Cuckolds

[wantstogonow]

Michelle,
Wow, what a thread you started!! Now, you stated your opinion on your first couple of comments but then you just kept pounding away no mater what anyone else said which leads me to believe that:
1. you need to to get fucked about a thousand times to relieve that pent up stress and aggression.
2. You need to run a marathon to (see # 1 above).
3. Your husband needs to find another occupation (or keep from coming home to you and bitching all the time about unfair labor pratices etc...(it just seems to add fuel to your fire!
I am a white male and happent ot agree the white male in working america is an endangered species for all the reasons you listed. with that being said, what that has to do with your ranting about cuckolds is not making any sense.
Just like you don't like this site having cuckolds on it you should realize there are all these other sites to search for bbc that you can choose from as well. Your not limited to this site alone so check elsewhere! Since your not even a paying member your opinion is marginalized as to it'sworth as those of us who do pay have to deal with this. As part of a white couple who enjoy interracial sex we're here for that!! The cucks can do their thing in their relationships. In parting I'd urge to "think stress reduction"..

 

[michelle_mwf_hot4_bbc]

Michelle,
Wow, what a thread you started!! Now, you stated your opinion on your first couple of comments but then you just kept pounding away no mater what anyone else said which leads me to believe that:
1. you need to to get fucked about a thousand times to relieve that pent up stress and aggression.
2. You need to run a marathon to (see # 1 above).
3. Your husband needs to find another occupation (or keep from coming home to you and bitching all the time about unfair labor pratices etc...(it just seems to add fuel to your fire!
I am a white male and happent ot agree the white male in working america is an endangered species for all the reasons you listed. with that being said, what that has to do with your ranting about cuckolds is not making any sense.
Just like you don't like this site having cuckolds on it you should realize there are all these other sites to search for bbc that you can choose from as well. Your not limited to this site alone so check elsewhere! Since your not even a paying member your opinion is marginalized as to it'sworth as those of us who do pay have to deal with this. As part of a white couple who enjoy interracial sex we're here for that!! The cucks can do their thing in their relationships. In parting I'd urge to "think stress reduction"..

Didn't start the thread.

Admin: If you read this you can be so kind as to remove my registration and all posts etc. from your database.

 

[wtf_isthatabout]

I started this

I am the one who started this thread, not Michelle. If you want to take someone to task over it, bring it to me, not her. She has made her opinions known in this thread, and has stood by them. I have my own views on 'cuckolds', but posted the thread out of genuine curiosity.

That being said, I will now take the subject on myself. I do not understand the mindset of the 'cuckold' lifestyle. I do not understand, nor agree, with the pervasive view on this site of the 'superior' black man or the 'wimpy tiny-dick' white guy. This site, as with all web communities, start off with a basic premise then evolve or devolve into something else. In the case of this particular site, I have noticed lately a growing trend towards the idea that white men are powerless wimps, with no sexual abilities or spine, much less any 'physical abundance'. In hand with that, the idea that all black men are sexual titans, or more to the point, sexual animals with members of no less than 9-10" who can have literally any woman of any race simply by the look in their eyes, who are capable of spectacular sexual feats due to their breeding and genetics, is simply the most racist and stupid thing I have ever heard or read. I do understand fantasy life, and if a couple wishes to engage in a fantasy where they are overpowered by another individual, in this case a black male, then that's fine. What I don't understand is how this has moved beyond fantasy and into a true belief. I particularly find it racist and offensive to perceive black males as well-bred sexual animals. Face it, that's what is going on in here. Is that much different than considering them to be well-bred work animals back in the 1850's? The only difference is that instead of gaining self-gratification from their work in the fields, you now gain self-gratification from their work in the bedroom. Exactly when are we going to get beyond the point of asinine stereotypes and start dealing with each other as individuals? I'm all for interracial relations, having personally dated women from various ethnic backgrounds. To look at any particular race and categorize them as superior or inferior based on any one category is horrible.

If you truly believe that black men are sexually superior and white men are inferior, simply on the basis of race, then bring it on. I really thought that the overall goal was to transcend race and to live with one another as individuals, and more importantly, human beings.

:boxing:

 

[BlackDomLdog]

Well put...and you said a mouthful!

