Years ago and suspicions today

[Regn]

Even if she isn't doing anything it's hot thinking about what could be happening. I think about my wife meeting guys behind my back like that and jerk off to it all the time.

I think you hit the point right on. I never knew about the cuckoldings I was getting from my ex. (She did taunt me with hints, but I was too good a denial to admit to myself what was happening behind my back, anyway she would claim she was joking if I took it too seriously.) But thinking about what was happening back then is prime jerk material today. A few photos of the ex in the days when she was busy making me a cuckold (and by a photographer who then cuckolded me too!).

 

[Hawkdoctor]

I think you hit the point right on. I never knew about the cuckoldings I was getting from my ex. (She did taunt me with hints, but I was too good a denial to admit to myself what was happening behind my back, anyway she would claim she was joking if I took it too seriously.) But thinking about what was happening back then is prime jerk material today. A few photos of the ex in the days when she was busy making me a cuckold (and by a photographer who then cuckolded me too!).

Wow. Very sexy. Love the thick bush!

 

[Hawkdoctor]

Well, well, she went to get something for a funeral for my sister-in-law's sister. That was four hours ago. I checked our debit card and credit card and nothing shows up. Hmm! I'll question her again concerning what took so long. I'm convinced she is getting satisfied even though she won't admit it. Very strange since I told her she could fuck other guys if she just let me know.

 

[Hawkdoctor]

An update. The truth has finally come out. I pressed her again and this time I mentioned her soiled panties I found a couple of weeks ago in the laundry basket. She has seen a guy that was a good friend of a couple that we run around with. She was having coffee with the wife of that couple one day and he joined them. One thing led to another and she admitted to "visiting/fucking" him three different times. He is a widower and is close to our age.

I feel much better about this now and gave her permission to "help him out" but to let me know. I'm not mad, more relieved, because I told her she could be with other guys! Mystery solved!

 

[Hawkdoctor]

Much like I thought, she didn't want to hurt my feelings.

 

[Hawkdoctor]

I'll feel you in how sex goes tonight (maybe). She may want to make it up to me. Maybe some cum left in there?

 

[Hawkdoctor]

All I can say is it was an enjoyable night.

 

[Hawkdoctor]

Several have commented on my dilemma. Read up a little higher for the "confession." Love to hear your comments.

 

[Sandy Row]

if she is cheating there is nothing you can do to stop her' it is too late. Assume she does and enjoy ot, it means she is healthy and active. Enjoy her as much as possible and let he enjoy herself

Exactly the correct advice.

 

[Sandy Row]

Good advice. I'm actually happy for her. Just own up to it and l et me know when it's going to happen. Maybe I would take part, watch, or film it.

Some women aren't comfortable owning up to it, cheating is part of the thrill and knowing their husband is aware and giving his approval is a complete turn off for them.

My wife would never admit to it even though the evidence was irrefutable, after a while I just left to her to go out and enjoy herself.

A cheating wife is much more of a turn on for me than a hotwife.

 

[Hawkdoctor]

Thanks for the comments. She was beyond making it up to me last night. I told her she could she him when it worked but just let me know. He is a good guy.

 

[Hawkdoctor]

One thing I left out was when I said how would you feel if I was sleeping with other women? She said, "well I guess that is only fair if you've given me permission. When you think about it we've been married well over four decades. Very unlikely to end the marriage.

 

[Hawkdoctor]

As I posted earlier she admitted that she had been seeing a friend of a couple we socialize with. He lost his wife six months ago and is 5 years younger that us. She admitted fucking him three times. The wife of the couple, we are friends with, and my wife were having coffee one day and he was in the same restaurant. He joined them and that is how it started. One thing led to another and it ended in his bedroom.

Yesterday was a football day for me and a day my wife goes "shopping." She told me her new friend suggested that she come over today. I said go ahead and have fun but you're mine tonight. She smiled and kissed me goodbye. She walked in the door after about three hours with a smile on her face. Her luscious, natural pussy ended up being used twice on Sunday.

