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Exactly how many sissy submissive cucks do we have on here?
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Well, she controls the finances, she initiates sex and on her terms which means she is the agressor, she has me wear women's sleepwear everynight to bed, and I do most of the housework, so in that since I wouldn't be an alpha male. She has only dated a few men, no sex, so that doesn'texactly qualify as cucking. However I usually drive the car and I usually do stuff like pay for meals in restaurants , so on that score i would be alpha.Dominant Goddess said:
when she dates other men it makes me feel kind of little. she doesn't do it too often, and says its totally business.Dominant Goddess said:
Dominant Goddess said:
Sissy maid cuckold
I would clasify my self as being very submissive since my wife first cuckolded me. I was not or at least i thought I was not before. When she started dating men I could nto act, I was upset but had no ability to tell her no and i found it excited me as well. When she began to sissify me it added to my submission so yes i would say it greatly afected my masculinity.
Eventualy i spent most all of my time at least partialy feminized and she picked up men when ever it struck her to do so. Many of her regulars she brigns home and I am expected to serve them as the maid and accept my status as a cuckold. In reality I think that the feminisation process helped me accept my role asa cuckold. Its easier to accept being a cuckold and I think easier for her lovers t oaccept and not be threatened by me if I am completely attired as a French Maid or go to bed in a pink babydoll.
Becasue i am kept tucked all the time with my testicles pushed up in my body cavity i can not have sex as a man anymore anyway and I think that permits me to allow my ego to acceptthat i am betetr of as a sissy maid cuckold and my wife needs to have lovers.
Sissie
I would clasify my self as being very submissive since my wife first cuckolded me. I was not or at least i thought I was not before. When she started dating men I could nto act, I was upset but had no ability to tell her no and i found it excited me as well. When she began to sissify me it added to my submission so yes i would say it greatly afected my masculinity.
Eventualy i spent most all of my time at least partialy feminized and she picked up men when ever it struck her to do so. Many of her regulars she brigns home and I am expected to serve them as the maid and accept my status as a cuckold. In reality I think that the feminisation process helped me accept my role asa cuckold. Its easier to accept being a cuckold and I think easier for her lovers t oaccept and not be threatened by me if I am completely attired as a French Maid or go to bed in a pink babydoll.
Becasue i am kept tucked all the time with my testicles pushed up in my body cavity i can not have sex as a man anymore anyway and I think that permits me to allow my ego to acceptthat i am betetr of as a sissy maid cuckold and my wife needs to have lovers.
Sissie
Oh, Do I Wannabe!
I'm definitely submissive, certainly a sissy, and would (gulp!) love to be cuckolded if I am completely honest, but I don't think my wife would go for it.
She doesn't mind the submissive part. I clean and cook, massage her, paint her toenails and she is mildly into dominating me during sex. Pulls and bites my nipples, loves for me to go down on her for extended sessions, rides me and pulls my nut sack, even fingers my asspussy on occasion.
She has tolerated my dressing in the past, but currently does not know that I still do it when she is gone. It just seemed too awkward for her, even though she went with me to buy a chemise once, and she doesn't mind my guys bikini underwear (white, gray or black, no other colors).
She also knows that I love having my "pussy" plugged, although she doesn't know I call it that, or how much of a size queen I have become. She would be floored if she knew I can take a beer bottle bottom first up to the neck. She just knows about my big red plug, which is large enough itself. I have also tried to self-fist but have large hands and the angle is terrible
We haven't even brought up the cuckolding subject. I have licked my own cum from her beautiful honeypot - once when she didn't know I had climaxed and once when she was a bit tipsy, but she has never seemed interested in sharing.
She seems satisfied sexually. She gets off best from oral, but I'm decently hung (once had a dancer in a private booth gasp when she saw me - I was pleased and surprised at the reaction) and she likes penetration too.
I love making love with her, but find I am longing for more. Maybe it is the forbidden, nasty aspects of cuckolding that get me hot, maybe it is bisexual desires, maybe I ave self-esteem issues, maybe all of the above.
In the meantime, I slowly try to work in new aspects of our love life that lead in the right direction.
Sorry, a bit long winded and more self-disclosing than originally intended.
PB Jenni
I'm definitely submissive, certainly a sissy, and would (gulp!) love to be cuckolded if I am completely honest, but I don't think my wife would go for it.