I do not understand the mindset of the 'cuckold' lifestyle. I do not understand, nor agree, with the pervasive view on this site of the 'superior' black man or the 'wimpy tiny-dick' white guy. This site, as with all web communities, start off with a basic premise then evolve or devolve into something else. In the case of this particular site, I have noticed lately a growing trend towards the idea that white men are powerless wimps, with no sexual abilities or spine, much less any 'physical abundance'. In hand with that, the idea that all black men are sexual titans, or more to the point, sexual animals with members of no less than 9-10" who can have literally any woman of any race simply by the look in their eyes, who are capable of spectacular sexual feats due to their breeding and genetics, is simply the most racist and stupid thing I have ever heard or read. I do understand fantasy life, and if a couple wishes to engage in a fantasy where they are overpowered by another individual, in this case a black male, then that's fine. What I don't understand is how this has moved beyond fantasy and into a true belief. I particularly find it racist and offensive to perceive black males as well-bred sexual animals. Face it, that's what is going on in here. Is that much different than considering them to be well-bred work animals back in the 1850's? The only difference is that instead of gaining self-gratification from their work in the fields, you now gain self-gratification from their work in the bedroom. Exactly when are we going to get beyond the point of asinine stereotypes and start dealing with each other as individuals? I'm all for interracial relations, having personally dated women from various ethnic backgrounds. To look at any particular race and categorize them as superior or inferior based on any one category is horrible.

If you truly believe that black men are sexually superior and white men are inferior, simply on the basis of race, then bring it on. I really thought that the overall goal was to transcend race and to live with one another as individuals, and more importantly, human beings.

Damn...wtf is as pissed as I am. Talk about smashing buttons, rather than pushing them.

I agree with wtf...and all my bitching aside, feel that this site has degraded its potential.

My wife and I had it out with someone a while ago. What pissed me off was that she is Black, and hated the fact that I married Sara out of love for her.

She was into the 'Black Power' thing, and accused me of "Selling out" by marrying Sara...my wife. I don't knock Blacks who don't marry or date white woman, but I married Sara for her mind, religious beliefs, creativity, etc., NOT for the color of her skin.

Yes, we get scorned for the marriage being an interracial one. But I made my choice, and whether it be an Asian, Caucasian, Hispanic, or Black woman, I look at MORE than the skin color.

Sure, call me a blabbering asshole...but listen to what I point out with an open mind. And if you have any counters, be polite...and calmly discuss them with me. :blahblah:

 

[BlackDomLdog]

Tell me about it...

I had been a member of some groups on Yahoo, and MSN...now, those groups are either closed down, or deleted. (And not only the Yahoo/MSN geeks, either.)

I look at the downside a lot...mainly because 'Georgie-Porgie' wants to eradicate terrorism. (Like it will be eradicated - we ALL know that with one evil squashed, ANOTHER COMES UP!)

 

[BlackDomLdog]

Well put...

And note that I am a HAPPILY MARRIED Black Male with a submissive white wife. What we did was look at this site for pics and stories.

Whether they are true or not, we don't search for other couples on this site. There ARE other IR-related groups out there that do an equal...IF NOT BETTER job.

WHEN I decide to remove my info...I'll let the moderators know. I don't need to become a nuisance, piss people off...like some people who message me on yahoo messenger. As of now, I have stopped checking my messenger - Harassed by too many weirdos, sickos, etc.

 

[cute jackie]

Very well said , I/we have visited many sites and have noticed that there doesnt seem to be any that are simply about IR sex ,they all seem to cater to men who have either gay or sub fantasies or lifestyles ,which is fine but .............I just like IR sex .The reasons Im sure have to do with social tabboos as much as penis size ,but like blackdom said that could change at any time we were interested in B&D for a while ,perhaps next week midgets .My husb. is a lot of things good and bad but one thing he is not is gay or submissive.As for me I have no desire to "serve the black man" or get pregnant with. That doesnt make me a racist only horny .I wish people would get back on track and keep black power to the people who are into that and as for gays there is definately no shortage of those sites ........

 

[slydog]

The wackos spend more $$$ on this stuff than us regular perverts.

The internet stopped being about the free exchange of ideas, information, etc. some time ago.

As long as the wackos are spending, the site operators will kiss their ass.

You know what they say about fools and their money.......

AND, of course, none of these places will ever point out that all those IR porn girls out there also shoot white porn.... wonder why that is... hmm... gotta think on that...

 

[wtf_isthatabout]

I'm glad to see that there are at least a few sane people out there. I wouldn't classify myself as 'pissed', yet, but at least seriously annoyed. BlackDomLdog is on the same page, and has been one of the most honest and straightforward inviduals I have dealt with on this site. Let's all think about promoting a healthy attitude towards the relations between the races instead of this thoroughly stupid 'cuckold' lifestyle. Just imagine how people might get along if we quit viewing one another as superior or inferior, well-bred or otherwise. At some point in the future, we might discover the universal truth that color is literally only skin deep.

