I admit that is a possibility, but I know Ashley and as we talked about this past weekend, she wants to go deliberately into this relationship and she did tell me that if he starts talking marriage, she will let me know that this "experience" is entering a very dangerous and uncharted life area and we really have to discuss this in the cold hard light of day. Now, I know what I am about to write will draw much comment and criticism, but if she is truly in love with him, I would give her, her freedom. I would tell her that I do want to stay close to you, as a friend, and that if she would want to open up that marriage, I would love to be her lover, since I would not have lost my love for her in the least.
I know that cuckoldism can also include watching the woman you love marry some one else and you wait, for the chance to participate in her loving when the new hubby lets his guard down.
I know that this might see like a beyond reality pipe dream but I am dead serious and Ashley and I are ready to enjoy this to wherever it leads. Hope this makes sense.
Mike