Wife has a boyfriend, keeps me in diapers

[msbevw]

It would seem that Linda and Tom did make up although did they resolve their differences on the sharing or inclusion of others?

Tom has promised Linda that he will not try anything like involving anyone else in their relationship without prior consent by her. And she is only interested in Tom and not anyone else so I think that will stop. Tom is the only man she has been with outside of our marriage so I don't see her wanting in involve others sexually.
Tom also informed me that I will be getting my tattoo today or tomorrow and this is the design and placement I will be receiving, though the placement may move to my lower middle back like a 'tramp stamp'.

 

[msbevw]

It finally happened… I got tattooed! Tom and Linda took me to a tattoo parlor two weeks ago. They were both greeted warmly so I knew that this was the place Linda had her tattoo applied on her most intimate place, directly above her pussy. I was surprised when a young woman of mid 20’s stepped up to Linda and asked how her tattoo was doing. Linda replied that she loved it and now wanted her husband to get a personal tattoo as well. The woman, Angela, looked at Tom and asked “what do you have in mind?” She never gave me a glace, knowing that Tom was in charge here.

Tom pulled out a picture of the design he had in mind without letting me see it. “I want this on our sissy’s left butt cheek and this one (taking another picture out of his pocket) just above his sissy cock.”

I was going to get two tattoos. I knew without seeing them what they would be. “Baby” would be placed on my butt and “Sissy” on my front side I was sure. Angela instructed me to remove my pants and lay face down on the table. Linda pulled down my diaper and plastic panty, instructing me not to have an accident as Angela worked on my tattoo.

And the rest is history and I am the ‘proud’ owner of two tattoos that will forever mark my station in life as a sissy baby. The only surprise I had was that I was never asked for my consent. The work was done under Tom’s direction and with Linda’s blessing.

 

[msbevw]

Linda invited Karen over the next day to see the finished product. Linda proceed to explain to Karen the proper care I would need over the next few days. This surprised me because it was Sunday and I usually only am under Karen’s babysitting care on the weekend. Linda noticed my confusion and informed me that I was going to be staying with Karen and Mike for the next week as she was going away with Tom. She didn’t tell me where they were going or why, or even when they would be back. I was just being shipped off to the sitter’s while she and Tom were spending some time alone.

“You be a good baby for Karen. And I’m sure Mike will be happy to have you around for a long stay. Make sure you keep him happy,” Linda announced as she helped load my suitcase and diaper bag into Karen’s car. I climbed in the back seat into my baby seat and watched Karen turn and disappear into the house without looking back.

 

[SquirmingSub]

Linda invited Karen over the next day to see the finished product. Linda proceed to explain to Karen the proper care I would need over the next few days. This surprised me because it was Sunday and I usually only am under Karen’s babysitting care on the weekend. Linda noticed my confusion and informed me that I was going to be staying with Karen and Mike for the next week as she was going away with Tom. She didn’t tell me where they were going or why, or even when they would be back. I was just being shipped off to the sitter’s while she and Tom were spending some time alone.

“You be a good baby for Karen. And I’m sure Mike will be happy to have you around for a long stay. Make sure you keep him happy,” Linda announced as she helped load my suitcase and diaper bag into Karen’s car. I climbed in the back seat into my baby seat and watched Karen turn and disappear into the house without looking back.

How does it truly feel to no longer have any say in your new dynamic?

 

[msbevw]

How does it truly feel to no longer have any say in your new dynamic?

I think it is every submissive sissy's wish to give up any decision making ability and give control to others. I feel very fortunate to have reached that point in my life and, though not always happy with the decisions, I'm thrilled with the chance to experience this.

 

[msbevw]

I had a good week at Karen and Mike’s house with Karen providing nearly around the clock babysitting service to me. I was totally immersed in my baby world for the week, really only deviating from it nightly to provide oral service to Mike after my bedtime spanking. The first night Karen watched as I knelt before Mike and took his engorged cock in my mouth. But after that she was not in the room as Mike fed me his erection. It felt a little strange doing that with just the two of us in the room. But he was more at ease as I performed my nightly service.

