I have a crush on a neighbor. She's married, I'm married. It started with quick glances and look aways. Now we've been waving to each other with cordial smiles etc. Nothing more. Once I saw her in the grocery store but I didn't have the nerve to say anything. The point is, I have this gut feeling that she has some discreet ideas about me too. When I drive passed her house on the way to work, I noticed she would look at me. When I turned the corner, she's still looking. I think she has tremendous sex appeal. She has a few curves but she has a really pretty face and sexy eyes.
Does the way she looks at me suggest that she too is looking for a little spice on the side?
(past suggestions were "comment on her garden", "ask her and her hubby over for dinner") I don't know her and I don't think it would be a good idea to bring in the spouses. I have this stupid mad crush on her and I'd like some advice from other married women with kids etc. Just a real honest answer about how you would want a married neighbor to approach you.
I have her email address and her phone but I would not be dumb enough to call as this would be an absolute invasion of her (and her family's) privacy.
How about email? Again we have NEVER spoken so I don't think emailing is a wise idea.
How can I possibly send a hint to her that I'm interested if she is interested without insulting her? (or worse creeping her out?)
Confused in Connecticut Suburbia
Does the way she looks at me suggest that she too is looking for a little spice on the side?
(past suggestions were "comment on her garden", "ask her and her hubby over for dinner") I don't know her and I don't think it would be a good idea to bring in the spouses. I have this stupid mad crush on her and I'd like some advice from other married women with kids etc. Just a real honest answer about how you would want a married neighbor to approach you.
I have her email address and her phone but I would not be dumb enough to call as this would be an absolute invasion of her (and her family's) privacy.
How about email? Again we have NEVER spoken so I don't think emailing is a wise idea.
How can I possibly send a hint to her that I'm interested if she is interested without insulting her? (or worse creeping her out?)
Confused in Connecticut Suburbia