I found out more about the new friend. His wife was ill for almost three years so obviously a sexless marriage. She passed six months ago and he has pretty much kept to himself. I asked her if she told him I know all about it. She said she told him I was fine with it when they set up todays fling. She's hesitant to discuss or describe what he does/she does other than he is a little younger. I've seen him and he is pretty fit and good looking.

After we fucked on Sunday night she asked me what she should say if he asks her to spend the night. I don't know. What do posters thing I should do? I'm not too crazy about that. Sound like she is fucking his wheels off in the four times they have rolled in the sack!

 

[Sandy Row]

It's the next logical step in the progression of her affair, let her enjoy herself for god sake.

Maybe she'll be like my wife and just phone you up one night and tell you she's not coming home tonight, and even if you stomp your feet and demand she get home she'll just calmly say 'No,I'll see you tomorrow',like mine did

 

[Regn]

A "role in the sack" as you describe it certainly qualifies you as a cuckold, but from my experience a range of the individual types of some guy having your wive only adds to the pang. She should have him for a full night to see what he can do. You've got to know what you're up against.

 

[Hawkdoctor]

He asked her to go to dinner with him as a “thank you” for being a friend in need. She is much more sexually aggressive with me, initiating sex. I use to have to start things. Now she come to bed naked when she never did that for years.

 

[MySharedCreamyMilf]

Some women aren't comfortable owning up to it, cheating is part of the thrill and knowing their husband is aware and giving his approval is a complete turn off for them.

My wife would never admit to it even though the evidence was irrefutable, after a while I just left to her to go out and enjoy herself.

A cheating wife is much more of a turn on for me than a hotwife.

You are so so true. For some it’s a mixture of the excitement of the lies and double life. It’s a part of them but they don’t necessarily want it to be open and so judged by it. This is especially true if they have family and the bull is black. It’s living seperate lives and that gives her a bit of escapism. You may feel you want definate confirmation but in reality nearly always if you suspect, listen to your intuition. And as long as you let her run with it, you will still be able to fuck her. If you get confirmation there is the real possibility she will cut you out and give it solely to her bull. All fine if you want some pussy free deal but if you want to enjoy that cheating slut used pussy, maybe silence is best.

 

[Hawkdoctor]

You are so so true. For some it’s a mixture of the excitement of the lies and double life. It’s a part of them but they don’t necessarily want it to be open and so judged by it. This is especially true if they have family and the bull is black. It’s living seperate lives and that gives her a bit of escapism. You may feel you want definate confirmation but in reality nearly always if you suspect, listen to your intuition. And as long as you let her run with it, you will still be able to fuck her. If you get confirmation there is the real possibility she will cut you out and give it solely to her bull. All fine if you want some pussy free deal but if you want to enjoy that cheating slut used pussy, maybe silence is best.

Since this came to a head she is much more sexually aggressive with me. Come to be naked, strokes my cock when I’m reading in bed, and we fuck much more often. Maybe her way of showing appreciation. He asked her to go to dinner as a thank you for being a friend in need.

 

[Regn]

You are so so true. For some it’s a mixture of the excitement of the lies and double life. It’s a part of them but they don’t necessarily want it to be open and so judged by it. This is especially true if they have family and the bull is black. It’s living seperate lives and that gives her a bit of escapism. You may feel you want definate confirmation but in reality nearly always if you suspect, listen to your intuition. And as long as you let her run with it, you will still be able to fuck her. If you get confirmation there is the real possibility she will cut you out and give it solely to her bull. All fine if you want some pussy free deal but if you want to enjoy that cheating slut used pussy, maybe silence is best.

I would add that there is a real edge to the condition the "suspecting" cuck finds himself in. For me, I was very good at denial, since I didn't want to admit to myself the embarrassment that some guys were regularly enjoying my ex. But she clearly liked the idea of keeping my in a state of suspicion, taunting me with hints, but then claiming she was just joking if I took it too seriously. The terrific pay back comes when (years later for me) the cuckold finally has to admit it to himself (and others) that he has been cuckolded. The turn-on then is not to be believed!

 

[Hawkdoctor]

My hope this is going to end in swapping or a 3-way. I will get to surprise her that I’m bi when I clean both up after sex.