Wife has a boyfriend, keeps me in diapers

[msbevw]

The circle of people knowing about our lifestyle choices is growing constantly. Samantha and Travis now know about Linda and Jim being a couple as well as my baby lifestyle. Their daughter, Trudy, has babysat me 3 times now. And she brought Megan over to see me in baby mode and has also told her friend and fellow babysitter, Beth, and her boyfriend. So that's 6 more people that are in the know. I am sure that more will find out this weekend at the picnic. I am glad the picnic is not at our house (it's at Jim's) or I'm sure that there would be a parade of people coming through my nursery to check it out.

 

[AZLizanne]

The small circle of people who knew of Jim and Linda's relationship as well as baby's status has know grown and after the party would grow considerably larger. How would Jim, Linda and baby handle more people knowing and to what extent would baby's lifestyle be ******* to family, friends and neighbors?
It's quite apparent that Mommy Linda makes all the decisions in the household and everyone seems to abide by them. Baby being dismissed by mommy because the grownups had things to discuss further lower her status to that of just a toddler sent to her room by her mother. Obediently baby obeyed and was led away by Trudy. Interestingly was Travis calling Samantha back from accompanying Trudy and baby to the nursery so that they could talk to Jim and Linda about possibly opening up their marriage. Were they trying to test the waters of whether Jim and Linda trading partners? If so Linda made it clear that she was a one man woman.
With the party upcoming it will be interesting to see how mommy dresses baby? Will she go as an infant in a cute baby dress so her ruffled rumba panties are on display or will she let baby go as an adult wearing a diaper underneath? Will Trudy be hired to attend to the baby while mommy and daddy enjoy the party as a couple and if so will Trudy be told to take baby home because her bedtime was approaching?

 

[SquirmingSub]

The circle of people knowing about our lifestyle choices is growing constantly. Samantha and Travis now know about Linda and Jim being a couple as well as my baby lifestyle. Their daughter, Trudy, has babysat me 3 times now. And she brought Megan over to see me in baby mode and has also told her friend and fellow babysitter, Beth, and her boyfriend.

You are likely at a point of no return when it comes to people within your immediate social and family circles knowing about your respective lifestyle choices and preferences. Consider whom all now are in the know, you are on point that many others could/would know over time.

So that's 6 more people that are in the know. I am sure that more will find out this weekend at the picnic. I am glad the picnic is not at our house (it's at Jim's) or I'm sure that there would be a parade of people coming through my nursery to check it out.

Now that Linda and Jim have come out as a couple to Samantha and Travis, will the upcoming picnic this weekend also be used as a coming out for Linda and Jim as a couple to all of neighbor's in attendance? I hosted a similar activity (cookout style event) with my prior wife back in '03 when she and a boyfriend came out as a couple to our respective family and friends. As to everyone now becoming aware of your preferences, you are on point that it is good that everything is out Jim's house as everyone likely would have seen your nursery first hand if it had been hosted at your house.

 

[SquirmingSub]

With the party upcoming it will be interesting to see how mommy dresses baby? Will she go as an infant in a cute baby dress so her ruffled rumba panties are on display or will she let baby go as an adult wearing a diaper underneath? Will Trudy be hired to attend to the baby while mommy and daddy enjoy the party as a couple and if so will Trudy be told to take baby home because her bedtime was approaching?

Clearly two (2) very different yet layered lifestyle choices present within their marriage. It is one thing for Linda and Jim to come our to the neighbors as a couple, and another thing to introduce Baby Bev to the neighbors as the new baby at home.

I have to admit I was curious also, will Linda permit Baby Bev to attend the picnic in adult attire with baby clothing underneath or with she dress Baby Bev in baby items for a much more public outing of sorts. As you pointed out, in either clothing scenario, would Linda and Jim have Trudy take Baby Bev back to the house for nap-time and or bedtime if the event goes into the evening.

