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what do you get out of the chasity bit??
- Thread starterjbrowning
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Gang-bang to show me who was boss
She did the public gang-bang to prove that if I wanted to fuck around then she could outplay me anytime she wanted to.
There's also so much more humiliation for a man whose wife fucks around and publicly gets gang-banged than there is for a wife whose husband does the odd woman. Also she was getting it bareback and I had to use condoms with the women I fucked.
jbrowning said:i'd been fucking just to piss her off. then compare her to others
She did the public gang-bang to prove that if I wanted to fuck around then she could outplay me anytime she wanted to.
There's also so much more humiliation for a man whose wife fucks around and publicly gets gang-banged than there is for a wife whose husband does the odd woman. Also she was getting it bareback and I had to use condoms with the women I fucked.
I need to add
For me her fucking around was much better than I first believed that she was frigid or secretly gay. I was sort of pleased she became so slutty and hoped she screw that phase out of herself and then turn to me.
I just didn't realise at the time I thought she was frigid ~ she was screwing around and all that happned is she got tired hiding it from me.
AngleBaby said:
For me her fucking around was much better than I first believed that she was frigid or secretly gay. I was sort of pleased she became so slutty and hoped she screw that phase out of herself and then turn to me.
I just didn't realise at the time I thought she was frigid ~ she was screwing around and all that happned is she got tired hiding it from me.
i had a buddy i your position she fucked around held out on him in public she made a comment about it. he turned around and said you filthy ***** i wouldn't fuck you i'm afraid of what i'd catch
goddamn she was pissed they divorced shortly after that. he moved on and is doing pretty good she on the other hand can't keep a man and can't keep a job.she better enjoy her prime because she'll end up old and alone
goddamn she was pissed they divorced shortly after that. he moved on and is doing pretty good she on the other hand can't keep a man and can't keep a job.she better enjoy her prime because she'll end up old and aloneI agree there are many types of cuckoldry, but do we have a right to say one type is better than an another? If a cuck does not like what is happening to him, HE COULD WALK out the door and embrace another relationship. Plenty of men have lost all their wealth and started off fresh again and rebuilt and been eventually much better off.
Young women do not know what there is OUT THERE in the world, and after a few years of marriage they notice more opportunities.
Is it okay for a man and wife to re-negotiate their wedding vows to add more fun into the marriage?
"to the exclusion of others" could be set aside if both are willing to share their unmet needs and work out to help each other achieve the new goals of the marriage.
Young women do not know what there is OUT THERE in the world, and after a few years of marriage they notice more opportunities.
Is it okay for a man and wife to re-negotiate their wedding vows to add more fun into the marriage?
"to the exclusion of others" could be set aside if both are willing to share their unmet needs and work out to help each other achieve the new goals of the marriage.
But that implies there are emotional highs acting as counterparts to the emotional lows. For lifelong, it has been one long low that ended in divorce and given a choice, he would not have lived a cuckolds life.
But the question is, knowing the story as it is now, would you go back and marry her again?
But the question is, knowing the story as it is now, would you go back and marry her again?
Wife's remarriage
My wife is due to remarry her lover of the past 8 years next month and has even chosen our wedding date for her remarriage.
jbrowning said:i had a buddy i your position she fucked around held out on him in public she made a comment about it. he turned around and said you filthy ***** i wouldn't fuck you i'm afraid of what i'd catch
My wife is due to remarry her lover of the past 8 years next month and has even chosen our wedding date for her remarriage.
Once a cuckold always a cuckold
I feel if I can find someone who will accept me now for the cockless cuckold I am then it will only work sexually for her if she cuckolds me.
Plus I'm so conditioned as a cuckold, I only get aroused by thinking of other men fucking my woman to orgasm, doing for her what I can't. My biggest turn on is her expression as she cums with another man's cock filling her pussy.
With these recent photos I'm very unsure of ever finding anohter partner to accept me as I am.
AngleBaby said:
I feel if I can find someone who will accept me now for the cockless cuckold I am then it will only work sexually for her if she cuckolds me.
Plus I'm so conditioned as a cuckold, I only get aroused by thinking of other men fucking my woman to orgasm, doing for her what I can't. My biggest turn on is her expression as she cums with another man's cock filling her pussy.
With these recent photos I'm very unsure of ever finding anohter partner to accept me as I am.
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Last useable erection
This is a photo of me with my last useable erection which was 3 years ago, now I don't get erections, I haven't had one in 18 months, also is a photo of the last time I had an erection of any real kind.
Also at times now my cock has shrunk so much it can have a negative reading on my tape measure.
marriedcuckboy said:
This is a photo of me with my last useable erection which was 3 years ago, now I don't get erections, I haven't had one in 18 months, also is a photo of the last time I had an erection of any real kind.
Also at times now my cock has shrunk so much it can have a negative reading on my tape measure.
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Used and abused
Strange you should say that. Recently a friend who specialises in abuse, likened my life as a cuckold to physical or sexual abuse in wives. He says I'm now conditioned and look for women who will continue to abuse me in exactly the same way my wife did for so long. That's why I stayed with my abusive wife so long and looking for another cuckoldress to replace her, just as an abused wife keeps going back to her abusive husband.
AngleBaby said:
Strange you should say that. Recently a friend who specialises in abuse, likened my life as a cuckold to physical or sexual abuse in wives. He says I'm now conditioned and look for women who will continue to abuse me in exactly the same way my wife did for so long. That's why I stayed with my abusive wife so long and looking for another cuckoldress to replace her, just as an abused wife keeps going back to her abusive husband.
