Waiting for her return

[SoonToBe]

Thank all of you for your concerns and well-wishes for Sue.

We are sure she is not pregnant as she's having both cramps as well as the start of her period which she says has definitely started but is different than it has been. Basically she"s just very uncomfortable.
And yes - as Saraha states so well - all couples who allow the wife to fuck others have to understand and assess the risks involved. We believe that Sue is still fertile as she hasn"t gone through menopause yet (as evidenced by her still having somewhat regular periods) so we were aware of the potential. That's also why she/we followed doctors orders to the max to be sure of things.

My/our understanding is that it isn"t so much whether the IUD is working - pretty much if it's still in her, it is working - it is as Saraha said, that some women just cannot tolerate it. We were concerned and still are that she may not be okay with it comfort-wise - but we are confident of it's effectiveness.

I have not and probably will never say it to Sue - but I'm okay saying it here that in admitting to my enjoyment of being a cuckold that I do find it strangely arousing of the idea of Brad getting her pregnant. Somehow it just seems like the ultimate expression and confirmation of her sexual involvement with him. The idea of his seed growing inside her is, as I said, strangely arousing. But it is also equally horrifying to think of in reality.

At this point I am hoping her body calms down enough that she can be comfortable with this sort of contraception until after she goes thru menopause.

Gotta run...

 

[SoonToBe]

To all - no worries here as Sue's period arrived "in full force" as she put it. She said yesterday was the worst and tonight she's feeling a bit better.
Seems like it will be a quiet Valentines Day but I"m holding out hope for Monday.

 

[Saraha]

Would Brad and Sue make a baby that looks like your other children or would your family notice a miss-match?

Are your children skilful enough to play with your computer and read your postings on cuckold.com?

How much difference in ages would there be if Sue wanted to be a loaded ship from Brad's sperm? This might be a gift you give them after 18 months or so if the miss-match is undetectable.

 

[SoonToBe]

While Brad and I are similar in build/stature - we do look different. He's got light-brown hair, mine is dark, almost black. He's got different eyes and nose. Too much of a contrast - especially given how much our 2 children look like us.

My son is definitely computer-savvy - but he does not use our computer just as we do not pry into his. He knows that I am well aware that he has a selection of porn that he enjoys - Sue is not savvy and is *******. Based on this, I suspect he'll respect boundaries. Our younger daughter is simply not into computers and she would have difficulty accessing our office computer as it is password-protected.

Despite my private pregnancy fantasy, there is just no way that either of us want this in reality - Sue is in her late 40's - there would be over 14 years difference. It's simply not something that's going to happen. She IS also experiencing menopausal symptoms including hot-flashes and such so for as much as that may diminish the potential, that is also at play here. I do seriously doubt that Sue would find arousal in her becoming pregnant - perhaps one day I will find the courage to tell her that I do.

Had we been younger when all of this happened, perhaps there would have been a different story. But then many things may have been different. I think the important part is to understand and enjoy where we are and not wonder about what would have been. I've become somewhat pragmatic about all of this since realizing and accepting my comfort with all of this.

 

[loveslife2005@yahoo.com]

I have not and probably will never say it to Sue - but I'm okay saying it here that in admitting to my enjoyment of being a cuckold that I do find it strangely arousing of the idea of Brad getting her pregnant. Somehow it just seems like the ultimate expression and confirmation of her sexual involvement with him. The idea of his seed growing inside her is, as I said, strangely arousing.

I love this thread for several reasons.

1. The "Wednesday off" idea is sooo arousing. I love her teasing you on Tuesday. If I were you I'd love to have her expand that to Tuesdays as well, and I'd want her to tease the heck out of me, but not let me have her unless it was a "finish me off" bj (but no penetration).

2. Ignoring the real-life side of having kids (I have two), I'd love for a wife or girlfriend to occasionally get "carried away" and risk getting pregnant with other men. Again, as fantasy and not reality, I'd love for a woman in my life to have me use condoms but let others, especially strangers, take her bareback.

3. On Tuesdays and Wednesdays, and after she got home from fucking her boyfriend, I'd like her to tell me how her lover was better, and how she doesn't want to degrade the sexual experience with him by lettting me have her Thursday night. On nights we did make love, I'd like her to say she was thinking of him while she fucked me.

4. The fact both you and your wife wanted her lover to have her bare first with the IUD, and how you used condoms so he could be bare first is incredibly arousing.