Most of the time it was just Karen and me. However, a few times Mike sat on the patio deck and watched me as I played in the back yard. Their backyard is not private like Linda and my yard so I was observed by neighbors a few times. I was just glad that they didn’t come over for a closer look at the big baby sitting on a blanket in the grass. And Mike changed my diaper without Karen observing a couple of times as well. He seemed to enjoy it much more that Tom does when he has to perform diaper duty.

I never heard from Linda the whole week, though I think she checked in with Karen a couple of times. Plus, she has not told me anything about her week so I still don’t know what they did or where they went if they, in fact, did go someplace. I do believe that they did go someplace and didn’t just stay home alone for the week, but I can’t be sure and don’t know if I will ever find out. I’m sure that they enjoyed their time alone regardless of where they were. And I’m sure they enjoyed not having Baby Bev around to take care of also. This is the longest time they have been alone since they started dating last December. I worry that it may be the start of them spending more and more time alone.

 

[msbevw]

I'm not sure what Linda and Tom did during the week that they were together and alone but Linda seems different since then. She only wants to see me in baby clothes and not dressed as her husband at all. Before, when we were home alone or going someplace most of the time I would be in regular male clothes and the baby world would only be at nighttime or the weekend. Now she wants it 100% of the time for me. I went golfing yesterday and had to really argue to be able to wear normal clothes (I had to wear a diaper under my slacks). She wanted me to wear a onesie with slacks over it.
Tom is with her almost all of the time now, mostly here but sometimes they are at his place. She says that she wants to spend weekends there. I asked what that means for me and she replied that I would be either at Karen's or home alone. She also says that Tom has been asking her if she would do a threesome and she could chose who (man or woman). She surprised me by saying she told him she would think about it.
Change is in the air!

 

[SquirmingSub]

It is good to see that your overall dynamic continues to go well for all three of you within the relationship.

I'm not sure what Linda and Tom did during the week that they were together and alone but Linda seems different since then.

It is good when a wife and her lover can develop a deeper connection and be able to enjoy one-on-one time together as the couple without the husband always being present. Based on how you have always described Linda and spoke of her, she is not the typical hotwife and her motivation for taking a lover (Tom) was through your own encouragement resulting from your other needs/desires.

She only wants to see me in baby clothes and not dressed as her husband at all. Before, when we were home alone or going someplace most of the time I would be in regular male clothes and the baby world would only be at nighttime or the weekend. Now she wants it 100% of the time for me. I went golfing yesterday and had to really argue to be able to wear normal clothes (I had to wear a diaper under my slacks). She wanted me to wear a onesie with slacks over it.

An intriguing escalation within your marriage dynamic indeed. While some desires and fetishes are kept generally low key, limited role play and as part of the overall relationship, some wives do seem to prefer to make things part of the overall norm and not simply part of some fetish role play. It would seem the closer Tom and Linda become, the less of a husband type partner Linda will see you as and the less of an adult man Linda sees you as.

With that said, it is seemingly clear that Linda is no longer going to treat this lifestyle dynamic as any sort of role play or part time lifestyle. While I could be wrong and I am sure others will have their own viewpoints although at this point, it would seem that Linda is comfortable taking the overall relationship dynamic to the next step. She is implementing the rules as part of your relationship norm for a variety of reasons; (1) to explore your true to life boundaries, (2) to explore her own true to life boundaries.

In my humble opinion, it is a positive move by Linda to make it clear to you that she would like for you to ONLY wear your baby type clothing and to no longer wear the more traditional masculine adult man clothing when in her presence. Now that she wants it 100% of the time for you, it might be time for Linda and or Karen to take you shopping for some additional clothing options moving forward for the future.

Considering that before, you mentioned that you were only in baby world at nighttime and or on the weekends; now Linda is wanting you in baby world 100% of the time, would you be attending family functions and or going our with Linda/Tom as Baby Bev? Does your adult children know about Baby Bev yet? While your wife (Linda) did allow you to wear normal outward clothing following an argument; did you come to an understanding for the future or was this a one off for being able to go golfing without being dressing as Baby Bev out with your friends? If you are truly going to fully embrace being Baby Bev, I would agree with your wife in that there should be nothing wrong with you wearing a diaper with a onesie under your slacks. We all make choices; it might be time to self-reflect and then have a serious talk with Linda so that you are both on the same page moving forward.

