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Should I Make Hubby A Sissy Cuck?
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hope your princess fucks black guys all dayObedientPet said:Well, I'm a feminine cucky so I don't do any fucking I'm afraid, and my days of ejaculating are over - only my princess gets to cum.
I also have a very slim and curvy girly body though so I can appreciate it for sure.
I would love to see you in girly clothes message me
Britannyhotwife said:
I would say and agree with Custer Laststand, you need to take charge and take a more direct approach Britanny.
Let's face it, no man or very few if faced with a chastity device and asked 'will you put this on' would!!
My suggestion would be to take command, in a loving way, and use these feline ways!!
I hope you enjoy, as I'm going to share with you Brittany how my wife used her charms to get me caged, and hopefully although this won't be your approach it will give you a thought on a scenario that will!!
................... In talking as couples do, (and I really can't remember how many years ago but I imagine it must have been ten years ago if not longer), one day when we both had a day off I mentioned male chastity to my Wife over a coffee.
I had seen men wearing devices online, felt somehow this was horny, and had a curiosity.
Well, in mentioning this to my Wife, it must have been one of the most reactive moments of our life, as her ears perked up, her eyes widened, and she said something like "so you fancy the idea of wearing a chastity cock cage?" Shocked by her interest I sheepishly replied something like "we'll... yes"
That had her spring up out of the chair, grab my hand and literally drag me up stairs!! In our last home we had a desktop computer on a desk at the foot of the bed, which she directed me to, telling me to show her the devices I had seen.
I logged on, found them, and she looked at them with intrigue. She commented on all of them, even the men wearing them! It was then she mentioned she liked the fact the guys had shaved their balls, and trimmed back their pubic hair to a short neat state.
After looking back and forth, me saying I fancied this one, and her saying No, this one is far sexier, she pointed at one, and said, "order that one!"
It was with those words that a sudden reality of nervousness came over me, and I was in a state of panic inside thinking fuck, what am I doing agreeing to lock my cock up in a cage!!
It had been my idea though, and seeing my Wife's unmeasurable joy, when she gleefully said, "Gary, order that one right now, and if you have by the time I get back from the bath I will give you an afternoon of sex you'll never forget!".... so how could I refuse!!
She skipped off to the bath, and I in a panicked rush set about all the form filling etc. etc., until finally pressing 'submit order'.
At that point of getting a message back saying 'order complete', ohhh... now I got a feeling of hazy euphoric anxiousness, what a toxic mix of emotions!!
My Wife came back from the bath, asked me if I had done as she asked, prompted me to show her proof of order, and chuckled when she saw the scheduled delivery date as the following day!
She went to her wardrobe, and spent time flaunting herself as she got some sheer sexy lingerie on. She knew that I would be ragging and so desperate for her, that she cast teasing glances back at me occasionally! Finally she was ready, and slipped up onto the bed beckoning me to join her.
She teased me telling me the thought of having my cock locked up had her really wet, and that I would have to go through with this now to prove my love to her. I agreed, to which she then told me that I would not be having penile sex with her again, until I had received, put on and worn the chastity cage for a minimum of five consecutive days! Well she didn't give me a chance to reply before in front of me she slipped her fingers into her thong, fingered herself and then pulled her glistening fingers out and pushed them into my mouth.
As I sucked on her delicious fingers, she tormentingly said to me that my reward would be to orally please her that afternoon!! My Wife was right, she was extremely wet, actually I'd never known her so sexed up, and that afternoon she was right, I had the best sex I had ever had, pleasing her continually as she climaxed repeatedly throughout the afternoon.
You can imagine my state of desperate frustration after spending some hours pleasuring her, my Wife though as a result the most content and satiated she'd probably ever felt.
Strangely though although my balls ached like hell, and so desperately frustrated felt a powerful desire to throw my Wife back on the bed and make wild passionate love to her, I felt content, as an inner peace filled me.
