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Wife has a boyfriend, keeps me in diapers
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Last night after Tom gave me my nightly spanking and I slid off his lap, ready to place a kiss on the tip of his ******* cock, Linda told me to suck it and make him cum. As I was sucking his cock I heard Linda say "I love you." I looked up expecting to see her looking at me. but she was kissing Tom and saying "I love you" to him That was the first time I had heard her say that to him and I was kind of shocked. But not much I could do about it as I had Tom's cock in my mouth at the time. She said it like it was the most natural thing in the world. I wasn't ready for that, but guess I should have been.
msbevw said:
Your position within the relationship (Tom/Linda/Bev) has been established and naturally progressing at this point. How does it feel to know that Tom and Linda are so close? Many men are okay with their wives having sex with other men while being scared of their wives developing an emotional bond. Personally I find the emotional bond that much more exciting as it does add to the dynamic.
The emotional bond does scare me a little. I wasn't expecting to hear her say that to him, though I'm sure that she has said it many times before. That's just the first time I have heard her exclaim her love for Tom. and on top of that she has told me that she wants to spend more time alone with Tom and is planning on spending Friday, Saturday, and Sunday with him, I just found out. So I know it's more than just sex between them. And I know that she sees Tom as having taken over the role of man of the house, and almost like her husband now instead of me. It's Tom that she wants to be intimate with, to go out and be seen in public with, and be close with. And since she has seen me (and pushed me) to have oral sex with Tom, I'm not really sure how she sees me now. I know she definately doesn't see me as her husband anymore and is happy to see me in diapers and assuming a baby role most of the time. One of her friends (Karen) and her husband know about my baby side... can it be much longer before others will know, including our Kids and our family??SquirmingSub said:
I am in similar situation I am always diapered when daddy is with us. I hear my wife and daddy say I love you all the time. For me it makes me feel secure. I know my wife loves me but in different way and hearing them tell each other they love each let’s me know my wife is being fulfilled. The strangest thing was me telling daddy I love you, it just kind of slipped out when I was being put to bed my wife said it was bedtime So after she changed me she said to give daddy a kiss goodnight as was usual I went over and kissed his cheek and said good night daddy I love you. It was just a natural reaction I think he was more surprised then me he said I love you too cynthia good night. My wife couldn’t stop smiling,,msbevw said:
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msbevw said:
It is truly understandable that the emotional bond between Linda and Tom would scare you on some level. If you truly were not expecting to hear Linda express herself so openly to Tom in your presence I can see where those expressions of emotions would concern you, even scare you. As you mentioned, it is likely that they have shared expressions of love to each other considering were they seemed to be within their relationship and wanted to come out publicly.
While it also may be uncomfortable in the early stage, it is good that Linda is being honest and open with you about her feelings and desires as it relates to Tom. While my current wife has not yet spent an extended weekend with another man, my prior wife would routinely have extended weekend visits and other creative arrangements with her long-term lovers. She would also keep essentials at the other man’s house and in one case, she even moved in nearly half of her wardrobe. So I do understand those feelings that you are having when you realize that Linda and Tom have a deeper connection between them, that is much more than simply sex only.
As your aware, your approach to the lifestyle begun with Baby Bev and Cuckolding followed. Based on some of your prior remarks, Linda did not sleep around with multiple men, she found ‘Mr. Right’ and has committed to him. In many ways you have experienced what you asked for, to be able to fully embrace being Baby Bev and you encouraged Linda to see her sexual gratification from another man. She has since done just that and yes, I would agree with you that Linda does likely see Tom has being the Man within your marriage. She has accepted your more subordinate role and, in many ways, yes Tom has been assuming more of the husband responsibilities and benefits alike.
Once a wife, sees and accepts that you enjoy doing things that she perceives as less manly, submissive, etc., she will gravitate more towards the Alpha Man, in this case happens to be Tom. Yes that would includes Linda’s desire to be much more intimate with Tom. As you have realized, something that many of this forum to not realize is that intimacy takes on many forms and when we speak of intimacy we are not simply talking about sex, we are talking about all form of sexual and non-sexual intimacy. As the intimacy evolves, and deepens, yes they will want to go out and be seen in public with, and be close with each other as you have described.
As the more submissive within the marriage at this point, giving Tom oral is a submissive act and it may have confirmed to Linda that she does not and will not see you as an equal partner, or be sexually attracted to you. Although I have a feeling this began to change when she embraced you as Baby Bev before the introduction of Tom within the marriage. It is something that you two should talk about in the future so that you both will have a better understanding of how each of you feel.
As to your last point, are you truly concerned about what others think? Linda was the one that seemed to be more concerned about your baby side being ******* to others although if your concerned that your adult kids and associated family will find out from someone from the outside, you and Linda may want to discussion options and ways to bring them more in the loop before it gets out.