Tom is with her almost all of the time now, mostly here but sometimes they are at his place. She says that she wants to spend weekends there. I asked what that means for me and she replied that I would be either at Karen's or home alone.

How does it truly feel to know that Linda and Tom are truly the primary couple; with Linda and Tom spending all of their non-working time together as a married couple would traditionally do? The two of them being the primary couple in every way and in everything except for the legal document commonly referred to as a Marriage License. You are talking about a couple that has been openly dating for nearly a year (December 2019) and have all but moved in together as a couple. As you have said, during the weekdays, as a couple they are in your marriage home more often then not and when not, they are at his place. You also mentioned that Linda does prefer to spend her weekends with Tom at his place without you, a time in which they can be a couple, and enjoy their own privacy as a couple.

With that said, I do have some questions for you that I am truly curious about. (1) would you prefer to spend weekends alone as Baby Bev or with Karen and her husband in their home or would you like to find another parental figure to eventually bond with? (2) have you ever considered encouraging, offering, or even suggesting that Linda and Tom make their relationship more of a permanent live in arrangement at one of the two homes?

She also says that Tom has been asking her if she would do a threesome and she could chose who (man or woman). She surprised me by saying she told him she would think about it.
Change is in the air!

It does seem that Tom is a much more Alpha Man, the type of Man that so many women desire to be with as true partners. Sounds as if Tom is helping Linda expand her boundaries, as you previously mentioned he surprised her with one of his friends in the past which did not go well, so Tom is now putting the ball in her court to be able to select the other person (Man or Woman) for a threesome. By her letting you know that she told him that she would think about it, she has opened the door for you two to openly discuss it and she already knows that he would like to see her with another person.

While I would ask you what you thought about it and how you felt about it, the reality is, while she is your legal wife, she is his partner, she is his woman, just as he is her man.

 

[msbevw]

I want to address some questions put to me by SquimmingSub. His quotes are in italics…

[It is good to see that your overall dynamic continues to go well for all three of you within the relationship. It would seem the closer Tom and Linda become, the less of a husband type partner Linda will see you as and the less of an adult man Linda sees you as.

With that said, it is seemingly clear that Linda is no longer going to treat this lifestyle dynamic as any sort of role play or part time lifestyle. While I could be wrong, it would seem that Linda is comfortable taking the overall relationship dynamic to the next step. She is implementing the rules as part of your relationship norm for a variety of reasons; (1) to explore your true to life boundaries, (2) to explore her own true to life boundaries.

In my humble opinion, it is a positive move by Linda to make it clear to you that she would like for you to ONLY wear your baby type clothing and to no longer wear the more traditional masculine adult man clothing when in her presence. Now that she wants it 100% of the time for you, it might be time for Linda and or Karen to take you shopping for some additional clothing options moving forward for the future.

Considering that before, you mentioned that you were only in baby world at nighttime and or on the weekends; now Linda is wanting you in baby world 100% of the time, would you be attending family functions and or going our with Linda/Tom as Baby Bev? Does your adult children know about Baby Bev yet?]

Great questions and ones that I have been giving a lot of thought to lately. I do enjoy my ‘babytime’ but never thought about doing it ‘full time’ and for letting everyone know about it. It was always something I did in private. Now Tom, Karen, Mike, and a few others know about Baby Bev. Our kids do not know, not that I’m aware of. Of course I thought they didn’t know about Linda and Tom being together, but I know our daughter, Kim, is aware of it now.

Letting the ‘straight world’ in on it is a huge step, one that there is no going back on once it’s out there. However, it seems that each week someone else is finding out about me. Tom has shared it with a few friends of his. Of course Linda shared it with Karen and Mike, and I don’t know who else yet or if Karen or Mike have told anyone else.

Yesterday Linda and Karen took me shopping for baby stuff. Of course clothing has to be purchase through mail order or specially made (and Linda has talked about having some outfits specially made for me), so our shopping consisted of purchasing generic baby items; bottles, sippy cups, stuffed animal, books, and pacifiers. I was dressed in a manner pushing the boundaries between baby and adult clothing. I was wearing a pink baby print onesie with diaper and plastic panty and had white pull-up shorts over them along with pink jellies sandals. Karen clipped a pink bow on the back on my hair and Linda made sure I had a pacifier in my mouth most of the time. Anyone seeing me would have no doubt that the baby stuff we were looking at and purchasing was for me. And I did get lots of looks from other shoppers in the two baby specialty stores we went to. This was the most public ******** I have ever had and my pink blushing face matched my pink outfit. The checkout clerks struggled to keep from laughing out loud at me. One did say “cute look” to me.

