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Filipina wife and a text message

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I've posted this on another forum and now posting it here hoping to get multiple opinions and suggestions. This just happened yesterday and she just left about 10 minutes ago to go out tonight (Sat):


My wife is Filipina. Pretty conservative usually. She looks as if she is 21, but is 38. 4ft 11in, 94lbs. Gorgeous woman. She has kept me on the straight and narrow for the past 14 years of marriage. Hell.. I hardly ever check another girl out since she is usually one of the better looking ones around.
Anyways.. here is the original post:

Found a text message on my wifes phone tonight just before she went out with friends.
It said 'Hey Handsome, How you doing? Still want to be my booty call? XOXOXO! )
I asked her about it and after a couple of seconds of surprise that I seen it, she starts telling me how she sent it from her phone for her friend. Her friend didnt want to send it cause she was worried her husband might see it.
I didnt know whether to believe her or not at first so I jokingly said 'Sure sure..that is why the response it back to you instead of something like 'tell so and so that yea.. I'm up for it!' Instead the response was back to my wife as if they knew each other. Then I told her 'Hmm.. makes perfect sense now as to why we have sex about once every 2 - 3 weeks now if I'm lucky and you always being too tired to have sex more often'
I pretty much just left it at that and told her I trusted her and she seemed very happy about it.
Question is guys.. You think she's out right now getting it on with another guy? I have noticed that she does not seem as tight as she used to be a little while back and sometimes when we do have sex.. she likes me to eat her before and after I've came. And sometimes she gets very very wet right away.
What do you guys think?

Later on…
I just called her to see if she'd need a ride home from the club. Was told no that one of her friends was the designated driver and she'll be home a little bit late since they were going to eat after clubbing. I did notice that there was absolutly NO background noise when talking to her on the cell even though she claimed to be at the club right then. I know the club well and there is not a single place within a 100 yards of the front door that is quiet....
Would love to hear from you guys out there on what you think about this situation. Need some opinions.

When she came home….
Well, she came home around 4am. I was already asleep as I tried to stay up and wait for her. But when she slipped into bed she woke me up (accidently or on purpose I don’t know). I noticed she was not really *****, but had been drinking something. I asked her if she had fun and to my surprise she grabbed my shoulder (I was laying facing away from her) and turned me around and instead of answering me, kissed me hard. I immediately was hard. As soon as we broke the kiss, her hand was still on my shoulder and started to slightly push me down. I knew what she wanted at that point.

I had a few emotions as soon as I felt her trying to push me down. Not sure if I really wanted to do it having a very good idea of what I might find and lick.
I went down anyways. She was very very wet. Her panties were soaked. I'm pretty sure I was eating the results of her having sex with another man. But at that point I didn’t care. I ate away like crazy.. I was so dam hard. She almost immediately came within the first 30 seconds. I just kept going at it until she came again. When I made my way back up and entered her... I was swimming in her. She had been stretched by someone (Or just very excited). I still came within a minute. I never come that fast. But I could not help it with everything that was going through my head all night and at that moment. As expected... she once again pushed me back down to eat her again. She has been doing this almost everytime I come inside her for the past 6 months.

She is planning on going out again tonight. I have not said anything to her about my suspicions.

I still don’t know what to think about it though. One half of me says ‘Yea.. she’s screwing around on you’. The other half says ‘This girl wouldn’t screw around on you, she loves you too much’.

Weirdest thing is... I did not have a single suspicion of anything out of the normal until I found that text message. But when I found that, I can put the past 6 months into perspective and almost see when this all started.

I really want to hear what you guys think on this forum about this. Good or bad. What should I do? Just keep going along with it?
 
Just got off the phone with her about a minute ago.... No background sounds whatsoever. And she seemed to want to get off the phone with me quickly. Conversation went like this:

Me: 'Hi honeyko... you girls going to need a ride home tonight?'

Her: 'No.. SoNSo is driving... I'll be late again, I'll wake you when I get home.. BYE!'

Me: 'So you dont want me to wait up just incase?'

Her: 'No.. I gotta go.. bye!'

And she hung up without waiting for a response from me.

Again.. No background noise whatsoever. No cars, music or even other peopel talking that I could hear.

Without someone to talk to about this.... I'm getting very anxious about what is going to take place when she gets home tonight/morning.
 
Don't break your marriage up by getting angry. She is enjoying her nights out, and bringing you home a very wet pussy to suck out. You have it made. Become a lot more romantic and helpful around the house, so she feels your desire to stay married to her. It is important for her to feel you love her unconditionally (be genuine).

If she is having sex, then she may be not sure how to tell you without losing her marriage to you. One approach could be for you to tell her how much you have appreciated having her as your wonderful wife, and that you would like to give her a special gift --------you would like her to enjoy a lover of her choice to give her more sexual contentment in life.

If she already has a lover, she will say that she would like to accept your gift - and you can say, "that makes me so happy that you accept, because I want to prove my love to you is absolutely true by making some room in our marriage for a lover who pleases you".

Then remind her how pretty she is, and that men will enjoy her company immensely.

Then leave things for a few weeks to allow her to "meet guys", then ask her if she has met someone she likes yet - and this will allow a transition of her telling she has and you accepting her officially dating.

When she finally admits she has met someone nice and has had several dates, then tell her how proud you are of her for accepting your gift, as it lets you prove to her that her happiness is most important to you. She will become more romantic with you, because you have helped her through the problem she had of when to admit she was getting extra sex without your knowledge.

If she does not accept your gift of a lover, you will know she is probably telling the truth of not wanting anyone else.

If you handle things with patience, you will hold onto your marriage, and also be able to post on this website all the juicy details.
 