I am having mixed feelings here. On one hand I knew that there was a chance others would find out about Linda and Tom and I would be ******* as an accepting cuckold husband. Part of me realized the chance of this this and expected it, but part of me hoped it would stay private. Now I know that it is becoming public and will escalate with time. And then on the other hand is my baby world that I want to keep private and hidden. I know the outside world is aware and understands cuckolding and open marriages. However, a grown man acting and dressing as a baby is not something most of the outside world ever expects to witness and will not be accepting of that man or that lifestyle choice. My kids seem to be okay with their mom seeing another man as long as it doesn't destroy our marriage. But they wouldn't be so understanding of their father playing baby dress up while this is going on. The world will understand unfaithful wives but will mock and ridicule fetish lifestyle choices like mine.
Linda has moved on with Tom while now firmly placing me no longer in the role of her husband. I see that growing daily as she openly shows her love for Tom and takes him as the man in her life. And she reinforces that I have moved to a submissive infantile role to the extent that she openly accepts and expects me to provide oral service to her man. She no longer turns to me to help make decisions in our life. If she has a question it's Tom's answer she seeks now.
I have accepted these changes, even to the extent of providing oral service to Tom when requested. Will more be expected of me and will I so eagerly accept and participate in any further developments? Time will tell but my feeling is that there is more to come.
Linda has moved on with Tom while now firmly placing me no longer in the role of her husband. I see that growing daily as she openly shows her love for Tom and takes him as the man in her life. And she reinforces that I have moved to a submissive infantile role to the extent that she openly accepts and expects me to provide oral service to her man. She no longer turns to me to help make decisions in our life. If she has a question it's Tom's answer she seeks now.
I have accepted these changes, even to the extent of providing oral service to Tom when requested. Will more be expected of me and will I so eagerly accept and participate in any further developments? Time will tell but my feeling is that there is more to come.
I just got a message from Karen telling me to pack several baby outfits and diapers for staying the weekend at her house. She said she had baby bottles, formula, and baby food for me so I didn't have to pack that. But what shocked me is what she finished her message with... "Linda tells me that you and Tom have nightly ritual. Maybe my husband would be interested in trying it."
Good. That's very considerate of Ms. Karen.msbevw said:
Hey.... why not? Perhaps it would enable Ms. Karen's husband to feel more comfortable with you spending all that time with his wife Ms. Karen (albeit with her in her role as your "babysitter"), if he makes it clear in that way that he is the "dominant man" in his and Ms. Karen's household.msbevw said:
It was a long and interesting weekend for all parties involved!
Friday afternoon Linda called me into the nursery where she had an outfit spread out on the baby bed for me. She instructed me to get undressed while she got my diaper and plastic diaper cover ready for me. Once diapered, she showed me the sissy baby dress she had chosen for me to wear to Karen’s house. Once dressed, I was the very definition of a sissy baby from head to toe. Then she marched me into the living room, gave me a bottle of warm formula (yuck!), and told me to sit and watch cartoons until Karen came to get me. Then Linda left to go get ready for her weekend.
I heard a car door close and a moment later the front door open and in walked Tom. He laughed out loud when he saw how I was dressed and told me to be good for Karen and Mike and obey everything they told me. Then he headed for the bedroom where Linda was dressing.
A few minutes later I heard another car door and in walked Karen. She also laughed out loud when she saw how I was dressed. She asked where Linda was and I replied simply that she was getting dressed. Before I could say anything further, she headed for the master bedroom. I heard her exclaim “Oops, sorry!”, followed by Linda and Tom laughing as Karen came back into the living room blushing.
“I guess we should head out and not bother them anymore,” she replied as she took my hand and led me to the door. She called out “We’re leaving. Have a good weekend.” And Linda called back “you too. Baby, you be good. See you Sunday night.”
And just like that I found myself out in front of my house in a shocking sissy outfit for all the neighbors to see. Karen opened the rear door of her car and held my hand as I climbed in the backseat. She fastened my seatbelt and put my half finished bottle into my mouth, telling me to drink it on the drive. Five minutes later we were at her house and, again, I was standing outside dressed in a pink baby dress for all the world to see.
And then my weekend really began.
Friday afternoon Linda called me into the nursery where she had an outfit spread out on the baby bed for me. She instructed me to get undressed while she got my diaper and plastic diaper cover ready for me. Once diapered, she showed me the sissy baby dress she had chosen for me to wear to Karen’s house. Once dressed, I was the very definition of a sissy baby from head to toe. Then she marched me into the living room, gave me a bottle of warm formula (yuck!), and told me to sit and watch cartoons until Karen came to get me. Then Linda left to go get ready for her weekend.
