Labelling and how i think the porn industry destroyed the " cuckold " concept

[StaciMWF]

Hi , i believe that porn totally changed what the cuckold means to it JUST meaning , that he is a guy who is humiliated , degraded , cut off sex and treated like trash by his wife for being incompetent in bed or because of his size , which is one aspect of it , definitely not the whole

" cuckold " means a bf or a husband that is supportive of his partner being unfaithful . that is it really

if you think about it , lets say that cuckolding is like your Latte , when it is just basic latte , if you chose to add humiliation or degradation or limiting sex or treat the husband like a sub , then those are added kinks , like flavors , meaning they aren't essntional to the lifestyle itself.

so there are cuckolds out there who arent into humiliation or any of that , and just supportive of their partners just having fun

so all i am saying if i am saying anything is dont generlize the concept and dont think less of the cuckolds unless that is their own kink

Staci

 

[Custer Laststand]

..... "cuckold" means a bf or a husband who is supportive of his partner being unfaithful. That is it, really.

Not so, Ms. Staci. The definition is: cuckold — a man with an unfaithful wife (meaning, of course, a wife who fucks other men).

Whether a cuckold husband is or is not supportive of his wife fucking other men, or does or does not feel humiliated by that, or does or does not even know his wife is fucking other men, are not part of the definition.

The above definition, which is simple and straightforward, can be thought of as "the cake." Other features, which may or may not be characteristic of a given hotwife / cuckold husband marriage, can be thought of as "frosting and decorations on the cake."

 

[KarenMWSlut4Blacks]

As you might expect in the UK; we get our definitions from the Oxford English Dictionary - which says this about being unfaithful:-

• engaging in sexual relations with a person other than one's regular partner in contravention of a previous promise or understanding.

The caveat that Oxford adds seems to be saying that because my husband is in full agreement to my doing it with black guys. I am actually cuckolding him without being unfaithful.

I have been cuckolding Rob for over 25 years and given the love and affection we still have for each other I don't feel that I've been unfaithful to him at all. In fact we are both enjoy having a young family now that I am being black bred and our grown up children are happy to have black fathered siblings.

 

[Custer Laststand]

As you might expect in the UK; we get our definitions from the Oxford English Dictionary - which says this about being unfaithful:-

• engaging in sexual relations with a person other than one's regular partner in contravention of a previous promise or understanding.

The caveat that Oxford adds seems to be saying that because my husband is in full agreement to my doing it with black guys. I am actually cuckolding him without being unfaithful.

I have been cuckolding Rob for over 25 years and given the love and affection we still have for each other I don't feel that I've been unfaithful to him at all. In fact we are both enjoy having a young family now that I am being black bred and our grown up children are happy to have black-fathered siblings.

With all due respect, Ms. Karen, I would say your and Rob's relationship is an excellent example of a long-term, mutually-satisfying, hotwife / cuckold husband marriage.

If, when you and Rob were first married, you and he promised to "forsake all others" (or words to that effect) — as you probably did, since you presumably had a church wedding (both of you being religious) — then, the second half of your definition from the Oxford English Dictionary, stated above in bold-face type, is satisfied — even if Rob subsequently agreed it is totally acceptable to him if you fuck black men, and totally acceptable even if you fuck your black lovers in front of him.

 

[KarenMWSlut4Blacks]

In the real world Custer there are few constants and things evolve thus the inclusion of the word previous, which means existing or occurring before in time or order.

So it is perfectly possible for a cuckold cuckold couple to still be faithful because their marriage vows would have been over ridden by the husbands consent prior to his actually being cuckolded by his faithful wife.

It is much the same now I am being black bred. I am not being unfaithful because I had Rob's prior consent. I use the word consent even though he had been begging me to do it bare and unprotected for years.

So our having four beautiful black bred boys, with another due on January 14 2022, is not a sign that I have been unfaithful. This is because I had Rob's prior consent to be black bred, which is something I would recommend to any white couples who wanted to start a second family when their own children have flown the nest..

