You have indeed experienced a series of changes through the last few days.
As you indicated, Linda pointed out, as a couple you couldn’t continue to hide the lifestyle choice forever since she and Tom were openly dating and had already been seen out in the public by several of your mutual friends.
As you mentioned, your daughter (Kim) found out about Linda and Tom through a friend of hers whose parents were at the same party. It was inevitable that it would get out once they started going out publicly on dates as a couple.
I personally do believe that you and Linda as a couple coming out to your adult children together about Linda and Tom dating was a positive decision. As I am sure others here would agree, you did the right thing by not going into a lot of details, keeping the conversation at a high level.
What you experienced with your interaction with your adult children, now that they understand that this is a consensual arrangement supported by you and that you are not getting a divorce, I am sure allowed for all of you to be much more open and comfortable with everything going on. It is great that they have accepted that their Mom is now dating Tom as it validated some of their initial suspicions.
You are correct now that Linda and Tom are now openly dating. Your adult children now know, some of your mutual friends know, and Tom’s friends know. It would be exceedingly difficult to turn back the clock on stopping them from dating now they are so open.
msbevw said:
So I guess there is no stopping Linda and Tom now from openly dating from now on. One thing that disturbed me that came up during our discussion on how to tell the kids was that Linda said that she was going to be spending some nights at Tom’s house in the future. She said that she wanted to be totally alone with him at times and not having to think about coming back home after they had been together.
She didn’t say how often or when it was going to start. But I got the impression that it was going to be a few nights a week and expect it to begin this weekend with their Saturday night date night. She already keeps some personal items at Tom’s house and a few outfits, so I guess it’s to be expected.
When I asked what I was suppose to do while she was away she said that she had talked to Karen and Karen said that I could stay at her house in the nursery she set up for me. I don’t know how comfortable I will be with being around Karen’s husband while in baby mode and having his wife babysitting me.
It looks like my life is going to be going through a lot of changing very soon.
While part disturbed you the most?
(1) The fact that Linda expressed that she would be spending more time at Tom’s place without you in the future and that she would like some one-on-one time just with Tom.
(2) The fact that you may spending some time at Karen’s place in her nursery that had been set up for you from time to time.
Do you see these as two separate concerns or more of one in the same?
During a prior marriage, my than wife had a creative relationship with several men although during a relationship with one of them, she did as you have described Linda doing with Tom. Meaning that the maintained a good bit of personal items at the other guys house, which included toiletries, clothing of all types and yes she did spending a good balance of days/night between each house. (she was dating my than boss) -- On the nights she was at his place (included some weekends), I would have other things to do around the house and outside of the house.
With that said, I understand why you might have some concerns in that area. I really think your concerns are much more centered about the fact that you have embraced being baby Bev and that means you have to learn how to approach more self-care or get more accustom to spending some nights at Karen’s house. Maybe you should have a talk with Karen and her husband about their thoughts.
Yes, your life will be changing to reflect that actual reality of things that are happening.
It looks like my life is going to be going through a lot of changing very soon.
msbevw said:
I have mentioned that Tom has continued the ritual of giving me regular bare bottom spankings. After removing my diaper, I must position myself across his lap as he applies a half dozen firm swats to my backside. Almost every time I feel his erection on my stomach as I am lying there. One time he had me kneel and kiss his erection as Linda watched. She didn’t say anything, so he has continued to make that a part of the spanking ritual now.
Last night that progressed further. He was wearing a robe and, as I lay on his lap, I discover that was all he was wearing. So when it came time for the cock kiss, he parted his robe and presented me with his ******* erection. I looked at Linda and she just nodded and said, “go ahead”. I placed a fast and gentle kiss on the tip of his cock.
Does anyone believe that this is NOT going to progress further real soon?!
Well, now is a new advancement that I did not see coming. Would you like to provided Tom with oral services?
