Happy New Year everyone! I hope you all have a lovely, kink-filled new year, and thanks again for all the warm thoughts.
I'm not "still in chastity" in the sense that I'm regularly locked or locked for extended periods, but we do still play with chastity. In fact, I think Min-Ju's spontaneous decision to buy a cage has done more to change our sex life and change our relationship than her actually having sex with other men. The chastity is what solidifies my new submissiveness in the relationship and what empowers and emboldens her to take charge and try new experiences. It's also what drives the changes in our day to day living that place her in charge. And she likes that. So while she's mostly let me be free of the cage lately, she still sometimes locks me here and there, sometimes just for a night of fun and sometimes for a few days at a time, and she enjoys having the cage as a threat for when I'm "misbehaving" or just when she wants to have her way. It's a remarkably effective deterrent, as she's discovered.
Last night was one of those nights. Some of our friends have a tradition of converting their studio space into a big warehouse-style dance party for New Years. It always ends up being packed with friends and strangers alike and gets to be a lot of fun. Min-Ju spent a lot of time getting ready, especially with her make-up. She surprised me with a short black dress that she hasn't worn in a while. The dress hits above her mid-thigh and is entirely backless, in the front it has two straps that form a collar around her neck kind of like a halter top, and the whole thing has a punk vibe. Good for dancing, I suppose, but not the warmest or most covering. It's meant to be a summer dress, really, but with sheer black tights and lace fingerless black gloves, she was good to go. I thought I was good to go, too, until she came into the bedroom holding her hand out flat, palm up, and resting on her tiny hand was the chastity cage.
So there we were, hand in hand at the party, me securely locked and neutralized and her ready to hit the dance floor. It's interesting, if you've been following our story you know Min-Ju is not super comfortable dancing. She's not a bad dancer by any means, but she's not a particularly good one either. (I'm hardly one to tear up the dance floor myself.) Maybe this is a way of balancing out the universe: if she were a hot dancer that would be entirely too much sexy for one woman to contain. But she's been loosening up lately, feeling less self-conscious, and having more fun on the dance floor. And I love it.
We started the night off inseparable. Saying hi to our friends, grabbing some drinks, hanging out and catching up. We even hit the dance floor together a few times. When I told her how sexy she looked, she smiled and liked it, and then she teased me about being "blocked" and "useless," knowing how it gets me going when she's cruel like that. Rubbing up against me, she teased that "I can barely feel you" and that "It's almost like there's nothing there." She made me feel useless and horny. Goaded, I ground hard against her, using my best dirty-dancing moves, yet while I could feel the heat from between her legs hot against me, all she was feeling was the hard plastic of my cage. She giggled and pulled away laughing. Then she feel back into my arms and told me I'd better be careful who I danced with tonight: "If other girls feel what I just felt between your legs, they're definitely going to have some questions."
We teased and flirted with each other like that through the night, but as time passed we also drifted apart and let each other go our own way. I was hanging out on some old couches in the corner with a bunch of friends, and Min-Ju drifted away with the crowds. I saw her dancing several times with some of her girl friends, and a couple times with guys. It was hot to watch, and exciting. My hot wife was out there in some guy's arms in her skimpy little dress and no bra, open and with permission to do whatever she liked, while I stayed locked, watching her. And whenever she came back around to check in with me, with some of her hot female friends in tow, I couldn't help but wonder what they would think if they knew she had me locked up the way she did. Min-Ju had me, and I liked it. And as the night wore on I got hornier... and she got hornier.
When the countdown to midnight came around Min-Ju was out on the dance floor with a guy. The dancing slowed and stopped. The champagne was making its way around. I was on the couches, as friends found their significant others. Min-Ju stayed out on the dance floor with the guy she was with. I knew this was going to happen. I let it happen. There was time for me to go out into the crowd to join her, to claim her, but I stayed. Cucked. She never looked my way. I know because I was watching fiercely. My cock pulsed in its cage. The countdown started. 10... 9... "Where's your wife?" one of my friends asked, his arm snaked around his pretty girlfriend's waist as she leaned down into him. I shrugged, and if he followed my gaze he knew. The countdown was going.. 6... 5... The guy had his arms around Min-Ju's waist. She whispered something in his ear, and he laughed. 4.. 3.. She had her arm around him, too. 2.. 1... HAPPY NEW YEAR!! Shouting and laughter and good cheer filled the room, couples kissed and champagne was toasted. She was going to kiss him, I knew, and she did. She leaned in, head tilting upward, and she was kissing her. My wife. My heart was in my throat watching it, and helplessly my hand reached down and pressed against tingling crotch. The couples around me were kissing, too, and I was acutely aware of being left out of the moment, which both made me a little sad and excited me. A few of my friends even commented on it: "Where's Min-Ju?" and "Aw, you guys missed it!" But as quick as it came and as intense as it was, the moment passed.
Not long after, Min-Ju found her way over to me, proving, of course, that she had known where I was. We kissed and cuddled and shared our tender moment. After wishing me a happy new year she asked if I had "liked it." She was no more direct than that, but we both knew what she was talking about. i blushed furiously and nodded. I said it was really hot. She giggled and lightly punched my shoulder. "You're weird, but I love you," she said. She teased me a bit more, especially about my poor locked cock. She even teased that maybe I should stay locked until next New Year's -- which she said just to see my shocked and panicked reaction. She loved that.
We stayed another hour or two at the party. Sometime around 1am, that guy found her again -- or she found him -- and the next thing I knew they had both disappeared. They were gone at least 20 minutes, maybe a little more. I'm pretty sure nothing happened. At least not... you know... it.
But I'm not sure. And so far today, she won't tell me. While she's been napping much of the day away, I've been busy since early this morning, since several hours before she bothered to drag herself out of bed, cleaning the house. And I'm still locked.