Should I Make Hubby A Sissy Cuck?

[Britannyhotwife]

She sure does have a very nice ass!............I like that!!

It's even better if a big dick fucks it

 

[jksacto]

i was an active cuck back in the 90's. we weren't very sophisticated, we didn't have a digital camera for pics or even a computer with internet access. my ex started by cheating on me but when i found out i agreed for her to continue. my "training" consisted totally of her or any of many, many bulls telling me what i was to do. before she eventually kicked me out for a bull with a huge cock, i was completely responsible for housework, cooking, shopping, household bills, etc. etc. i also was privileged to be allowed to clean her and any bulls that desired it as well as servicing any bull that required it. unfortunately i was never caged and freely spurted my worthless cum into my panties frequently.

 

[Britannyhotwife]

i was an active cuck back in the 90's. we weren't very sophisticated, we didn't have a digital camera for pics or even a computer with internet access. my ex started by cheating on me but when i found out i agreed for her to continue. my "training" consisted totally of her or any of many, many bulls telling me what i was to do. before she eventually kicked me out for a bull with a huge cock, i was completely responsible for housework, cooking, shopping, household bills, etc. etc. i also was privileged to be allowed to clean her and any bulls that desired it as well as servicing any bull that required it. unfortunately i was never caged and freely spurted my worthless cum into my panties frequently.

sounds good! I need a servant

 

[Custer Laststand]

..... Before [my ex] eventually kicked me out for a bull with a huge cock, i was completely responsible for housework, cooking, shopping, household bills, etc. etc. ..... Unfortunately, I was never caged and freely spurted my worthless cum into my panties frequently.

Interesting. I would guess your ex (ex-wife?) came to regret kicking you out at the request of her "bull with a huge cock," since it seems unlikely he took over your role doing all the "housework, cooking, shopping, paying the household bills, etc." The implication seems to be that after booting you out the door, your ex had to take over all those jobs.

Any comment on this...? I notice Ms. Britainnyhotwife (in her subsequent post #46, above) seems to appreciate the proper role of a cuckold.

 

[GaryCaste]

Hi Ms. Britannyhotwife,

GaryCaste has provided you with an excellent example of a woman (his wife) getting her man (him) into a cock cage, with her his sole key holder. But, as you obviously recognize, there's an important difference between the situation Gary described and you getting your husband into one. It is that it was Gary himself who pointed out the male chastity phenomenon to his wife, who was immediately enthusiastic about the idea and acted on it. That's quite different from your situation, where you ordered a male chastity device for your husband a-priori, and since then have been trying to persuade him, despite him being heavily reluctant, to allow you to lock him up in it.

To begin... if you haven't begun already... you might make it clear to your husband that you'll feel like fucking him only after he has worn his chastity device for a full 12 hours (say, from morning 'til evening of the same day). Do this on a weekend, or whenever he normally doesn't work, so he doesn't have to wear it to work under his pants which he might find awkward.

Afterwards, tell him you won't expect him to wear his chastity device the next day — but, you aren't going to fuck him the next day either, or any day after that, unless he wears his chastity device for a full 12 hours beforehand. And, tell him you don't want him playing with his weenie, either, when he isn't wearing his chastity device (bring this issue out into the open, if you haven't already.) Keep up this routine for a full week, imposing the "12 hour rule" whenever your husband hints or tells you he wants you to fuck him.

Then, after 1 week, escalate by telling your husband that before you fuck him, you now expect him to wear his chastity device for a full day (24 hours) beforehand.

First, however, a possibility you should consider is that your husband's cock cage doesn't fit very well and may be uncomfortable, perhaps even painful, for him to wear. You should ask him about this, or he should tell you, before and during his first 12-hour lock-up period. If this is the case, you'll need to buy him an alternative cock cage being careful to make all the required measurements (that will require his cooperation, of course) before ordering it. This problem strikes me as a possibility because it sounds like you may have ordered his cock cage without making any measurements of his weenie and balls. I'll pass along links to some suitable sites in a subsequent post.

