Just a personal perspective. My wife is part of a kind of club consisting of white women (most married or with long term boyfriends) and black men. They have "meetings"/parties semi-regularly and sometimes we cuckold hubbies are allowed to attend ... basically to "serve" and sometimes be part of the "entertainment" for them. Won't go into detail on that, but on those occasions the wives and their men usually go off on their own, and we cucks ... at least a few of us ... are allowed to stay, mainly to do the old kind of clean-up on the party and bed rooms. We are usually put together in a separate room until needed. At that point we are usually at least bottom-less and, depending on the "entertainment" we provided, either still with our little erections or maybe soft again after cumming. In either case, we are usually still pretty charged up. And our discussions about what our wives are doing, and the men they are with, inevitably get us pretty heated up. Not surprisingly, in that environment, it usually ends up with us all masturbating and, more often now, taking care of each other's needs. It's always awkward and embarrassing/humiliating at first, but quickly becomes pretty uninhibited. Some of us also now get together on non-party nights, when our wives are out, for some of the same kind of sharing/support and "stress relief." It's habit forming, when it's the only way, or one of the few ways, we have or are allowed to get relief.