How much control do you need ?

[RLyonheart]

How far can you go when watching your slut with a stranger? Do you have rules, limits, code words?

We are careful with who gets to enjoy my wife's body and how. One rule is no physical violence. Verbal is fine but no more.

On one occasion however, a fit young dude in his 30s was fucking her doggy style, forcefully, and began to slap her arse. When he got more forceful I was about to intervene when I heard my wife moan in a familiar way which I knew meant she was enjoying it.

I whispered in hear ear "Do you want this?". She turned to me with a face of pain and pleasure and said "Yes, I like". So I stepped back and wanked off to the erotic sight and sound of my slutwife being fucked and used like a common bitch. I have never heard her since make such gutteral sounds. It was pure animal instinct from both of them. I was jealous but in Heaven.

He eventually withdrew, pulled off the condom and sprayed a torrent across her back.

Since then spanking has featured prominently in our sex life and with others. But it was only because a stranger crossed our lines that this pleasure was discovered.

Has anyone else had such an experience?

 

[Jozyxt]

It seems a lot of women are able to let go and accept from their lovers what they can't from their husbands. It is good of you to go along with this and help her have new sexual experiences that you can't provide.

 

[Debshusband]

Agree with Jazyxt some women, like my wife, cant let go with their husbands. Im lucky to even get to share her with another guy, and then its pretty normal fucking. But I know she hooks up with guys who are very forceful. She hides her meetings from me but I have seen hand prints on her ass and tits and even marks around her wrists and ankles. She has sex in cars with other guys, but if Im lucky maybe a quick blowjob. Its like 2 different Debbies.

 

[RLyonheart]

Agree with Jazyxt some women, like my wife, cant let go with their husbands. Im lucky to even get to share her with another guy, and then its pretty normal fucking. But I know she hooks up with guys who are very forceful. She hides her meetings from me but I have seen hand prints on her ass and tits and even marks around her wrists and ankles. She has sex in cars with other guys, but if Im lucky maybe a quick blowjob. Its like 2 different Debbies.

Are you jealous? Does it turn you on?

 

[RLyonheart]

It seems a lot of women are able to let go and accept from their lovers what they can't from their husbands. It is good of you to go along with this and help her have new sexual experiences that you can't provide.

Yes indeed. I would like to know more about the threads of perversion which lie dormant in her mind. Secretly I'd be tempted to watch her gang banged

 

[Debshusband]

Are you jealous? Does it turn you on?

I envy those guys more than being jealous. Imagine having someone who will do whatever you want just a text away. Yes, it turns me on.

 

[RLyonheart]

I envy those guys more than being jealous. Imagine having someone who will do whatever you want just a text away. Yes, it turns me on.

I know what you mean. I find a complex set of emotions. My wife was at first reluctant and shy. But she felt obliged as my wife to try. Then she started to get pleasure from each new cock. She would never go behind my back but I know she now looks forward to each new one to suck and make cum. She sees them as candy to suck, she tells me. But when she gets fucked it's different. She becomes a sleeve and slave. She seems to love being used and it turns me on hugely.

 

[Debshusband]

You are very lucky you get to share and she does not go behind your back. Yes, being used is a big part of Debbies addiction as well. She has no relationship with most of the guys, just being used for sex. she truly is a sex addict.

 

[Debshusband]

I know what you mean. I find a complex set of emotions. My wife was at first reluctant and shy. But she felt obliged as my wife to try. Then she started to get pleasure from each new cock. She would never go behind my back but I know she now looks forward to each new one to suck and make cum. She sees them as candy to suck, she tells me. But when she gets fucked it's different. She becomes a sleeve and slave. She seems to love being used and it turns me on hugely.

Deborah has something going on this weekend. She told me she was going to visit her mom, her usual lie, but she has new lingerie and she had me trim her publc hair and pluck any errant hairs from around her...rear. I asked why her mom rated such a cleanup and she just laughed and said it was for me, she could see I was hard. But I didnt get to use the newly trimmed pussy, I got a quick blowjob with a "Can you cum fast" thrown in for a romantic touch.

 

[RLyonheart]

Deborah has something going on this weekend. She told me she was going to visit her mom, her usual lie, but she has new lingerie and she had me trim her publc hair and pluck any errant hairs from around her...rear. I asked why her mom rated such a cleanup and she just laughed and said it was for me, she could see I was hard. But I didnt get to use the newly trimmed pussy, I got a quick blowjob with a "Can you cum fast" thrown in for a romantic touch.

Do you feel used?

 

[RLyonheart]

Do you feel used?

Interesting difference in roles and control. Your slut takes control and you accept, as a good cuck. I realise we are different. Mine would never initiate, that's seen as my role and right. But once initiated, she has total liberty to use the situation for her pleasure.