—Custer

That a very good idea Custer Laststand, and yes it may take some time and patience to get the device to fit well, or to get once for him, in the beginning I did end up with quite a collection!!
A good silicone lube is highly recommended, and lubing regularly through the period.
Also, shaving eliminates chafing, so use your womanly whiles to get him to do that too!! Gary

 

[indicuck]

I would say and agree with Custer Laststand, you need to take charge and take a more direct approach Britanny.

Let's face it, no man or very few if faced with a chastity device and asked 'will you put this on' would!!

My suggestion would be to take command, in a loving way, and use these feline ways!!

I hope you enjoy, as I'm going to share with you Brittany how my wife used her charms to get me caged, and hopefully although this won't be your approach it will give you a thought on a scenario that will!!

................... In talking as couples do, (and I really can't remember how many years ago but I imagine it must have been ten years ago if not longer), one day when we both had a day off I mentioned male chastity to my Wife over a coffee.

I had seen men wearing devices online, felt somehow this was horny, and had a curiosity.
Well, in mentioning this to my Wife, it must have been one of the most reactive moments of our life, as her ears perked up, her eyes widened, and she said something like "so you fancy the idea of wearing a chastity cock cage?" Shocked by her interest I sheepishly replied something like "we'll... yes"
That had her spring up out of the chair, grab my hand and literally drag me up stairs!! In our last home we had a desktop computer on a desk at the foot of the bed, which she directed me to, telling me to show her the devices I had seen.
I logged on, found them, and she looked at them with intrigue. She commented on all of them, even the men wearing them! It was then she mentioned she liked the fact the guys had shaved their balls, and trimmed back their pubic hair to a short neat state.
After looking back and forth, me saying I fancied this one, and her saying No, this one is far sexier, she pointed at one, and said, "order that one!"
It was with those words that a sudden reality of nervousness came over me, and I was in a state of panic inside thinking fuck, what am I doing agreeing to lock my cock up in a cage!!

It had been my idea though, and seeing my Wife's unmeasurable joy, when she gleefully said, "Gary, order that one right now, and if you have by the time I get back from the bath I will give you an afternoon of sex you'll never forget!".... so how could I refuse!!
She skipped off to the bath, and I in a panicked rush set about all the form filling etc. etc., until finally pressing 'submit order'.
At that point of getting a message back saying 'order complete', ohhh... now I got a feeling of hazy euphoric anxiousness, what a toxic mix of emotions!!
My Wife came back from the bath, asked me if I had done as she asked, prompted me to show her proof of order, and chuckled when she saw the scheduled delivery date as the following day!

She went to her wardrobe, and spent time flaunting herself as she got some sheer sexy lingerie on. She knew that I would be ragging and so desperate for her, that she cast teasing glances back at me occasionally! Finally she was ready, and slipped up onto the bed beckoning me to join her.
She teased me telling me the thought of having my cock locked up had her really wet, and that I would have to go through with this now to prove my love to her. I agreed, to which she then told me that I would not be having penile sex with her again, until I had received, put on and worn the chastity cage for a minimum of five consecutive days! Well she didn't give me a chance to reply before in front of me she slipped her fingers into her thong, fingered herself and then pulled her glistening fingers out and pushed them into my mouth.
As I sucked on her delicious fingers, she tormentingly said to me that my reward would be to orally please her that afternoon!! My Wife was right, she was extremely wet, actually I'd never known her so sexed up, and that afternoon she was right, I had the best sex I had ever had, pleasing her continually as she climaxed repeatedly throughout the afternoon.

You can imagine my state of desperate frustration after spending some hours pleasuring her, my Wife though as a result the most content and satiated she'd probably ever felt.
Strangely though although my balls ached like hell, and so desperately frustrated felt a powerful desire to throw my Wife back on the bed and make wild passionate love to her, I felt content, as an inner peace filled me.