 

[AZLizanne]

Is Linda is having an influence on Trudy's mindset as she is looking forward to dating "a lot" in college but planning on staying with he current boyfriend through their last year of high school. Not that Linda is having sex currently with different people but was dating Jim and Rob at that same time. Maybe the whole situation with Jim and Linda is having an influence over others in the neighborhood as Samantha and Travis are talking about "opening" their marriage.
How exciting that Jim was making baby wait in the car while he went back inside to have a "quickie" with Linda! It seems that mommy and daddy need to have their special moments whenever the mood strikes and baby is just ****** to sit and wait just like any other baby who has no say in things. When do you think daddy will start bringing baby's diaper bag to the golf course and change a soggy baby during or after a round? I wonder if daddy makes baby ride in the bad seat as children should not be permitted to ride in the front and does he bring a bottle or pacifier for baby in the car?
Nothing has been said about Jim using baby's "special skills" after Daddy Mark brought then to his attention. What about Mommy Karen and Daddy Mark, didn't baby just spend a few days with them?

 

[msbevw]

I guess it’s about time that I reported in about the neighborhood picnic last weekend. First, it was a huge success for the neighborhood as it marked the 1-year anniversary of the Derecho windstorm that devastated our area last year. The neighborhood has recovered nicely thanks to all the pulling together of our neighbors helping each other out. This picnic was a celebration of neighbor helping neighbor and everyone came ready to party!

Linda, Jim, and I were very busy from early morning to late into the evening working on setting up, serving, and making sure everyone had a good time. Weather was perfect for drinking, eating, dancing, and swimming… and just about everyone did lots of all that.

Most of the time the three of us were separate doing our assigned duties. Jim was in charge of grilling and smoking meat, Linda was handling food serving and entertainment, and I was bartending and making sure the keg of beer kept flowing. So there was little time for any of us interacting. That meant that Jim and Linda were not being seen as a dating couple and I was out of baby mode. There were a few times that Jim and Linda were in the kitchen of Jim’s house and managed to sneak in a few kisses, but there were no public displays of affection between them. And I was dressed in normal adult clothes that covered the fact that I was also diapered all day. That means that our secrets went unnoticed and undiscover for the most part. There were a few times that Linda dance with Jim, but she also danced with several of the other neighborhood men along with me, so no one noticed anything passing between them. In fact, at one time Linda and I were standing together when Samantha came by and mentioned that our secrets were staying secret from the crowd.

Trudy, Megan, and Beth were there and came up to me a few times to see if I needed a diaper change. And when I did, the three of them proceeded to ****** me into Jim’s house and my nursery room there for a quick change. Trudy’s boyfriend came by briefly, but when he discovered that I wouldn’t let him sneak a beer from the keg, he left, exclaiming that this party was lame. I think Trudy was glad he left.

Since I was “allowed” to stay up past my bedtime to help with the cleanup, the babysitters left without being able to preform any more sitting duties.

So all of my worries about our secrets becoming known to the entire neighborhood, went up in smoke like a few of the forgotten wieners on the grill. I know many of you will be disappointed that secrets remained secrets for now. But not to worry, there’s enough snoops around that it won’t be long before Linda and Jim’s relationship and my lifestyle choice will be discovered by other parties, I’m sure.

 

[SquirmingSub]

I guess it’s about time that I reported in about the neighborhood picnic last weekend. First, it was a huge success for the neighborhood as it marked the 1-year anniversary of the Derecho windstorm that devastated our area last year. The neighborhood has recovered nicely thanks to all the pulling together of our neighbors helping each other out. This picnic was a celebration of neighbor helping neighbor and everyone came ready to party!

It is always good with neighbor come together celebrate as a group.

Linda, Jim, and I were very busy from early morning to late into the evening working on setting up, serving, and making sure everyone had a good time. Weather was perfect for drinking, eating, dancing, and swimming… and just about everyone did lots of all that.

Most of the time the three of us were separate doing our assigned duties. Jim was in charge of grilling and smoking meat, Linda was handling food serving and entertainment, and I was bartending and making sure the keg of beer kept flowing. So there was little time for any of us interacting. That meant that Jim and Linda were not being seen as a dating couple and I was out of baby mode. There were a few times that Jim and Linda were in the kitchen of Jim’s house and managed to sneak in a few kisses, but there were no public displays of affection between them. And I was dressed in normal adult clothes that covered the fact that I was also diapered all day. That means that our secrets went unnoticed and undiscovered for the most part. There were a few times that Linda dance with Jim, but she also danced with several of the other neighborhood men along with me, so no one noticed anything passing between them. In fact, at one time Linda and I were standing together when Samantha came by and mentioned that our secrets were staying secret from the crowd.

