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Confessed about my Cuckold Fantacy to my Girlfriend. Need your advice.

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Hello Guys! I need your help.
So a little background about the situation. Im with this amazing girl for 6 years now and we love each other so much. We are probably gonna get married next year, We are from India and live in different cities because of work for now. We haven't had penis in vagina sex yet. She wants to wait till marriage and she's a virgin. It's the tradition here in India. We do oral and many other things when we meet. She's not into sexting so how we get off when we are away is we watch porn and talk dirty to each other and cum. About my girl. She's a little freaky and she hates vanilla sex. She loves rough sex and has a little naughty side and into kinks. I'm also a very openminded boy with lots of fantasies and kinks.
So few weeks ago i decided to tell my girlfriend about my cuckold fantasy. but i don't think i did it the right way and kind of effed things up.
When we were gonna watch porn i asked her if she likes to watch something we've not watched before. And i listed few categories we haven't watched. Even though we've watched a cuckold video by an accident i listed Cuckold in the list. The list was MFM, FMF, Cuckold, BDSM, Femdom, Lesbian and Gay. She Asked what cuckold is, What MFM is and what FMF is and after thinking she selected MFM.
That day we couldn't watch porn because her friend came over. So the next day i i said lets watch and i said i have to tell her something. i asked her if she remember the cuckold video we watched the other day. She said no but then after a while she said yes. i said i loved it and the next day i looked for the full video and watched again and that it really excited me. She asked why didnt i tell her and stuff and it got me really excited her asking that way. so i said i watched few more also. Then she asked if i wanted to do it in real life. I said Im open to it if she wants to try it. She didnt really react to it well and It was a No from her. After some explaining we ended up watching MFM porn anyway. But after that she didnt talk about it.
Im really really really into this but i dont want to force her or anything because if she's into it only i will enjoy this, So guys whats next? Do i give it up or anything else i should do? I mean lots of wives / girlfriends has gotten into this after being completely against it right? Should i talk about it again? Or wait and see if she brings it up? When we watch porn should i send cuckold porn or MFM? (we watch chastity porn where husband is caged but wearing a strapon and fucking wife. Chastity was her idea and she came up with it a long time ago before i said i like cuckolding.) Anything else i can do to encourage her? With the kinks we have and things we like to do i have this small hope that one day we'll go through with this and ended up getting into the lifestyle. What do you guys think? Really looking forward to your answers and advices. Thanks.
Sorry for the long post and sorry if my english is bad. Not a native speaker.
 
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I’d drop it for a while and let her absorb it. For the time being focus on the intimate bond between the both of you and reassure her that you would never want anyone else. I think she’ll raise the subject herself after some time and then again reassure her that what turns you on about it is the thought of her being really horny and enjoying it. Don’t say it’s because you want her to enjoy herself though, make it clear that it’s because you enjoy it and the thought of her being hot for someone really presses your horny button. Again, make sure she’s in no doubt that you have no interest in anyone but her, her first thoughts will probably be that you’re saying it so that you can sleep with other women and she won’t like that.
 
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Betacuck said:
I’d drop it for a while and let her absorb it. For the time being focus on the intimate bond between the both of you and reassure her that you would never want anyone else. I think she’ll raise the subject herself after some time and then again reassure her that what turns you on about it is the thought of her being really horny and enjoying it. Don’t say it’s because you want her to enjoy herself though, make it clear that it’s because you enjoy it and the thought of her being hot for someone really presses your horny button. Again, make sure she’s in no doubt that you have no interest in anyone but her, her first thoughts will probably be that you’re saying it so that you can sleep with other women and she won’t like that.
Yeah when she reacted in a negative way (a little fight) i kind of said it's for her pleasure. i think i kinda blew it
 
WIllyWonka said:
Yeah when she reacted in a negative way (a little fight) i kind of said it's for her pleasure. i think i kinda blew it
So what's happening?
 
do you know what porn she watches when she is alone? that might be an indication of what she really likes.
 
I'd just go with the MFM. But find ones where it's first the woman and guy as the boyfriend/husband watching before joining in.
But since she said no to cuckold, maybe it maybe better if it's a MFM and the husband/boyfriend finishes first, so he must watch as the woman and the other guy continue as the husband/boyfriend watches and gets excited again.
 
lnohhnvm said:
do you know what porn she watches when she is alone? that might be an indication of what she really likes.
No man! She watch porn on Incognito. :/
 
bklyn_40 said:
I'd just go with the MFM. But find ones where it's first the woman and guy as the boyfriend/husband watching before joining in.
But since she said no to cuckold, maybe it maybe better if it's a MFM and the husband/boyfriend finishes first, so he must watch as the woman and the other guy continue as the husband/boyfriend watches and gets excited again.
Yeah ill try to find few videos like that. Thanks man
 
WIllyWonka said:
Nothing much we never spoke about it again. :/
She’s almost certainly mulling it over, which means she’s thinking about it, which means the seed has been sown. These things take time, stay patient and let the seed grow. Pretty sure she’ll feel a strong need for new seed in time. Whether she allows you to know is another matter. That’ll depend on how strong you make your relationship bond.
 
Betacuck said:
She’s almost certainly mulling it over, which means she’s thinking about it, which means the seed has been sown. These things take time, stay patient and let the seed grow. Pretty sure she’ll feel a strong need for new seed in time. Whether she allows you to know is another matter. That’ll depend on how strong you make your relationship bond.
Thanks man! Should i like wait till she tells something?
 
Yes my friend. Just build your relationship bond with her and wait until she mentions it.
 
The advice to step back and just focus on her is good. In any event, before you can seriously consider getting her to cuckold you you need to get married and you should really make sure your marriage is on a firm foundation before you introduce other men into your sex lives. You never know, once she has had her fill of penetrative sex with you she may decide for herself that she wants more and cuckold you anyway.
 
Any genuine couples to talk to from pune? Would love to discuss fetishes.
 

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