To any of the 'cuckolds' out there who might bother to read this, I issue a challenge. Bring me your very best defense of the lifestyle and let's debate it. I'm afraid that I might be disappointed though since the 'lifestyle' is based on weakness and no self-esteem.

 

[Vanessa_SWF]

a) A cuckold is a man with an unfaithful wife.
In these cases, the women are NOT unfaithful. They are being faithful to a shared agreement. Hence the men are not cucks.

b) These guys are subs to fem-doms. I had one called Mistress(blank) IM me yesterday. She had never had BBC and wanted info. from me. She said her cuck hubby was going to blow a BBC today for her and then setup up for her to fuck said BBC this Saturday. These guys are fem-dom subs with homosexual tendencies. It has nothing to do with IR except incidentally. Why are they found on all the IR sites pissing folks off?

c) Troilism - a paraphilia of the mercantile/venal type in which sexuoerotic arousal and facilitation or attainment of orgasm are responsive to, and dependent upon observing one's partner on hire or loan to a third person while engaging in sexual activities, including intercourse, with that person [from French, trois, three]. A threesome or group-sex party does not, per se, constitute a paraphilia. There is no technical term for the reciprocal paraphilic condition of being observed by a third party while on hire or loan.

Hotwife, swinging, etc. involves TROILISM. A CHEATING wife makes her hubby a cuck.

Troilism and cuckoldry should not be confused with gay fem-dom slaves and have nothing to do with IR.

I'm guessing these guys were uncomfortable calling themselves fag-slaves and opted for a misnomer - cucks.

Again -- NOTHING WHATSOEVER TO DO WITH IR.

Further, yes you are correct that some white wives are using blacks as dildos. I know at least one that goes black because she is NOT attracted to blacks, hence she and her husband are not concerned about possible emotional attachments. Which is a very real concern and often a problem with the hotwife crowd that does LTRs with one or two 'lovers' -- they engage in romantic affairs by agreement. Polyamory is pretty dicey shit.

The 'Ugly Duckling' factor also applies. Middle-aged women hitting their libido peak and having slut fantasies without the looks and body of their youth almost invariably go black because their ego cannot handle the rejection they believe they would find otherwise and the taboo factor really trips their trigger. Another I talked to is doing black because she can't afford a facelift yet (her words).

The 'so called' cucks are discouraging other couples from having fun with IR, I believe. The 'cucks' and 'black power' folks are prolific enough on all these various sites as to leave naive folks and nervous hubbys with the false impression that the wives 'once blacked' will be entranced as if by Svengali and will then become enslaved to 'worshipping' black cock and issue ultimatums to her once beloved but now subjugated husband. Pure poppycock proselytizing by the mentally unstable 'cucks' and the naive 'black jungle power' believers and other apostles of the great, perturbed, ebony messiah, gorillaman.

Oh my god Michelle. I don't agree with everything you said--But WOW;You hit the nail on the HEAD. I've talked to alot of women/couples who have said the same exact thing(about being with a black man because they wouldn't get emotionally involved).

That's not right though. Every woman has different preferences. personally...I like going black once in awhile because it's something different....And also depending,what mood I'm in.

You've put some thought into this Michelle....Wow. You made me sit back and actually think.

 

[slydog]

Vanessa:
Think of it this way... would you rather find out your husband was using the services of prostitutes now and then, or working late at his secretary's house?

Do you suppose that a place in Nevada called Plantation Vacation filled with heterosexual black male prostitutes would make any money? Probably not, women paying for sex seems just too contrary to the laws of nature.

So what do they do instead? Well, look where we are.

 

[blondecheergirl]

I agree and disagree with what Michelle said.

I find the idea of a dominant black male into 'black power' fucking me, a real turn on, just as long as it was in a sexual context. The idea of getting impregnated too by a black bull while with a white husband too is another major turn on. The idea of having a husband watch me while I 'slut' myself out to a superior male gets me so wet.

The distinction for me however is that these are all fantasies. Carrying another mans child or getting nailed by a black power Nazi for real disturbs me. However, if people don't like the idea of my FANTASY, well quite frankly, I'm saddened that we live in such a close-minded society.

 

[Vanessa_SWF]

"if people don't like the idea of my FANTASY, well quite frankly, I'm saddened that we live in such a close-minded society."

blondecheergirl ... yeah, I felt the same way when I viewed a vid of a really HOT lady being nailed by a black lab while her husband or boyfriend watched ... I said "wow"

And what the hell is that supposed to mean?