Nothing wrong with a generally typical event. The alternative lifestyle is not for everyone and is not as if you have to ****** it to all, some aspects of it will become neighborhood gossip soon enough as neighborhoods do talk as someone will out Jim and Linda.

Trudy, Megan, and Beth were there and came up to me a few times to see if I needed a diaper change. And when I did, the three of them proceeded to ****** me into Jim’s house and my nursery room there for a quick change. Trudy’s boyfriend came by briefly, but when he discovered that I wouldn’t let him sneak a beer from the keg, he left, exclaiming that this party was lame. I think Trudy was glad he left.

Considering that you were in the diaper the entire time, it was good that you had some one checking on you and taking care of it.

Since I was “allowed” to stay up past my bedtime to help with the cleanup, the babysitters left without being able to preform any more sitting duties.

I bet that was the latest that you have been up in a while.

So all of my worries about our secrets becoming known to the entire neighborhood, went up in smoke like a few of the forgotten wieners on the grill. I know many of you will be disappointed that secrets remained secrets for now. But not to worry, there’s enough snoops around that it won’t be long before Linda and Jim’s relationship and my lifestyle choice will be discovered by other parties, I’m sure.

The more Jim and Linda are out in the open, she sooner you will all be outed.

 

[AZLizanne]

It was nice that the party went well and the neighborhood experienced some well deserved rewards after what has been a tough year. And while it seems that everyone's secrets remained safe for the moment just how long before they are ******* to the neighborhood? Will it be Trudy's boyfriend, who went away mad because he wanted to sneak a beer and was caught blabbing about Jim and Linda's relationship or that there is an adult baby in the neighborhood. Or will it be Trudy and her girlfriends who share baby's secret with their other friends? Or maybe someone picked up on how the girls paid a bit more attention to baby although she was dressed in grown up attire or how the escorted baby to her nursery in Jim's house? Could one of the partiers have stumbled across the nursery while wandering around the house looks for a bathroom and will question why Jim has a nursery in his house? Just how long before one of their secrets gets out and which one will it be?

 

[msbevw]

Latest update is that Linda and Jim have been together since the picnic last month. Jim has pretty much moved into our house and has taken over as the head of household. Between the two of them, they leave no decision making up to me and he has taken over all of my chores here as well as at his house. The other night I overheard them talking about maybe they should sell one of the houses and move into the other permanently. I didn't think that things had progressed that far, but it shows how much I am out of the loop now.
Other than my job, I am in baby mode pretty much full time and am surrounded by people who like it that way. During the daytime I am dropped off at Karen and Mark's house after I finish my work and as Linda and Jim head out to their jobs. Mommy Karen is home most week days. And when she has to go out her mother comes over to babysit me so I am never left alone.
Jim usually picks me up after work as he gets home before Linda usually. When we get home he puts me in front of the TV watching baby programs as he putters around the house. If he has to go over to his house he calls Trudy or Megan to come babysit me until Linda gets home. Then, as soon as dinner is over, I am changed for bed and get to sit with the grownups until 9:00. I have found that if there is any serious discussions for Linda and Jim to have that they wait until after I am put to bed so they don't talk in front of me.
Samantha told Linda that the relationship between Linda and Jim has not gone unnoticed. Two neighborhood women have asked Samantha if something is going on between Linda and Jim. I guess they picked up something at the picnic or have notice that Jim is over here all of the time. One of the women knows someone from Linda's work place and ask her if she knew what was going one. So now there's a chance that news of their relationship will soon be known at her office as well. And I think that Jim hasn't been too discrete at the golf course and may have been bragging it up a little bit there as well.

 

[SquirmingSub]

Latest update is that Linda and Jim have been together since the picnic last month. Jim has pretty much moved into our house and has taken over as the head of household. Between the two of them, they leave no decision making up to me and he has taken over all of my chores here as well as at his house. The other night I overheard them talking about maybe they should sell one of the houses and move into the other permanently. I didn't think that things had progressed that far, but it shows how much I am out of the loop now.

