Wife has a boyfriend, keeps me in diapers

[Custer Laststand]

You are very lucky. This would be a dream come true for me. I also cannot satisfy my wife and spend most of my time diapered.

Does your wife keep you diapered to keep you reminded of your status in her marriage?

Or, does she keep you diapered for a practical reason — such as, you wet yourself and wet the bed if she doesn't?

It has been almost 4 years since I have been permitted to have intercourse with my wife.

Have you considered suggesting to your wife she permit you to use your tongue to satisfy her...?

I really want her to find a real man to satisfy her.

Have you considered using the Internet to search for a lover for your wife? Or, does she not seem to like sexual intercourse at all...?

And, they can make me their full-time baby.

I suppose becoming your adult baby mother (ABM), with you her adult baby, would be something your wife would have to want to do. But, if she keeps you diapered most of the time, it sounds like your wife is most of the way there.

 

[msbevw]

Here's what the tattoo looks like.

[ Aug 26, 2020 Linda and i were finally home alone last night. It's been 2 weeks since the storm hit us knocking out our power and internet service. Power came on after nearly a week without it. Linda chose this time to stay with Tom while I stayed home. I only saw her a couple of times during the last 2 weeks.
We didn't talk about her staying with Tom much, just caught up on household stuff. But then she shocked me!
She was getting ready to take a shower and called me into the bathroom. She had her back to me when I entered, then without saying a word, she turned to face me and I saw it. She had gotten a tattoo just above her pussy!
It is a decorative heart and fancy "T". She is permanently marked by Tom.
She told me about getting it done while she was behind the shower curtain so she wouldn't have to face me. I stood there totally shocked. I can't believe she got it done without discussing it with me first. I got a close up look at it when she stepped out of the shower. All I could say was "very nice ".And then the next shock. She smiled and said "you're next]

A little over a year ago Linda got a tattoo above her pussy per her boyfriend at that time (Tom). They have since broke up and she is now with Jim. Jim wants to alter her tattoo to his name and thinks it would be easy to spell out 'Jim'. I tried to tell her to have it altered to just be a generic tattoo and not a name permanently displayed. Tom was a bull and very much into the ownership lifestyle with us. Jim is not that way and is more interested in a loving relationship with Linda. However, he does not like seeing Tom's tattoo on Linda as a constant reminder of their previous relationship.

 

[Custer Laststand]

[ Aug 26, 2020 .And then the next shock. She smiled and said, "you're next."

I would not suggest agreeing to any tattoos you don't want. I hope you didn't.

I tried to tell [my hotwife and adult baby mother Ms. Linda] to have [her tattoo] altered to just be a generic tattoo and not a name permanently displayed. .......... [Ms. Linda's current lover Jim] does not like seeing Tom's tattoo on Linda as a constant reminder of her previous relationship [with Tom].

These are good points for Ms. Linda to consider.

 

[SquirmingSub]

A little over a year ago Linda got a tattoo above her pussy per her boyfriend at that time (Tom). They have since broke up and she is now with Jim. Jim wants to alter her tattoo to his name and thinks it would be easy to spell out 'Jim'.

It is understandable that Jim is requesting that Linda consider changing the tattoo. Although, I always thought the the 'T' looked more like a 'J'.... It could easily be updated to reflect Jim as opposed to Tom, and just maybe it was a telling sign.

I tried to tell her to have it altered to just be a generic tattoo and not a name permanently displayed.

There is something to be said about a person going generic as opposed to being very specific.

Tom was a bull and very much into the ownership lifestyle with us. Jim is not that way and is more interested in a loving relationship with Linda. However, he does not like seeing Tom's tattoo on Linda as a constant reminder of their previous relationship.

I will say that I agree with @Custer Laststand on the point that people should not get a tattoo that is not wanted. With that said, while you should be able to provide input into what goes on your body, considering your relationship dynamic with Linda, you really do not have much influence on what she does with her body. As you have made it clear, Linda's relationship with Jim is very different then her prior relationship with Tom.

How do you feel this would impact their relationship?

 

[maresi simone]

I still think it's important that baby is started on low doses of female hormones to greatly reduce any male urges that are still occurring especially when being changed by teenage girls.

Well, this is a very sound argument, lizanne!

A baby doesn't have to have any male urges and either the male hormones should be reduced or the female hormones increased. So i see either an orchiectomy or a hormonal castration for baby bev...! And yes, it's just the best for her teenage babysitters when it is done very soon and very consequently...

