Husband Wanted To Be Cucked And Is Now Acting Weird. Wtf?!

[Knk069]

So it sounds think he's into humiliation? Seems like most husbands are at least a little bit that watch their wives. I know what the little cage thing is but don't know much about them. Do they hurt?

Hi SexiMexi. We played around with a CB6000s for a bit. Nothing more than two weeks. It took a little bit to get used to. It only got painful when I had some intense morning erections after a week or more caged. If he is only using one for short a short duration while you are getting laid he should be okay. From the posts so far, I think he just needs it during those times. Of course, when you are done your could tease him for a bit before giving him his reward.

 

[SexiMexi]

Bad choice of words. I meant it from a positional point of view. I probably should used another word like sub. And I agree with you being emotional doesn't make you a wimp.

I appreciate that. Sorry if I was abrupt

 

[SexiMexi]

Hi SexiMexi. We played around with a CB6000s for a bit. Nothing more than two weeks. It took a little bit to get used to. It only got painful when I had some intense morning erections after a week or more caged. If he is only using one for short a short duration while you are getting laid he should be okay. From the posts so far, I think he just needs it during those times. Of course, when you are done your could tease him for a bit before giving him his reward.

You leave it on for a week?! How do you pee?

 

[Knk069]

You leave it on for a week?! How do you pee?

You have to sit.Otherwise it would be spraying.

 

[far2easy]

The one that I wear allows me to pee standing up, no problem.

 

[Knk069]

SexiMexi, how are things going? I hope you have a date for this weekend and the husband is in board with it.

 

[2wheel]

While he's in a sexual mood (pre-orgasm) he wants it. After (post-orgasm) he regrets it.

Common issue "post orgasm blues"!

The key is for him to NOT orgasm. I don't think he's into humiliation and wimp or sub are inappropriate definitions as well. It's just his physiological makeup of which he has no control.

You're doing right by being extra sensitive to his feeling.

Perhaps a dose of climax control cream will help delay his orgasm. Try it when you both alone not real time.

 

[FondOfSex]

I dont mean to be blunt, but your husband is being an asshole! Yes, cuckolding is a big deal the first time and yes im sure theres a whirlwind of emotion BUT he wanted this for months. He had the fantasy, you all role played, talked about it, you all met the guy, came back to your place, got naked and fucked... so no no no he doesnt get to change his mind about it mid-way through your sex session. That is extremely rude! Not to mention mood killer for you and your sex partner. He had plenty of chances to stop it, but in my opinion the moment that guys dick went inside you well your husband didnt get to have any more say until it was over!
Now that my rant is over, i do think you all need to talk about it, and he definitely needs to work on letting go of his jealousy so next time move alittle slower i suppose. Let him know youre still his, and how hot it was for him at the time. I hope you all give it another shot. Best wishes

 

[Krprice58]

She has not posted in almost a month guys, I wonder how things are going.

 

[motorcitypaul]

So my husband has been into the whole watch me get fucked thing for a long time. He's asked me to do it since we've been married (four years now) and I finally agreed to it.

The idea always sounded good to me but I had a lot of reservations. Such as him wanting to be with another woman which I don't want. Him getting jealous or seeing me differently afterward. He assured me none of this would happen.

We're roleplayed this fantasy for him a lot. Watched the porn. I even told him in great detail about my past hookups which got him off. So, he convinced me he'd be fine with everything. We found a guy online together who is nice and fit, well endowed, and single.

We met the guy and ended up back at our place last weekend. My husband was all excited. The other guy and I hooked up while my husband watched and touched himself. Well, the other guy was very good and I got into it. He's very orally fixated (including my booty which I love but husband doesn't do), and is a take charge kind of man. Our sexual styles were very compatible. I was very turned on by him. In fact, my husband could hear how wet I was when the other guy was fucking me.

I got lost in the sex so I didn't notice my husband leave the room. We finished up and he was gone. I found him in our bedroom waiting for us to finish. I was naked, sweaty, and had cum all over my chest. My husband looked at me and while fighting back tears said "you really enjoyed yourself didn't you." I said "of course I did, didn't you?" He said he didn't know!

I was very honest and told him I enjoyed the sex very much. He kept trying to get me to say whether or not the other guy is better than he is. Yes he is but I'm not going to say that! I tell him it's different but not better.

He's not sure if he wants to do it again. He says it was "hot as hell but difficult at the same time." OMG! He swore this type of thing wouldn't happen! Now I want to keep seeing the other guy but not if my husband is going to be like this about it! I mean, my husband sat there jerking off watching us then got butt hurt because I had an orgasm?! So aggravating! Any advice out there?