I heard a car door close and a moment later the front door open and in walked Tom. He laughed out loud when he saw how I was dressed and told me to be good for Karen and Mike and obey everything they told me. Then he headed for the bedroom where Linda was dressing.
A few minutes later I heard another car door and in walked Karen. She also laughed out loud when she saw how I was dressed. She asked where Linda was and I replied simply that she was getting dressed. Before I could say anything further, she headed for the master bedroom. I heard her exclaim “Oops, sorry!”, followed by Linda and Tom laughing as Karen came back into the living room blushing.
“I guess we should head out and not bother them anymore,” she replied as she took my hand and led me to the door. She called out “We’re leaving. Have a good weekend.” And Linda called back “you too. Baby, you be good. See you Sunday night.”
And just like that I found myself out in front of my house in a shocking sissy outfit for all the neighbors to see. Karen opened the rear door of her car and held my hand as I climbed in the backseat. She fastened my seatbelt and put my half finished bottle into my mouth, telling me to drink it on the drive. Five minutes later we were at her house and, again, I was standing outside dressed in a pink baby dress for all the world to see.
And then my weekend really began.
When we finally got home Sunday night, I asked Linda about her weekend. She laughed and said that they didn’t get out of the house as early as they had planned Friday night. After Karen had walked in on them making love, they took awhile to get back into it fully and finish. Then they showered together and finally dressed for dinner. She said they had a romantic dinner at a local steakhouse, then went to Tom’s house and took advantage of his hot tub. She took great pride in telling me how Tom sat her on the side of the tub and made love to her under the stars before they went to bed. She said she woke Tom around mid-morning Saturday with a long, sensuous blow job and he returned the favor.
It shocked me when she said they went to the country club and ate lunch before playing a round of golf. I can only image how many of our friends saw them together. Then she shocked me even more when she said they paired up with her boss and his wife for their round of golf. So now her boss knows she is seeing Tom as well. She said he never asked where I was, and even bought the 4-some drinks in the club house after their round like it was the most natural thing. She said that Tom invited them to come to his house for more drinks but, fortunately, they declined.
Sunday Tom took Linda on a bike ride on one of the local trails. Afterwards, they returned to Tom’s for more sex and another shower before she came to pick me up at Karen’s.
It shocked me when she said they went to the country club and ate lunch before playing a round of golf. I can only image how many of our friends saw them together. Then she shocked me even more when she said they paired up with her boss and his wife for their round of golf. So now her boss knows she is seeing Tom as well. She said he never asked where I was, and even bought the 4-some drinks in the club house after their round like it was the most natural thing. She said that Tom invited them to come to his house for more drinks but, fortunately, they declined.
Sunday Tom took Linda on a bike ride on one of the local trails. Afterwards, they returned to Tom’s for more sex and another shower before she came to pick me up at Karen’s.
Baby Bev’s weekend was 48 hours of total immersion into baby world. Karen was fully into her role as my babysitter and did not want to deviate from that all weekend. So I was diapered and fully treated as a baby the entire time I was there, well almost.
When we got to her house, her husband, Mike, greeted us at the door and told me that Karen was really looking forward to having a baby around all weekend. The first thing Karen did was stop me and check to see if my diaper needed changing. I had wet it slightly during the drive over but it wasn’t really to the point of needing to be changed. However, Karen decided that I needed to start off with a dry diaper so she could gauge how often I needed to be changed since I wasn’t allowed to tell her or ask to be change while in her care. Mike followed us into the nursery that Karen had set up for me and watched as she had me lay on the baby bed and pull up my dress and remove my plastic diaper cover and wet diaper.
Mike exclaimed that he always thought he would be jealous of seeing his wife stripping another man of his clothes, but that wasn’t the case with me as he saw me as no threat to their marriage. He stood next to her as she used the baby wipes to clean me, then powdered me and reapplied the new diaper. I was embarrassed to be laying there fully ******* as he watched his wife perform this intimate act on me.
Karen said “watch closely Mike. I expect you to be changing diapers before the weekend is over.”
Mike answered, “maybe. But not dirty ones.”
When Karen finished, she had Mike help me off the bed and take me out to the back yard while she cleaned up the changing area. He told me that he couldn’t believe how well I acted as a baby and that he expected me to do as Karen told me all weekend.
They had a fenced in backyard with a no neighbors close by, so it was a private place to be even though it was outside. There was a blanket spread out on the patio along with some baby toys and I was instructed to sit and play. He went inside. When they both came out a few minutes later Mike had a beer and Karen had a bottle of milk for me to drink. We stayed outside until dinner time. Dinner consisted of baby food and mushed up vegetables. I was given a spoon, but Karen insisted on feeding me my meal.