What happened to the original question?
I thought the original question here was "what is it about the chastity thing?".
I was going to answer jbrowning that I agreed with his position - that a general loss of desire or need to have sex with her husband was something I wouldn't stick around for either.
However, Sue has, at times, enjoyed teasing me and asking me to "not have her" tonight as she wants to be fresh or "not tired out" for her lover the next day. She also shared that Brad, her former lover, didn't really like it if she was wet from me when they'd get together.
At first I begrudgingly agreed to not have sex with her on some nights - but over the months, it began to not be so much of a bother and it actually began to be something I almost looked forward to. There was something just so arousing to me to be lying in bed next to her knowing she wanted to save-herself for the next night.
At times she would "help me" masturbate and sometimes she'd even suck me at the very end, but she would never give in (I mean unless I seriously insisted or something like that) and let me have her.
It was so incredibly arousing that I can sort of see how it could be even more arousing if done for a longer period of time - we did have some periods of time (other than when she has her period) when there would be multiple days where she would say no or not-tonight, etc.. It made the next time for us to be all that more intense - perhaps the whole sperm-competition thing....
I thought the original question here was "what is it about the chastity thing?".
I was going to answer jbrowning that I agreed with his position - that a general loss of desire or need to have sex with her husband was something I wouldn't stick around for either.
However, Sue has, at times, enjoyed teasing me and asking me to "not have her" tonight as she wants to be fresh or "not tired out" for her lover the next day. She also shared that Brad, her former lover, didn't really like it if she was wet from me when they'd get together.
At first I begrudgingly agreed to not have sex with her on some nights - but over the months, it began to not be so much of a bother and it actually began to be something I almost looked forward to. There was something just so arousing to me to be lying in bed next to her knowing she wanted to save-herself for the next night.
At times she would "help me" masturbate and sometimes she'd even suck me at the very end, but she would never give in (I mean unless I seriously insisted or something like that) and let me have her.
It was so incredibly arousing that I can sort of see how it could be even more arousing if done for a longer period of time - we did have some periods of time (other than when she has her period) when there would be multiple days where she would say no or not-tonight, etc.. It made the next time for us to be all that more intense - perhaps the whole sperm-competition thing....
Enforced Chasitity
In my case the chastity was enorced from the beginning of the marriage, in our first year, including our honeymoon, my wife let me make love to her 4 times, twice in year 2 and once in year 3. For a further 2 years she refused me all sex, never offered even to jerk me off.
She fell preganant to a lover and I didn't get sex for a year after that. The longest period of enforced chastity has been 10 years but there have been others including 5 years. Hearing you 'complain' about 24 hours makes me smile!
SoonToBe said:
In my case the chastity was enorced from the beginning of the marriage, in our first year, including our honeymoon, my wife let me make love to her 4 times, twice in year 2 and once in year 3. For a further 2 years she refused me all sex, never offered even to jerk me off.
She fell preganant to a lover and I didn't get sex for a year after that. The longest period of enforced chastity has been 10 years but there have been others including 5 years. Hearing you 'complain' about 24 hours makes me smile!
Enforced Chasitity
In my case the chastity was enorced from the beginning of the marriage, in our first year, including our honeymoon, my wife let me make love to her 4 times, twice in year 2 and once in year 3. For a further 2 years she refused me all sex, never offered even to jerk me off.
She fell pregnant to a lover and I didn't get sex for a year after that. The longest period of enforced chastity has been 10 years but there have been others including 5 years. Hearing you 'complain' about 24 hours makes me smile!
SoonToBe said:
In my case the chastity was enorced from the beginning of the marriage, in our first year, including our honeymoon, my wife let me make love to her 4 times, twice in year 2 and once in year 3. For a further 2 years she refused me all sex, never offered even to jerk me off.
She fell pregnant to a lover and I didn't get sex for a year after that. The longest period of enforced chastity has been 10 years but there have been others including 5 years. Hearing you 'complain' about 24 hours makes me smile!
jbrowning said:
The cuckold horns were part of the humiliation on the streets by the entire town, to make it clear that a horny, frustrated wife should be allowed lovers of her own choice because she was being "short-changed" by a husband who was "victorious in battle, but a disaster in the bedroom".
The cuckold had no choice in the matter, because the entire town was saying, "she has the right", and the cuckold knew it was a waste of time getting a divorce because "marriage was for life" and religion did not allow it. And even if the cuckold got a divorce, no other woman would bother to go out with him because every woman knew he was a lousy lover......so why would they be interested in a poor sex life.
Cuckolds can get a divorce these days even if it takes five years, "so there are choices", but cuckolds mostly CHOOSE to stay married for the EMOTIONAL BENEFITS it gives them long term, and the fact that they love their wives sufficiently to want her to have an amazing love life.
A truer (primal) definition of a cuckold is a man with "Hobson's choice", which is no choice at all.
In the days of the horns, everyone knew his sexual abilities were poor, these days it is mostly kept private from family and friends and workmates; and a cuckold can relocate to the other side of the world and find a new relationship - not all women will think he is no good in bed. He might in fact be quite a bit better than a previous husband with an even smaller penis, or lesser know-how or a premature ejaculator that fires his cannon after only three strokes.