Well, the device did arrive the following day, and sure enough after trying it on, adjusting etc., my manhood was all locked up.

It was the most strange feeling, in one respect a panic that as my Wife 'clicked' the padlock and took ownership of the key, my cock now belonged to her!!
In another way, a most strange feeling started to come over me almost immediately of wanting to dote on my Wife. With each minute it seemed, this feeling grew, until a couple of hours later I felt like putty, completely willing to do anything she asked of me.
This wasn't I don't think only driven by the fact she had the key, but a physiological effect that was taking place. I later found out that yes, when men are put into chastity their body chemistry changes, and the testosterone levels drop dramatically while their is a sharp increase in serotonin amongst other changes.

So that was my introduction into chastity, and my point to you Britanny is that you must make your man feel he has to do this for you, to prove his love, to prove his devotion, or even to prove he is manly enough to not be wimpish to refuse!
Which ever way you go about it, once you have him locked up you hold the key, and as you have your feline love triangle you just have to impress on him how deep is his love, and how much does he want to be released and have you wonderful charms!

His mind remember is as big if not a bigger tool than his penis, and teasing and or commanding that with sexual prowess is the key I think!!

Here's is to you taking complete control of him, his penis, having lovers, and sitting on his face and having him drink the divine wondrous nectar of your passions!!

Please keep us posted, GaryChaste

perfect narration as how it deveoped

 

[Custer Laststand]

Incidentally, GaryCaste—

Re. your description of how your wife caged you in a chastity device (something like 10 years ago?):

I hope you enjoy, as I'm going to share with you Brittany how my wife used her charms to get me caged ..... — GaryChaste

Does your wife fuck other men, or does she simply prefer to keep your cock locked up.... with her your sole keyholder.... so she can uncage you and fuck you whenever she feels like it, but in between times be confident you won't bother her for sex at times when she doesn't feel like it...?

—Custer

 

[GaryCaste]

cuckboi or servant, I'm yours for how ever you desire to use me Britanny !!

 

[GaryCaste]

Incidentally, GaryCaste—

Re. your description of how your wife caged you in a chastity device (something like 10 years ago?):

Does your wife fuck other men, or does she simply prefer to keep your cock locked up.... with her your sole keyholder.... so she can uncage you and fuck you whenever she feels like it, but in between times be confident you won't bother her for sex at times when she doesn't feel like it...?

—Custer

Thanks for your question Custer Laststand, I'm not sure this is the right place for this and hope Britanny doesn't mind but I'll briefly answer but if you wish to inquire more feel free to pm me.

It's been so long I can't remember exactly, but it must be about 10 to 12 years ago I mentioned chastity and rapidly found myself cock locked!

My Wife no doesn't fuck other men, she is my pure 'Supreme Mistress', and your description is so close to the truth, as she just loves the power of teasing and taunting me, all when and if SHE PLEASES!!
I mentioned once to her that 'she could tease me as much as she liked without a requirement for penile sex', and wow, I asked for it, I'm just her toy now, and we very rarely have penile sex (because I have a thick girth that's uncomfortable for her so sex play this way is ideal.. for her!) but she does have many climaxes and is fully satisfied, and crazily in contradiction I am too all be it in a permanent state of frustration.... well I said there was a contradiction!!

She is my sole key holder, although apx a year and a half ago I joined Fet Life a Kink community and do have a Mistress who my Wife loans me to along with her key!! I've found out since joining Fet Life I'm a pain slut too, so often come home from meeting my Mistress not only frustrated but with a very beaten sore ass too!!

Hmmm... I said I'd be brief so as I'm starting not to be better quit here.... thanks Custer for your interest, Gary

 

[Britannyhotwife]

cuckboi or servant, I'm yours for how ever you desire to use me Britanny !!

you are my servant haha. wish I could make you lick my feet

 

[Custer Laststand]

GaryCaste,

Thanks for your question Custer Laststand.

