.
During the next week Linda stopped home twice to check on me and get some work outfits. That was the only time I saw her (we spoke on the phone daily) until she came home Wednesday night. She informed me that she was going to stay at Tom's for the weekend and she had arranged for me to stay with Karen and Mike. So now I'm back into my baby routine again.
We have both individually spoken to our kids to let them know we are fine and our place is getting cleaned up. I have not said anything to them about where Linda is staying. I don't know if she has said anything about staying with Tom to them or anyone else.

 

[Custer Laststand]

Most of the country (and the world) didn't hear about the devastating storm that tore through Iowa 11 days ago. Strong winds up to 140 mph lasting an hour, which flattened buildings, crops, and damaged 80% of our trees.

Interesting. By definition, hurricane force winds are winds in excess of 74 mph (118 km/hr), without any implication of a revolving storm. Sounds
like another corollary of global climate warming — increasing atmospheric turbulence — has visited Iowa. (I did hear about that.... it was in the news.)

Some places still are without power. Ours was out 8 days, we still do not have internet service.

Eight days is a long time to go without electricity. Along with repairs at your place, you and Ms. Linda might consider purchasing a generator that generates current at both 120 and 240 volts. I think some are available now that run quietly. Along with that, you will need to hire a licensed electrician to install a set of double-pole double-throw switches, such that when you connect your generator to your house wiring, you simultaneously disconnect your house wiring from the outside lines. If you don't do that, running your generator can result in shocking (perhaps severely) linemen who are working to repair the damaged lines somewhere down the road.

 

[msbevw]

It's Sunday, 5pm. I was getting ready to head home from Karen and Mike's house when Karen surprised me with a baby bottle to drink. I was surprised because I thought we were done with the weekend and I could put Baby Bev away for the day. As she handed me the bottle she informed me that she had just heard from Linda. She is staying the night at Tom's so I will be spending another night with Karen and Mike.
Hmmm

 

[SquirmingSub]

It's Sunday, 5pm. I was getting ready to head home from Karen and Mike's house when Karen surprised me with a baby bottle to drink. I was surprised because I thought we were done with the weekend and I could put Baby Bev away for the day. As she handed me the bottle she informed me that she had just heard from Linda. She is staying the night at Tom's so I will be spending another night with Karen and Mike.
Hmmm

Have you determined if you would like to continue living as Baby Bev moving forward?

 

[msbevw]

Have you determined if you would like to continue living as Baby Bev moving forward?

I hope to be able to continue to enjoy my baby experience, just not full-time.

 

[msbevw]

Linda and i were finally home alone last night. It's been 2 weeks since the storm hit us knocking out our power and internet service. Power came on after nearly a week without it. Linda chose this time to stay with Tom while I stayed home. I only saw her a couple of times during the last 2 weeks.
We didn't talk about her staying with Tom much, just caught up on household stuff. But then she shocked me!
She was getting ready to take a shower and called me into the bathroom. She had her back to me when I entered, then without saying a word, she turned to face me and I saw it. She had gotten a tattoo just above her pussy!
It is a decorative heart and fancy "T". She is permanently marked by Tom.
She told me about getting it done while she was behind the shower curtain so she wouldn't have to face me. I stood there totally shocked. I can't believe she got it done without discussing it with me first. I got a close up look at it when she stepped out of the shower. All I could say was "very nice ".
And then the next shock. She smiled and said "you're next

 

[SquirmingSub]

Linda and i were finally home alone last night. It's been 2 weeks since the storm hit us knocking out our power and internet service. Power came on after nearly a week without it. Linda chose this time to stay with Tom while I stayed home. I only saw her a couple of times during the last 2 weeks.

We didn't talk about her staying with Tom much, just caught up on household stuff. But then she shocked me!

She was getting ready to take a shower and called me into the bathroom. She had her back to me when I entered, then without saying a word, she turned to face me and I saw it. She had gotten a tattoo just above her pussy!

It is a decorative heart and fancy "T". She is permanently marked by Tom.

She told me about getting it done while she was behind the shower curtain so she wouldn't have to face me. I stood there totally shocked. I can't believe she got it done without discussing it with me first. I got a close up look at it when she stepped out of the shower. All I could say was "very nice ".
And then the next shock. She smiled and said "you're next

It was good that you two were able to take some time as a couple last night to reconnect in your own way. With the direction of your relationship and considering that 'Tom' is the man within your marriage it really should not be a shock that she would move forward with getting the permanent tattoo without further consulting you; the simple fact is that your both had already had that initial discussion about the same, just never committed to what the mark would be of.

As to the tattoo being a "decorative heart" and fancy "T" and now that she is permanently marked by Tom; I would have to say Impressive!!! Do you have any idea what yours will be?

 

[msbevw]

I asked Linda last night about the details of getting her tattoo. She told me she had gone to her salon the day before and got a full wax job so she was totally smooth. When they went to the tattoo parlor she wore a skirt that she pulled up to her waist as she laid on the table. I asked if she pulled her panty down just enough to ****** the area above her pussy where the tattoo was being placed. She shocked me when she said she wasn't wearing panties. So she had her pussy totally ******* in front of another man as she got tattooed!

 

[msbevw]

Here's what the tattoo looks like.

 

[msbevw]

Here's what the tattoo looks like.

I asked her what was the meaning of the little dots. She said the 10 dots are for the 10 months she and Tom have been together.