Cuckolds

[wtf_isthatabout]

I am trying to understand this 'lifestyle'. Can anyone, in a civil manner, explain to me the turn-on of the cuckold lifestyle? Exactly what is it about total self-humiliation that is exciting? Are you incapable of satisfying your wife/partner? If so, exactly how did you manage to marry or get together with this woman? I totally understand the excitement of bringing others into the mix, so to speak, but I'm still not sure about this whole humiliation thing. Please write back and help me understand.

 

[michelle_mwf_hot4_bbc]

Sorry, I certainly can't explain it. I have no clue why a woman would want to stay married to a wacky, submissive fag.

I will say though... my ol' man is getting turned off from letting me play pretty quick because of all the crap from them and the black-power racists. Can't blame him, he's a contractor that's had to tolerate the 'minority business enterprise' crap, affirmative action crap, quota crap, illegal Mexican invasion crap, femi-nazi crap, and now it's like I'm asking him to just ignore more ignorant anti-white male crap.

I see posts here and other places wondering where all the 'real' women are that are supposed to be on the site. Well, first, I don't put it past the website operators to be padding the roster and forum threads with ghosts in order to make the site seem more active with women. Second, most women are attached -- and not to cucks. That means you got to keep hubby in the groove too.

I'll give you an example of why I only lasted one day at Black Cock Dating and no way in hell the ol' man is gonna let me pay a membership there or here... because of ignorant shit like this:
http://www.blackcockdating.com/forum/index.php?showtopic=187

But if you really want to try and understand the wackos, you might be better off going here - http://ourhotwives.org/forum/index.php?sid=e47c54856485a8c3dd15900f5ddf4ad3

 

[hornyguy]

Michelle! Unless I miss understand you, If you don't like this stuff why are you on this forum?

 

[michelle_mwf_hot4_bbc]

Michelle! Unless I miss understand you, If you don't like this stuff why are you on this forum?

Is this a gay fem-dom cuck site or an IR sex site?

What does one have to do with the other?

 

[pumpherfull]

Michelle,

I just wanted to say I support eveything you've said. I'm happily married to a stunning wife, & we both enjoy her playing around, especially with black guys, but in no way am I sub to any one. I simply don't get the cuck thing, nor those racist blacks that go on about 'black superiority', I mean please!

And yeah, this is meant to be a IR site (v sexy) , so you've every right to make your comments. Cucks have their own forums, they're welcome here of course, but this is NOT a cuck forum as far as I'm aware.

 

[torontoWMSuksBlks]

well said.........

 

[BlackDomLdog]

I wouldn't pay for a membership here, either.

michelle_mwf_hot4_bbc quoted:
Sorry, I certainly can't explain it. I have no clue why a woman would want to stay married to a wacky, submissive fag.

I will say though... my ol' man is getting turned off from letting me play pretty quick because of all the crap from them and the black-power racists. Can't blame him, he's a contractor that's had to tolerate the 'minority business enterprise' crap, affirmative action crap, quota crap, illegal Mexican invasion crap, femi-nazi crap, and now it's like I'm asking him to just ignore more ignorant anti-white male crap.

I see posts here and other places wondering where all the 'real' women are that are supposed to be on the site. Well, first, I don't put it past the website operators to be padding the roster and forum threads with ghosts in order to make the site seem more active with women. Second, most women are attached -- and not to cucks. That means you got to keep hubby in the groove too.

I'll give you an example of why I only lasted one day at Black Cock Dating and no way in hell the ol' man is gonna let me pay a membership there

I sure as hell DON'T HAVE THE MONEY TO JOIN THIS SITE! Black Cock Dating and Dark Cavern have membership for pay accounts, but I am TOO BROKE TO JOIN! lol

As a Black man, I don't get the cuckoldry thing. I kept hearing it from my friend, who IS charged with having child porn on his computer. (Not to get away from what michelle said, but this is WORSE than cuckoldry.)