It does indeed sounds as if Linda and Jim have developed a close connection and their relationship has truly evolved into something much deeper then you likely ever expected it to become. Looking in from the outside, does make a person wonder how close they may have been before making the leap to explore each other sexually and much more intimately. As noted, it would seem that their relationship has truly progressed since those initial meetings. Does your adult children know about the relationship?

Other than my job, I am in baby mode pretty much full time and am surrounded by people who like it that way. During the daytime I am dropped off at Karen and Mark's house after I finish my work and as Linda and Jim head out to their jobs. Mommy Karen is home most week days. And when she has to go out her mother comes over to babysit me so I am never left alone.

Sounds reasonable considering your lifestyle preference. You are embracing the lifestyle choice with the help of those around you that are seemingly very supportive of the same.

Jim usually picks me up after work as he gets home before Linda usually. When we get home he puts me in front of the TV watching baby programs as he putters around the house. If he has to go over to his house he calls Trudy or Megan to come babysit me until Linda gets home. Then, as soon as dinner is over, I am changed for bed and get to sit with the grownups until 9:00.

So how does it truly feel to be accepted completely within your preferred lifestyle choice by Linda and her newest partner, a man that was once your friend, a man that is now her partner in many ways?

I have found that if there is any serious discussions for Linda and Jim to have that they wait until after I am put to bed so they don't talk in front of me.

Considering your hierarchical position within the evolving relationship dynamic, being excluded from the much more serious discussions could be much more naturally in line with the direction of expanding relationship.

Samantha told Linda that the relationship between Linda and Jim has not gone unnoticed. Two neighborhood women have asked Samantha if something is going on between Linda and Jim. I guess they picked up something at the picnic or have notice that Jim is over here all of the time. One of the women knows someone from Linda's work place and ask her if she knew what was going one. So now there's a chance that news of their relationship will soon be known at her office as well. And I think that Jim hasn't been too discrete at the golf course and may have been bragging it up a little bit there as well.

With Linda and Jim being out in the open with their relationship within the neighborhood, each of you had to know that it would be noticed by one or more of the local neighborhood busy bodies, that would stir the pot as opposed to being supportive. As noted, while it will become common knowledge within the neighborhood, as you mentioned it could also become common knowledge within Linda's work place also if it is not already.

 

[AZLizanne]

It seems that your preferred baby lifestyle that Miss Linda agreed to let you live truly fits into hersy where she has a grown mate which that role is being filled by your old friend Mr. Jim. The fact that their relationship has grown to where there is a discussion about selling one of the homes and all moving into one is more than just something casual. A discussion where you had no part in as you've now been moved into your preferred baby status.
You are dropped off at Karen's and Mark's just like it was daycare and Miss Karen has her mother babysitting if she needs to go out. Then Daddy Jim picks up baby and brings her home where you are changed and put in your playpen to watch children's shows and play with your baby toys while daddy takes care of things around the house. Mommy comes home for dinner, then the whole family sits and watches tv, baby is put to bed in her nursery while mommy and daddy retire to their bedroom to do adult things that baby wouldn't understand. Baby is never out of site of an adult or left alone so she now in true baby status in which she seems quite happy being.
It's obvious that their relationship is in serious mode and as it becomes common knowledge in the neighborhood as well as mommy's workplace I see her sitting baby down in the near future to discuss an un contested divorce so she is free to marry Mr. Jim and now the new happy couple is free to adopt Baby Bev as their own child to create a new family where everyone is in their preferred roles. It will be interesting watching everything unfold and how people react to the new family dynamics with there being an adult baby.

 

[msbevw]

Just learned that our daughter will be coming home for the weekend. She knew about Linda and her former boyfriend (Tom). Now she will learn all about Jim as well. And of course she is excited about seeing her dad still being a baby. Maybe Linda and Jim will leave me in her care for awhile and she can babysit me. Looks to be an interesting weekend ahead.