 

[motorcitypaul]

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[QUOTE="motorcitypaul, apparently your hubby didn't think it thru all the-way. You told him up front you wouldn't want him with another woman.He agreed. Not he's upset that you had fun and enjoyed yourself. Well, what did he want...you to say it was awful...I don't wanna do this ever again. Did he not want you to have fun. Maybe nxt time, met your sex frd alone. See how he would fill then. Heck,you didn't say anything about leaving jhim. Iam glad aboujt that.You just indicated after some reservations that it was fun honey.We can do this agin when your rdy.

 

[playharder65]

Being a husband who was the same way and pressured my wife into doing the same, yes, I did feel funny watching, I also felt very excited. The first time took over a year of role plays, cuck movies, sex toys, etc. I wanted the guy to be a lot bigger than me etc. She had fun, she orgasmed more and she made noises I have never heard before. But I never complained to my wife or made her feel bad for enjoying it. But my wife enjoyed it more than me and got numbers and was fucking behind my back and not telling me what she was doing. So basically I had created a monster. But I will say I enjoyed our time together as I got to watch her gangbanged by 8 hung black guys for almost 11 hours nonstop and we only left because there wasnt a hard cock left in that room and it became uncomfortable for me, lol trying to hold a conversation waiting on someone to get hard. But afterwards, she was always saying hey baby, lets get a hotel room and find some guys to fuck me, I didnt feel like playing all the time and she did

 

[Custer Laststand]

..... But, my wife enjoyed it more than me and got numbers and was fucking behind my back and not telling me what she was doing. So, basically I had created a monster. ....

"Monster"....? I don't think so. Basically, that's a word used by men when they realize the sexual capacity of their wives greatly exceeds their own, and.... having become sexually liberated.... their wives realize they have no need to seek their permission to fuck other men.

But, I will say I enjoyed our time together as I got to watch her gangbanged by 8 hung black guys for almost 11 hours nonstop and we only left because there wasnt a hard cock left in that room and it became uncomfortable for me, trying to hold a conversation waiting on someone to get hard.

Jeez, that's very impressive.... your wife outlasted them all....

Afterwards, she was always saying: "Hey baby, lets get a hotel room and find some guys to fuck me." I didn't feel like playing all the time, but she did.

Nice. Good for your wife.

I notice you use past tense. What happened to her? Did the two of you get divorced, for some reason or other...?

 

[playharder65]

"Monster"....? I don't think so. Basically, that's a word used by men when they realize the sexual capacity of their wives greatly exceeds their own, and.... having become sexually liberated.... their wives realize they have no need to seek their permission to fuck other men.


Jeez, that's very impressive.... your wife outlasted them all....


Nice. Good for your wife.

I notice you use past tense. What happened to her? Did the two of you get divorced, for some reason or other...?

Oh yes, I ended up divorcing her. Because she was denying me sex and cheating behind my back. I never considered myself a cuck, persay. I enjoyed watching her being fucked, I enjoyed listening to her exploits of her sexual activities before we got married, I loved her dressing sexy when we were away from home. But I never agreed to her cheating or when she would make excuses to not fuck me, it became very frustrating and we finally divorced. For the first year after the divorce she would come by my house and we would fuck behind her new boyfriends back or she would bring over a guy and used my house as a place to cheat on her new boyfriend. We eventually parted ways as I found a girlfriend who enjoyed doing the naughty things i wanted her to do and always informed me

 

[Custer Laststand]

....... But, I never agreed to her [my ex-wife] cheating, or when she would make excuses to not fuck me. It became very frustrating and we finally divorced. For the first year after the divorce she would come by my house, and we would fuck behind her new boyfriends back....

I must say, this is the most ingenious strategy I've seen for a married cuckold whose cheating wife denies him sex. I.e., divorcing her, thus enabling her to cheat on her new boyfriend (or husband) by fucking him. Nice.

Or, [my ex-wife] would bring over a guy and use my house as a place to cheat on her new boyfriend.

Him.... it's harder to see the advantage to you in this arrangement....

We eventually parted ways, as I found a girlfriend who enjoyed doing the naughty things i wanted her to do and always informed me.

My congratulations to you. You succeeded yet again....

 

[far2easy]

If you put him in the cage for longer periods (days before) he will be begging for you to call your boyfriend over more often. I actually have learned to enjoy watching her have great sex and encourage it. I love knowing that I have given her that!

 

[SexiMexi]

Here's some of the shower pics I had my husband send my boy toy

 

[Krprice58]

Dam you are so beautiful.

 

[Nazareth]

Yummy!

And good for you, too! It sounds like you have assumed a more dominant role over your hubby, are prioritizing your wants, and that's likely best for all involved.
I'm looking forward to your next time!

 

[Knk069]

Here's some of the shower pics I had my husband send my boy toy

Damn! You are even sexier than your name implies! I am glad I don’t have a cage on right now because I would have missed the fun I just had!

Great tactic having a caged hubby take such hot pictures and send to the boy toy. I agree with a commentor that you should cage him longer before the date. Start with one day and increase it as things progress and he handles it. Good luck.
PS: congratulations on the squirt.