Cuckykny said:
I am sure in the right situation, or if the right Bull came along I would be cuck'd.
One of your main duties as your wife's cuckold — arguably, your most important duty — will be to protect her.
Since there don't seem to be other men — single men she knows, or works with, or whom the two of you know — who are potential lovers; rather, she "flirts" with potential lovers aka bulls online, you might consider a strategy along the following lines.
1) Assist your wife with writing an advert, and post it on a suitable online forum (say, this one and the forums she's been using to "chat" with potential bulls).
2) Sort through the responses — taking into account what they say, how they say it, etc. — and select "several" (i.e., a finite number) whom your wife finds appealing.
3) Select the most appealing candidate (this can be arbitrary, if there are more than 1), and make arrangements for both you and your wife to meet with him at a neutral location — say, a coffee shop or restaurant (no alcohol) for lunch. Do not give the candidate your address or phone number.
4) During lunch, talk with him and decide whether he's someone your wife and you want to proceed further with. Set up a pre-arranged signal. For instance, if he's a slick talker and your wife seems entranced, but you can see he's bad news, touch her leg with your foot under the table, then end the lunch with some polite pleasantries, and leave. Or, if you think he's a good candidate but your wife doesn't like him, she can touch your leg with her foot under the table, then similarly end the lunch with some polite pleasantries, and leave.
5) If your wife's first candidate doesn't seem good (per 4), contact her next candidate, and do the same.
6) When you and your wife identify a candidate she feels she has some chemistry with, and you agree he seems OK (during lunch at your neutral location), make arrangements to meet him at a second neutral location, but this time make it a reasonably-nice bar that serves alcohol and has a dance floor. The purpose of this second meeting should be to enable your wife to dance closely with him; you could give them some "alone time" by making (for instance) an extended trip to the rest room and/or going outside to "make a business call." But, do not yet give him your address or phone number.
7) If your wife decides she is attracted to her candidate, she should let you know — then, the two of you could make arrangements to meet him at a hotel (not your home, and probably not at his home, either). There, if you have sufficient spare change, you could rent two rooms side-by-side, one for them, the other for you (but, make sure you have keys to both rooms). Or, alternatively, rent one room in which you will be present while your wife fucks her candidate. The arrangement should be such that you will be in a position to protect your wife, if her candidate turns out to be a really bad apple.
8) Finally, if your wife's candidate appears to be a good score as a lover, you can exchange phone numbers and address information, and move on to arrangements for future meetings at (say) your home, or his.
I suggest an approach along these lines, at the risk of seeming "overly cautious," because men who are angling online for a woman often — perhaps usually — try to present themselves as something other than what they are.
Also, if you begin talking with your wife along these lines at this point, it may have the effect of moving her from viewing all this as abstract, and potentially risky, to concrete and probably safe, because you will be involved in a way that will enable you to protect her if necessary.