Babies should not have orgasms and should be 'milked" to drain any unwanted boy juices from baby.

Thinking about the 'draining' i guess you don't argue for bev's 'clitoral' stimulation but for her 'vaginal', am i right lizanne? Since in this case i'd see some training ahead for little bev...

But being used to deal with an adult baby gurl bev's babysitters for sure won't hesitate to help her with some dildos and plugs...! No, i believe that neither Gramma nor Trudy and beth should have any problem with helping her to drain her sissy juices since this has nothing to do with any sexual interaction...! Instead it is a normal treatment while taking care of a baby gurl ... almost like wiping it dry and oiling it up before it is powdered and put into diapers...

And yes, this kind of draining is a very good way to confirm bev's permanent status as Mama Linda's and Daddy Jim's little baby if it is also done right in front of Them...

Mama and dada should be the only ones in the family having orgasms and baby's clit should be locked in chastity eliminating any unauthorized drainings into a soft, fluffy diaper which can be too big of temptation for baby to ignore.

Yes, lizanne! i can tell from my ver own experience how big this temptation can be when you are in soft and fluffy diapers and simply need a draining... But at least for me diaper humping is not that easy when you are locked in a good chastity cage and don't have a butt plug inside...

And that's why bev's dildo training should be only applied when she stays under the direct view of her babysitters or her new Parents or her older sister Miss Kim...!

 

[AZLizanne]

Well, this is a very sound argument, lizanne!

A baby doesn't have to have any male urges and either the male hormones should be reduced or the female hormones increased. So i see either an orchiectomy or a hormonal castration for baby bev...! And yes, it's just the best for her teenage babysitters when it is done very soon and very consequently...



Thinking about the 'draining' i guess you don't argue for bev's 'clitoral' stimulation but for her 'vaginal', am i right lizanne? Since in this case i'd see some training ahead for little bev...

But being used to deal with an adult baby gurl bev's babysitters for sure won't hesitate to help her with some dildos and plugs...! No, i believe that neither Gramma nor Trudy and beth should have any problem with helping her to drain her sissy juices since this has nothing to do with any sexual interaction...! Instead it is a normal treatment while taking care of a baby gurl ... almost like wiping it dry and oiling it up before it is powdered and put into diapers...

And yes, this kind of draining is a very good way to confirm bev's permanent status as Mama Linda's and Daddy Jim's little baby if it is also done right in front of Them...



Yes, lizanne! i can tell from my ver own experience how big this temptation can be when you are in soft and fluffy diapers and simply need a draining... But at least for me diaper humping is not that easy when you are locked in a good chastity cage and don't have a butt plug inside...

And that's why bev's dildo training should be only applied when she stays under the direct view of her babysitters or her new Parents or her older sister Miss Kim...!

Yes, exactly! Baby Bev should be kept locked and plugged to further immerse into full baby status as she desired instead of having an adult relationship with her wife who has found a lover to fill the role s/he vacated. I don't think baby expected Mommy Linda to find love with baby's best friend who has embraced her baby status as much as he's embraced the role of Mommy Linda's lover and most likely head of the household. It's interesting as more and more people have become involved in maintaining baby's chosen lifestyle to the point where baby is never without some sort of adult supervision as if baby was in daycare how readily accepting they've been. It's as though having an adult baby is common place.
How long before Jim and Linda's relationship and baby bev's status is well known throughout the neighborhood and will everyone accept this new family dynamic as easily as everyone else has?

 

[msbevw]

Just learned that our daughter will be coming home for the weekend. She knew about Linda and her former boyfriend (Tom). Now she will learn all about Jim as well. And of course she is excited about seeing her dad still being a baby. Maybe Linda and Jim will leave me in her care for awhile and she can babysit me. Looks to be an interesting weekend ahead.