 

[Custer Laststand]

In the real world Custer there are few constants and things evolve thus the inclusion of the word previous, which means existing or occurring before in time or order.

So it is perfectly possible for a cuckold cuckold couple to still be faithful because their marriage vows would have been over ridden by the husbands consent prior to his actually being cuckolded by his faithful wife.

It is much the same now I am being black bred. I am not being unfaithful because I had Rob's prior consent. I use the word consent even though he had been begging me to do it bare and unprotected for years.

So our having four beautiful black bred boys, with another due on January 14 2022, is not a sign that I have been unfaithful. This is because I had Rob's prior consent to be black bred, which is something I would recommend to any white couples who wanted to start a second family when their own children have flown the nest..

As you wish, Ms. Karen.

But, I continue to assert that by the conventional definition, Rob is your self-acknowledged cuckold. And, the two of you are a very good example of a long-term, stable, mutually agreed to and mutually-satisfying, hotwife / cuckold husband marriage.

Rob obviously wants that, as do you, and indeed Rob is heavily turned on by your form of marriage. More than likely it is what has kept the two of you together over the years.

—Custer

 

[KarenMWSlut4Blacks]

He needed a little nudge from me Custer; but since I'd already found his hidden porn I knew it would turned him on. We've also understood that there is a difference between love and lover.

I've cuckolded Rob with hundreds of lovers over the years and my two latest have lived with us so that I could be black bred. Although it might seem callous, I have not been in love with any of them, they are just black guys who I met for good sex or as is the case now, so that they could father children for us.

I can say with all honest that the only guy I've ever been in love with is my husband and although Rob and I don't have sex it doesn't impact on the love and affection we have for each other. We're still very much in love, enjoy romantic times together and love being parents to our growing black fathered family.

 

[Custer Laststand]

He [my husband Rob] needed a little nudge from me Custer; but since I'd already found his hidden porn I knew it would turn him on. We've also understood that there is a difference between love and lovers.

It's impressive that you took the initiative in "nudging" (as you say) your husband toward acceptance of your need to take black men as lovers. Congratulations for that. Finding Rob's stash of porn, thereby learning what turned him on, was... of course... a big advantage. Congratulations for that as well.

I've cuckolded Rob with hundreds of lovers over the years.

Good work. You know what your needs are and have not hesitated to pursue your needs. You knew what to do to greatly increase your own sexual satisfaction, while simultaneously playing to your husband's sexual fantasies — and you did it.

And, my two latest [black lovers] have lived with us so I could be black bred.

That was what you wanted, and you got it — while providing Rob with greatly-increased opportunities to watch you in action, as well as a growing family.

Although it might seem callous, I have not been in love with any of them, they are just black guys who I meet for good sex or, as is the case now, so they could father children for us.

There's nothing wrong with that. They aren't in love with you either (I gather, from what you've said). Rather, you provide them with opportunities every day to fuck, sexually-satisfy and impregnate a white married woman (you), while sexually-satisfying themselves, with the added advantage that you and Rob provide your black lovers with a free (I gather) place to live.

I can say with all honesty that the only guy I've ever been in love with is my husband.

That's OK. Lots of women are in love with their husbands.

And, although Rob and I don't have sex.....

Which is not feasible, since Rob has been castrated (for a medical reason) — although I would hope he uses his tongue, fingers and hands to good advantage.

..... that does not impact on the love and affection we have for each other.

Good.

We're still very much in love and enjoy romantic times together.

Very good. All that, it appears to me, is because of the mutual advantages, to both you and your cuckold Rob, of you taking black men as lovers — now live-in lovers.

And, we love being parents to our growing black-fathered family.

Excellent. This, IMO, is evidence of the sexual and emotional advantages to both you and Rob of your hotwife / cuckold husband style of marriage.

 

[KarenMWSlut4Blacks]

It's impressive that you took the initiative in "nudging" (as you say) your husband toward acceptance of your need to take black men as lovers. Congratulations for that. Finding Rob's stash of porn, thereby learning what turned him on, was... of course... a big advantage. Congratulations for that as well.