So Linda did make good on her decision about ******** me more to the outside world. Today I am dressed in a baby-style short dress that barely covers my diapered bottom. And there is talk about us going out again, this time to Appleby’s for lunch so Linda and Tom can have a ‘family lunch’.

[How does it truly feel to know that Linda and Tom are truly the primary couple; with Linda and Tom spending all of their non-working time together as a married couple would traditionally do? The two of them being the primary couple in every way and in everything except for the legal document commonly referred to as a Marriage License. You are talking about a couple that has been openly dating for nearly a year (December 2019) and have all but moved in together as a couple. As you have said, during the weekdays, as a couple they are in your marriage home more often then not and when not, they are at his place. You also mentioned that Linda does prefer to spend her weekends with Tom at his place without you, a time in which they can be a couple, and enjoy their own privacy as a couple.

With that said, I do have some questions for you that I am truly curious about. (1) would you prefer to spend weekends alone as Baby Bev or with Karen and her husband in their home or would you like to find another parental figure to eventually bond with? (2) have you ever considered encouraging, offering, or even suggesting that Linda and Tom make their relationship more of a permanent live in arrangement at one of the two homes? I would ask you what you thought about it and how you felt about it, the reality is, while she is your legal wife, she is his partner, she is his woman, just as he is her man.]

Linda and Tom are definitely the primary couple now. They are spending more time together when not working, just like a married couple. They make all of the decisions together; financial, social, and personal; without any input from me. And lately they have been discussing the upcoming holiday seasons. Our kids have always come home for Thanksgiving and Christmas, spending several days here each time as live several states away. I have heard Linda asking them for their holiday schedules so plans can be made. I have a hard time believing that Tom would stay away during that time. So is their relationship going to be brought out in the open soon? And what does that mean for me as Baby Bev?

Tom has talked to Linda about us moving into his house as it is the bigger of the two but so far Linda hasn’t said she wants to do that. It has also been discussed that it is an imposition for me to be spending so much time in Karen’s care and that it might be time to find another caregiver for me when I’m alone. Of course I told Linda that it wasn’t necessary to have someone babysit me.

Karen has said to both of us that she loves having me there on weekends and she knows Mike enjoys having me there as well. They would love to take me out of the house more as well.

I hope that answers some of the questions. There are lots of decisions and changes in the works so all of this is in a very fluid state presently.

 

[msbevw]

I never heard from Linda the whole week, though I think she checked in with Karen a couple of times. Plus, she has not told me anything about her week so I still don’t know what they did or where they went if they, in fact, did go someplace. I do believe that they did go someplace and didn’t just stay home alone for the week, but I can’t be sure and don’t know if I will ever find out. I’m sure that they enjoyed their time alone regardless of where they were. And I’m sure they enjoyed not having Baby Bev around to take care of also. This is the longest time they have been alone since they started dating last December. I worry that it may be the start of them spending more and more time alone.

I finally was told some of the details of Linda's and Tom's week away from me. Linda told me that it was the one year anniversary of their dating. Tom had planned a romantic getaway for the two of them. They flew to Key West and spent the week as if they were on their wedding and honeymoon. they got "married" on the beach where a minister performed the service. Linda wore a special dress, not a wedding dress but close to it. Tom wore a tux. They exchanged rings, said vows, kissed, and were "pronounced husband and wife" though no marriage certificate was signed so it's not official.. but pretty darn close!
They spent the rest of the time enjoying their honeymoon and telling people they met that they were just married. And she is now wearing his ring instead of our wedding ring. This came as a total surprise to me. I'm not sure what is going to happen going forward from here.