After dinner I was given a bath and told I would be dressed for bed right after. Karen had me walk naked from the bathroom to the nursery where Mike sat on the bed waiting.
“I understand from Tom that there is a nightly ritual that must be followed,” Tom said as he patted his lap, indicating that I was to lay across it. I looked at Karen for help, but she just smiled and nodded her approval. “Mike has been looking forward to this,” she informed me.
I took my place on Mike’s lap and he proceeded to apply 10 firm swats. Finished with the spanking, he nudged me and I slid off onto the floor at his feet. He then unbuckled his pants and slid both pants and underwear down over his knees. His cock had started to grow as he placed his hand on it and pointed it towards me. I knew he expected me to kiss it, so I leaned forward and placed my lips on its tip.
“I won’t make you suck me tonight as it’s your first night here. But tomorrow night I want to see if what Tom says about your cock sucking skills is true,” Mike stated. Then he got up and redressed as I laid on the bed and Karen got me ready for bed. They both took turns kissing me on my forehead before leaving the room. It took me awhile to fall asleep as I thought about what the next day would bring.
I won’t bore you with the mundane things that took place the rest of the weekend as I stayed in baby mode and Karen fully immersed in her babysitter role. But I will admit that Mike did get to experience my oral talent fully the following night, the only time I was allowed to break
When we got to her house, her husband, Mike, greeted us at the door and told me that Karen was really looking forward to having a baby around all weekend. The first thing Karen did was stop me and check to see if my diaper needed changing. I had wet it slightly during the drive over but it wasn’t really to the point of needing to be changed. However, Karen decided that I needed to start off with a dry diaper so she could gauge how often I needed to be changed since I wasn’t allowed to tell her or ask to be change while in her care. Mike followed us into the nursery that Karen had set up for me and watched as she had me lay on the baby bed and pull up my dress and remove my plastic diaper cover and wet diaper.
Mike exclaimed that he always thought he would be jealous of seeing his wife stripping another man of his clothes, but that wasn’t the case with me as he saw me as no threat to their marriage. He stood next to her as she used the baby wipes to clean me, then powdered me and reapplied the new diaper. I was embarrassed to be laying there fully ******* as he watched his wife perform this intimate act on me.
Karen said “watch closely Mike. I expect you to be changing diapers before the weekend is over.”
Mike answered, “maybe. But not dirty ones.”
When Karen finished, she had Mike help me off the bed and take me out to the back yard while she cleaned up the changing area. He told me that he couldn’t believe how well I acted as a baby and that he expected me to do as Karen told me all weekend.
They had a fenced in backyard with a no neighbors close by, so it was a private place to be even though it was outside. There was a blanket spread out on the patio along with some baby toys and I was instructed to sit and play. He went inside. When they both came out a few minutes later Mike had a beer and Karen had a bottle of milk for me to drink. We stayed outside until dinner time. Dinner consisted of baby food and mushed up vegetables. I was given a spoon, but Karen insisted on feeding me my meal.
After dinner I was given a bath and told I would be dressed for bed right after. Karen had me walk naked from the bathroom to the nursery where Mike sat on the bed waiting.
“I understand from Tom that there is a nightly ritual that must be followed,” Tom said as he patted his lap, indicating that I was to lay across it. I looked at Karen for help, but she just smiled and nodded her approval. “Mike has been looking forward to this,” she informed me.
I took my place on Mike’s lap and he proceeded to apply 10 firm swats. Finished with the spanking, he nudged me and I slid off onto the floor at his feet. He then unbuckled his pants and slid both pants and underwear down over his knees. His cock had started to grow as he placed his hand on it and pointed it towards me. I knew he expected me to kiss it, so I leaned forward and placed my lips on its tip.
“I won’t make you suck me tonight as it’s your first night here. But tomorrow night I want to see if what Tom says about your cock sucking skills is true,” Mike stated. Then he got up and redressed as I laid on the bed and Karen got me ready for bed. They both took turns kissing me on my forehead before leaving the room. It took me awhile to fall asleep as I thought about what the next day would bring.
I won’t bore you with the mundane things that took place the rest of the weekend as I stayed in baby mode and Karen fully immersed in her babysitter role. But I will admit that Mike did get to experience my oral talent fully the following night, the only time I was allowed to break
Tom is 2 years younger than us so not an age difference. From what I am seeing lately, I expect Linda wanting to spend more time alone with Tom. So I don't expect him to move in here but it wouldn't surprise me if Linda continues to spend more time alone at his place. She recently said she wanted to spend a few days a week alone with him and I expect that to continue to increase as time goes on. I hope she doesn't move in with him!sissyjamie said:
And Tom has already become the man of our house. I expect our children may realize that soon as well.