Wow.. thank you for that reply.

I'm not at all mad. Confused, curious (And honestly.. sexually excited) would explain it more.

I'm really wondering why she wants me to eat her out after she's been out. It makes me wonder if she is either wanting me to question why it is so wet or some other reason.
 
She came home once again, woke me up (on purpose this time), straddled me at first like she wanted to be on top.. then slid forward until she was over my face and then sat down. She has never initiated sex like that before in 14 years of marriage. She came almost immediatly as my tongue went up inside her. She stayed on top for a bit longer, until she just could not handle it anymore I guess. She laid down and as I was rolling over to be on top and enter her, I told her how good she tasted. It surprised me to hear it come out of my mouth. When I entered her, she was once again, very stretched. I did not last more than a minute again! Even though I tried to think about other things, the thought of what she might have been doing just could not be cleared from my head. As I came she guided me down by pushing on my shoulders and I ate her.

I really dont think the marriage is ending by any means. We have a pretty good marriage. Very happy marriage. I wonder if it is just the fact that she looks very young she is acting out some of her younger fantisies before she gets too old to do so.
 
learn to accept your place

you can find happiness being cuck. it has brought me so much peace and love.
 
Looking forward to this coming weekend. I asked her if she is planning on going out again and she said 'Most likely.. It's up to my 'friends'

I'm getting a bit excited just thinking about what she might bring home to me.
 
She brings home her cream pie gift to share with her.

Continue to tell her how nice a person she is, and how much you love cuddling her and kissing her slit. Let her feel your lust.

Ask her if she has any secret fantasies you could help her achieve.
Ask her if she needs any new clothes for going out with her friends.
 
Saraha, The new clothes bit worked. We went out tonight and got her a very revealing blouse and a short micro mini-skirt. She looked very hot in that set up when she came out of the dressing room with them on.

She's already said that she'll be going to a place called 'Trouphy Lounge'. I'm not sure of the place, but someone told me that it is a hook-up bar for the most part. All of her friends have been taking her there as the primary place they go to for a while now. If anyone has any knowledge of this bar, please let me know what it is all about there.
 
This arrangement sounds awesome! You definitely have a hot little hot wife on your hands. But too bad you guys aren't all open and honest about it. She is definitely having sex with other guy(s). Congratulations!!

So this is what you need to do ... tell her that you have fantasies of her having sex with other men. Tell her that you want her to go to the club and find at least one guy at the club to have sex with that night. Tell her she can't come home until she has sex with one other guy :D

This way, she will know it's ok to be honest about it, and then you both can start to enjoy all this much more!
 
Well....In my opinion and after reading your posts, she is getting cock elsewhere. We need to look at the facts. She is 38.....just entering her sexual peak. You are coming in a minute <I don't blame you....I do too when I fuck my wife's freshly fucked pussy. It's a HUGE turn on.>, And her pussy and panties are soaked when she gets home. She is also stretched out. <Is she using bigger dildos? If not, she is most certainly taken on a well-hung lover.> She stays out until the wee hours of the morning, and from the text message her friends are doing it too. It probably was your wife....but you'll never know. So the 1 minute of sex from you is not giving her what she craves right now. With that said, she obviously still loves you, and you give her her emotional needs, and that will not change. We are NOT a monogamous species. Women...just like men want to try something new every now and again. I know what you are going through. If you get excited from it.....embrace it. You enjoy the excitement of what's happening. Now is the time for you to let her know it is okay with what is going on, if it really is okay with you. <If it is not Okay, I suggest you seek marriage counselling ASAP, and disregard the rest of my message.>

I am under the impression it is okay with you. If so, here is my opinion. Next time you are going down on her after her girls night out, tell her how good she tastes. Tell her you've been having fantasies lately of her going out and having sex. She may just tell you what has been happening. Whatever you do, don't get mad. Embrace it....

But then again...you are confused....I totally understand. It is a confusing thing. Whatever it is....go with what your heart tells you. You love her...let her have some fun. Tell her you don't mind, as long as you are kept in the loop with what she is doing, because it turns you on. Point out some cuckolding websites to her on the internet, and tell her that there are men out there <like yourself> that don't mind this sort of behaviour from their wives. She is probably too scared to tell you, because she thinks you'll leave her, and she doesn't want that. I hope things work out great for you two.

Keep us posted.
 
One more thing.....Start being really lovey-dovey to her. Buy her flowers, clean the house, do the dishes, make sure the house is tidy when she comes in from her nights out to show her you appreciate what she is doing, and that YOU are the one who LOVES her. Buy her a nice perfume for her nights out, ask if you can shave her pussy before she goes out, etc. She'll get the hint that you'll enjoy what is happening.
 
So much to post about in the past 2 weekends. This weekend is looking to cap the past 2 though. She'll be dressed up tonight as a schoolgirl. She asked me this morning if she should wear bra and panties and I told her 'Hell no'. Tomorrow, she has this cheerleader outfit she plans on wearing. Also without panties and bra.

I cant wait to see what she brings home tonight..
 
Your sexy wife is a woman with initiative.... that's good.

SecondsForMe said:
This weekend is looking to cap the past 2.

Great! Your wife is on a roll.

SecondsForMe said:
She'll be dressed up tonight as a schoolgirl. She asked me this morning if she should wear bra and panties and I told her 'Hell no'.

Good response.

SecondsForMe said:
Tomorrow, she has this cheerleader outfit she plans on wearing. Also without panties and bra.

Excellent! Your wife is really getting into it.

SecondsForMe said:
I cant wait to see what she brings home tonight.

Sounds good.... please keep us posted.
 
Can you post some pics of this hot little filipina?
 

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