I love this thread. Please keep it up. It was so exciting when she told you she also wanter her lover to be "first" to cum inside her with the IUD, it was soooo hot.

 

[SoonToBe]

Loveslife - thanks for the words of support. As I said, once I felt comfortable letting Sue know more of what turned me on and not fearing things going out of control - it was easier to go with it.

We did share a nice Valentines Day yesterday. I got her some flowers and a card - we're doing dinner tonight as neither of us like getting ripped off by the "special menu" at restaurants who look to gouge you on a holiday. Tonight we're going to a little BYOB place and she's already let me know that she expects to be "ready" for me again later so I'm sure the bottle or 2 of wine over dinner will help that along.

Not much to share other than that. Hope everyone else had an enjoyable weekend - quite nice having tomorrow off....

 

[duke9555]

you're striking a deep profound
resonant chord within all of us
cucked guys

 

[loveslife2005@yahoo.com]

We did share a nice Valentines Day yesterday. [descibes romantic Valentine's Day with his wife]

Not much to share other than that.

I'm glad you shared that. It's great to see you two able to play cuckold games and keep the core relationship close and warm. You have the best of both worlds. Congradulations.

I'm eager to hear more about how she may deny you on Tuesdays as well as Wednesdays. That aroused me, especially when she said she considered it so she'd be extra-horny for her lover.

I've enjoyed many aspects of this thread, but the before-lover denial (after the IUD removed the original reason) and you using a condom under false pretenses because you wanted him to be the first to cum inside her with the IUD (and her saying she also wanted him to be first!!!) That's hot.

Thanks for the fun.

 

[SoonToBe]

Thanks for the compliments - but I'm just writing as it's happening.

Just a quick update - we did have a very nice day-after-valentines dinner and night afterwards!!! Very nice indeed. No teasing or that sort of stuff - she's a romantic at heart and that was what we had.

We took last night off and I am - as of 8:30pm - hoping for tonight. I've seen all the right signs but the kids are still up so I haven't pushed it further.

I look back at the whole thing with the IUD and I think, looking at it now - I see that I used that as my excuse to finally come out to her with all of what I was turned on about. I have felt so good about everything since then.

More later.

 

[melanieandryan]

Sounds fantastic.. You guys seem to have a maturity that is essential to this lifestyle.

Thank you for sharing,
Melanie and Ryan

 

[SoonToBe]

Well - it's Thursday again, but it may be the last Thursday for Sue and Brad. This morning before she left she told me that Brad wanted to talk to her about Thursdays - she wasn't sure what it meant but said she'd let me know more tonight when she gets home.

We did have sex on Tuesday night - I didn't suggest that she expand her "no-sex before Brad" time to include another night and she doesn't seem to want that - or at least hasn't said anything about it. While I may find that arousing, it's something that if she wants she can ask for - I think I'm experiencing enough as it is. She did tease me a bit on Tuesday - she seemed to enjoy teasing me about Brad being able to "easily cum two times in a night" when for me, a second time isn't the norm. Of course my first time is simply incredible so I don't feel like I'm necessarily missing out - but I did get the feeling that Sue enjoys Brad being a bit younger and more easily going for seconds. I guess I'll find out and hear more about that tonight.

Actually, I didn't sleep that well last night so I'm quite tired right now so I'm going to end this post and go clean up from dinner. Perhaps if I'm more awake in a bit I'll post more.

Melanieandryan - thanks for the compliments. I think the maturity comes from having spent 24 years together before jumping into this whole thing. As I've said all along - I have not ever felt a concern about losing Sue and she has always made me feel that I do not need such a concern. I think once you have that - and once we got to where we are both out in the open about my true enjoyment of her sexuality and cucking me - it's really been easier.

 

[Custer Laststand]

Blast from the past....

Soon,

Rewinding time, re. your post of Feb. 6:

....when we did finally get behind closed doors, she asked me to be gentle with her and plainly told me that Brad had - as she put it - "used her a lot". I will probably never forget her telling me how he said he wanted to try for three times again — and how she said he took forever the 3rd time.

It sounds like Brad is trying to prove to himself he's still a young man, with rather little regard for your wife's pleasure and comfort. See Chapt. 17, pp. 287-317, "The Unspeakable Passage: Male Menopause," in:

Sheehy, Gail, 1995, "New Passages: mapping your life across time," Random House, New York, 498 pp. (hard cover).