Hey, you're welcome. It seemed like a question others, including Ms. Brittanyhotwife, might be wondering about.

I'm not sure this is the right place for this, and hope Britanny doesn't mind, but I'll briefly answer....

Your reply seems appropriate to for this thread, since Ms. Brittanyhotwife has undertaken the challenge of getting her reluctant cuckold into a cock cage. (Perhaps she'll give us an update before too much longer....)

It's been so long I can't remember exactly, but it must be about 10 to 12 years ago I mentioned chastity and rapidly found myself cock locked!

Seems like a good illustration of the saying, "Be careful what you wish for — you might get it." Speaking of time, quite a while ago someone on this forum said his wife had kept him locked in a cock cage for the past 10 years. Now, he can't get it up under any circumstance. (He didn't elaborate beyond that.) Do you find you have that problem...?

My Wife doesn't fuck other men; she is my pure 'Supreme Mistress.' Your (Custer's) description is close to the truth — she loves the power of teasing and taunting me, all when and if SHE PLEASES!!

Ah-ha.... so, you appear to be a good illustration of the advantages to a married woman of keeping her husband in a cock cage, even if she doesn't cuckold him by taking lovers, thus keeping herself sexually satisfied in that way....

I mentioned once to [my mistress] that 'she could tease me as much as she liked without any requirement for penile sex,' and wow, I asked for it, I'm just her toy now, and we very rarely have penile sex....

Another example of "being careful what you wish for...."

....but, my mistress does have many climaxes and is fully satisfied, and crazily I am too, although I'm in a permanent state of frustration....

Interesting....

She is my sole key holder, although about a year and a half ago I joined Fet Life (a Kink community). Since then, I have a Mistress who my Wife loans me to along with her key!! I've found out since joining Fet Life I'm a pain slut too, so often come home from meeting my Mistress not only frustrated but with a very beaten sore ass too!!

So you're a spanked husband, in addition to being kept locked in your cock cage. Sounds humiliating, all right. Since your wife (your primary mistress) in effect contracts out your spankings to your Fet Life (your secondary) mistress, it sounds like your wife mainly prefers teasing you and enjoying the pleasures of your cunt-sucking while keeping you locked in your cock cage. But, evidently she is not into inflicting corporal punishment.... although she feels "someone" should humiliate you with spankings.... hence, your secondary mistress.

Since your Fet Life mistress becomes your key holder when you visit her, do you find there are any positive benefits, other than the negative benefit of being spanked, that follow when she unlocks you....?

Finally, it seems possible Ms. Brittanyhotwife may find this discussion beneficial, given the current state of her relationship with her cuckold. Perhaps we'll hear more from her before too much longer....

—Custer

 

[Britannyhotwife]

So clean. Your Hubby did a good job.

text me in private

 

[GaryCaste]

you are my servant haha. wish I could make you lick my feet

Britanny you don't have to 'make me'.... I will gladly and willingly kneel before you, kiss and lick your feet, and kiss them more, lick them more, kiss and kiss, lick and lick...
Then if you allow me massage them, and your calves, kissing and licking them tenderly showing you how mush I desire to be your serving servant, to worship and adore you..... Anyway you please

 

[GaryCaste]

GaryCaste,



Hey, you're welcome. It seemed like a question others, including Ms. Brittanyhotwife, might be wondering about.



Your reply seems appropriate to for this thread, since Ms. Brittanyhotwife has undertaken the challenge of getting her reluctant cuckold into a cock cage. (Perhaps she'll give us an update before too much longer....)



Seems like a good illustration of the saying, "Be careful what you wish for — you might get it." Speaking of time, quite a while ago someone on this forum said his wife had kept him locked in a cock cage for the past 10 years. Now, he can't get it up under any circumstance. (He didn't elaborate beyond that.) Do you find you have that problem...?



Ah-ha.... so, you appear to be a good illustration of the advantages to a married woman of keeping her husband in a cock cage, even if she doesn't cuckold him by taking lovers, thus keeping herself sexually satisfied in that way....