 

[Custer Laststand]

Just learned that our daughter will be coming home for the weekend. She knew about Linda and her former boyfriend (Tom). Now she will learn all about Jim as well. And of course she is excited about seeing her dad still being a baby. Maybe Linda and Jim will leave me in her care for awhile and she can babysit me. Looks to be an interesting weekend ahead.

Good to hear that your and your sexy wife Ms. Linda's daughter accepts your status as Ms. Linda's diapered-and-cuckolded adult baby, and Ms. Linda's status as your adult baby mother (ABM). And, it's good to hear you are looking forward to the possibility of your daughter babysitting you while your cuckodress and ABM Ms. Linda is out fucking your friend Jim (at his nearby house in your neighborhood, presumably).

On a related topic: it's been a while, now (this being 9 Sept. 2021), since Ms. Linda's lover Jim and your sexy cuckoldress and ABM Ms. Linda and you hosted a summer neighborhood barbecue, at which your neighbors did not wear masks and practice "social distancing" (presumably), and may or may not have been vaccinated against the coronavirus. Given the greatly-increased contagiousness of the delta-variant, have some... or perhaps many... of those who attended your barbecue now developed Covid-19?

 

[Custer Laststand]

Trudy and her friend Megan stopped by last night at 7:00. It was just Linda and me at home as Jim wasn't staying here last night. The girls had baked cookies and wanted to bring me some. We knew it was just an excuse for Trudy to bring Megan over to meet the Baby. ..........
Linda said to Trudy, "I understand you had a lot of questions about me dating Jim while being married to Baby." With that the three of them left me in the nursery and went into the living room to have a long discussion. Linda filled the girls in on what a female-led relationship is all about as well as her views on female domination as well as submission to a dominate male. I'm sure the girls got a real education last night. And I never got a cookie!

All good. It's very positive for teenage girls to learn first-hand, from an adult married woman, about the desirability of a female-led a.k.a. FemDom marriage, in which the wife is dominant and keeps her submissive husband in diapers and treats him as an adult baby, while maintaining greatly-increased sexual pleasure (for herself) by dating, seducing and fucking other men — your friend and neighbor Jim, in this case, among Ms. Linda's earlier lovers.

 

[msbevw]

Good to hear that your and your sexy wife Ms. Linda's daughter accepts your status as Ms. Linda's diapered-and-cuckolded adult baby, and Ms. Linda's status as your adult baby mother (ABM). And, it's good to hear you are looking forward to the possibility of your daughter babysitting you while your cuckodress and ABM Ms. Linda is out fucking your friend Jim (at his nearby house in your neighborhood, presumably).

On a related topic: it's been a while, now (this being 9 Sept. 2021), since Ms. Linda's lover Jim and your sexy cuckoldress and ABM Ms. Linda and you hosted a summer neighborhood barbecue, at which your neighbors did not wear masks and practice "social distancing" (presumably), and may or may not have been vaccinated against the coronavirus. Given the greatly-increased contagiousness of the delta-variant, have some... or perhaps many... of those who attended your barbecue now developed Covid-19?

Good question. We have been monitoring this closely as well. Fortunately every neighbor attending the picnic had been vaccinated and no one has developed Covid since the picnic. Our area of the state leads the rest of the state in percentage vaccinated and our state is one of the best in the nation for being vaccinated. That said, anyone reading this if you haven't been vaccinated yet, get it done immediately. I lost one family member to Covid 19 last year. It's terrible and not to be taken lightly. Believe the science and get your shots.

 

[AZLizanne]

Good question. We have been monitoring this closely as well. Fortunately every neighbor attending the picnic had been vaccinated and no one has developed Covid since the picnic. Our area of the state leads the rest of the state in percentage vaccinated and our state is one of the best in the nation for being vaccinated. That said, anyone reading this if you haven't been vaccinated yet, get it done immediately. I lost one family member to Covid 19 last year. It's terrible and not to be taken lightly. Believe the science and get your shots.

I'm glad to hear that everyone who attended the party was vaccinated and no one is showing signs of coming down with covid. If we as a nation ever hope to stop all variants of covid we must all get vaccinated. Too many have died and more will die that don't trust the science and get vaccinated. I understand everyone has a right to choose but why would you want to take the chance of getting ill and dying.