Well, the device did arrive the following day, and sure enough after trying it on, adjusting etc., my manhood was all locked up.
It was the most strange feeling, in one respect a panic that as my Wife 'clicked' the padlock and took ownership of the key, my cock now belonged to her!!
In another way, a most strange feeling started to come over me almost immediately of wanting to dote on my Wife. With each minute it seemed, this feeling grew, until a couple of hours later I felt like putty, completely willing to do anything she asked of me.
This wasn't I don't think only driven by the fact she had the key, but a physiological effect that was taking place. I later found out that yes, when men are put into chastity their body chemistry changes, and the testosterone levels drop dramatically while their is a sharp increase in serotonin amongst other changes.
So that was my introduction into chastity, and my point to you Britanny is that you must make your man feel he has to do this for you, to prove his love, to prove his devotion, or even to prove he is manly enough to not be wimpish to refuse!
Which ever way you go about it, once you have him locked up you hold the key, and as you have your feline love triangle you just have to impress on him how deep is his love, and how much does he want to be released and have you wonderful charms!
His mind remember is as big if not a bigger tool than his penis, and teasing and or commanding that with sexual prowess is the key I think!!
Here's is to you taking complete control of him, his penis, having lovers, and sitting on his face and having him drink the divine wondrous nectar of your passions!!
Please keep us posted, GaryChaste
Britannyhotwife said:
Don't try to persuade your husband to wear his chastity device all the time. That's too much, and it's especially too much to start out with.
I suggest expressing great disinterest in sex — "not tonight, darling"... "no, not now, sweetheart"... or, if he insists, make it clear you really aren't interested... unless he's wearing his chastity device for you, such that you have to unlock him to fondle his weenie. At those times, fuck him with great passion.
And, DO NOT let him know where you keep the key. Hide it, so when he's locked up he doesn't know where to find it. No matter how much he wheedles and pleads with you, don't tell him where it is and don't unlock him except for those times when YOU want sex (initially, say, several times a week). Stay firm.
After some time... not too much time, we hope... he'll start to get your message, which should be: "Wearing his chastity device => hot sex with you; not wearing his chastity device => no sex or, at best, unenthusiastic (rather cold) sex with you."
Online you can order a booklet called "Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders," by Lucy Fairbourne (paperback). You can find it, for instance, here:
https://www.amazon.com/Male-Chastity-Keyholders-Lucy-Fairbourne/dp/1905605145
(There are ~27 reviews.) You might find it helpful. It might also be helpful to keep it to yourself and read it when your husband is not around.
Please keep us updated as to how it's going.
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great storyGaryCaste said:I would say and agree with Custer Laststand, you need to take charge and take a more direct approach Britanny.
Let's face it, no man or very few if faced with a chastity device and asked 'will you put this on' would!!
My suggestion would be to take command, in a loving way, and use these feline ways!!
I hope you enjoy, as I'm going to share with you Brittany how my wife used her charms to get me caged, and hopefully although this won't be your approach it will give you a thought on a scenario that will!!
................... In talking as couples do, (and I really can't remember how many years ago but I imagine it must have been ten years ago if not longer), one day when we both had a day off I mentioned male chastity to my Wife over a coffee.
I had seen men wearing devices online, felt somehow this was horny, and had a curiosity.
Well, in mentioning this to my Wife, it must have been one of the most reactive moments of our life, as her ears perked up, her eyes widened, and she said something like "so you fancy the idea of wearing a chastity cock cage?" Shocked by her interest I sheepishly replied something like "we'll... yes"
That had her spring up out of the chair, grab my hand and literally drag me up stairs!! In our last home we had a desktop computer on a desk at the foot of the bed, which she directed me to, telling me to show her the devices I had seen.
I logged on, found them, and she looked at them with intrigue. She commented on all of them, even the men wearing them! It was then she mentioned she liked the fact the guys had shaved their balls, and trimmed back their pubic hair to a short neat state.