Another example of "being careful what you wish for...."



Interesting....



So you're a spanked husband, in addition to being kept locked in your cock cage. Sounds humiliating, all right. Since your wife (your primary mistress) in effect contracts out your spankings to your Fet Life (your secondary) mistress, it sounds like your wife mainly prefers teasing you and enjoying the pleasures of your cunt-sucking while keeping you locked in your cock cage. But, evidently she is not into inflicting corporal punishment.... although she feels "someone" should humiliate you with spankings.... hence, your secondary mistress.

Since your Fet Life mistress becomes your key holder when you visit her, do you find there are any positive benefits, other than the negative benefit of being spanked, that follow when she unlocks you....?

Finally, it seems possible Ms. Brittanyhotwife may find this discussion beneficial, given the current state of her relationship with her cuckold. Perhaps we'll hear more from her before too much longer....

—Custer

Thanks Custer for all your quotes and interest, and yes it looks as though Britanny is enjoying and may well benefit from little snippets of info here, so in that light...

Yes the old adage of be careful what you wish for, how true, as denial is quite a big undertaking and unless as a fella you have gone months without a climax or even a proper aroused state, it really is hard to describe apart for the extreme aching frustration due to bloated testicals so desperate to explode!!
To answer your question me myself no, even at my age I have never had problems with gaining a full and rock hard erection once out of the cage, and I know I'm fortunate as yes I fear and have heard that some men suffer in this way but some cases might be just because they have become impotent during this time?

You have again a very good perception of my situation and my primary Mistress my Wife and Fet Life Mistress, however until you experience this it's very hard to understand as to say pain is a pleasure is by definition a contradiction!!
My Wife and Supreme Mistress as I call her does spank me and even has brought some implements to inflict some 'love play pain' on me at home, but she doesn't go to events, thus she 'loans me' along with her key to my chastity out to my Fet Mistress!
The whole process is humiliating yes indeed, but actually again a contradiction it's a thrill that is not like humiliation in the ordinary sense of the word.
Yes I am primarily a cunt sucker as you say lol, and in fact due to my chastity, denial or whatever, I feel a switch has changed within me as I actually desire far far more to pleasure a female orally, and have her climax all over my face, than to feel myself buried cock deep in a wet pussy! Again, not even my best friend can get a handle on that as when we're in the pub he will look at ladies desiring to feel his member fucking them, while I will desire to feel my lips and tongue tasting their sweet juicy wet hot sex as they fuck my face!!

My chastity was as you say pretty much self induced due to me breaching the subject, but for us as a couple it does actually fit very well as my Wife is not so sexually driven, yet thrills very much in teasing me, and alongside sex between us being uncomfortable no matter how much or what lube we use due to my thick girth gives a satisfying result for all!!
I am an exhibitionist and being paraded by my Fet Mistress, used and abused, well sits well with me as I'm a total slut in every and any way you can think!! Strangely, I never had any idea about my desires for pain, humiliation and sexual tormenting myself until just a few years ago when I joined Fet Life... so your never too old to find out more about yourself!!

You see Custer you mention spanking as a negative, but truly it's not, the pain inflicted while being caned, or spanked or whipped is exquisite and delivered right has a submissive go spacey as if you've had the most amazing drug ever! Also, I find that the following days I have a feeling of euphoria and am skipping around like a 10 yr old.
The main benefits that I have gained through all of this is that my Wife and I talk far more deeply about our true feelings and sexual emotions etc., and through this honesty and acceptance our marriage without a doubt has a different dynamic and is so more more enriched by the whole experiences.
I hope that gives you a further small insight into why this life of mine is quite wonderful and I often am pinching myself thinking surely this kind of thing really doesn't happy to a middle aged slightly over weight man like me!
I imagine a number of people will read my lines and feel it's fabricated but I promise you really, this is my life, for some their desire, for some a mystery, for some an enigma, for me ohhh.. Heaven on Earth!!

