I've posted this on another forum and now posting it here hoping to get multiple opinions and suggestions. This just happened yesterday and she just left about 10 minutes ago to go out tonight (Sat):
My wife is Filipina. Pretty conservative usually. She looks as if she is 21, but is 38. 4ft 11in, 94lbs. Gorgeous woman. She has kept me on the straight and narrow for the past 14 years of marriage. Hell.. I hardly ever check another girl out since she is usually one of the better looking ones around.
Anyways.. here is the original post:
Found a text message on my wifes phone tonight just before she went out with friends.
It said 'Hey Handsome, How you doing? Still want to be my booty call? XOXOXO! )
I asked her about it and after a couple of seconds of surprise that I seen it, she starts telling me how she sent it from her phone for her friend. Her friend didnt want to send it cause she was worried her husband might see it.
I didnt know whether to believe her or not at first so I jokingly said 'Sure sure..that is why the response it back to you instead of something like 'tell so and so that yea.. I'm up for it!' Instead the response was back to my wife as if they knew each other. Then I told her 'Hmm.. makes perfect sense now as to why we have sex about once every 2 - 3 weeks now if I'm lucky and you always being too tired to have sex more often'
I pretty much just left it at that and told her I trusted her and she seemed very happy about it.
Question is guys.. You think she's out right now getting it on with another guy? I have noticed that she does not seem as tight as she used to be a little while back and sometimes when we do have sex.. she likes me to eat her before and after I've came. And sometimes she gets very very wet right away.
What do you guys think?
Later on…
I just called her to see if she'd need a ride home from the club. Was told no that one of her friends was the designated driver and she'll be home a little bit late since they were going to eat after clubbing. I did notice that there was absolutly NO background noise when talking to her on the cell even though she claimed to be at the club right then. I know the club well and there is not a single place within a 100 yards of the front door that is quiet....
Would love to hear from you guys out there on what you think about this situation. Need some opinions.
When she came home….
Well, she came home around 4am. I was already asleep as I tried to stay up and wait for her. But when she slipped into bed she woke me up (accidently or on purpose I don’t know). I noticed she was not really *****, but had been drinking something. I asked her if she had fun and to my surprise she grabbed my shoulder (I was laying facing away from her) and turned me around and instead of answering me, kissed me hard. I immediately was hard. As soon as we broke the kiss, her hand was still on my shoulder and started to slightly push me down. I knew what she wanted at that point.
I had a few emotions as soon as I felt her trying to push me down. Not sure if I really wanted to do it having a very good idea of what I might find and lick.
I went down anyways. She was very very wet. Her panties were soaked. I'm pretty sure I was eating the results of her having sex with another man. But at that point I didn’t care. I ate away like crazy.. I was so dam hard. She almost immediately came within the first 30 seconds. I just kept going at it until she came again. When I made my way back up and entered her... I was swimming in her. She had been stretched by someone (Or just very excited). I still came within a minute. I never come that fast. But I could not help it with everything that was going through my head all night and at that moment. As expected... she once again pushed me back down to eat her again. She has been doing this almost everytime I come inside her for the past 6 months.
She is planning on going out again tonight. I have not said anything to her about my suspicions.
I still don’t know what to think about it though. One half of me says ‘Yea.. she’s screwing around on you’. The other half says ‘This girl wouldn’t screw around on you, she loves you too much’.
Weirdest thing is... I did not have a single suspicion of anything out of the normal until I found that text message. But when I found that, I can put the past 6 months into perspective and almost see when this all started.
I really want to hear what you guys think on this forum about this. Good or bad. What should I do? Just keep going along with it?
My wife is Filipina. Pretty conservative usually. She looks as if she is 21, but is 38. 4ft 11in, 94lbs. Gorgeous woman. She has kept me on the straight and narrow for the past 14 years of marriage. Hell.. I hardly ever check another girl out since she is usually one of the better looking ones around.
Anyways.. here is the original post:
Found a text message on my wifes phone tonight just before she went out with friends.
It said 'Hey Handsome, How you doing? Still want to be my booty call? XOXOXO! )
I asked her about it and after a couple of seconds of surprise that I seen it, she starts telling me how she sent it from her phone for her friend. Her friend didnt want to send it cause she was worried her husband might see it.
I didnt know whether to believe her or not at first so I jokingly said 'Sure sure..that is why the response it back to you instead of something like 'tell so and so that yea.. I'm up for it!' Instead the response was back to my wife as if they knew each other. Then I told her 'Hmm.. makes perfect sense now as to why we have sex about once every 2 - 3 weeks now if I'm lucky and you always being too tired to have sex more often'
I pretty much just left it at that and told her I trusted her and she seemed very happy about it.
Question is guys.. You think she's out right now getting it on with another guy? I have noticed that she does not seem as tight as she used to be a little while back and sometimes when we do have sex.. she likes me to eat her before and after I've came. And sometimes she gets very very wet right away.
What do you guys think?
Later on…
I just called her to see if she'd need a ride home from the club. Was told no that one of her friends was the designated driver and she'll be home a little bit late since they were going to eat after clubbing. I did notice that there was absolutly NO background noise when talking to her on the cell even though she claimed to be at the club right then. I know the club well and there is not a single place within a 100 yards of the front door that is quiet....
Would love to hear from you guys out there on what you think about this situation. Need some opinions.
When she came home….
Well, she came home around 4am. I was already asleep as I tried to stay up and wait for her. But when she slipped into bed she woke me up (accidently or on purpose I don’t know). I noticed she was not really *****, but had been drinking something. I asked her if she had fun and to my surprise she grabbed my shoulder (I was laying facing away from her) and turned me around and instead of answering me, kissed me hard. I immediately was hard. As soon as we broke the kiss, her hand was still on my shoulder and started to slightly push me down. I knew what she wanted at that point.
I had a few emotions as soon as I felt her trying to push me down. Not sure if I really wanted to do it having a very good idea of what I might find and lick.
I went down anyways. She was very very wet. Her panties were soaked. I'm pretty sure I was eating the results of her having sex with another man. But at that point I didn’t care. I ate away like crazy.. I was so dam hard. She almost immediately came within the first 30 seconds. I just kept going at it until she came again. When I made my way back up and entered her... I was swimming in her. She had been stretched by someone (Or just very excited). I still came within a minute. I never come that fast. But I could not help it with everything that was going through my head all night and at that moment. As expected... she once again pushed me back down to eat her again. She has been doing this almost everytime I come inside her for the past 6 months.
She is planning on going out again tonight. I have not said anything to her about my suspicions.
I still don’t know what to think about it though. One half of me says ‘Yea.. she’s screwing around on you’. The other half says ‘This girl wouldn’t screw around on you, she loves you too much’.
Weirdest thing is... I did not have a single suspicion of anything out of the normal until I found that text message. But when I found that, I can put the past 6 months into perspective and almost see when this all started.
I really want to hear what you guys think on this forum about this. Good or bad. What should I do? Just keep going along with it?