Your wife may be able to get beyond this by gently telling him "twice is enough.... I feel very satisfied with that, darling" (or words to that effect).

—Custer

 

[marys_pet]

Well - it's Thursday again, but it may be the last Thursday for Sue and Brad. This morning before she left she told me that Brad wanted to talk to her about Thursdays - she wasn't sure what it meant but said she'd let me know more tonight when she gets home.

That would be a bummer if it turns out to be the case. On the other hand, it would cement the idea beyond a shadow of a doubt that Sue's lovers are replaceable, while her marriage to (and relationship with) you is the permanent fixture in her life. No doubt with sufficient time (both to grieve the loss of the relationship with Brad, and because these things do take time) she'd be able to find a suitable replacement and would once again be making both of you hot by getting naked and spreading her legs for him.

Please keep us updated when you know more.

 

[casino]

Brad & Thursdays

Soon,

Interesting turn of events perhaps.... we're dying to hear from you.

Casino

 

[Saraha]

If Brad has to rein in his adultery because his wife is becoming suspicious, you may feel sharp withdrawal pains from knowing that Sue is NOW MISSING OUT. You will not be able to find the extra libido urges to console her, so a replacement will have to be a high priority after you have taken her away for a nice holiday. But your wife is at an age where she really needs two lovers to give her the cock power she deserves. At the least it will make your posts even more fun to ready as you juggle your "Sue time" with the lusting of her new Bulls.

 

[steev]

Soon, I hope you post more. I am a new member, but I read this thread all the way through. Most interesting, very good writing! Good luck to you both!

 

[loveslife2005@yahoo.com]

Good luck. You know from my comments that I love your cucky adventures (her cutting you off on Wednesdays, and hopefully Tuesdays). I also love that you give her the romantic, one-on-one husband and wife times that she loves. What a guy. She's lucky to have you, and vice versa.

Help her through the emotional rough patch if her time with her lover is interrupted. I'd love to have a relationship like your, with a wife who would sometimes be my wife, and sometimes be a hot wife whose sex with her lover made her put me in second place. Again, if I were you, It'd be so cool to have her deny me on the night (or nights) before she's with her lover. I'd want her to tell me her pussy was his at those times, and have her to have me just kiss and hug her as she tells me she's horny for her lover.

 

[SoonToBe]

Hey all, sorry for the lack of updates but there just hasn't been enough time. I started a post a few times but each time got interrupted.

Going back to Thursday night - as I said, it's actually gotten much easier on me over the past few weeks to the point where I am truly happy for Sue while she's out - of course I always look forward to her coming home and to our time afterwards, but some of the angst and anxiety I used to feel about her being with Brad has really gotten easier for me.

She did get home by about 8pm and by 10pm we were behind closed doors for the night. While I cannot remember exactly everything that went on - she teased me quite a bit - telling me again that I'd have to be gentle with her - that Brad "really wanted her" that night.

I remember being quite aroused as she let me undress her - she now knows I am so turned on by her and Brad that she will make comments about how Brad did this or that to her. As I slid her panties off she again told me how I'd need to be a bit gentle with her - and several times she teasingly asked me something like "are you ready to have a turn in Brads pussy?". I think I mentioned this before but she's starting to call it "Brads pussy" on Wednesdays' and Thursdays now.

Custer - this was the same comments she gave me when I asked her about why she let Brad go for thirds that time - she just said "its his pussy on Thursdays" and that she said she really liked how SHE felt knowing he really wanted to try for a 3rd time that night.

She did get on her hands and knees and it was VERY intense to see her in that position with her ass up in the air and her pussy just sort of being so open like that. I can't really describe all the feelings I had when I let myself think that it was Brad fucking her for probalby hours that left her that way.

She was very clean - as we started getting amorous I told her she smelled nice and she just said very casually that she and Brad had showered before they left. Just like that - almost no concern in her voice - just like it's a normal thing for her now. Even now just thinking about that is such a turn-on - thinking about him soaping her up and washing her - her doing the same to him!!!!

After we'd fucked and I finally came in her she just lay there on the bed - actually both nights - Thursday and Friday - she just lay there on the bed naked. I knew this was how she was with Brad too. I looked down at her and thought that it was obvious why they would be showering together especially if he'd cum in her twice - we were both pretty messy from just once - even though she started passively - by the end of our times together she was just as into it as I was, equally sweaty and equally out of breath.

