How much control do you need ?

[RLyonheart]

Ditto for being careful. The world is MUCH too crazy these days, needless to say.

As far as we're concerned, it's a rarity that anything with a stranger goes beyond flirting, light touching, or teasing. Most opportunities we've had for playing has been with friends or acquaintances that she knows who are trustworthy. In that context, there are *********. She is free to do what she wants or allow what he wants with no questions.
We do have 'rules', mostly related to safety. She/we can't put ourselves in vulnerable situations where safety could be compromised.
Violence of any kind is not tolerated in any form or fashion, needless to say.

Sounds wise. We also have an 'inner circle' of mainly guys whom we know, trust and like. Some girls also but they are really her close friends. However, we do go beyond flirting with strangers. This happens often on holidays, where a bar pick up is normal for us. Never had a dangerous situation to date.

 

[Keesnl]

Safety is always number1 because i've seen so much guys having zero respect for females. Being in a cinema, club or even at home with my slut exgirlfriend always gave them the idea that they had some kind of right to fuck or abuse her. Zero respect for the rules, the game and NO means NO, some can get real mad or frustrated when you tell them.
Most of the time your gutfeeling is the right one and we sometimes stopped when it felt wrong. Once i had to psysicly correct a guy who thought that after she said "no" and "stop" he could punch her so he would get his way. Before he could hit he learned that Krav Maga can be a bitch for idiots who get agressive.

But maybe it's the places you go to as well. Cinema Club we sometimes visited was real safe, being agressive or not folowing the rules gets you banned from the cinema without warning. This sometimes needed a little help from my side when guys would be to polite and were talking to much and asking if this or that was allowed. Exgirlfriend loved these places after she took a mdma pill, got her in the mood and got rid of almost all inhibitions.

 

[Bibob]

It seems a lot of women are able to let go and accept from their lovers what they can't from their husbands. It is good of you to go along with this and help her have new sexual experiences that you can't provide.

I totally agree, my wife has spent the night or weekends with a few guys and I have seen the videos they have taken where she has become very vocal with them.
It is very rare for me to hear her telling me to fuck her cunt and fill me with your cum or even, come and fuck me, I love your cock fucking me.

 

[Jozyxt]

I totally agree, my wife has spent the night or weekends with a few guys and I have seen the videos they have taken where she has become very vocal with them.
It is very rare for me to hear her telling me to fuck her cunt and fill me with your cum or even, come and fuck me, I love your cock fucking me.

What a nice gift to get those vids and lean something new about how sexy your wife can really be.

 

[Jozyxt]

I would drive her if she asked. Im not into clean up, but would like to be included

I have cleaned up my own many times and am also a cocksucker. Swallowing cum is a hobby of mine. LOL

 

[Debshusband]

I have cleaned up my own many times and am also a cocksucker. Swallowing cum is a hobby of mine. LOL

Swallowing cum seems to be a hobby of my wife as well!

 

[2wheel]

Swallowing cum seems to be a hobby of my wife as well!

Mine as well

 

[Jozyxt]

Swallowing cum seems to be a hobby of my wife as well!

In my sexusal experince there have been very few women that I would say enjoyed swallowing. Most would do it, but seemed to think of it as a chore. The one that seemed to enjoy it the most occasionally shared it with me when she was generous via snowballs. I miss that.

 

[Debshusband]

Mine as well

I just wish it was mine!

 

[Debshusband]

I worry about Deb when she meets new guys, like today. I only know she was meeting a new guy today because I read her email, I have her log in, and I get copies of her texts by spyware. She has been emailing a guy who posted on line that he wanted to buy used panties. Many emails back and forth, pictures, etc. Until they agreed to meet today and she would be wearing the panties she would give him. She said if he liked them she would "Wrap them around his cock and give him a handjob". They met in a parking lot she uses a lot for hook ups, its a medical center with a huge lot and many trees and reasonable concealment. She texted later saying for him to let her know if he wanted to meet again. Puts me in a spot. If I tell her to be careful she will know I am spying on her, she wont stop, I just wont know. Shes been doing this sort of thing for a long time and has probably learned how to filter the real creeps, still worrying.

 

[RLyonheart]

Last weekend she entertained a new guy who didn't want her to use her mouth. He just wanted to rub his cock across her face and in her hair. Several times she tried to grab him but he pushed her away. She looked across at me to intervene but I did not and instructed her to submit. Our deal is for her to serve the guy if it's what I want and I was enjoying this guy using her this way. He straddled her and she gave up. He eventually sprayed her face and hair. After he left I gave her the fuck she needed.