She doesn't mind the submissive part. I clean and cook, massage her, paint her toenails and she is mildly into dominating me during sex. Pulls and bites my nipples, loves for me to go down on her for extended sessions, rides me and pulls my nut sack, even fingers my asspussy on occasion.
She has tolerated my dressing in the past, but currently does not know that I still do it when she is gone. It just seemed too awkward for her, even though she went with me to buy a chemise once, and she doesn't mind my guys bikini underwear (white, gray or black, no other colors).
She also knows that I love having my "pussy" plugged, although she doesn't know I call it that, or how much of a size queen I have become. She would be floored if she knew I can take a beer bottle bottom first up to the neck. She just knows about my big red plug, which is large enough itself. I have also tried to self-fist but have large hands and the angle is terrible
We haven't even brought up the cuckolding subject. I have licked my own cum from her beautiful honeypot - once when she didn't know I had climaxed and once when she was a bit tipsy, but she has never seemed interested in sharing.
She seems satisfied sexually. She gets off best from oral, but I'm decently hung (once had a dancer in a private booth gasp when she saw me - I was pleased and surprised at the reaction) and she likes penetration too.
I love making love with her, but find I am longing for more. Maybe it is the forbidden, nasty aspects of cuckolding that get me hot, maybe it is bisexual desires, maybe I ave self-esteem issues, maybe all of the above.
In the meantime, I slowly try to work in new aspects of our love life that lead in the right direction.
Sorry, a bit long winded and more self-disclosing than originally intended.
PB Jenni
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In some ways I have two separate perspectives. I'm the assertive, confident man at work and around my buddies. It doesn't feel like an act, it just seems normal. Around women, even when I dated I was never controlling and always willing to let them take the lead. Some women were turned off by that, some seemed unphased. For me the cuckold situations in my life have always challenged my masculinity. How could it not? My wife with another man instead of me and me not only putting up with it, but loving it and hating it at the same time. Talk about a head trip.
thank you kindly....
to all the men who have responded to my questions here, your replies have been frank, enlightening and very interesting. I'm sorry I can't respond to each one individually right now (though I'd like to) as I'm packing to go on my holidays early in the morning, but I wanted to pop in and acknowledge the wealth and diversity of sexual expression being explored in here. Thanks to all for your time....
~DG~
to all the men who have responded to my questions here, your replies have been frank, enlightening and very interesting. I'm sorry I can't respond to each one individually right now (though I'd like to) as I'm packing to go on my holidays early in the morning, but I wanted to pop in and acknowledge the wealth and diversity of sexual expression being explored in here. Thanks to all for your time....
~DG~
I am naturally submissive to all women. They tend to know it instinctively, and it is actually the rare woman who is turned on by this, but by remaining myself they have found me over the years.
My wife found me several years ago, and since our marriage she has been head of the household. A little over a year ago she began seeing lovers with my full encouragement. She will occasionally involve me in an MFM, but she does enjoy them one on one often. Sexually I am no match for the men she chooses and this is evident by the way they are able to bring her to orgasm over and over again. They don't dominate or humiliate me, but everyone knows that I am submissive to them.
We actually thrive in this situation.
My wife found me several years ago, and since our marriage she has been head of the household. A little over a year ago she began seeing lovers with my full encouragement. She will occasionally involve me in an MFM, but she does enjoy them one on one often. Sexually I am no match for the men she chooses and this is evident by the way they are able to bring her to orgasm over and over again. They don't dominate or humiliate me, but everyone knows that I am submissive to them.
We actually thrive in this situation.
learning
As my superior DG started this thread it seems only natural that I should place myself here. I am slowly starting to understand exactly what being a sissy cuckold will mean in reality and have talked about this with DG many times. We already have a very strong fem dom relationship and I certainly feel very "natural" in my submission to her and in fulfilling her greater needs. The sissy element of me has always been present, right back to my early days, but very heavily disguised in my general alpha nature ! Not an unusual story from what I read. I adore DG for allowing my sissy side to be revealed and demanding that of me...I certianly feel I serve her more dilligently and am in my correct place when dressed in femme and tucked up in her panties and nylons. I am a very happy and content puppy when in her panties and serving. As for the cuckold side that is an element we talk about a lot and maybe ...well time will tell. However, I would imagine that if DG were to take a lover my role would be best fulfilled as her sissy cuckold serving both her and her lover .......in the ways they desire...I ultimatley desire only what gives her pleasure and contentment and allows her to fully express her magnificence.