Last night we didn't fuck though - we were out to dinner and didn't get home till late and we were both full and tired.

Now - the thing that she'd mentioned about Thursday nights is that Brad said that they may have to either change nights or they may have to change when or how they get together. She said that it's not so much that his wife is getting suspicious but more that Brad feels that they should change things before she does. He wants to tell his wife that this project is coming to an end soon - and he wants to figure out what they'll do.

I was very supportive and told Sue she can pick another night and it'd be okay or that they can try to figure out something else. I told her that if she really still wants to be with him, that we'd figure out something.

She smiled at that and then asked me if I would be okay if she and Brad had a few "quickies" until they figured out what would work. I didn't understand what she meant until she explained that with the IUD now they don't need to take so long (no diaphragm to deal with) and that - and she hesitated when she asked me this - and that she wanted to be sure I'd be okay if she and Brad would have a "quick fuck" at lunch or maybe just something quick after work for a while. I asked her if this would always be on Thursdays and she shook her head and said "probably not".

It took me a minute to think about all of this - I said to her that this would mean I would no longer know about this ahead of time and she smiled and said "no, you'll just have to be surprised". When I thought more about that - not knowing when she comes home whether they were together that day - it seemed to turn me on and I told her okay - that we can see how this will work out. She said that they would still meet for probably the next 2 weeks but after she has her period next, that would probably be when they would change.

I didn't ask what that meant about Wednesday nights - I'm not sure I want to ask that just yet but it may come up tonight - or rather this afternoon as both kids will be out this afternoon and she's already hinted that she wants me later and that we can be noisy when they're not around.

So - that's it - that brings you up to date. Sorry it's not more exciting but she seemed to want to make sure I would be okay with her/their thoughts about the future when we were together Thursday and Friday nights.

I actually like the idea but I didn't really say it to her that way - I want to see her come to her own conclusions. To me, this may be the first step towards her being a bit more spontaneous and maybe even a bit more promiscuous in the future - both things I've wanted to see her actually wanting for herself.

Gotta run, maybe more later.

 

[marys_pet]

I didn't ask what that meant about Wednesday nights - I'm not sure I want to ask that just yet but it may come up tonight - or rather this afternoon as both kids will be out this afternoon and she's already hinted that she wants me later and that we can be noisy when they're not around.

During this less scheduled time, would Sue be open to the idea of restricting your access to her pussy to the weekend (including Friday night), and keeping it off limits to you Monday through Thursday, in case Brad wishes to use "his" pussy on those days? Would you be open to that, as a reality? I'm fairly certain from things you've written about your situation that you'd find the fantasy of such an extended denial to be a turn-on.

 

[SoonToBe]

MP - I guess it's sort of obvious that it would arouse me to no end if that was what she asked for. But I don't want to push for that or give her any ideas.

I know it sounds crazy but it is really incredible to watch and see her desires change and grow. I mean not even a year ago she had none of these interests. It sounds weird to say this but it is actually fun experiencing this. It's like another dimension to our lives and in our marriage has been opened up. I am really turned on by seeing desire in her for herself now.

It's strange - I mean I as I said, I really don't have a concern about our relationship together, strange as it sounds, I do believe we may even be stronger together in that we are able to open up and admit more of ourselves to each other. Whereas she used to think I was crazy to want her to be with other guys - I think she genuinely understands that it does turn me on as crazy as that sounds. The longer we are going on this road, the more I feel that she is sensing my arousal and in some ways basing her behavior on how I would feel. The change I see is that she seems to be understanding more of what does turn me on. I guess it's obvious to her from how I respond when she teases me or tells me things and my response is a huge hard-on and intense desire for her.

She's out food shopping right now but I've already thought about what I want to tell her later. I just want to tell her that she can do whatever she wants and that the only thing I really would want is that she continue to share and be open with me about whatever she does.

If she really wanted that - Brad during the week and me only on weekends, I would probably go along with it as long as it was more of an informal type of thing. I think that's where I would sort of draw the line, if it went beyond something that we were sharing together. With all of this talk now, I'm surely horned up for later tonight.

To Saraha and others - I still don't see anything in her looking for other guys. To be honest, that is not something I want for her or us right now - perhaps in the future, but right now I like where we are and I think she does too - but you are correct, this movement away from the "big Thursday night" thing could lead to other desires. As I said above, I am more interested in seeing what she wants on her own time and her own pace.