After looking back and forth, me saying I fancied this one, and her saying No, this one is far sexier, she pointed at one, and said, "order that one!"
It was with those words that a sudden reality of nervousness came over me, and I was in a state of panic inside thinking fuck, what am I doing agreeing to lock my cock up in a cage!!
It had been my idea though, and seeing my Wife's unmeasurable joy, when she gleefully said, "Gary, order that one right now, and if you have by the time I get back from the bath I will give you an afternoon of sex you'll never forget!".... so how could I refuse!!
She skipped off to the bath, and I in a panicked rush set about all the form filling etc. etc., until finally pressing 'submit order'.
At that point of getting a message back saying 'order complete', ohhh... now I got a feeling of hazy euphoric anxiousness, what a toxic mix of emotions!!
My Wife came back from the bath, asked me if I had done as she asked, prompted me to show her proof of order, and chuckled when she saw the scheduled delivery date as the following day!
She went to her wardrobe, and spent time flaunting herself as she got some sheer sexy lingerie on. She knew that I would be ragging and so desperate for her, that she cast teasing glances back at me occasionally! Finally she was ready, and slipped up onto the bed beckoning me to join her.
She teased me telling me the thought of having my cock locked up had her really wet, and that I would have to go through with this now to prove my love to her. I agreed, to which she then told me that I would not be having penile sex with her again, until I had received, put on and worn the chastity cage for a minimum of five consecutive days! Well she didn't give me a chance to reply before in front of me she slipped her fingers into her thong, fingered herself and then pulled her glistening fingers out and pushed them into my mouth.
As I sucked on her delicious fingers, she tormentingly said to me that my reward would be to orally please her that afternoon!! My Wife was right, she was extremely wet, actually I'd never known her so sexed up, and that afternoon she was right, I had the best sex I had ever had, pleasing her continually as she climaxed repeatedly throughout the afternoon.
You can imagine my state of desperate frustration after spending some hours pleasuring her, my Wife though as a result the most content and satiated she'd probably ever felt.
Strangely though although my balls ached like hell, and so desperately frustrated felt a powerful desire to throw my Wife back on the bed and make wild passionate love to her, I felt content, as an inner peace filled me.
Well, the device did arrive the following day, and sure enough after trying it on, adjusting etc., my manhood was all locked up.
It was the most strange feeling, in one respect a panic that as my Wife 'clicked' the padlock and took ownership of the key, my cock now belonged to her!!
In another way, a most strange feeling started to come over me almost immediately of wanting to dote on my Wife. With each minute it seemed, this feeling grew, until a couple of hours later I felt like putty, completely willing to do anything she asked of me.
This wasn't I don't think only driven by the fact she had the key, but a physiological effect that was taking place. I later found out that yes, when men are put into chastity their body chemistry changes, and the testosterone levels drop dramatically while their is a sharp increase in serotonin amongst other changes.
So that was my introduction into chastity, and my point to you Britanny is that you must make your man feel he has to do this for you, to prove his love, to prove his devotion, or even to prove he is manly enough to not be wimpish to refuse!
Which ever way you go about it, once you have him locked up you hold the key, and as you have your feline love triangle you just have to impress on him how deep is his love, and how much does he want to be released and have you wonderful charms!
His mind remember is as big if not a bigger tool than his penis, and teasing and or commanding that with sexual prowess is the key I think!!
Here's is to you taking complete control of him, his penis, having lovers, and sitting on his face and having him drink the divine wondrous nectar of your passions!!
Please keep us posted, GaryChaste
this is right but my hubby is not that type, he is more dominant. hard to get his little shit in chastity
Britannyhotwife said:great story
Hi Ms. Britannyhotwife,
GaryCaste has provided you with an excellent example of a woman (his wife) getting her man (him) into a cock cage, with her his sole key holder. But, as you obviously recognize, there's an important difference between the situation Gary described and you getting your husband into one. It is that it was Gary himself who pointed out the male chastity phenomenon to his wife, who was immediately enthusiastic about the idea and acted on it. That's quite different from your situation, where you ordered a male chastity device for your husband a-priori, and since then have been trying to persuade him, despite him being heavily reluctant, to allow you to lock him up in it.