As my superior DG started this thread it seems only natural that I should place myself here. I am slowly starting to understand exactly what being a sissy cuckold will mean in reality and have talked about this with DG many times. We already have a very strong fem dom relationship and I certainly feel very "natural" in my submission to her and in fulfilling her greater needs. The sissy element of me has always been present, right back to my early days, but very heavily disguised in my general alpha nature ! Not an unusual story from what I read. I adore DG for allowing my sissy side to be revealed and demanding that of me...I certianly feel I serve her more dilligently and am in my correct place when dressed in femme and tucked up in her panties and nylons. I am a very happy and content puppy when in her panties and serving. As for the cuckold side that is an element we talk about a lot and maybe ...well time will tell. However, I would imagine that if DG were to take a lover my role would be best fulfilled as her sissy cuckold serving both her and her lover .......in the ways they desire...I ultimatley desire only what gives her pleasure and contentment and allows her to fully express her magnificence.
insights
Thank you for your post, Learning. Your candid response, along with the other posts I have read from you and your DG, are providing new insights for me. I am truly in awe of the mindful and clearly well developed nature of your relationship.
I'm starting to gain a new understanding of my fantasies and desires. The level of discussion that you and DG provide are helping me to find clarity. I've been an independent businessman all of my life in a very alpha profession, yet, looking back, I too see that an underlying submissive part of my nature has been manifesting itself in various ways. Importantly for me, I am understanding more clearly each day that my sexual urges toward submission are only a piece of the larger totality of my nature. Your posts have helped me grasp the larger implications and significance of these desires in my marriage and partnership with my own Goddess.
While my wife certainly has some awareness of this, at least on some level, and we have developed, to a certain extent, understandings of her natural dominance over me, it has been in rather small, exploratory ways. I sense in her the capacity to break out and more fully express her dominant nature, but I am not sure of how strong her desire is or how to support and encourage her. I have hinted around this, and always accept the opportunity to serve her in our relationship both in an out of the bedroom, however I am at a loss for now on how to proceed further down this path.
Thank you again for sharing on a deep level. I hope to continue to gain insights from your example which might apply to my own dance of life.
-jenni
Thank you for your post, Learning. Your candid response, along with the other posts I have read from you and your DG, are providing new insights for me. I am truly in awe of the mindful and clearly well developed nature of your relationship.
I'm starting to gain a new understanding of my fantasies and desires. The level of discussion that you and DG provide are helping me to find clarity. I've been an independent businessman all of my life in a very alpha profession, yet, looking back, I too see that an underlying submissive part of my nature has been manifesting itself in various ways. Importantly for me, I am understanding more clearly each day that my sexual urges toward submission are only a piece of the larger totality of my nature. Your posts have helped me grasp the larger implications and significance of these desires in my marriage and partnership with my own Goddess.
While my wife certainly has some awareness of this, at least on some level, and we have developed, to a certain extent, understandings of her natural dominance over me, it has been in rather small, exploratory ways. I sense in her the capacity to break out and more fully express her dominant nature, but I am not sure of how strong her desire is or how to support and encourage her. I have hinted around this, and always accept the opportunity to serve her in our relationship both in an out of the bedroom, however I am at a loss for now on how to proceed further down this path.
Thank you again for sharing on a deep level. I hope to continue to gain insights from your example which might apply to my own dance of life.
-jenni
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honesty....
Although you addressed this reply to my gorgeous sissy lover, naturally I choose to respond placing *my* wishes over and above his own desires, though he may choose to reply separately of course
I like to think that this kind of forum encourages exploration of sexuality in a true and sincere way, alongside the inevitable jack-off seekers who will use the content in here simply for that...jacking-off that is, still, everything has it's place hey!...
However, I'm interested to hear your story PBJenni as it is clearly a story that has many aspects to it, not least of all your necessarily concealing your true sexual self in your alpha-male dominated workplace (as I'm sure is VERY common). Many of us are limited in what we can express, even amongst friends, and the element of risk is ever present if ones choices are mainly placed outside of straight vanilla sex/thinking.
I'm glad you've found a way to begin to express some of this with your wife, and I wish for you the opportunity for ever more safe, consensual, respectful exploration. For me, if my lover is not respectful, that's the ABSOLUTE END of my willingness to explore, especially in a forum such as this, but not only that, in life too. For me, this expression of my sexual/personal self is not a superficial thing, it is a lifestyle/attitude for living that goes way beyond the temporary and into the TRUTH of my ability to be my *whole* self. If I can be myself, learn about another whom I love and stay clear in my own boundaries within that, then I'm content.