 

[SquirmingSub]

I lost one family member to Covid 19 last year. It's terrible and not to be taken lightly. Believe the science and get your shots.

Sorry to hear that you have lost of family member to Covid last year. You are on point in that it's a terrible health crisis and it has impacted some more then others. In a nut shell, we ALL should be taken better care of ourselves. Many of the same precautions recommended for Covid are similar precautions that should be taken in general when in a group of people. I do believe that the vaccination does seem to minimize the overall impact of the virus on an individual. As far as 'trust the science', that is truly subjective.

 

[AZLizanne]

All good. It's very positive for teenage girls to learn first-hand, from an adult married woman, about the desirability of a female-led a.k.a. FemDom marriage, in which the wife is dominant and keeps her submissive husband in diapers and treats him as an adult baby, while maintaining greatly-increased sexual pleasure (for herself) by dating, seducing and fucking other men — your friend and neighbor Jim, in this case, among Ms. Linda's earlier lovers.

What a great role model for these young girls to learn first hand from Ms. Linda about leading a FLM and keeping her submissive husband in his proper place while maintaining a sexually active lifestyle with her lovers and in Mr. Jim's case, may turn into her future husband. Meanwhile her diapered husband slips more and more into adult baby girl status and has teenage girls babysitting her which leaves Ms. Linda and Mr. Jim more time to solidify their relationship. I still think it's important that baby is started on low doses of female hormones to greatly reduce any male urges that are still occurring especially when being changed by teenage girls. Babies should not have orgasms and should be 'milked" to drain any unwanted boy juices from baby. Mama and dada should be the only ones in the family having orgasms and baby's clit should be locked in chastity eliminating any unauthorized drainings into a soft, fluffy diaper which can be too big of temptation for baby to ignore.

 

[Custer Laststand]

Good question. We have been monitoring this closely as well. Fortunately every neighbor attending the picnic had been vaccinated and no one has developed Covid since the picnic.

Good.

Our area of the state leads the rest of the state in percentage vaccinated.

Very good. My area of my state, which has a lot of political and religious conservatives, is third from the bottom (state-wide) in percentage of people fully vaccinated against the coronavirus. A whole lot of people in my area just don't get it.

And, our state is one of the best in the nation for being vaccinated.

Excellent. Congratulations to the residents of your state.

That said, to anyone reading this: if you haven't been vaccinated yet, get it done immediately. I lost one family member to Covid 19 last year. It's terrible and not to be taken lightly. Believe the science and get your shots.

Yes, absolutely. You have it right.

 

[daveaby]

A few months back my wife told me that since I couldn’t satisfy her anymore that she was going to get a boyfriend who would. And she did. The reason I can’t satisfy her is that my fantasy life has evolved into me being an adult baby who wears diapers, plastic pants, and sissy dresses. I prefer that role instead of being a husband and making love to my wife.
We were talking last night and I mentioned that I really had no idea how many times she and her boyfriend have had sex (she insists on calling it making love). She told me the following…
They waited until the third date to have full sex… nothing more that a kiss on the first and some mutual touching on the second. Then after the third date they went back to his place and had sex in his bed. She came home afterwards and told me about it. Since then they have been back to his place 3 times, had sex here once when I was gone and once when I was here but in another room, and twice in a hotel room when they went away for a weekend. She recently told me that they have also had sex in a movie theater during a matinee show when they were the only ones in that theater (they loved those reclining seats)!
So they have had sex at least 9 times in the last 3 months. I asked her what the future looked like. She said that she doesn’t plan on stopping as she likes this new arrangement. And since I am so immersed into my baby world she doesn’t see that changing anytime soon. She said that her boyfriend preferred me being a sissy baby and wanted me to be in that roll whenever he is around. And she said that he would be around a lot more so I should get used to it. It was his idea for him to change my diaper the other night so I would get used to him being the man of the house. For a Christmas present he gave me a pacifier that says “I heart Daddy”!

You are very lucky. This would be a dream come true for me. I also cannot satisfy my wife and spend most of my time diapered. It has been almost 4 years since I have been permitted to have intercourse with my wife. I really want her to find a real man to satisfy her and they can make me their full time baby.