2wheel,
Re.:
Yes, that was one of my points. I'm aware of the professional pressure nurses are under. (My former wife, now retired, was an RN for over 30 years.)
Yes. My post, as you know, was an attempt to suggest a way for your wife's obviously-sexy ST Evaluator to get back together with her husband, who has an obvious strong desire to be her cuckold, without a need to resolve their newly-developed difference by divorcing him.
I didn't suggest you wait to hear from her again. Rather, I suggested you take the initiative and contact her (via e-mail — I gather you have her address). And, the mere fact she said "you'll probably never hear from her again about this" doesn't mean you won't hear from her again about this. Remember, you're her "uncle confessor." So, here's another suggestion.
The basic problem your wife's ST Evaluator (I'll call her "Esmeralda") and her now-cuckold husband (I'll call him "Bill") are having is, she thinks she should be in charge of her own sex life. Bill, by contrast, thinks he should be the dominant person in their marriage, and thus should be in charge of her sex life (i.e., he thinks he should have the authority to demand she fuck other men, preferably in front of him). But, almost certainly — given their falling out — Bill does not want to divorce Esmeralda (because he probably loves her, and also because divorce is usually a financial disaster), just as Esmeralda does not want to divorce Bill, as you realized during your conversation with her (because she loves him, and she is also not into financial disasters).
Thus, I suggest —> you <— take an alternative approach. I suggest you point out to Esmeralda, in an e-mail letter, the nature of her marital problem (as outlined in the preceding paragraph), then go on to suggest to her the following solution: that she inform Bill she will return to him, if he agrees she will henceforth be in charge of her own sex life, there will be no disagreements about that.
And, to ensure this, Bill will have to agree to henceforth wear a male chastity device, for which Esmeralda will be his sole key holder. She may keep him reminded of her authority, as such, by wearing his key on a chain around her neck. Furthermore, Esmeralda will be free to date, seduce and fuck any man she wishes (thus satisfying Bill's intense internal desire to be her cuckold), but she will NOT tell him about it nor let him watch her (thus satisfying her own desire to fuck only Bill, if she wishes). And, with Bill's cock and balls securely locked in his chastity device, Esmeralda will taunt him about intending to fuck so-and-so, or perhaps about actually having fucked so-and-so (whether she did so or not) while requiring Bill to satisfy her with his tongue, by kissing and sucking her pussy (i.e., becoming her cuntsucker) and giving her analingus (i.e., becoming her asskisser) whenever she wishes.
You might go on to point out that a properly-teased and taunted husband, denied the ability to get hard and ejaculate by being kept in a cock cage, will almost certainly become submissive (rapidly) to his wife, and (most likely) she will find him willingly behaving in whatever ways she wishes. To get a feeling for this, you might suggest to Esmeralda she read:
Forum for husbands whose wives keep them in chastity devices:
Any of you cuckolds in male Chastity devices?
Also, cock cages by various manufacturers can be found here (or, Esmeralda can google "male chastity devices" — there are lots of them available):
Mature Metal
IN THE BEGINNING - Steelwerks Extreme
http://www.chastitytube.com
Male chastity cage - HolyTrainer : Size and specifications, pictures & videos
This suggestion, as a method for Esmeralda to resolve her marital problem with her cuckold Bill, may seem extreme — but it appears to be increasingly common for married women to lock up their husbands in cock cages.... even if they don't take lovers.... as a method for gaining increased control over their marriages, as Esmeralda will see, if she reads the forum for husbands who are kept in cock cages. They can be considered the penis equivalent of a wedding ring.
I suggest passing this along in the form of an e-mail letter to Esmeralda, rather than during another coffee date, because then you can be confident she will read it all the way through, and think about it, rather than interrupting you and engaging you in a verbal game of "yes, but."
—Custer