I love my partner deeply and I respect all aspects of his sexuality. I love affording him the freedom to express himself and all of those taboo and forbidden parts. I love to see him in my underwear, I love to have him serve me, and I love to spend time doing very ordinary things with him too. He is my best friend, my confidante and my much respected partner in many many ways. That said, no relationship is easy all of the time and I'm very commited to working at our differences and growing the things we share in common in a spirit of loving, open, mutual care.
Many aspects of our sex life remain fantasy and will do so until we feel the time is right to open things up even more, and that's fine. I don't want to present a phony picture of an all-singing, all-fucking, totally cool/anthing goes realtionship. We're human after all with human feelings of jealousy, confusion, uncertainty etc! BUT.....with him I am more open, more sexually responsive and more honest than I've EVER been in a relationship with a lover and that's pretty good going. My sexual desire for him only grows with time, not dwindles as is common, and I'm sure that's down to our honest communication and the sense of trust and fun we share.
Good luck with your wife and in finding the greater freedom to express yourself in your life.....we've only got the one after all!!!!!!
~Dominant Goddess~
pbjenni said:
Although you addressed this reply to my gorgeous sissy lover, naturally I choose to respond placing *my* wishes over and above his own desires, though he may choose to reply separately of course
I like to think that this kind of forum encourages exploration of sexuality in a true and sincere way, alongside the inevitable jack-off seekers who will use the content in here simply for that...jacking-off that is, still, everything has it's place hey!...
However, I'm interested to hear your story PBJenni as it is clearly a story that has many aspects to it, not least of all your necessarily concealing your true sexual self in your alpha-male dominated workplace (as I'm sure is VERY common). Many of us are limited in what we can express, even amongst friends, and the element of risk is ever present if ones choices are mainly placed outside of straight vanilla sex/thinking.
I'm glad you've found a way to begin to express some of this with your wife, and I wish for you the opportunity for ever more safe, consensual, respectful exploration. For me, if my lover is not respectful, that's the ABSOLUTE END of my willingness to explore, especially in a forum such as this, but not only that, in life too. For me, this expression of my sexual/personal self is not a superficial thing, it is a lifestyle/attitude for living that goes way beyond the temporary and into the TRUTH of my ability to be my *whole* self. If I can be myself, learn about another whom I love and stay clear in my own boundaries within that, then I'm content.
I love my partner deeply and I respect all aspects of his sexuality. I love affording him the freedom to express himself and all of those taboo and forbidden parts. I love to see him in my underwear, I love to have him serve me, and I love to spend time doing very ordinary things with him too. He is my best friend, my confidante and my much respected partner in many many ways. That said, no relationship is easy all of the time and I'm very commited to working at our differences and growing the things we share in common in a spirit of loving, open, mutual care.
Many aspects of our sex life remain fantasy and will do so until we feel the time is right to open things up even more, and that's fine. I don't want to present a phony picture of an all-singing, all-fucking, totally cool/anthing goes realtionship. We're human after all with human feelings of jealousy, confusion, uncertainty etc! BUT.....with him I am more open, more sexually responsive and more honest than I've EVER been in a relationship with a lover and that's pretty good going. My sexual desire for him only grows with time, not dwindles as is common, and I'm sure that's down to our honest communication and the sense of trust and fun we share.
Good luck with your wife and in finding the greater freedom to express yourself in your life.....we've only got the one after all!!!!!!
~Dominant Goddess~
Pbjenni,
Thanks for your articulate post, which has good depth and shows very good insight. Regarding your comment:
Elise Sutton's website
Elise Sutton's Female Superiority Page
and her two books
"Female Domination," 2003, 298 pp.
"The FemDom Experience," 2006, 317 pp.
may be of some assistance to you and your wife (if you haven't read them already). Ms. Elise's books are available through well-known online distributors, and can also be ordered from the publisher via her website.
—Custer
Thanks for your articulate post, which has good depth and shows very good insight. Regarding your comment:
pbjenni said:
Elise Sutton's website
Elise Sutton's Female Superiority Page
and her two books
"Female Domination," 2003, 298 pp.
"The FemDom Experience," 2006, 317 pp.
may be of some assistance to you and your wife (if you haven't read them already). Ms. Elise's books are available through well-known online distributors, and can also be ordered from the publisher via her website.
—Custer