 

[ckc]

I finally was told some of the details of Linda's and Tom's week away from me. Linda told me that it was the one year anniversary of their dating. Tom had planned a romantic getaway for the two of them. They flew to Key West and spent the week as if they were on their wedding and honeymoon. they got "married" on the beach where a minister performed the service. Linda wore a special dress, not a wedding dress but close to it. Tom wore a tux. They exchanged rings, said vows, kissed, and were "pronounced husband and wife" though no marriage certificate was signed so it's not official.. but pretty darn close!
They spent the rest of the time enjoying their honeymoon and telling people they met that they were just married. And she is now wearing his ring instead of our wedding ring. This came as a total surprise to me. I'm not sure what is going to happen going forward from here.

So your futute is being thier baby......

 

[Custer Laststand]

I want to address some questions put to me by SquimmingSub. .......... I do enjoy my ‘babytime’ but never thought about doing it ‘full time’ and letting everyone know about it. It was always something I did in private. Now Tom, Karen, Mike, and a few others know about Baby Bev. .......... Letting the ‘straight world’ in on this is a huge step, one that there is no going back on once it’s out there.

Coming out of the closet is, I would say, an important aspect of you attaining complete self-acceptance as your hotwife and mommy Ms. Linda's diapered adult-baby cuckold.

However, it seems that each week someone else is finding out about me.

So much the better.

Yesterday Linda and Karen took me shopping for baby stuff. .......

That was totally appropriate, of course.

....... Our shopping consisted of purchasing generic baby items; bottles, sippy cups, stuffed animal, books, and pacifiers. I was dressed in a manner pushing the boundaries between baby and adult clothing. I was wearing a pink baby print onesie with diaper and plastic panty and had white pull-up shorts over them along with pink jellies sandals. Karen clipped a pink bow on the back on my hair and Linda made sure I had a pacifier in my mouth most of the time.

Excellent.

Anyone seeing me would have no doubt that the baby stuff we were looking at and purchasing was for me. And I did get lots of looks from other shoppers in the two baby specialty stores we went to. This was the most public ******** I have ever had and my pink blushing face matched my pink outfit. The checkout clerks struggled to keep from laughing out loud at me. One did say “cute look” to me.

The baby-store clerks exhibited admirable restraint.

So Linda did make good on her decision about ******** me more to the outside world.

Congratulations for being fully obedient and complying with your mommy Ms. Linda's wishes.

Today I am dressed in a baby-style short dress that barely covers my diapered bottom. And there is talk about us going out again, this time to Appleby’s for lunch so Linda and Tom can have a ‘family lunch.'

This too sounds fully appropriate.

Linda and Tom are definitely the primary couple now. They are spending more time together when not working, just like a married couple. They make all of the decisions together; financial, social, and personal; without any input from mie.

Being fully dependent on your mommy Ms. Linda and her lover Tom, and complying with all of their wishes, is also fully appropriate.

....... I have heard Linda asking [her and my adult children] for their holiday schedules, so plans can be made. I have a hard time believing that Tom would stay away during that time. So, is their relationship going to be brought out in the open soon? And what does that mean for me as Baby Bev?

It probably means you, as Ms. Linda's baby bev and submissive cuckold, will find yourself fully ******* to your and Ms. Linda's adult children, and other guests your mommy Ms. Linda and her lover Tom might invite over during the holiday season, so you should look forward to this additional humiliation.

....... It has also been discussed that it is an imposition for me to be spending so much time in Karen’s care and that it might be time to find another caregiver for me when I’m alone. ....... Karen has said to both of us that she loves having me there on weekends, and she knows Mike enjoys having me there, as well.

You should stress to your mommy Ms. Linda that Ms. Karen very much likes being your weekend baby sitter — and Mike likes it as well, probably because you suck his cock after he gives you your weekend spankings. And, I suggest pointing out that one of the reasons Ms. Karen likes being your babysitter is, your presence in their home relieves her of pressure from Mike to suck his cock.

They would love to take me out of the house more, as well.

Excellent. I suggest also pointing out to your mommy Ms. Linda that in this way, your babysitter Ms. Karen and her husband Mike are helping you to cement your self-acceptance as Baby Bev.

I hope that answers some of the questions.

It does. Thank you for enlightening us re. your current status as your cuckoldress Ms. Linda's adult baby and submissive cuckold.