I guess it's time I reported back on our daughter Kim's visit home two weeks ago. She was here for 4 days so was able to really see what's been going on in our family dynamics. Of course she knows Jim as he has been our neighbor and my close friend for many years. She was happy to see that her mother was dating him after breaking up with Tom. And she had lots to say about Tom to Linda and I.
The reason Linda broke it off with Tom was because he had suggested to Linda that he wanted to have Kim get involved with he and Linda in the bedroom. That was too much for Linda and she told him to get lost. Unbeknownst to us, Tom has called Kim several times and tried to get her to come visit him alone. Kim was pretty freaked out by this and has not encouraged it at all. She says Tom is a creep and she wants nothing to do with him. Linda and I were very happy to hear that Kim had put him in his place. Plus I said that I know Tom through work and will put an end to his calling Kim or he will lose his job.
Kim had fun babysitting me and dressing me in baby outfits while she was here. It's really strange to have your daughter change your diapers. She also knows the neighbor girls, Trudy and Megan, who have babysat with me. She got together with them on Saturday and had fun sharing stories and ideas with them on her big baby dad. The morning she left she dropped me off at Mommy Karen's house so she could see the nursery that they set up for me. Kim and Karen talked for over an hour so Kim is fully up to date on everything going on.
Kim seemed to be comfortable with Jim being around all weekend and even commented on how he had taken my place at the head of the table when we sat down to eat. She even joked that she might have to start calling him Daddy. It's had for her to think of me as her daddy as she held me each night and fed me my nighttime bottle.

 

[AZLizanne]

Oh how wonderful that Miss Kim has accepted Jim as Linda's new man, the new man of the house who she is beginning to think of him as "daddy" and baby bev as her little sister. Just like any big sister she babysits, dresses her, changes baby's diapers and feeds her. What a nice big sister. Even meeting with Trudy and her girlfriends as well as Mommy Karen to hear how everyone is taking turns caring for her baby sister and giving them her ideas on things to do with baby.
How long before baby slips more into her infantile persona and away from adulthood? Who will be the first to introduce chastity into baby's life to stop those old male urges that occur especially during diaper changes? Or will female hormones be introduced to start baby's transition to full fledged female status.

 

[msbevw]

More neighbors are about to know that my wife, Linda, is dating my best friend, Jim. Our neighbors, Samantha and Travis, invited Linda and Jim to come over Saturday night to play cards. There will be 2 other couples from the neighborhood there as well. So that means more neighbors will know for sure that Linda is seeing Jim with my full knowledge.
Meanwhile I will be home and Trudy is coming to babysit me. She said she might be bringing Beth and Megan with her. It looks to be an interesting weekend for all of us.

 

[AZLizanne]

More neighbors are about to know that my wife, Linda, is dating my best friend, Jim. Our neighbors, Samantha and Travis, invited Linda and Jim to come over Saturday night to play cards. There will be 2 other couples from the neighborhood there as well. So that means more neighbors will know for sure that Linda is seeing Jim with my full knowledge.
Meanwhile I will be home and Trudy is coming to babysit me. She said she might be bringing Beth and Megan with her. It looks to be an interesting weekend for all of us.

Very exciting to think about how the night will progress and how much will be shared about Ms. Linda and Mr. Jim's relationship and how Linda's husband was handling it? Will Ms. Linda explain how she has an open marriage due to her husband's preferred baby lifestyle? Or that her husband affectionally known now as Baby Bev was home being babysat by Samantha and Travis' daughter Trudy and and her girlfriends. Would they clarify to what extent "babysitting" involved? I'm sure there will be many questions about Ms. Linda's and Mr. Jim's relationship and Baby Bev's preferred lifestyle. Many questions but I'm curious about how deep Baby Bev has grown into life as an baby girl? It seems she spends the bulk of her time as a toddler or infant than an adult and it has to be her more natural state now.

 

[SquirmingSub]

More neighbors are about to know that my wife, Linda, is dating my best friend, Jim. Our neighbors, Samantha and Travis, invited Linda and Jim to come over Saturday night to play cards. There will be 2 other couples from the neighborhood there as well. So that means more neighbors will know for sure that Linda is seeing Jim with my full knowledge.

It is good to see that Linda and Jim have reach a point were they are so comfortable and committed within their relationship that they can be out in the open, to be able to be so public with there relationship can be liberating for a couple. It is good with the couple can socialize with other couples as a couple. Good that they all know that the couple has your encouragement and full knowledge.

Meanwhile I will be home and Trudy is coming to babysit me. She said she might be bringing Beth and Megan with her. It looks to be an interesting weekend for all of us.

Considering your relationship dynamic, you being left at home with a sitter seems as though it would be a good thing for you.

 

[AZLizanne]

It is good to see that Linda and Jim have reach a point were they are so comfortable and committed within their relationship that they can be out in the open, to be able to be so public with there relationship can be liberating for a couple. It is good with the couple can socialize with other couples as a couple. Good that they all know that the couple has your encouragement and full knowledge.


Considering your relationship dynamic, you being left at home with a sitter seems as though it would be a good thing for you.

