I thought I would have had some time yesterday to post an update but the day flew by and we were, er, "busy" last night!!! She went out shopping so I finally had some time.
I guess the place to start is Friday night. We got home from work and had some dinner with the kids before getting ready to go out. I think we were both pretty horny - there was one point while we were getting changed where Sue just had on a jean skirt and no top and I was playing with her breasts almost to the point where she was going to give in and have a quickie with me before going out. Her nipples were so hard and she was humping against me. But then we both sort of said we should wait till later.
She wore this colorful tight top along with the jean-skirt. As I said, I knew she wasn't just going to jump into bed with him and her choice of panties/bra confirmed that. At one point I joked with her that she ought to go without undies and she said "not yet, I don't even know him yet".
Anyway - we got to this club/bar up near Parsippany, NJ that was pretty nice. There was a band setting up when we got there about 9pm. We didn't see Don there and we agreed that we'd hang around until the band started and then we'd decide to stay there or go to the other place Sue said he'd mentioned.
The band started just before 10pm and by that time we'd had 2 drinks already and Sue was very much enjoying being out on a beautiful Friday night. We danced a bit but I'm really not that good a dancer - good enough though. As we danced maybe the second or third song they played she said to me "there he is - over by the bar!". We turned so I could see him.
I always believe in first-impressions and from what I saw, he looked like this sort of cocky guy who clearly hung at this bar a lot from how he was chatting with the bartenders who seemed to know him. He was about my height and about my build. That always makes me feel good, that Sue genuinely likes my "size" body. He seemed about 5 years younger than us - in his early 40's. Medium length hair that didn't appear to be thinning yet (another similarity to me - mine may be grey but it is all still there!). From a distance he seemed handsome looking, so my first-impression of him was okay.
We finished the song out and then she walked me over to him. He saw her and gave her a hug and a kiss on the cheek and she introduced me and we shook hands and I said to him something like "I've heard a lot about you from Sue". He gave us both a strange look - as if that surprised him.
I felt good about him - I mean he didn't turn me off right away. We talked for a moment and he bought us a round of drinks and the 3 of us found an empty bar-table (no stools but a table to stand at) and got to talking a bit. He seemed like a nice guy - he talked to me AND Sue and I sort of could see what attracted her. He was very comfortable talking and not so much a smooth operator kind of guy, but genuinely very easy to talk to. He talked freely about his being divorced about 4 years earlier and how his kids were now 18, etc. He'd obviously heard from Sue about our kids - about our son getting his license and about our daughter's discovery of boys, etc.
After the band came back from a break he asked me very nicely if I'd mind if he danced with Sue. I told them it was up to Sue and that I was off to the mens room anyway. I walked slowly and watched them dance. They were just looking like good friends as I wound my way to the bathroom.
When I came back I stood at the bar and watched them dancing. Sue was obviously very pleased with herself from the smile I could see in the distance. Don had also warmed up with her and I could see he would touch her every now and then - take her hand and spin her or something like that. Still looking like just friends. I ordered us a round of drinks and carried them to our table (didn't expect it to still be avaialble) and waited for them to finish. As the song came to an end they turned to walk off the dance floor and I saw that Don put his hand on her shoulder and even gave her butt a light swat as they walked towards me both smiling.
We talked more about all sorts of stuff - what he did for fun, what we did for fun. I was a bit surprised when Sue volunteered that we liked to go to the nudie beach. Don said he'd never been there and Sue proceeded to tell him all about it. He looked at me at one point and paid Sue a compliment by saying she must attract quite the attention at the beach if she is out there naked - and then he added that he will have to go and check it out for himself.
I think he started to get the feeling that there was more here at stake than just friendship. After Sue told him that he started to be a little more seductive. Of course it could also have been that we'd now had 2 more drinks and were feeling little pain.
I danced with Sue next and told her I was surprised she'd shared with Don about the nude beach and joked with her that he might meet us there one day! She smiled and said "that'd be okay with me - I'd like to see him naked too!". I came out and just said to he at one point "you want him, don't you?". She smiled and giggled but didn't say yes or no, but I knew better.
I don't remember everything that was said - they danced, we danced, we drank a bit more and by about midnight I think we had all become comfortable with each other. Sue told me that he'd been complimenting her all night when they danced together, not so much seducing her but definitely making her feel really good. I told her that I thought he was a nice guy and that while I did worry about him fallng for her her (she laughed at that one) I did feel okay about him if it was something (someone?) she really wanted.
I guess it was close to 1am when they went off to the dance floor again and I told them that I was going to use the bathroom and to also text-message our son telling him to go to bed that we wouldn't be home before 2am. I took my time and when I came back into the bar area I looked around the dance floor for them and it took me a second to find them on the other side. They were dancing much closer now - his arms were around her and they were against each other (it was a slower part of whatever song they were playing). He had one hand on her back just above her butt and she had both her arms around his neck/shoulders. I was wicked hard as I let my mind wander watching them and I swore I could see them grinding together at one point. As the song came to an end I watched and saw them kiss each other briefly - nothing really intense but it was a kiss on the lips that lasted more than just a second. I turned away so they wouldn't see me looking at them as they came off the dance floor. Sue seemed a bit flustered as she came up to me and kissed me (did she feel guilty?) and I could tell she'd had enough to drink.