 

[SquirmingSub]

I finally was told some of the details of Linda's and Tom's week away from me. Linda told me that it was the one year anniversary of their dating. Tom had planned a romantic getaway for the two of them. They flew to Key West and spent the week as if they were on their wedding and honeymoon. they got "married" on the beach where a minister performed the service. Linda wore a special dress, not a wedding dress but close to it. Tom wore a tux. They exchanged rings, said vows, kissed, and were "pronounced husband and wife" though no marriage certificate was signed so it's not official.. but pretty darn close!
They spent the rest of the time enjoying their honeymoon and telling people they met that they were just married. And she is now wearing his ring instead of our wedding ring. This came as a total surprise to me. I'm not sure what is going to happen going forward from here.

Have you considered that at some point may asked for a quite legal divorce so that she and Tom can become a legally married couple? Have you considered offering it to them with the condition that you can remain within the relationship as Baby Bev?

 

[msbevw]

It probably means you, as Ms. Linda's baby bev and submissive cuckold, will find yourself fully ******* to your and Ms. Linda's adult children, and other guests your mommy Ms. Linda and her lover Tom might invite over during the holiday season, so you should look forward to this additional humiliation.

I never really wanted my children to know and see me as Baby Bev, but it sounds like it will be happening anyway. I have now been out in the general public twice... shopping with Linda and Karen at the baby store, and then with Linda and Tom out for dinner at Applebys. though I got a lot of looks, everyone we can in contact with (clerks and waitresses) seem to take it in stride.

You should stress to your mommy Ms. Linda that Ms. Karen very much likes being your weekend baby sitter — and Mike likes it as well, probably because you suck his cock after he gives you your weekend spankings. And, I suggest pointing out that one of the reasons Ms. Karen likes being your babysitter is, your presence in their home relieves her of pressure from Mike to suck his cock.

Mike would really be upset if I quit coming around and giving him nightly sexual release by sucking his cock.

It does. Thank you for enlightening us re. your current status as your cuckoldress Ms. Linda's adult baby and submissive cuckold.

My current status may very well become my permanent status.

 

[msbevw]

Have you considered that at some point may asked for a quite legal divorce so that she and Tom can become a legally married couple? Have you considered offering it to them with the condition that you can remain within the relationship as Baby Bev?

All indications seem to be pointing in this direction. I have to decide if my desire to be an adult baby is worth giving up my marriage and adult lifestyle.

 

[SquirmingSub]

All indications seem to be pointing in this direction. I have to decide if my desire to be an adult baby is worth giving up my marriage and adult lifestyle.

If I remember correctly, your desire to be an Adult Baby is what opened the door for Linda to seek out another Man (Tom) with your encouragement and support.

If you two were to decide to have an amicable and quiet divorce with you remaining within the relationship dynamic as Baby Bev:
(1) Would you and Linda sit down with your adult children in advance to share your dynamic and introduce Baby Bev?
(2) Would you and Linda take Tom's last name or just Linda?
(3) Would you both move into Tom's house?

On a separate question, have Linda given any more consideration to Tom's desire to share her?

 

[msbevw]

If I remember correctly, your desire to be an Adult Baby is what opened the door for Linda to seek out another Man (Tom) with your encouragement and support.

If you two were to decide to have an amicable and quiet divorce with you remaining within the relationship dynamic as Baby Bev:
(1) Would you and Linda sit down with your adult children in advance to share your dynamic and introduce Baby Bev?
(2) Would you and Linda take Tom's last name or just Linda?
(3) Would you both move into Tom's house?

On a separate question, have Linda given any more consideration to Tom's desire to share her?

In reverse order... as far as I know Linda has not expressed any desire to be with another man. I really don't see her doing that. It was a big jump for her to even start dating Tom so I don't see that going any further (but I've been surprised before!).
If we were to divorce, Linda would probably take Tom's last name but I would most likely keep mine unless Tom were to adopt me which I can't see happening. Tom's house would be the logical residence since it is the nicer of the two homes. And with the divorce we would tell the kids it was happening of course. Telling them about Baby Bev would happen if I was going to stay involved within the new marriage as Baby Bev.
I am beginning to think that Baby Bev will be introduced to the kids and possible other family members this holiday season. I think Linda may have already told her sister. I will ask Linda that question tonight.