 

[Custer Laststand]

GaryCaste,

Thanks Custer for all your quotes and interest....

You're welcome. Thanks for your explanatory replies.

To answer your question: even at my age I have never had problems with gaining a full and rock hard erection once out of the cage....

Perhaps your "once out of your cage" comment is the key. That is, your primary and secondary mistresses unlock you and liberate your cock sufficiently often so you haven't developed a permanent inability to get it up.

Yes, I am primarily a cunt sucker, as you say. Due to my chastity and denial or whatever, I feel a switch has changed within me as I actually desire far far more to pleasure a female orally, and have her climax all over my face, than to feel myself buried cock deep in a wet pussy!

It's not a surprise that you would say this; I've read of it elsewhere. That is, when cunt-sucking becomes a man's primary (or only) means of sexual interaction with a woman (or women), he acquires a taste for that, so to speak, and craves it in the same way other men crave penetrative sex.

Again, not even my best friend can get a handle on that as when we're in the pub he will look at ladies desiring to feel his member fucking them, while I will desire to feel my lips and tongue tasting their sweet juicy wet hot sex as they fuck my face!!

As you've just confirmed....

My chastity was as you say pretty much self induced due to me breaching the subject, but for us as a couple it does actually fit very well as my Wife is not so sexually driven, yet thrills very much in teasing me, and alongside sex between us being uncomfortable no matter how much or what lube we use due to my thick girth, this gives a satisfying result for all!!

Good. Some women in this forum have said they find men with large girth more satisfying than men who have long cocks. Obviously your wife is not a "girth queen;" your preceding comments seem to suggest she is not a "length queen" (or "size queen" generally speaking) either. (Some are, some aren't.)

I am an exhibitionist and being paraded by my Fet Mistress, used and abused, sits well with me as I'm a total slut in every and any way you can think!! Strangely, I never had any idea about my desires for pain, humiliation and sexual tormenting myself until just a few years ago when I joined Fet Life... so your never too old to find out more about yourself!!

Evidently....

You see Custer, you mention spanking as a negative, but truly it's not, the pain inflicted while being caned, or spanked or whipped is exquisite and, when delivered right, [causes] a submissive to go spacey, as if you've had the most amazing drug ever! Also, I find that the following days I have a feeling of euphoria and am skipping around like a 10 yr old.

I was ambiguous; I think I described your spankings as a "negative benefit." But, I'll take your word for it.

The main benefits that I have gained through all of this is that my Wife and I talk far more deeply about our true feelings and sexual emotions etc., and through this honesty and acceptance our marriage without a doubt has a different dynamic and is thus more enriched by the whole experience.

This comment seems strongly relevant to Ms. Brittanyhotwife's situation — or potentially relevant, I should say, if she can successfully get her cuckold into a cock cage.

I hope that gives you a further small insight into why this life of mine is quite wonderful....

It does. Thanks.

—Custer

 

[heiko]

i think you just fuck with your lovers but keep on loving your hubby "normaly"and please dont make him a sissy he loves you so be nice to him ☺☺☺

 

[sissystephanie]

problems with chastity... yes he has a very girly butt haha would you cum inside that?

We need to work on getting rid of all that hair!!! Shaving just irritates the skin but epilating combined with spot waxing should help speed his feminization along nicely! Hir total emasculation will take time before she becomes a real sissy!

 

[heiko]

I made him plug a pen in his ass haha

bad girl

 

[heiko]

Feminize him and have him serve as a slave. I am a sub sissy slave and love it.

wtf

 

[Custer Laststand]

Hi Ms. Britannyhotwife,

Re.:

hmm the size [of the chastity device I bought for my husband] was wrong. you are right [Custer]. First, I will measure somehow his little boi and order another chastity. Thanks.

How is it going? Have you had any luck getting your cuckold into a chastity device.... i.e., one that fits properly and that he can wear comfortably...?

—Custer