Generally Custer you're on point, but you are way off base.Custer Laststand said:2wheel,
Re.:
You seem to have misinterpreted the main point of my post. It was not the "extreme" step of you suggesting to Ms. Esmeralda that she require her newly-cuckolded husband "Bill" to agree to wear a male chastity device, with her his sole key holder, as a condition for her to go back to him.
Rather, my central point was that Esmerlda needs to establish herself as the dominant partner in her marriage, at a minimum with respect to her sex life. Consider an analogy: if you think back to all the work you did to convince your wife to begin cuckolding you (again), and ask yourself who the dominant partner now is in your marriage with respect to your wife's sex life (her strokes notwithstanding), I think the honest answer would be, "She is."
Ergo, although Ms. Esmeralda has fucked other men in her husband's presence (at swing clubs), she has not successfully transformed him to her self-acknowledged cuckold, in the sense that she has not also established herself as the dominant partner in her marriage. This "merely partial conversion" of her husband to her cuckold is at the root, IMO, of her husband insisting she fuck other men (preferably in front of him), followed by their blowout and her leaving home.
In other words, Ms. Esmeralda has not yet trained her husband to accept that it is her prerogative, not his, to decide whether she wants to take a lover (as she has, in fact, at her friend's home), or fuck only him (if that is her desire).
As an illustration of a process Ms. Esmeralda could follow to establish herself as the dominant partner in her marriage, thus freeing herself from her husband's expectations and freeing herself to pursue her own desires, you might suggest to her (via your cell-phone connection) she read:
How to Cuckold your Husband Ch. 01:
http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=346742
How to Cuckold Your Husband Ch. 02:
http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=411918
In addition, I suggest you order for Ms. Esmeralda a copy of:
Sutton, Elise, 2003, Female Domination: An exploration of the male desire for loving female authority (298 pp., softcover),
which is available from well-known online sources. You could probably have it delivered in a few days. And, give it to her as a gift the next time you meet her for a coffee date — or have it sent to her, if she is willing to give you a mailing address.
Ms. Sutton claims not to be "in favor of" cuckolding of husbands, which she considers an advanced form of femdom, but her book includes a chapter on that subject (Chaph. 11, Cuckolding: Female Liberation or Promiscuity?).
[Disclaimer: I have no relationship of any kind with Ms. Elise Sutton, and gain nothing, financial nor otherwise, from suggesting her book(s).]
—Custer
"she has not successfully transformed him to her self-acknowledged cuckold"
She's NOT interested in pursuing this lifestyle, he IS. It's not a matter of his transformation - it's a matter of her transformation.