To begin... if you haven't begun already... you might make it clear to your husband that you'll feel like fucking him only after he has worn his chastity device for a full 12 hours (say, from morning 'til evening of the same day). Do this on a weekend, or whenever he normally doesn't work, so he doesn't have to wear it to work under his pants which he might find awkward.
Afterwards, tell him you won't expect him to wear his chastity device the next day — but, you aren't going to fuck him the next day either, or any day after that, unless he wears his chastity device for a full 12 hours beforehand. And, tell him you don't want him playing with his weenie, either, when he isn't wearing his chastity device (bring this issue out into the open, if you haven't already.) Keep up this routine for a full week, imposing the "12 hour rule" whenever your husband hints or tells you he wants you to fuck him.
Then, after 1 week, escalate by telling your husband that before you fuck him, you now expect him to wear his chastity device for a full day (24 hours) beforehand.
First, however, a possibility you should consider is that your husband's cock cage doesn't fit very well and may be uncomfortable, perhaps even painful, for him to wear. You should ask him about this, or he should tell you, before and during his first 12-hour lock-up period. If this is the case, you'll need to buy him an alternative cock cage being careful to make all the required measurements (that will require his cooperation, of course) before ordering it. This problem strikes me as a possibility because it sounds like you may have ordered his cock cage without making any measurements of his weenie and balls. I'll pass along links to some suitable sites in a subsequent post.
—Custer
Re.:
See (for example):
Male chastity devices:
http://www.maturemetal.com/
http://www.steelwerksextreme.com/in-the-beginning
http://www.chastitytube.com/device.html
http://www.holytrainer.com/en/specification-chastity.asp
Photos of nude men in various male chastity devices:
http://lockeduphusband.tumblr.com/page/185
More than one cuckold on this forum, whose wife keeps him in a chastity device, has said the "Holy Trainer" device is very comfortable to wear. Also, more than one forum member has said that, generally speaking, metal cock cages are superior to those made from some form of plastic. (The one shown in GaryCaste's photo of his caged cock would be an example.)
Disclaimer: I am not associated in any way with the manufacturers, distributors or sellers of male chastity devices, and do not benefit in any way, financially or otherwise, from suggesting their use.
Custer Laststand said:
See (for example):
Male chastity devices:
http://www.maturemetal.com/
http://www.steelwerksextreme.com/in-the-beginning
http://www.chastitytube.com/device.html
http://www.holytrainer.com/en/specification-chastity.asp
Photos of nude men in various male chastity devices:
http://lockeduphusband.tumblr.com/page/185
More than one cuckold on this forum, whose wife keeps him in a chastity device, has said the "Holy Trainer" device is very comfortable to wear. Also, more than one forum member has said that, generally speaking, metal cock cages are superior to those made from some form of plastic. (The one shown in GaryCaste's photo of his caged cock would be an example.)
Disclaimer: I am not associated in any way with the manufacturers, distributors or sellers of male chastity devices, and do not benefit in any way, financially or otherwise, from suggesting their use.
Britannyhotwife said:here is your reward
Great photo! Thank you, Ms. Britannyhotwife — you're a hot and sexy-looking woman. It's good you made the decision to enhance your marriage by taking a lover — and I hope you succeed with your present efforts to subjugate (so to speak) your husband. I think you're on the right track.... be patient, and don't get discouraged.
Britannyhotwife said:ooo you are sooo sweet hun
Owww I sooo agree, so so very nice and you have me in quite a state and believe me if I could jerk off over you wow so much I would, alas I am resigned to tugging my chastity cage so so desperate as yes, how succulent and utterly delicious I bet you taste!!