 

[SquirmingSub]

In reverse order... as far as I know Linda has not expressed any desire to be with another man. I really don't see her doing that. It was a big jump for her to even start dating Tom so I don't see that going any further (but I've been surprised before!).
If we were to divorce, Linda would probably take Tom's last name but I would most likely keep mine unless Tom were to adopt me which I can't see happening. Tom's house would be the logical residence since it is the nicer of the two homes. And with the divorce we would tell the kids it was happening of course. Telling them about Baby Bev would happen if I was going to stay involved within the new marriage as Baby Bev.
I am beginning to think that Baby Bev will be introduced to the kids and possible other family members this holiday season. I think Linda may have already told her sister. I will ask Linda that question tonight.

Thank you for your continued feedback on questions. I understand that it can be difficult coming out to family and friends about openly living an alternative lifestyle. In an effort to make sure that your adult children and family do not think negatively about Linda taking a lover (Tom), if it was 'me' I would try to find a way to own up to the lifestyle (Adult Baby) preference and that you did encourage Linda to seek out and date another Man. That way the family would realize that you support this overall relationship direction. Just my opinion!

 

[msbevw]

Thank you for your continued feedback on questions. I understand that it can be difficult coming out to family and friends about openly living an alternative lifestyle. In an effort to make sure that your adult children and family do not think negatively about Linda taking a lover (Tom), if it was 'me' I would try to find a way to own up to the lifestyle (Adult Baby) preference and that you did encourage Linda to seek out and date another Man. That way the family would realize that you support this overall relationship direction. Just my opinion!

It looks like our lifestyle choices are about to be further revealed.

Linda has been talking to our kids, making plans for the upcoming holidays… getting their schedules on when they would be back home with us, making preliminary meal plans for Thanksgiving… that sort of thing.

She told them that Thanksgiving meal would include Tom. Back in July we told them that Linda and Tom were dating. A friend of our daughter, Kim, had learned from her parents that Linda and Tom had been at the same 4th of July party as the other parents, and that it had been obvious to all that Linda and Tom were a ‘couple’. So we had been ****** to open up to our kids about our open marriage arrangement. Since then, Tom has been present a few times during our weekly zoom calls with the kids, so they knew that he was still involved with Linda. I guess they weren’t surprised that he would be included in our upcoming family holiday gatherings. Linda just seemed so matter of fact about Tom being included that there was nothing I could say about it and just have to accept the fact that their relationship is becoming more open.

Nothing has been said about my adult baby lifestyle being on display during the holidays and I am hoping that it can be kept under wraps while the kids are home. But Linda or Tom may have other ideas on that!

My lifestyle choice will be out in the open very soon to some friends. We have been invited to a Halloween costume party at Karen and Mike’s house. In attendance will be a few couples that we are mutual friends with along with some people who work with Mike and Tom. These are people I don’t know. Linda may have met them on dates with Tom though. Of course, I was told that everyone would be wearing costumes and that mine would definitely be some kind of baby girl outfit. I will be appearing in front of all of these people wearing diapers and a baby girl outfit so my ‘secret’ will be ******* to all in attendance. And since it is at Karen’s house my nursery she has set up for me may also come into play. I am already dreading that night.

 

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It is good your adult children seem to be accepting of Linda's relationship with Tom. At some point, Baby Bev will need to be explained to them, if your hopeful that they will accept your choices, I wouldn't surprise them during a holiday visit, there needs to be some warning.

My lifestyle choice will be out in the open very soon to some friends. We have been invited to a Halloween costume party at Karen and Mike’s house. In attendance will be a few couples that we are mutual friends with along with some people who work with Mike and Tom. These are people I don’t know. Linda may have met them on dates with Tom though. Of course, I was told that everyone would be wearing costumes and that mine would definitely be some kind of baby girl outfit. I will be appearing in front of all of these people wearing diapers and a baby girl outfit so my ‘secret’ will be ******* to all in attendance. And since it is at Karen’s house my nursery she has set up for me may also come into play. I am already dreading that night.

On a positive note, this will be at a Halloween costume party so if things go horiable wrong, it can be played off simply a Halloween outfit. Now on a more serious note, as you have said, there will be some at the party that already know about Baby Bev and and others that have likely been told, yet may not yet believe it. I would think your biggest risk, would be the few couples that your have identifed as mutual friends, are these some of the same mutual friends that provided a path way for your adult daughter to learn about Tom over the Summer?? If that is the case, you may be outed as baby bev sooner then later.