Good work. You know what your needs are and have not hesitated to pursue your needs. You knew what to do to greatly increase your own sexual satisfaction, while simultaneously playing to your husband's sexual fantasies — and you did it.

That was what you wanted, and you got it — while providing Rob with greatly-increased opportunities to watch you in action, as well as a growing family.

There's nothing wrong with that. They aren't in love with you either (I gather, from what you've said). Rather, you provide them with opportunities every day to fuck, sexually-satisfy and impregnate a white married woman (you), while sexually-satisfying themselves, with the added advantage that you and Rob provide your black lovers with a free (I gather) place to live.

That's OK. Lots of women are in love with their husbands.

Which is not feasible, since Rob has been castrated (for a medical reason) — although I would hope he uses his tongue, fingers and hands to good advantage.

Good.

Very good. All that, it appears to me, is because of the mutual advantages, to both you and your cuckold Rob, of you taking black men as lovers — now live-in lovers.

Excellent. This, IMO, is evidence of the sexual and emotional advantages to both you and Rob of your hotwife / cuckold husband style of marriage.

Custer, he had not had sex with me for several years so he was either masturbating or doing it will someone else. Since he was sexually inadequate I always thought that he was masturbating but it was a relief to find all of his hidden porn.

lol - a nudge - yes he was too shy to suggest it to me! He was over the moon when I told him that I knew about his porn, showed him the advert I'd placed in Rendezvous and one of the hundreds of replies I'd received. Even though I'd already selected a guy to meet up with I would not have gone ahead without his prior approval and in fact he still remembers watching as the best birthday present that he's ever had.

Your right Custer; even though they live with us and they share the marital bed with me I've never been more than a married white cunt they can fuck and try to impregnate. My husband had always love to watch them doing it and of course it is even more special now that the are fucking babies into me for him. He was castrated because of prostate issues, it was an old fashioned cure and the alternative to a lifetime of taking medication, but both Dr Obi and Abeo say that if he hadn't already got an empty sack they would have had him castrated themselves.

It might seem odd but Rob's drinking buddies are impressed that at 72 he's still looking to add to our family and love the fact that he's got a black friend to do it for him. I know from their wives that they are jealous of his being able to watch and of course he's proud of the fact that he was there when each of the was conceived.

I think that the secret to our long and happy marriage is that we do have no secrets. We're quiet open to our family and friends about my being fucked by black guys and and I've been happy to know that Rob thought about me doing it with them when he used to masturbate. I think I've told you that our Doctor thinks I should start using contraception but as we both told her, we love having a growing young family. I also love being fucked bare and don't think I could go back to getting guys to wear a condom.

On a personal note; I was always proud of having the biggest tits in my class at school and I love to see people stare now that they are huge and milky - lol

 

[Jaandaj]

only thing i think the porn industry has ruined is the porn. there are no stories or plots anymore. it's just random sex acts, that border on the lines of extreme stunts, unlikely events, and abuse

Can't agree more.
It's just conditioning people's minds. And younger people think this is way sex is.

Not that porn was ever believable, but now it just so far fetched. I don't mind the different scenarios. Have to mix things up. But it's all u see! Family sex isn't that common. Bbc is out there but it's true that there are as many average BLK cock as big ones. And her head is stuck under the sink so he just fucks her! My fat ass has installed enough faucet to know that a 120# woman is not stuck under a sink!!!

People are still paying to see all this and more. So it works. It's just not the good old porn.

 

[StaciMWF]

all i meant , is we dont genelaize the humiliation and degredation on all cuckold or stag marriages or relationships , because every couple has their own way in the lifestyle , we arent all the same , i guess i couldnt my point through , but i am very glad ,that alot of you guys are relating and saying your opinion

 

[rjthree]

The porn industry doesn't understand anything

 

[Custer Laststand]

In the real world Custer there are few constants.