Always being under the supervision of an adult or babysitter should be the norm for Baby Bev and no alone time even if acting as a adult. The real question is when will Mommy Linda finally stop baby from having orgasms since she prefers being a baby. Chastity seems to be the perfect solution unless starting hormone therapy to kill any male urges and start baby on a path to growing up as a female.

 

[SquirmingSub]

Always being under the supervision of an adult or babysitter should be the norm for Baby Bev and no alone time even if acting as a adult. The real question is when will Mommy Linda finally stop baby from having orgasms since she prefers being a baby. Chastity seems to be the perfect solution unless starting hormone therapy to kill any male urges and start baby on a path to growing up as a female.

Considering the nature of the dynamic, you mentioned some options for the future, if the options are between a chastity device and hormone therapy, personally I think Baby Bev would be best served with the hormone therapy considering the use of the diapers and overall direction as a feminine leaning baby.

 

[msbevw]

I have been spending every day at Mommy Karen's. Mommy Linda drops me off in the morning and Daddy Jim picks me up in the afternoon. I know he takes great joy in asking me about my day, knowing that it is spent doing mostly baby things. And he like teasing me about my diaper usage while there. He was really happy when Mommy Karen showed him a list that she found that deals with taking an adult baby out shopping. They both agree that it should be put to use next time she takes me to the mall. She and her mother (Gramma) plan on taking me shopping next week.
Here's the list...

If you want to stay little when we go out, I will gladly oblige by…

• Ordering your food for you.
• Making you ask mommy’s permission properly for every little thing…To get a drink. To go to the bathroom. To try on a dress. To chew a piece of gum…
• Telling you when you’ve had enough to drink.
• Opening your doors.
• Making you hold Mommy’s hand everywhere.
• Making you respond when I give instructions or questions with “Yes, Mommy.”
• Calling you “Princess” or “Baby” in front of people.
• Sometimes telling you no because “you’re just a little baby girl.”
• Asking you out loud if your diaper is wet, and making you answer out loud.

 

[AZLizanne]

I have been spending every day at Mommy Karen's. Mommy Linda drops me off in the morning and Daddy Jim picks me up in the afternoon. I know he takes great joy in asking me about my day, knowing that it is spent doing mostly baby things. And he like teasing me about my diaper usage while there. He was really happy when Mommy Karen showed him a list that she found that deals with taking an adult baby out shopping. They both agree that it should be put to use next time she takes me to the mall. She and her mother (Gramma) plan on taking me shopping next week.
Here's the list...

If you want to stay little when we go out, I will gladly oblige by…

• Ordering your food for you.
• Making you ask mommy’s permission properly for every little thing…To get a drink. To go to the bathroom. To try on a dress. To chew a piece of gum…
• Telling you when you’ve had enough to drink.
• Opening your doors.
• Making you hold Mommy’s hand everywhere.
• Making you respond when I give instructions or questions with “Yes, Mommy.”
• Calling you “Princess” or “Baby” in front of people.
• Sometimes telling you no because “you’re just a little baby girl.”
• Asking you out loud if your diaper is wet, and making you answer out loud.

The list is perfect and would suggest that baby be rewarded for being a good little girl by being able to pick out a baby toy, doll or stuffed animal fitting someone of toddler age.
I might also point out that since baby goes through some many diapers a day that mommy and daddy should switch to cloth diapers and plastic panties. Much more cost effective, better for the environment and even more babyish. They could contract with a diaper service and since it's probably going to be neighborhood public knowledge after this weekend that Ms. Linda is mommy to an adult baby why not have fresh cloth diapers delivered weekly. I imagine that baby would enjoy a soft, fluffy cloth diaper being pinned on her and even more so when she runs her baby clittie against her hands, mattress or stuffed animals like other babies. But this baby knows what she's doing and should be stopped by using a pretty pink chastity.

 

[SquirmingSub]

I have been spending every day at Mommy Karen's. Mommy Linda drops me off in the morning and Daddy Jim picks me up in the afternoon. I know he takes great joy in asking me about my day, knowing that it is spent doing mostly baby things. And he like teasing me about my diaper usage while there. He was really happy when Mommy Karen showed him a list that she found that deals with taking an adult baby out shopping. They both agree that it should be put to use next time she takes me to the mall. She and her mother (Gramma) plan on taking me shopping next week.
Here's the list...

