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- Thread starterThe Grinch
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Grinch, what do you think about asking her to "Sail On?" I won't post the lyrics here, but search "commodores sail on lyrics." In reading your posts, I thought of this song and, believe me, I haven't thought about it for about 25 years. Do you think it might be time to move along? If I were in your shoes, I'd give that question serious consideration.
As I have posted before, you need to get out of this fucked up marriage now, while you still have something left of your sanity. Your wife has made it abundantly clear that you are not the one wohom she considers the most important man in her life, he is.
Put your foot down and either take control of the situation or move on. If you continue down your current path, you will never again regain any amount of respect in your wife's eyes. She simply won't consider you to be a man, and will therefore feel justified in cutting off any sexual access you have to her forever.
Put your foot down and either take control of the situation or move on. If you continue down your current path, you will never again regain any amount of respect in your wife's eyes. She simply won't consider you to be a man, and will therefore feel justified in cutting off any sexual access you have to her forever.
I can no longer quote tj_hooker as I now have this jagoff on my ignore list (he's my 1st!)--4 posts, all abusive, and the fuck doesn't even read the threads he comments on; what a piece of shit. I reccomend putting him on your ignore lists also.
And just so this doesn't turn into what we had with "it", I reported this child to the Mod.s--let's hope they do something this time.
T.
And just so this doesn't turn into what we had with "it", I reported this child to the Mod.s--let's hope they do something this time.
T.
Wow, Grinch, just read this whole thread this morning, and I feel for you. This thread gives a lot of prespective to your posts in other threads.
It looks bad: Because of your love for your wife, you can't leave her and her fucked-up behavior; and she can't modify her behavior 'cuz she's so sub to what I will from here on refer to as "the bastard". What a dilemna! The advice from everyone to run from your marriage is great advice, but you just can't leave her, can you?
Sorry buddy,
T.
It looks bad: Because of your love for your wife, you can't leave her and her fucked-up behavior; and she can't modify her behavior 'cuz she's so sub to what I will from here on refer to as "the bastard". What a dilemna! The advice from everyone to run from your marriage is great advice, but you just can't leave her, can you?
Sorry buddy,
T.
The Grinch said:
You talk about honoring commitment, and previously agreed arrangements. She obviously feels no similar commitment towards you, honorable or otherwise.
Cut her loose and move on, before she rips your heart out and stomps on it any further. She deserves neither your honor nor your commitment.
Sorry, I feel if you don't see it here in her words that she isn't in a relationship with you, But with her lover. Cut your ties with her now and go on your own. Tell her, her things are on the front porch you are done being walked on for the last time. She is merely using you for the home she lives in part time. Every weekend she goes with him. Last weekend she was supposed to break it off with him she didn’t. That just shows you she wouldn't even jump in front of a oncoming car to save your life as she doesn't care how you feel only about herself and the true love of her life which isn't you. You said you have someone interested in you. Go forth with that maybe you could make a good relationship out of it. I am not sure how many years you had invested in with her but however it was much too many to just be walked on. Hell if you want someone to walk on you come over here I will wear my stilettos
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The Grinch said:
hotwifeapril said:Sorry, I feel if you don't see it here in her words that she isn't in a relationship with you, But with her lover. Cut your ties with her now and go on your own. Tell her, her things are on the front porch you are done being walked on for the last time. She is merely using you for the home she lives in part time. Every weekend she goes with him. Last weekend she was supposed to break it off with him she didn’t. That just shows you she wouldn't even jump in front of a oncoming car to save your life as she doesn't care how you feel only about herself and the true love of her life which isn't you. You said you have someone interested in you. Go forth with that maybe you could make a good relationship out of it. I am not sure how many years you had invested in with her but however it was much too many to just be walked on. Hell if you want someone to walk on you come over here I will wear my stilettos
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You need more Bulls, not cucks.
Sounds like you have a great plan. But from what you have said before she isn't going to give up the lifestyle and you will end up in a divorce, which in the long run will be best for you. Goodluck,,,Now look into the girl that has hinted and at least get to know her even if its for a drink just to boost up your self esteme that your wife has seem to have walked all over.