And not to incite a heated argument, either...but it is a turn off when a man submits to another man. I heard the phrase too many times, "God made Adam and Eve...NOT ADAM AND STEVE!"

There are other sites that will cater to the cuckold lifestyle...If I am not mistaken, this group originally was for Blacks and cheating wives. (Accuse me of bitching...I have a lot of gripes, and most are now toward my friend that was arrested. Again, off the topic.) :bitch:

Michelle, I do think the real women have left this group, and it is populated MOSTLY by men.

I admit I like porn...but there has to be a limit, and know when to keep it in line. The same applies to how you present yourself. I'm worrying about this guys' family...he talked about the swinging lifestyle with his wife, but SHE HATED IT!

She loved going to church, until she met him...and I will take a hit for the male gender being a PIG! (My mother-in-law...who has terminal cancer, said the male gender has to "stop being 'oinkers' and be real men...for once.")

My wife got into an argument with the guys' wife, as she despised interracial marriages. She said something that made sense: "The "Black Power" thing was NOT what the late Coretta Scott King...or her husband, had in mind."

Racial equality is still a struggle, and the best thing I will do is leave it at that sentence.

 

[BlackDomLdog]

Good point...made sense

michelle_mwf_hot4_bbc made sense of this topic:

a) A cuckold is a man with an unfaithful wife.
In these cases, the women are NOT unfaithful. They are being faithful to a shared agreement. Hence the men are not cucks.

b) These guys are subs to fem-doms. I had one called Mistress(blank) IM me yesterday. She had never had BBC and wanted info. from me. She said her cuck hubby was going to blow a BBC today for her and then setup up for her to fuck said BBC this Saturday. These guys are fem-dom subs with homosexual tendencies. It has nothing to do with IR except incidentally. Why are they found on all the IR sites pissing folks off?

c) Troilism - a paraphilia of the mercantile/venal type in which sexuoerotic arousal and facilitation or attainment of orgasm are responsive to, and dependent upon observing one's partner on hire or loan to a third person while engaging in sexual activities, including intercourse, with that person [from French, trois, three]. A threesome or group-sex party does not, per se, constitute a paraphilia. There is no technical term for the reciprocal paraphilic condition of being observed by a third party while on hire or loan.

Hotwife, swinging, etc. involves TROILISM. A CHEATING wife makes her hubby a cuck.

Troilism and cuckoldry should not be confused with gay fem-dom slaves and have nothing to do with IR.

I'm guessing these guys were uncomfortable calling themselves fag-slaves and opted for a misnomer - cucks.

Again -- NOTHING WHATSOEVER TO DO WITH IR.

:clap: I couldn't have said it better...and I can't. lol

I've probably gotten on people's nerves, but I am simply surfing a lot of sites, and planning a Valentine's Day present for MY wife.

It doesn't involve another man...or woman. It does involve jewelry. and lastly...it comes from the heart.

Yes, I'll get back to the topic...sheesh!

I have heard stories about them at various swing parties, and michelle hit on the things in this list that THEY did. The guy's wife made him fuck other men - not sure if they were white or black.

My wife and I won't be around my friend so much...but the kids loved my wife and I babysitting them. With the child porn case, I'm not so sure I want to be talking about the swinging lifestyle, or being around them.

My point is that it's your choice to enjoy something...but don't force it down their throats - pardon the pun.

 

[NoCondoms M4rt]

White guys, Man-UP!

Sounds like an excuse to be a pussy, to me...

 

[imported_dig420]

I see posts here and other places wondering where all the 'real' women are that are supposed to be on the site. Well, first, I don't put it past the website operators to be padding the roster and forum threads with ghosts in order to make the site seem more active with women.

we're way too lazy for that.

 

[rhino]

Why do some guys like to be humiliated? I don't know. They just do. They are kind of like masochists. U either like that kind of thing or u dont. Its that simple. No use for us to ask why. I just avoid them when i can.