If you want to stay little when we go out, I will gladly oblige by…

• Ordering your food for you.
• Making you ask mommy’s permission properly for every little thing…To get a drink. To go to the bathroom. To try on a dress. To chew a piece of gum…
• Telling you when you’ve had enough to drink.
• Opening your doors.
• Making you hold Mommy’s hand everywhere.
• Making you respond when I give instructions or questions with “Yes, Mommy.”
• Calling you “Princess” or “Baby” in front of people.
• Sometimes telling you no because “you’re just a little baby girl.”
• Asking you out loud if your diaper is wet, and making you answer out loud.

So which is the most exciting for you, the neighborhood knowing about Linda and Jim or those same people knowing about your preferred lifestyle?

 

[msbevw]

After this past weekend, our lifestyles are known to several more people. Linda and Jim attended a card game at Samantha’s house. She and her husband had invited two more couple to join the four of them to play bridge. Linda told me that the other two couples asked where I was and why Jim was there. Linda informed them that she and Jim are dating while I am at home with Samantha’s daughter babysitting me. So over the course of the evening Linda and Jim were questioned at length about what was going on and it all came out and was discussed in full. I am sure those neighbors will be tell the rest of the neighborhood very soon what’s going on in our household. Can it be long before it gets back to our places of work as well?

Meanwhile, I was at home with my babysitters, Trudy and Lisa, fully enjoying my baby role while two teenage girls diapered, fed, read stories, and dressed me in several baby girl outfits. Before dark, we sat outside on our porch while Trudy’s boyfriend and three of his fellow football friends came by to talk to the girls and tease me constantly. I was happy when they finally left and we returned inside.

Tomorrow Mommy Karen and Gramma are taking me shopping!

 

[AZLizanne]

After this past weekend, our lifestyles are known to several more people. Linda and Jim attended a card game at Samantha’s house. She and her husband had invited two more couple to join the four of them to play bridge. Linda told me that the other two couples asked where I was and why Jim was there. Linda informed them that she and Jim are dating while I am at home with Samantha’s daughter babysitting me. So over the course of the evening Linda and Jim were questioned at length about what was going on and it all came out and was discussed in full. I am sure those neighbors will be tell the rest of the neighborhood very soon what’s going on in our household. Can it be long before it gets back to our places of work as well?

Meanwhile, I was at home with my babysitters, Trudy and Lisa, fully enjoying my baby role while two teenage girls diapered, fed, read stories, and dressed me in several baby girl outfits. Before dark, we sat outside on our porch while Trudy’s boyfriend and three of his fellow football friends came by to talk to the girls and tease me constantly. I was happy when they finally left and we returned inside.

Tomorrow Mommy Karen and Gramma are taking me shopping!

So the ongoing relationship between Mommy Linda and Daddy Jim has become common knowledge as well as baby's chosen lifestyle in the neighborhood by two more couples who will undoubtedly share them with other neighbors as well as friends. Add to it that Trudy and Lisa's boyfriends and their friends know of an adult male dressing and babysat as a baby girl is going to spread through the school and back to their homes.
I think most are likely to just accept the relationship as a somewhat common place romance with a supportive or cuckold husband but the news that the husband has chosen to adopt a lifestyle that has him living as an adult baby girl is going to be breaking news.
It seems that mommy and daddy are treating their baby girl as they would any two year old toddler by keeping her under constant supervision by an adult or teenage babysitter. How much of an adult life does baby even exist in anymore? Has her adult clothing disappeared or been modified to reflect her babyish state? Does Daddy Jim take baby out to play golf anymore or does daddy take baby to a playground to play on swings and other playground equipment? I wonder where Mommy Karen and Gramma took baby shopping and for what? New baby dresses and rompers or maybe some new baby toys? I definitely think that baby's diapers be switched to cloth diapers and a diaper service contracted to deliver fresh, clean diapers every week.

 

[leahswannabe]

Two weeks since your last update. What's been going on?

 

[msbevw]

Two weeks since your last update. What's been going on?

Life goes on, and most of the time, it’s pretty routine and uneventful. That has been the case for most of October, I’m afraid. Boring!!

I was taken on a shopping outing by Mommy Karen and her mother recently. Nothing outstanding took place during the outing, just shopping a few stores for baby-related items. I’m happy to report that, for me, it was pretty uneventful as neither of them did anything to draw attention to the fact they were shopping for baby supplies for an adult baby.

Linda and Jim are together pretty much full time when not working. The one big news is that they are planning a week-long trip in a few weeks to Las Vegas with Samantha and Travis. They will be leaving me in the care of Mommy Karen and Daddy Mark during their absence. I’m sure Daddy Mark is looking forward to having me in his “care” for a full uninterrupted week.