What life experiences formed your desires to share your wife?

[AaronT]

Epiphany: Youthful on/off again relationship played a factor in making me want to share and “normalize” sex with others. Infidelity has completely destroyed that.

Hi, not sure I completely understand. Was your wife unfaithful? Did she do it without you? Or are you saying that infidelity in general has ruined most people’s desire to share their spouse (which I agree).

Your tag line says you want to secret share her.

I am not judging, just trying to understand.

Hope you will explain more. Thanks!

 

[paulandlexij]

Have you actually shared her only want too? How old are you now.

Great answer to the question BTW.

No haven't shared her but have wanted to since we were 15. We are now her 48 and me 54. I have permitted a young guy about 20 years younger than her, massage her nude body and do everything except fuck her. He touched her everywhere, sucked her tits, he gave her a really good fingering and ate her out, licking and sucking her from her arsehole to sucking and nibbling her clit. She sucked his cock, but chickened out of letting him fuck her unfortunately.

 

[AaronT]

No haven't shared her but have wanted to since we were 15. We are now her 48 and me 54. I have permitted a young guy about 20 years younger than her, massage her nude body and do everything except fuck her. He touched her everywhere, sucked her tits, he gave her a really good fingering and ate her out, licking and sucking her from her arsehole to sucking and nibbling her clit. She sucked his cock, but chickened out of letting him fuck her unfortunately.

That is quite a lot!! Congrats on sharing her. Her sucking cock is exciting.

Thank you for sharing!

 

[eastbeasts]

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Tbh, I think it’s a trauma response to our younger days of on again/off again relationship. In my stupid youth I split up with her to “bang other girls” and she in turn found other guys. Yea we were apart but she was mine before and mine after so knowing there was a “middle” guy really got to me. Immature and unrealistic? Maybe. But it hurt then and I think my mind/heart wanted a way to cope. One day, I realized I liked the idea of “sharing” her (MFM style not cuck). Now… nothing’s changed, I still hate knowing she “gave herself” the to other men separate from me. But I desperately desire the opportunity to share her.

Maybe I’m just beyond messed up at this point lol.

I had a similar experience. Told her I wanted to explore and meet new girls. She told me she already fucked another guy. When I came two days later to pick up my stuff, I found multiple used condoms in the bin. She didn’t wait at all, just found and fucked any other guys she could and it hurt in such a unique way.