 

[littledickcuckold]

Not simple or easy

Cuckolds, like me, are people. There are no simple, easy, universal answers. We are individuals. I think one fairly common thread in the experience of cuckolds is that we have had many things happen to us in life that undermined our self esteem, our confidence, our feeling of manliness. I also think a good percentage of us happen not to be well endowed physically, which is probably at the root of our life's history of having our self esteem and confidence undermined. Yet we aspire to what everyone else does...a beautiful, desireable, loving girlfriend and, eventually, wife. Gradually, after many disappointments, we begin to "settle"...for some, that means settling for less than the ideal wife, who may be no more attractive or successful in dating than we are; for some, like me and many others, it means settling for a relationship (sometimes including marriage) with an a-list woman who is interested in us for reasons other than the normal male-female attraction reasons. We accept a realtionship with one of these desireable women, even while understanding that they are willing to be with us for reasons other than physical or emotional attraction...and usually those reasons are a secure and comfortable lifetstyle, with few demands, with her in control. Once that is your mindset, and once you cross that terrible but incredible line that you yield your marital sexual rights to better men, in your intense desire not to lose your "prize," you become a cuckold and gradulally adjust to your position. From there are a whole bunch of possible scenarios, but for some of us, the path we end up on is that of submissive cuckoldry.

Don't know if that helps, but the main point is there are a lot of us, and we have ended up here in a lot of different ways. But it's all rooted in physical and psychological weaknesses and inadequacies, that work out into a cuckold lifestyle.

 

[michelle_mwf_hot4_bbc]

Cuckolds, like me, are people. There are no simple, easy, universal answers. We are individuals. I think one fairly common thread in the experience of cuckolds is that we have had many things happen to us in life that undermined our self esteem, our confidence, our feeling of manliness. I also think a good percentage of us happen not to be well endowed physically, which is probably at the root of our life's history of having our self esteem and confidence undermined. Yet we aspire to what everyone else does...a beautiful, desireable, loving girlfriend and, eventually, wife. Gradually, after many disappointments, we begin to "settle"...for some, that means settling for less than the ideal wife, who may be no more attractive or successful in dating than we are; for some, like me and many others, it means settling for a relationship (sometimes including marriage) with an a-list woman who is interested in us for reasons other than the normal male-female attraction reasons. We accept a realtionship with one of these desireable women, even while understanding that they are willing to be with us for reasons other than physical or emotional attraction...and usually those reasons are a secure and comfortable lifetstyle, with few demands, with her in control. Once that is your mindset, and once you cross that terrible but incredible line that you yield your marital sexual rights to better men, in your intense desire not to lose your "prize," you become a cuckold and gradulally adjust to your position. From there are a whole bunch of possible scenarios, but for some of us, the path we end up on is that of submissive cuckoldry.

Don't know if that helps, but the main point is there are a lot of us, and we have ended up here in a lot of different ways. But it's all rooted in physical and psychological weaknesses and inadequacies, that work out into a cuckold lifestyle.

And so... they are also incapable of starting their own websites and forums instead of congregating in IR sites spouting off a bunch of crap about black superiority and shit to piss the rest of us off?

They should have their own completely seperate place. Not sharing spaces in the 'most recent post' section on the main page, not sharing the toons section or any other section where they might accidentally come in contact with the rest of us.

Why not go over to the hotwife site where you guys are kept completely seperate and postings made in the regular hotwife section by 'cucks' are immediately moved?

Your lifestyle has nothing to do with IR, why not a fem-dom site?

 

[michelle_mwf_hot4_bbc]

Here ya go, your very own cucky boy site - http://www.cuckolds.com

You can get info. there on how to shrink your dick even further so as to feel even more worthless, and they sell those little jars to lock your sniveling pecker up in too.

Have a nice trip.