 

[RLyonheart]

Filipinas are a fascinating breed of women. Most are conservative an often shy, ostensibly Catholic. However they have an inherent joy and sense of fun which liberates their sexuality. I have discovered over the years that my wife had past sexual experiences which you would never imagine possible if you met her socially. I learned that she got involved in working as a guide for tourists and was persuaded to offer clients massages for tips, whilst on tour. Inevitably at some point the happy ending option was proposed and she went for it. Initially by hand. She convinced herself it was just a job, but admits that she got a thrill, particularly from ejaculation, and looked forward to each session. Then ofc, the next step was oral, for a bigger tip and she was hooked. Being that conservative Filipina she seems to have dissociated herself from the person she was pleasuring, by focusing instead purely on the cocks, balls and ejaculations. She treated these as her work but came to see them as play mates. She seems to have had many play mates, learning every trick in the book to deliver and derive her own pleasure. I was initially shocked and humiliated by these revelations, but rapidly found I was turned on. Safe in the comfort of our love, I coaxed out more stories of her experiences and the dudes she has serviced. To date she has not revealed much about her fucking experiences, though I know they happened.

 

[Debshusband]

Do you feel used?

I feel disassociated from the real Debbie. I think I live with the public version, not the real one.

 

[RLyonheart]

I feel disassociated from the real Debbie. I think I live with the public version, not the real one.

Oh that's not good for you

 

[RLyonheart]

Oh that's not good for you

My ex-partner never knew the real sexual me. We had a social life and were seen as the perfect couple. But behind closed doors we had no meaningful sex life. The bedroom was cold. I ended up having affairs, using prostitutes and having one night stands wherever I travelled, particularly in Asia, where a whole world of sexual liberation beckoned. Once infected I was hooked and could not avoid temptation - which was, is, everywhere here. There was no going back for me.

 

[Debshusband]

My ex-partner never knew the real sexual me. We had a social life and were seen as the perfect couple. But behind closed doors we had no meaningful sex life. The bedroom was cold. I ended up having affairs, using prostitutes and having one night stands wherever I travelled, particularly in Asia, where a whole world of sexual liberation beckoned. Once infected I was hooked and could not avoid temptation - which was, is, everywhere here. There was no going back for me.

You are very lucky! I think Deb grew up having sex with family members, and being told to not tell anyone. I know she still has sex with her uncle, he probably reinforces that idea. She grew up as 2 people. One very controlled and one a sex toy to be used. Her validation comes from being used, so more is better.

 

[CTWifeBlackCockSlut]

How far can you go when watching your slut with a stranger? Do you have rules, limits, code words?

We are careful with who gets to enjoy my wife's body and how. One rule is no physical violence. Verbal is fine but no more.

On one occasion however, a fit young dude in his 30s was fucking her doggy style, forcefully, and began to slap her arse. When he got more forceful I was about to intervene when I heard my wife moan in a familiar way which I knew meant she was enjoying it.

I whispered in hear ear "Do you want this?". She turned to me with a face of pain and pleasure and said "Yes, I like". So I stepped back and wanked off to the erotic sight and sound of my slutwife being fucked and used like a common bitch. I have never heard her since make such gutteral sounds. It was pure animal instinct from both of them. I was jealous but in Heaven.

He eventually withdrew, pulled off the condom and sprayed a torrent across her back.

Since then spanking has featured prominently in our sex life and with others. But it was only because a stranger crossed our lines that this pleasure was discovered.

Has anyone else had such an experience?

Very hot. Love it

 

[Jozyxt]

I envy those guys more than being jealous. Imagine having someone who will do whatever you want just a text away. Yes, it turns me on.

That would be great. But I would rather my wife be that woman for lover than to have such a woman for myself. it would be so nice if she would just answered the phone and and asked me to drive her to go fuck a man while all I got was to clean her up.

 

[Debshusband]

That would be great. But I would rather my wife be that woman for lover than to have such a woman for myself. it would be so nice if she would just answered the phone and and asked me to drive her to go fuck a man while all I got was to clean her up.

I would drive her if she asked. Im not into clean up, but would like to be included

 

[Nazareth]

How far can you go when watching your slut with a stranger? Do you have rules, limits, code words?

We are careful with who gets to enjoy my wife's body and how.

Ditto for being careful. The world is MUCH too crazy these days, needless to say.

As far as we're concerned, it's a rarity that anything with a stranger goes beyond flirting, light touching, or teasing. Most opportunities we've had for playing has been with friends or acquaintances that she knows who are trustworthy. In that context, there are *********. She is free to do what she wants or allow what he wants with no questions.
We do have 'rules', mostly related to safety. She/we can't put ourselves in vulnerable situations where safety could be compromised.
Violence of any kind is not tolerated in any form or fashion, needless to say.