Hi Ms. SexiMexi,
Thank you for the update! You've obviously made good progress with both your cuckold husband and your lover.
SexiMexi said:
So, we [my cuckold and I] finally had our friend [my lover] over and tried the cage thing. It worked pretty well. I had my husband put it on when I started to get ready.
Very good....
SexiMexi said:
I wanted to run the show, since that seemed to work better last time.
Yes, I think you're on the right track with that. For a web site and book on this subject, see:
Elise Sutton’s guide for loving female authority:
Elise Sutton's Female Superiority Page
Sutton, Elise, 2003, Female Domination: An exploration of the male desire for loving female authority (297 pp., softcover).
SexiMexi said:
He was surprised I wanted him to wear it hours before our guy came over. I had him watch me get ready while I told him how excited I was to fuck the other guy again. It felt a little mean but I actually enjoyed it a little.....
Indeed. Your cuckold should have been grateful you only required him to wear his cock cage for a few hours in advance of your lover's arrival....
SexiMexi said:
My husband said he didn't want the other guy to know he's wearing a cage and made me promise not to tell him. He said its immasculating and wanted it to be our secret. So I respected that.
That was very kind of you (for the time being)....
SexiMexi said:
It was fun to watch him try to adjust it when he started to get hard.
Which revealed his true feelings about you requiring him to wear a cock cage....
SexiMexi said:
Our guy came over and we all drank. The boys more than me. My stud fucked me on the couch, as usual, while husband drank and watched. I could tell he was going crazy wearing [his cock cage]. He wanted to jack off so badly!
His cock cage did its job....
SexiMexi said:
It had been awhile since I fucked our friend, so I was super into it. So much so that I squirted for the first time in a loooong time. I can't make myself squirt; it takes just the right touch which [my lover] did so well. I soaked him!
Great! CONGRATULATIONS for being so turned-on you squirted; i.e., female ejaculated, during your orgasm. That's super-sexual. If you would like to learn to do that more regularly when you fuck your lover(s), see:
DVD: Sundahl, Deborah, 2002, How to Female Ejaculate: All women have the anatomy to ejaculate!
Book: Sundahl, Deborah, 2003, Female Ejaculation & the G-Spot (Hunter House Publishers, 217 pp., softcover)
SexiMexi said:
My husband was stunned because he'd never seen it [before].
Perhaps he didn't even know that women can ejaculate....
SexiMexi said:
..... I had my stud take his condom off and come on the outside of my pussy. I then excused myself to clean up and told my husband to follow. I wiped the cum with a cloth and unlocked him. I warned him not to come on or in me because I wasn't done with the other guy. Turns out it wasn't an issue. He was more ***** than I realized. He went down on me forgetting [my lover's] cum was just covering me. I didn't say anything. I stroked his cock while he ate me which made him come A TON all over the bed. Then, he **********.
Very good. Cleaning up your pussy (and asshole, if need be) with his tongue after you fuck a lover is definitely among your husband's duties as your cuckold. You have him on the right track. And, he should have been grateful that you were kind enough to masturbate him to a climax while he was doing so....
SexiMexi said:
I spent the rest of the night drinking and fucking my boy toy in the other room. It was great!
That's good to hear, Ms. SexiMexi....
SexiMexi said:
The next day husband was butt hurt that he missed more sex, and that I'm a squirter and didn't tell him. He's been asking me and asking me how he can make [me do that].
Perhaps you should suggest your cuckold order the above DVD and book on that subject for you (and pay for it himself).
Congratulations again for your successful night with your lover, Ms. SexiMexi, while dealing with your cuckold husband successfully at the same time.
—Custer