Actually, Ms. Karen, there are a number of constants in the real world. The gravitational constant "G" would be a good example. The speed of light "c" would be another. Avogadro's number "N" would be a third.

And, things evolve.

That, Ms. Karen, is certainly a true statement. But, although Charles Darwin published his convincingly-documented theory of evolution in 1859 (in his book "On the Origin of Species"), and it's been 162 years since then, religious fundamentalists remain resolutely incapable of accepting it as fundamental truth, arguing it is "just a theory" (among other specious objections). Even though, generally speaking, a theory is as close to factual truth as scientists can get— a theory is not "just someone's idea" — and even though evolution can be observed happing in real time under a microscope. Ergo, the theory of evolution, which is essentially the basis of all biological science, should arguably be called the fact or law of evolution.

 

[GilBates]

Hi , i believe that porn totally changed what the cuckold means to it JUST meaning , that he is a guy who is humiliated , degraded , cut off sex and treated like trash by his wife for being incompetent in bed or because of his size , which is one aspect of it , definitely not the whole

" cuckold " means a bf or a husband that is supportive of his partner being unfaithful . that is it really

if you think about it , lets say that cuckolding is like your Latte , when it is just basic latte , if you chose to add humiliation or degradation or limiting sex or treat the husband like a sub , then those are added kinks , like flavors , meaning they aren't essntional to the lifestyle itself.

so there are cuckolds out there who arent into humiliation or any of that , and just supportive of their partners just having fun

so all i am saying if i am saying anything is dont generlize the concept and dont think less of the cuckolds unless that is their own kink

Staci

If anyone had asked me 10 years or more ago what a cuckold is, I would have said that a cuckold is a man whose wife or live in partner has a baby by another man and he is the legal but not the biological father. As such he may not even know that he is not the biological dad. He may have known all thru the pregnancy that the child was not his or he may find out years later or never. That is my definition of "cuckold".

 

[zippless]

If anyone had asked me 10 years or more ago what a cuckold is, I would have said that a cuckold is a man whose wife or live in partner has a baby by another man and he is the legal but not the biological father. As such he may not even know that he is not the biological dad. He may have known all thru the pregnancy that the child was not his or he may find out years later or never. That is my definition of "cuckold".

And this is the purest form of the term. The rest are variations or fetishes.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cuckold

 

[Soumo]

Hi , i believe that porn totally changed what the cuckold means to it JUST meaning , that he is a guy who is humiliated , degraded , cut off sex and treated like trash by his wife for being incompetent in bed or because of his size , which is one aspect of it , definitely not the whole

" cuckold " means a bf or a husband that is supportive of his partner being unfaithful . that is it really

if you think about it , lets say that cuckolding is like your Latte , when it is just basic latte , if you chose to add humiliation or degradation or limiting sex or treat the husband like a sub , then those are added kinks , like flavors , meaning they aren't essntional to the lifestyle itself.

so there are cuckolds out there who arent into humiliation or any of that , and just supportive of their partners just having fun

so all i am saying if i am saying anything is dont generlize the concept and dont think less of the cuckolds unless that is their own kink

Staci

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[Soumo]

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[CoopMon]

i kinda agree , as fun as porn sometimes , it is still in the fantasy realm , and when people try to apply it in the real world it fails big time , but i understand you point being that there are sub categories under the term " cuckold" meaning there are people who enjoy humiliation , and people who dont , people who can satsfiy his girl but doing it because he likes to watch , others doing it because they want to see their girl pleased in a way they cant do that for her , so alot of people have different reasons to get into the lifestyle , so we should respect each one diversity and not generlise or mix fantasy with real

 

[JonGrey]

As many have stated here, the term cuckold just translates to a man with an unfaithful wife. We have developed several genres surrounding it. The porn industry just took aspects of it that would bring revenue to them. They do make 2 hour fucking videos with 2 litres of cum. We all know how that goes in reality. As usual, people who are watching porn for some fun time, will just watch them and move on. People who are interested in the lifestyle will do their research and find the right sources.