 

[wtf_isthatabout]

littledickcuckold

Cuckolds, like me, are people. There are no simple, easy, universal answers. We are individuals. I think one fairly common thread in the experience of cuckolds is that we have had many things happen to us in life that undermined our self esteem, our confidence, our feeling of manliness. I also think a good percentage of us happen not to be well endowed physically, which is probably at the root of our life's history of having our self esteem and confidence undermined. Yet we aspire to what everyone else does...a beautiful, desireable, loving girlfriend and, eventually, wife. Gradually, after many disappointments, we begin to "settle"...for some, that means settling for less than the ideal wife, who may be no more attractive or successful in dating than we are; for some, like me and many others, it means settling for a relationship (sometimes including marriage) with an a-list woman who is interested in us for reasons other than the normal male-female attraction reasons. We accept a realtionship with one of these desireable women, even while understanding that they are willing to be with us for reasons other than physical or emotional attraction...and usually those reasons are a secure and comfortable lifetstyle, with few demands, with her in control. Once that is your mindset, and once you cross that terrible but incredible line that you yield your marital sexual rights to better men, in your intense desire not to lose your "prize," you become a cuckold and gradulally adjust to your position. From there are a whole bunch of possible scenarios, but for some of us, the path we end up on is that of submissive cuckoldry.

Don't know if that helps, but the main point is there are a lot of us, and we have ended up here in a lot of different ways. But it's all rooted in physical and psychological weaknesses and inadequacies, that work out into a cuckold lifestyle.

I'm sorry, but I just can't buy that. I totally understand feelings of low self-esteem and lack of confidence. I used to suffer them greatly growing up, but have moved past that. Self-esteem and confidence come to you the same way that you gain respect. You work at it and earn it. Not only do I detect a lack of self-respect, but I really see a lack of respect for your wife and relationship. By becoming a submissive rather than an equal, you have just stated (symbolically) that you are not up to the challenge of building a positive and rewarding relationship. I would highly recommend a re-examination of yourself and your relationship, plus some concrete steps towards exerting some self-confidence. Where do you think your self-esteem is going to be sitting one of these days when your wife gets bored with your weak nature and decides to move on to someone with a little more backbone? If counseling would help, then I would seek it out.

Sorry to come across as harsh, I am just trying to give you a word of encouragement. Lord knows I don't want to damage your fragile self-esteem.

 

[UK_Black_Dong]

More Cuckolds

If your a man who has a unfaithful partner and you KNOW about it then you're a Cuckold, end of story. That's the basic defintion, whether or not the husband gets off of being humilated is a irrelvant. If the husband and wife both like to it and agree to being degraded by a black man its his choice as well, and there's absolutely nothing wrong with it as long as no harm is being done. Bring on the cucks!

 

[michelle_mwf_hot4_bbc]

cuckold

n : a man whose wife committed adultery v : be sexually unfaithful to one's partner in marriage; "She cheats on her husband";

If done by agreement it is not cheating. Ergo, they aren't cuckolds. You would be a cuckold if your wife was cheating and you didn't know. If you knew and remained mute, you are agreeing to the arrangement and aren't a cuckold.

 

[frommetorick]

I do it because the TABOO turns me on. It's like getting away with something.

 

[michelle_mwf_hot4_bbc]

Michelle you do realize you've just destroyed the point of your original question, if your asking cucks - whats it all about and then say that a cuck is someone whose wife is banging behind his back then he wouldn't know he was a cuck and therefore couldnt answer your question.

I think cucks a pretty crap term for the many variations of this lifestyle. Because its just that , many many variations.

What original question?

 

[imported_dig420]

Here ya go, your very own cucky boy site - http://www.cuckolds.com

You can get info. there on how to shrink your dick even further so as to feel even more worthless, and they sell those little jars to lock your sniveling pecker up in too.

Have a nice trip.

This link was changed for a reason. We don't work this hard for someone to come here and promote other message boards with virtually no posters when we have one of our own.

Don't edit the post again or you'll lose the ability to edit your posts at all.