I completely understand this point of view. A young, pretty woman with an "old man" has, in my eyes, something exciting about it, while at the same time retaining a certain frustration (why him, the old man, and not me, the young man? what more does he have?).Nazareth said:This prompted me to think of a music venue the wife and I regularly attended. Very small place with a mostly older crowd, and some 'regulars' had been coming for 10-15 years and more. Because of this, there are a LOT of widowers who will still get 'excited' when they see a woman they like, and can get a little handsy when giving hugs.
I've encouraged my wife to be receptive to their touching, and have suggested she should try to "date" one (or more) of them. I want her to require gifts from them for her favors. It should be beneficial to all involved.
It's even possible that actual sex may not happen, just depending on what they are capable of still doing. Besides companionship, old men of that age are often more interested in looking and touching rather than achieving penetration. And even if they can, it's harmless sex.
I humbly confess that this experience, which my wife told me about after our wedding, made me fantasize (and makes me fantasize), as did the times when she was "taken in hand" by a bunch of employees from the company I worked for (some of whom were Black or Arab) who 'I hope' didn't know about our relationship.