Hi Ms. Drtwfe,
Welcome!
Very good. You have the right idea... verbalizing your salacious desires to appreciative (although anonymous) men is a good first step.
Posting suggestive pictures of yourself and thinking about horny (although unseen) "other men" masturbating while looking at your photos, while imagining what you might do with them, is a good second step...
Masturbating often while you think about dating and fucking other men is a key step toward becoming your husband's cuckoldress... when you feel you're ready, you might consider initiating something like the program outlined here:
How to Cuckold your Husband Ch. 1:
How to Cuckold Your Husband - How To - Literotica.com
How to Cuckold Your Husband Ch. 2:
How to Cuckold Your Husband Ch. 02 - How To - Literotica.com
Some preliminary steps may help you get control of your marriage and move your husband in the desired direction. See, for instance:
Pantying your man:
Making Him Mind, The Transition Begins
Becoming his disciplinarian:
Women who spank their man
You appear to be a natural as a cuckoldress. Good luck as you expand your sexual horizons and begin enjoying the pleasures of a variety of lovers! I hope it goes well for you.
—Custer